Is there a way to lower my sex drive without affecting my testosterone or estrogen levels...

Hello brother, know that I share your pain(?) but the mires are better than any fap

Falling for the low-libido meme

I´ve been there user get out while you can

We have sex a couple times a week, but I'm an everyday or more kinda guy. Her excuse is usually, she's tired, doesn't like morning sex, she's bloated, or she is just tired or not in the mood. We only have sex before bed, which I think is weird because we're 21 not 52 with kids

Are you me?

Idk tho, most women don't want to have sex everyday tho.

My ex was the same way. My libido was highest in the morning so we did it because she wanted to please me.

Sexual gratification is something thought to be superficial or immature but is required for our well being as humans. Explain this to your gf in a straight forward manner. If she really likes you then she'll understand, otherwise reconsider your priorities.

sorry user but this

lol

Is there a way to do the opposite ?
I never want to fuck my gf unless she forces me

I've only been in a couple of relationships so I'm not the most experienced, but personally I couldn't really put up with any less than once a day (if we see eachother daily). I just don't get it, how do you not wanna fuck somebody you're supposedly attracted to when you meet up with them? Maybe we're the exception, but I'm pretty much down for as many times a day as she wants. I can't even really do no-fap (no porn is pretty ez), I start getting spontaneous erections again like when I was 13 after a day or so.

Are there really any females who can keep up with that, or are they all libidolets?

Oh shut up. OP has said that they have sex multiple times a week. It's obviously just that she has lower libido.

I had a guy explain this to me in a bar after a couple of beers. Wanted sympathy for being used as a sex slave or something. Told him he's a lucky bastard and that he should fuck off lol

I fuck my gf once every 2 or 3 months
I don't want sympathy, I want a fix

They are all libidolets by male standards.
Also, how the fuck can you be fucking multiple times a day? Don't you have jobs or things to do?

Jesus I mean I'm happy if I can spend 1-2 hours of quality time with my gf a day. If we have sex, that's 1 hour less, so obviously we don't have sex everyday because if we were, we couldn't even find the time to talk to eachother.

Yes, stop fapping.

>once every 2 or 3 months
>mfw

Sorry user but that's not natural. I mean some mismatch can work but that's... that's horrible. Get the fuck out. Anything less than once every 2 weeks is pathological (unless you both are fine with it, which you obviously aren't).

Really low body fat.
Eat shit tier food.
Make yourself depressed.
Play console Vidya instead of pc.
Go outside and do stuff.
Find a side chick.

It's not her fault, she wants to fuck more often
I'm the guy who doesn't want to fuck his gf, so I'm asking if there's a way I can want to fuck her more

>My girlfriend has a super low labido and mine is quite high

Her libido is just fine, she's just not attracted to you anymore. You want proof? Leave her and watch her get fucked into oblivion by anyone but you.

my gf and I rarely have sex, too

But we're almost never alone at home (mine or her place) so we just can't.
Whenever her parents leave we fuck like rabbits

From my experience, I'd check
1) the location. this is important for girls
2) her mental state. stress can be a put down

Without affecting test levels? No. But you can replace testosterone with chemicals that won't raise your libido and that will do the job.

Years back I used tren over a pretty long period and my sex drive dwindled to next to nothing. Honestly though I don't recall having a problem getting it up when I needed to. It was a weird experience because I went from thinking about sex constantly to rarely thinking about it.

I think you'd have the same experience with long term use of certain SARMS or AAS like deca.

See Sry if i wasn't clear

I'm a once every three or four day man.
Test levels are normal, but was kv until 26.
That being said, I tend to flirt with the missus everyday with incremental increases of intensity so by day three or four she's usually sucking my dingaling no prompting required.

A day or two of good long fucks is better than everyday quickies imo.

Just jerk a lot. It's normal for your gf to want sex a lot less than you, the hard part is then controlling urges in a healthy way.

Jesus dude me and my ex were fucking at least 3 times a day, that's the only way I can see it working out in a relationship desu.

Yeah, sometimes it's hard to get together all of the time, but I generally meant that I can't deal with getting together with a gf and not fucking, however many times we can see each other a week. Also, a long session of a few hours can definitely result in 2-3 orgasms so I count those all as "times/day".

When you are in a relationship for years living together the wild attraction wanes, not in a bad way because other things take the place but you don't feel the urge to jump each other all the time.

People in the thread saying something is wrong haven't been in a ltr. You will want sex more than her but if you live together and have busy jobs you can easily find that you have sex once every other week or so.

I'm a doctor and after ive been at work, gymed, cooked and gotten ready for the next day sex hasn't even crossed my mind until well into saturday. I would however suggest that it's important you are both on the same page and also if this is the start of your relationship then you may want to bail now as it will get worse.

I've reached there but in a bizarre way: im married and we never really have sex anymore - once a month usually. I would try regularly and then eventually got bored of feeling like i was a groping deviant so stopped and i was fine with it - we are both busy and i love her enough to easily cope with difference in libido. However once when drunk she lamented that we never have sex anymore which got to me.

After that i tried to push for it again and yet nothing, so i know she isn't happy with the situation but at the same time it's entirely her doing. I'm fine just doing it every once in a while though i do dream of her just spontaneously going for it, but im worried to hell that she is cognizant of the problem.

They're right.

No you don't, you're infatued. If her libido is low now it'll fucking die if you marry her.

I think I read somewhere that when they are on the pill, they have low libido. is she on contraceptives?

how about you just jerk off more instead?

>I've reached there but in a bizarre way: im married and we never really have sex anymore
that is how marriage works

1-2 times a week with my [spoiler]bf[/spoiler], why do you guys have so much sex

She's a woman you dumb cuck. They are submissive, you are supposed to use her how you please. They love being forced and they love rape. Women literally orgasm more from rape than normal sex.

>mfw I had that problem some time ago
> (ex) gf wanted less and lass sex over the time
>got self conscious, tried fixing it with toys, new ideas etc
>went to the gym like a madman to look better
>some day she told me she doesn't know if she wants to be with me anymore
>turned out, she stopped loving me months ago and calculated when she'd have to have sex with me to keep me somewhat satisfied
>trying this to fix our relationship without telling me (she suffered from depression and anxiety)
>obviously didn't go well
>completely destroyed her libido
>mfw I have no face
>feelsbadman

lol

Im not gonna give any advice about your gf but a low fat intake can have a bad impact on your sex drive.

Hapened to me while on a crash cut for a long time.
I'd say go lower than 50g of fat a day. Maybe 30 idk.

m8, she either doesn't find you attractive any more, or she is cheating.
I mean maybe she's stressed about some benign women's shit?
But basically if you don't feel like "Just going for it" how do you think it makes her feel? That's right, unattractive and wanting validation.

Try this: Once every day cheekily slap her arse. Then every two or three days finger her discretely in public (under a table, picnic blanket etc). Then basically ignore her for a couple of days, focusing on yourself and chatting to other people, especially women.

This will do one of two things: Either she WILL jump your bone in a fit of jealous arousal after a week and a half, or not.

If not, try to organise a day just for you too, or even just an evening. Better still a Friday evening followed by an entire Saturday. During which time you must, MUST, animalistically "Go For It". She'll reject you once or twice in public, but once you're home, TEAR OFF HER CLOTHES CARRY HER TO THE NEAREST OBJECT YOU CAN FUCK ON AND GORILLA FUCK HER REMORSELESSLY UNTIL SHE IS A PUDDLE.

If during any of this she strongly denies you, then you have your answer. See the first part sentence of this blog.

>ex
And yet you aren't together anymore. Really activated my almonds there.

Run my friendo

Doesn't the sex get kind of boring if you're fucking every single day?

Or you can do what I'm doing. I've been putting test gel on everything my wife rubs on Her body for about a week now. She's starting to talk about being horny and want a to fuck me finally. It's been years of maybe once a month if I'm lucky to get laid. I'm gonna wait until she begs a little longer then show her the pictures of the me fucking her best friend last weekend. Then hand her a pile of divorce papers. Fuck her right in her blown out cockholster. Fucking bitch

Well... enjoy your shitty marriage, she'll eventually cheat.

That, or learn to eat the puss rrrreeeeally well and do it weekly or as often as she wants. Ask for reciprocity when you feel like it.

It could work if you put in the effort but you have to. Also, it might just be that you have extremely low libido for a man, but it may be worth checking it out with a doctor.

Cause we don't get shit on our dicks when we fuck

I've heard antidepressants reduce labido, try that