Premature Ejaculation

Yeah IDK I've never timed myself but it certainly feels like 3 min. Either way I have to get my girl off with foreplay before penetration because most times I can't last long enough for her to cum solely through sex.

feels bad man

I alternate between cumming really fast and lasting for a while. I'm on antidepressants now, and one of the side-effects of SSRIs is that it can affect the length of time it takes to cum. I've gone from like a minute or so to normally lasting upwards of five, and if I cum and then stay hard and fuck again, I can last for ages - just need to keep taking short breaks so I don't lose sensation, which is fine because it gives the gf a break as well.

If it makes you feel any better, a large majority of girls can't cum through penetration alone. A lot of virgins on here who get all their sex knowledge from their chinese cartoons will tell you otherwise, but it's just how it is. Don't feel bad if you can't make her cum just from fucking her.

I mean, if she's told you she's cum from getting fucked in the past and it's just you who can't do it, then start worrying, but most women overwhelmingly can't cum from penetration alone.

>I can't last long enough for her to cum solely through sex.

Almost no one can make a girl cum with just penetration alone.

> tfw sex with never be like my hentais where I can make a girl cum in like ten seconds just from sticking my dick in

Unironical fap before sex and you should be good. A condom also has a delaying effect.

then what do you do

Finger them, play with their clit, eat them out, whatever they want dude. Ask them what they like.

Kek my fap time is at least 15 minutes
20-30 min in sex. Train you to slow down sometimes.

This

None of that will help with cumming too quick.

All you can do is stop humping and try and settle down. If I feel ready to pop, I stop and start making out with her or if I'm real sensitive I'll pull out completely and start eating the pussy for a bit.

Can also try KY duration gel...no personal experience though.

Don’t listen to this assholeListen to this asshole

Typically use a finger one their clit while you bang them to get them where they need to go. If you're into toys you can just use a small vibrator or something which is great when you're on so much tren you can't even use your finger on a clit without cramping up

Get an Asian prostitute, they cum in two minutes with me

i'm on nofap at the moment and always used to last around 2 minutes with my ex (who was very very tight).

just last night i was wondering how long it would take for me to cum from soft. It took me about 15 seconds from fully soft to ejaculating.

felt pathetic

You aren't really this naive are you?

flex ur quads as hard as you fuckin' can
blood leaves pp to go to quads
go halfway soft, get more time.

If she didn’t enjoy it why would she keep askibre to come back?

Master ur oral skills. Give em two orgasms before sticking your dick in and they'll be happy, even if you cum in 3 minutes.

I lasted less lol. I don't have an exact understanding of the problem, but I suspect that it has something to do with the constant sexual fantasizing and the years of pornographic consumption. We've more or less conditioned that part of our bodies to be open, ready to orgasm, constantly. Think about it, how far is sex from your mind in any given day? How often do you find your hand slipping under your belt? How often do you catch yourself fantasizing about women you see on the street? I believe it is a psycho-somatic phenomenon. Mind precedes body. It's just conditioning. Like Pavlov with his dog and bell.

If my presumptions are correct, then a long period of abstinence from all erotic thought - which consequentially means from all sexual situations - and avoiding internet spaces where you WILL be tempted no matter how much you tell yourself, is necessary.
The best remedy? Gradual mental soft-reset. Meditation in other words. I taped a sheet of paper on my wall with a numbered chart, with daily objectives that remind me to be productive as I cross off the days without sexual indulgence. Harder than it sounds..

I agree to your first bit. I remember the very first few times I masturbated and it always took ages. Gradually it just became faster and faster. Hopefully nofap will help me, my streak was 130 days so obviously i need to go on longer to see a difference.

meditation would probably help. i just need to make myself do it.

best of luck user

She enjoys your money, user

do you pay her every time, shitbrain?

Keep having sex, multiple friends who claimed that repeated sex with their partners helped to last longer; if you want to train for it, desensitization and edging has helped too apparently.
I'm stuck with the opposite problem, death grip syndrome. Almost impossible to cum from fucking, talking 2 hours straight. Great in theory, not in practice. nofap Gods hear me

I got the same problem as you, it sucks. good luck user

This. Last ex couldn't get off from penetration, ex before her would cum multiple times from pene tration.

>I'll pull out completely and start eating the pussy for a bit

You're literally licking your own cock, faggot,

Fuck this. How do I cum faster? I could literally go on for an hour and make my gf’s jaw go numb.

Uncut and never fap btw. What’s the solution Veeky Forums?

> someone who I pay to have sex with me '''enjoys''' having sex with me and wants to keep coming back
Come on buddy, put the pieces together, I believe in you

Have you ever eaten pussy? You are literally sucking every cock that has literally ever been inside her twat literally.

Try fucking a fleshlight until you're good at holding in your cum

Don't you have some science books to burn or something dawg?

best advice ITT

you really just need to stop stressing out and spend more time enjoying sex. There are ways to sex without pumping at full speed

Getting those proteins back.. smart play user

long edging sessions WITHOUT CUMING AT THE END

You need to train your dick not to cum

be careful not to do this too much you can break you dick

Insecure virgin detected

fuck more and it seems to chill in my experience. if i don't bust for a while i won't last as long as when i'm frequently having sex.

Fap

No, I go to her for a massage, I pay for a massage for an hour, then after the massage I paid for we have sex.
I’ve recorded them talking and gotten the recordings translated and they say nothing about only wanting me for the money

> he's never heard of a massage with a happy ending
The sex is part of the massage, little dude. I thought this was common knowledge.

>part of the massage
Shit, are you saying that all those other guys were also getting sex?
Does that make me gay for winking at them?

This is either some decent quality bait or you really are one delusional motherfucker.

Yes to both questions.

Ask her to jack you off, or give you a blowjob before sex, then play around with her until you get hard again.

Second time will be much better once your balls are empty.

This method has helped me tremendously, after releasing a quick one, I can go 45 min to an hour and a half without blowing my second load.