Give it to me straight...

Give it to me straight, what’s the minimum amount you have to have sex per week with your girlfriend to keep her satisfied. It’s extremely stressful for me. I’m always worried that I won’t be able to perform properly, so I take a viagra everytime (timing this properly while still pretending to be spontaneous is difficult). Hence I want to do it as infrequently as possible

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......it sounds like you need to break up with your girlfriend.

Break up with her. Sex should be natural and if you're this stressed thinking about one of the most pleasurable things a person can do then there is something seriously wrong.

Be honest with her first about what you have been doing and how you feel. If she's good she will work to keep you relaxed and satisfied. If she doesn't do this, end it.

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Girls can pretty much have sex an unlimited amount of time unless they start chafing so it doesn't really matter there's not much of an upper limit. At the same time it's not as important to them. Just a few times is ok as long as it's intimate and lovey. Then throw in some frenzied quickies for good measure. Also stop taking viagra you're gonna fuck your dick up

They're all different. I've dated girls that want it every day and I've dated ones that it's easier to get a bill passed in congress than to get laid. Communication helps. Talk to her work through the issues you're having. Like said, is she can't give you that much then you don't need to be with her.

I’m just a paranoid person. It’s not gonna be different with another girl. She knows about my performance anxiety (not about the pills though), and is very understanding.

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See a health professional if you have to ( to assess psychological/physiological cause )

Ditch the viagra,cialis.Look into peptides,in particular PT-141,it's a life saver,it's cheap,it's legal and under no prescription for the moment.

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First of all STOP with the Viagra you are going to make it worse. If she knows about it and is understanding TALK TO HER and try to work through it with another human being who cares about you instead of talking about it with strangers on the internet.

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Also quit porn
Quit masturbating altogether
Having PE is better than having ED.In both cases the girl's dissatisfied,but hey,PE is at the very least gratifying for her you know.

I quit porn about 3 weeks ago, never watching it again. I’m not sure I believe in it but the small chance that this noporn thing works is worth it. When I get hard I have DE rather than PE.

Thanks, will look into that.

take cialis not viagra, then timing your boners wont be an issue

the question is why dont you want to fuck your gf? are you gay?

I won't lie,i've been down this road in the past that's why i can relate so much to what you're experiencing right now.I suffered from both ED and PE in the past,sometimes both at once ( When i could,through a miracle,get it up,i'd last 3 strokes tops ).

And that shit takes time to heal because it's usually an accumulation of bad habits as well as mental blockades that are incredibly hard to get past ( Avoiding sex because you're afraid you won't get it up and when you're taken by surprise stressing the fuck out and not getting up thus ensuring you're even more fucked mentally for the next time and so on. )

Keep in mind that there is probably NOTHING wrong with you PHYSICALLY and that it's essentially all in YOUR HEAD.That's the first step towards the end of the tunnel.
Quitting porn,masturbation WILL help you get past these because they will reinforce this idea that you're doing some kind of self-healing,like some placebo but you gotta BELIEVE.

Find yourself a trusting partner,be open about it,talk,that's also the best route when it comes to having a functioning sexual relationship with someone.

Good luck,i'm still here for like 10-20mn if you've got questions about anything i'd be glad to help you

>I’m always worried that I won’t be able to perform properly, so I take a viagra everytime
Jesus, ..what's going on with the youth nowadays?

You have a fucking hot, naked girl in front of you user. Stop worrying like a faggot, don’t worry about pleasing her, and let that lust take hold. I never had a problem pleasing past lovers once I stopped worrying about performance. The best sex comes when you don’t worry about it, and let lust take hold. Nothings hotter than ravaging some girl, having her flip you over when your done, and attach her mouth to your dick like she’s trying to suck your soul out.

Disregarding OP completely

I think its better to fuck a girl more than enough so she is not only satisfied but even rejects sex.

I fuck my gf every (fucking) day
I have conditioned her to expect sex every evening.

Is the solution just practise?

Practice in what way ? Practice sex ? In a way yes because you'll get more and more comfortable with the person so yeah.
But then it's still about communication and acceptance.You gotta be sure the girl isn't a whore who's like "yeah yeah i understand" but then goes jumping on chad's BWC when your back's turned if you can't perform because of x or y factor

How old are you.
I did it multiple times per day if we found the time for it in my 20s.
And it was the opposite of being stressful.

Thanks man, i really appreciate the support knowing I’m not alone and that people can get past this. This girl is really into me but no matter how much she tells that she likes me, I always have this thing in the back of my head that she’s just saying that to make me feel better. And that she could always just get some guy without any of these issues.

The girl I'm with is great, she thinks I'm just putting too much pressure on myself. She might be right, but I don't know what to do about it.

Not the OP, but i like you user, we need more guys like you on this board. Kudos to you bruh.

what the fuck is wrong with guys now a days? when I was young I wanted a gf so I could put my penis in vagina as often as I could

what the fuck "man" ?

It depends on her build, if she is small build, she needs a good dicking 2-3 times a day. Larger ones will need 2-3 times in a row with little to no down time 1-2 times a day.

>Keep in mind that there is probably NOTHING wrong with you PHYSICALLY

I doubt that, I get stress boners all the time. Anyway, it's easy enough to find out, if you don't wake up in the morning with boners then it's physical. You can't have performance anxiety while you're alseep.

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Then the ball's in your court to trust her,or not.Look at her past relationships and how she treats other you'll learn a lot.And take this the right way,since she CAN do that,why hasn't she done it yet ? Maybe because she thinks there's more to you than your personal issues and that she's probably willing to work past those and help you.That's just my point of view though since i don't know here.But,still,tread carefully out there my guy.I don't want to drop a red pill here or whatever but don't be too gullible/trustworthy either.

She's probably right,but maybe explain her that she MAY be,in a way,a part of that anxiety ( without putting the whole problem on her obviously that'd be rude and false ).And as said above,it's a matter of you trusting yourself and the person in front of you.

Thanks mate i appreciate it.This subject comes up once in a while on this board and i try and help dudes as much as i can because even though there's a lot of banter thrown around here,at the end of the day we're just a bunch of guys trying to get the best out of our situation.

If you aren't comfortable enough to have sex with your girlfriend you should probably find someone else. I've been in the same situation before. Something is interfering with you mentally, and it's probably her.