How easy did it become to get a gf when you became swole?

pretty easy, i just drunkenly danced with a qt at ny's eve and next thing i know it's been one year.. getting fit was the best decision in my life

probably not

Name?

Depends on a lot of factors
One girl has a crush on me but Im not interested in her
A girl I have a crush on might be interested in me, but Im not sure if shes my type

Becoming a normie is hard

how do you know?

>get lots more mires
>have actually had 3 girls come up and hit on me
>happy with life as it is
>turn them down

I've been eyeing a gym qt lately though, too bad she won't come up and chat and I don't have enough confidence to go up and start shooting the shit.

Pfffffffttt lol. Those fucked up proportions. The worst of it is she's like, "Yeah, I'm so fucking hot."

>Get fit
>Getting girls gets easy
>All I do is go to work, go to the gym, play vidya and go to parties every now and then
How do I get a gf tho? What do you do with them? I've missed so many chances with girls that were obviously in to me because I'm not doing anything and just letting the spark die when I have it

I was able to get a girlfriend before I started lifting.
You should only lift for yourself.

What's wrong with her FACE?

she's ugly but i'd fuck the shit out of her

Are you me.? Except im 24

Humans are social people, user. Our ancestors relied on their tribe for almost everything. Its no different today.

God damn she's hot as fuck

>be a fat asspie
>learn social skills
>get normalfag hobbies that suit personality
>i.e. mountain biking, photography, outdoors, traveling
>lift and drop BF% below 20
>get facebook, 50 friends, instal tinder
>4/5 gf within a week
Still livinw with her today, three years now, albeit I feel like being in prison. Women go nuts once you lose the fat and spend five minutes thinking what you wear.

not easy at all, im still a huge fucking autist that doesnt know how to talk with people outside an anonymous cartoon forum

Except the ugly and socialy awkward people, they were just abandoned and died. Today you don't have to worry about that, and you don't have to conform as much for fear of being abandoned, so you're more likely to lose friends over time.

well sure it is, my point is that, and I know nobody is going to believe me, I like being alone, I dont need someone else to help me with something or provide something for me, I can do everything on my own

Pretty fucking hard since I'm a social autist

gf lmao? Well it's incredible easy to hookup with girls from my gym. I just have to wander through all the jailbait.

>I just have to wander through all the jailbait.
all i want is to wander into all the jailbait.

Is facebook still relevant? I never really got into any social media. Instagram sounds cool, but the only pics/vids I take are of my lifts..

Real question is why is it so hard to become swole once you have a gf

fuck I want a gf so bad. I'm 19 and have probably had 10 opportunities already, one of whom literally asked my friend for my number and asked me out. another who kissed me and asked to my gf, said no tho

I'm such an autist it is painful. Veeky Forumsizens will just tell me to "just do it bro". well i can't just do it, i'm literally fucking autistic. it hurts. I realize i'm a beta loser and have totally fucked over my life, but I can't shake this retarded mentality

Just speak to people. Youll get it eventually.
I'm close to being 20, spent the last year working in a 9 to 5 job where I have to constantly be talking to people and honestly it has cured my autism.
I used to spill spaghetti all the time and get anxiety when talking to girls but I've gotten so much more confident due to getting fit and having +10k on my bank account.
I used to be a virgin but I've banged 4 girls in the last 3 months. Self confidence and social skills are literally the key.

thanks man. i won't let you down

If you need someone else to make you happy, you'll never get that someone else.

shit went downhill actually when I got Veeky Forums but then again I'm old as shit now

>implying

At that point, a gf would do no good for ya. She could easily use those points against you.
Find some hobbies and be passionate about them and most importantly don't give up on them for a girl.
>inb4 cope
as if a gf by herself makes you complete

>If you need someone else to make you happy, you'll never get that someone else.

Shut the fuck up with that retarded normie shit, jusBeeUrself tier garbage.

Either you're deluded or you are not alone in life.

>as if a gf by herself makes you complete

No but having another human being acknowledging you and giving you social value definitely is a part of it.
You are human, you are not special.

instagram is full of sponsored thots and marketing campaigns. it's good if you have friends, and if you like watching them have fun, Personally not for me. It's too narcissistic. If you want to show off your lifts, and you're pretty decent looking, then go for it.

Not sure what the current situation is, but when I went on tinder, you needed to have 50 facebook friends as a "confirmation" of your identity, as if you couldn't just friend a bunch of made-up bullshit profiles.

This. IG is full of cancer, and nothing but cancer.

>social value
How much exactly?

>go to bar in college town with friends
>a cute af blonde girl with a 21st bday sign encounters our squad
>my group walks past her, but she specifically stops me and asks if she can kiss me if she can kiss me, as it's on her bucket list to kiss 21 guys before the night ends
>proceed to wish her a happy bday, give her a hug and meet up with my group again
>throughout the night, I saw her glance at me multiple times with my peripheral vision
>only reason why I didn't ask for her number is because i'm already seeing someone right now, though we aren't official yet

If it helps, i'm ottermode with a pretty attractive face.

>needing other peoples approval to be fufilled
truly an exceptional human being right here

>no friends
Uh, excuse me? You're on Veeky Forums, aren't you buddy?
Was I the only one who thought we were friends?

post face

so you kissed a girl after she kissed (possibly) another 20 before you? good job mate

Spare me the bullshit autismo, have you ever talked to women or been in a scenario where they would talk about men? You'd notice how dumbly obsessed they become when they learn some dude has been sleeping or attracting a lot of women.

This and also stop wanking or reduce to once a week. And no porn. It's no coincidence that the porn generation is the socially inept generation as well

She said I was number 2/21, and i'm gonna give her the benefit of the doubt since it was still very early in the night. Anyways, you're missing the point of my post.

>needing other peoples approval to be fufilled
>truly an exceptional human being right here
Lo and behold homo evolutis, the man who completely abolishes the needs of his subconscious mind.
Have you considered becoming a voodoo self help guru or something? I'm sure a lot of escapists would love to hear that shit.

Her wish is to contract herpes in one night is more like it. Hope you didn't kiss her that's fucking retarded

Pretty easy, its even easier to just pump and dump

>never to rely on other people for fundamental things in life.
>create your own children alone, user. It's the only way you won't get hurt

But on a serious note, how old are you?

Her upper body makes her look like a midget.

neh I got your point. it feels great being taunted, and my advice would be to get in as many chicks as you can before you end tied up. Just do it safely. no whore is worth an std or meningitis.

it was easier to get a girlfriend when i lost 20 lbs biking to/from work than it was to get one when i started working out

cardio > resistance for general confidence, at least for me

pretentious faggot shut up already

>Strong independent man that don't need no one
make me

That bitch looks fucked up... The steroid use likely... disgusting.

Also it's true, the more swole you get the easier it is to "attract" women...

Doesn't mean you are bringing good people into your life... just means more fish swim your way.

> how do you know?

Her face and upper body muscle build spells testosterone.

found a girl in the uni powerlifting club so it works

They were probably less awkward back in the day

why are you so upset? if youre offended by the fact that I dont need other peoples validation to be happy then you got some issues famalam

listen here dubs, just go up and be like, "wanna see my spaghetti?"

>How easy did it become to get a gf when you became swole?
Very easy.
>How easy did it become to get a good gf when you became swole?
Still hard. Did it tho.

maybe she doesn't judge herself by your standards of beauty?

Yeah I know that. I was thinking if you can make new friends and acquaintances which may come in handy at some point and offer some opportunities. The point is that you want a gf just to make you look good to other girls and even a virgin like me knows she'll eventually find a reason to get mad at you and talk shit or even make shit up about you. You shouldn't be concerned either way. The things they say will get you nowhere.

just a bit round and chubby really

I don't know, I've been here since 09 and still don't have one

>being this much of a pleb then trying to salvage it with being this edgy.

soooo fucking jealous, all i want is a gf who's not a lazy girl and isn't considered "hot" simply because she's not fat
>I'm not jaded or grumpy, i swear

how do you guys get a girl in bed, no strings attached? every time i try to fuck a girl they always want something more serious than just a hookup. last time i was in a relationship it was fucking horrible so now i'm not willing to do that with just any girl i meet. send help, i haven't had sex in months

fuck fat latinas

fuck fat latinas desu..

Lol at that chubby baby face. How unfortunate. Good on her for working out though

>tfw had a spanish gf
>9/10 body, great tits and ass
>lost my virginity to her
>she hit me and got mad at everything for no reason
such a fucking shame I had to break it up

so that would just solve everything for you then...

Bullshit. People are social creatures and are much happier when they aren't lonely.

>the it's impossible to be happy and alone meme.

no joke. fucking hate these elliot roger types that feel like killing themselves as soon as they are alone. feeling meaningless because you don't have a girlfriend is fucking pathetic твн

btw is it just me or has Veeky Forums become inundated with extra bullshit the past year or so? Like what the fuck is all the 'cope', 'mogs', etc bullshit I see here all the time now? Did a whole heap of faggots get directed here by their pua subreddit or some shit?

OP's girl is top tier

Strangely enough, it's very easy to get women's attention when you're lifting and swole, and you just concentrate on your work. When they get your attention, a little bit of their game goes down.

Women really want what they think is great and out of reach.

It's freaks from sluthate/lookism (forums that elliot rodger used to frequent afaik). Using "incel", "cope", "mog" etc should be bannable

She looks like a manlet who has never lifted could break her in half.

>How easy did it become to get a gf when you became swole?

Average girls love me because I am generally a polite and friendly person.

However, I strongly feel I would be settling if I gf'ed any girl lower than an 8. The problem is, for those chicks you need a certain personality, interests, and a lifestyle that just isn't "me."

I've accepted that I will never have a gf.

Normie gf is easy.

Wheyfu gf is hard mode.

I thought so

>Using "incel", "cope", "mog" etc should be bannable
good idea

do we really need this same kind of thread multiple times a day every fucking day?

I thought we're supposed to like high-test women

fuck off back to r/incels dickhead

im not swole yet, but its already pretty easy to get one because I dont have a garbage personality

/fit, where half a scroll down you find completely opposite points of view in the same thread.

This
Prepare to have incredibly high, unrealistic standards

wordfilters are funnier than bans
>tfw "femanon" used to filter to "CUMDUMPSTER"

>Before Veeky Forums, swipe anything with a decent face
>After Veeky Forums, only swipe right on women with a gym selfie
Save me. I'm limiting myself & I can't help it

bitches come to my house to suck my cock
i just have an awesome tinder profile on which i have pics of me surfing being in thailand and serving in iraq

This. Wordfilters are hilarious

Personally, I miss being called a Candy-Assgot.