Veeky Forumss bartender - share it with me

>week’s finally coming to an end
>hope it wasn’t as shit as always
>sit down, tell me about it
>any new PR’s?

I finally hit 200kg on conventional deadlift, but besides that I feel like absolute dogshit

hit 140kg dl for 5 reps, still fucking stalling on lmao1.5pl8 bench

Gf cheated on me. I thought cheating was a meme. She went out with her friends, ignored my calls then came in drunk at 6am, just as im leaving for work.

Her excuse eas I she went to her friends house for two hours then came home because she couldn't sleep. Im moving out tomorrow, took a day off work to pack my life into my car. Moving back into my moms at age 30. Spent my life savings on our mortgage. She said shes gonna give our dogs away. Literally no idea what the fuck im gonna do.

Gonna have to find a new gym as well. Thanks for listening, heres a whore.

Fuck man, I’m sorry. Sometimes, women really are trash. I hope you sort it out.

is it your fucking house? if so force that bitch out

So how do you know she cheated on you?

Also, if it's your house, pack her things and make her get the fuck out

Life is going pretty well.
> Lifts are steadily increasing. Hopefully one day I will be in the 225 bench club
>School grades are going well, don't have to take an English final. If I keep it up, Ill graduate this time next yr. Maybe grad school after, who knows.
>tfw nogf but that's okay. I went on a date last night with this Veeky Forums qt and hopefully we set up another date soon. We talked about lifting over dinner it was pretty funny.
>Mentally I am unstable, I just go to work,school and go home/ workout thats it.
Hopefully it'll be worth it in the end.

Sorry to hear that bro, women can be terrible

what the fuck happened, man?
Living in a student flat. I moved in two months ago, so I haven't really been able to make close friends. The couple of people I knew from before are mostly busy for university. I feel lonely and go to the gym to make some use of my spare time. University is going very well, at least, and I go home occasionally to be with my family and drink with my old friends. I'm still lonely, though, and I don't really know how to approach the people.

women are really trash, fuck her user, also you should try to keep the dogs and sell the house

I cum in about 3 minutes but take forever to cum during sex.

Yesterday my gf got a little sad and upset because she thought she was doing something wrong. I was tipsy, dont know if it has anything to do with that. Feels bad man, atleast Im able to give her a good time, but it's that satisfaction that she wants too by making me cum, and its just fucking hard. I dont get it.

>sleep because of the gym
>wake up because of the gym
>eat because of the gym
>go to the gym
>train
>get back from the gym
>eat because of the gym
>stretch because of the gym
>studie to not feel bad about focusing on the gym
>sleep because of the gym
>repeat

who here living for the gym

I cum in about 3 minutes when masturbating*

I don't watch porn since august.

Stopped working out for three months due to laziness, today is my first day back after noticing the beginnings of a beer belly. I lost a lot of progress, here’s to sticking with it this time.

3,000 push ups between three rounds, morning, early afternoon, and late afternoon.

All I've done over the past years is calisthenics, in sets of either 50 or 100, so 3,000 in a day is much more manageable than it sounds to those whose primary workout doesn't emphasize calisthenics. I'm thinking I should order dumbbells for home use, since not a gym person.

>tfw never found a bar where you can talk to the bartender like in the movies
>it's always loud as fuck with club music playing
>trying to order is a crapshoot
>A BEER PLEASE
>WHAT
>A BEEEEEER
>WHAAAAAAAT
>i have to point
>THAT WILL BE bwuwbyfwygaff
>WHAT
>I SAID
>still can't hear

Another week of cutting and feeling weak. My belt arrived and squats are actually feeling doable though, which is nice. Also tried for an OHP heavy single for no reason even though I'm cutting, managed to get 75kg but failed 80 right after. Pretty sure I have the strength for it and it's just my calorie deficit. Fucking around with my deadlift and it really seems like the only way for me to keep my lumbar straight is to bend knees a lot, almost feels like I'm down in a parallel squat (fuck my leverages). So I'm just going to keep doing them with a bit rounded lower back from bottom, it doesn't feel that bad and as long as I'm bracing well I don't think I'll be injured.

Obviously being tipsy makes it harder to cum.
Is your gf giving you what you want in bed?
Also, try to lay off the jerking for a few days, maybe it will help. I only masturbate about once a month for prostate health (no hornyness since I take ad’s) and during sex I cum in about 5 mins

>wake up
>go to Uni
>get home, study a bit more after lectures
>gym time
>sleep
>repeat
>no gf

Idk for how long I can put this up, everthing feels so pointless
The only thing I look forward to is to get shredded (pic related) for the summer. but what's the point, I can't share it with anyone

Yeah, I've been reading, I think imma lay off jerking off for a while and if I do, not grip that hard. My gf rocks my world dude, sex feels amazing it's like and endless state of pleasure or something, good for me but i feel bad for her cuz she can't get the finale of the satisfaction.

My man get some friends, it's not hard

>3 months into my 6 month secondment
>no update as to if it's being extended or I'm being let go
>about to start looking for new jobs
>get pulled into a quick meeting with manager
>they've put the request in with the old manager to extend my secondment

>Been following SS for 3 months now
>Lifts been consistently going slow but up
>about to start a rest week

>finally ready to start dating again after a year out (not pushing for something though)

I'd say things are starting to look up.

I do the exact same thing daily only I read a few books after the gym

I can relate.

Work for a goal man, right now you are doing activities to keep you busy. You need more hobbies or such to keep you occupied. Find friends in clubs og organizations. Try to find something creative to keep your mind occupied.

It's easy to work day in and out lifting but after a while it just gets empty. Thats a sign you need something more in life other than that.

A pear cider, please.

Haven't been to the gym this week but I have been to two parties with a lot of dancing, so that does count as cardio, right?

Also I'm thinking about getting some fat burners. What's legit and what is soy snake oil?

>tfw literally live in nyc
>have a humble job that lets me play with a bunch of expensive equipment.
>lifting for years at this point, started my first SARMs cycle two weeks ago.
>most attention ive gotten recently was from a married 22 year old with a 2 year old kid.
>tfw considering killing myself bc i must be deformed if this is the best i can do in the city people describe as shooting fish in a barrel.

Do you do any hobbies that expose you to people?

I met a new gym bro today, went really early today so i could study later, he gave me some advice and even gave me a ride home cuz it was raining, all in all a good day

Me. My dream is one day opening my own gym and having a small back room where I’d live

Damn dude. I came here to bitch about tinder girls but you have it way worse. It's pretty disgusting how people will throw away a great relationship just for some new dick/pussy.

Never heard of pear cider is it good? Most ciders I've had have been super sweet, am I just getting the meme brands or do you like it that sweet?

Dancing counts for sure dog

Ephedrine helps decrease appetite and lets you lift hard on fewer calories. Gotta get it at Walgreens or something under Primatene or Bronkaid.

Yohimbine HCL helps burn stubborn fat but you have to take it fasted and you can only do cardio on it.

DNP is the most dramatic fat burner there is but it's illegal and can kill you.

Everything else is memepills.

Well carnitine works, it’s not magic but it helps.
Obviously clen is there, but turn in your natty card.
And also, if you don’t mind dying, you can give DNP a shot
But the most legit fat burner is fasted cardio

wait the cla and carnitine shit helps? by how much?

going to penny farthing and LES with my friends.
studying for CFA to become finance chad.
teaching a chemistry class for extra cash

>hit a deadlift PR
>still want to die

This is a really tough position. Ita fucking hard to get a gf. A girl would change ypur entire perspective on life. I hope you gwt a nice gf who loves you.

I went three months without speaking to another human being at uni, outside of menial small talk in brief passing. I had a mental breakdown and developed schtizo affective disorder. Humans need contact with other humans.

I cant tell you how to get a gf, one that will love you and not destroy you. Just keep going through life. Dont give up.

Be careful, he might be a right wing extremist

About to go to church, my diddly is at 245 and my lifts are getting heavier overall, definitely enjoying the noob gains but there's still plenty of work to do. Also

>tfw no gf

break her legs

Couple odd things happened to me last night. So I was visiting some pro shop yesterday and one person was there who I didn't expect. He knows something about me and may use that knowledge to put me in jail one day..basically they invited me out and I actually had an edible and I was super high and out of my mind. So something did happen and while I was super high I heard them mention jokes about certain things and I don't know if it was because I was high or if they were really talked in the open about certain things about me..I am telling you fuxking cucks I believe this did happen and they discussed certain things while I was present and next to them. Fuck. I don't know what actually happened and maybe I was just high as fuck and paranoid but these are life changing things and they made fun of it in the open??

Anyway. Last night scared the shit out of me..secretly I hopefully do go to the police. Maybe o have a guilty conscience or.something but I won't be in prison long I honestly won't fight the court case. I'll end it in prison. I don't know anymore. Was it a crazy high from edibles or did they know I was high and they can bring up certain events to trigger me and

Fuck..I really will never know their true intentions and if they have something planned.... this is something I can never speak to person about. Anyway..if I ever flee this country I may ask them what their plan is with this information..

what I know with absolute certainty is that today is the day I am going to run my first ever sub 26 minute 5k.

It is going to happen, and there is absolutely nothing that will prevent that from happening. I am 100% ready, I have the mindset, I have failed more than enough times already and now I will go out there and do it again, except this time I will not give up. I will give it my all.

Today is the day my bros.

hung up on the breakup
thinking about texting her for the last time and say fuck her

thanks brahs for the nice words, means a lot

Guys

Haven't been lifting for months, tomorrow before work at 6am i could go and get my gym card

Should i?

How about some good feels?

>went on my first date in my life yesterday
>she said she had a great time and wants to go on another date thursday

Holy fuck lads this is amazing, for the first time in my life...I'm happy

Go for it.
Don't go for it.

>Go for it.
How do i motivate me aka get over social anxiety tho

>Don't go for it.
why not got nothing to loose anymore
and fuck dignity

phenibut


t. Veeky Forums doktor

A man may lose everything but he is not lost until he has no dignity left.

Wished my oneitis from 5 years ago a happy birthday after said time

Kinda want to get back in touch but don't know how to get over shitty pls respond texts

keep it up bro. Don't get too ahead of yourself or get too enthusiastic about her yet. Stay cool and let her come to you. You got this.

>She said shes gonna give our dogs away

Fighting words right there.

Happy for you user. Hope you’ll have a good time with her

yes getting friends is not hard
getting friends you like is harder
getting friends you would trust with your life is impossible if you haven't known them for a bunch of years earlier.

By making a choice and sticking to your guns.
You'd just come off as a pathetic loser obsessing over her. Better show her that you no longer care.

>You'd just come off as a pathetic loser obsessing over her
would i? by telling her something along the lines of "i miss you but this will be my last text"?

>would i? by telling her something along the lines of "i miss you but this will be my last text"?
Yeah. It's over- it's over.

>Going to a shitty local commuter school and living with parents because I got a full ride
>Its literally infamous for having no social life. It seems like half the student body is adults trying to improve their life
>Everyone goes home right after class
>I have no fucking friends whatsoever
>All my friends from high school are going to my state's flagship uni
>caught up with them over break and they are all having the time of their lives
>I cant do the ol' two years and then transfer to save money because I would end up having to do and extra year of school to meet the degree requirements for my degree
>Feel like I'm letting my youth slip away
>try to focus on improving myself, but I cant shake the feeling that I'm missing out on the college experience

What do Veeky Forums bros?
I really want to transfer, but its hard to justify going into debt for this. I'm starting to get lonely and living with my parents gets more annoying by the day.

hm

This. Same thing happened to me, instant chemistry but I was too enthustiastic and after a couple of weeks she said she's not feeling it. Whatever, I think I was more hype about the fact it finally happened than about her.

Holy shit all of you are pathetic
"Wasting youth, missing friends, wanting gf"
fucking improve yourself so much that others will be left in awe and will want to be with you.
lift,read, study or make money, start being productive.

t.trying so hard to quit gaming.

Just quit and get a job, blue collar people are people too.

Fells on my ass while learning to ride around a empty parking lot and now i have a huge wound on my left knee. Not sure if i should go to bjj today because of the open wound.

Other than that i played Life is Strange. really bringing back the feels

The new year is almost here and I'm not even close to making it. I just feel like I will never make it in life. My not doing well in school, I have no idea what I really want to do with my life. And I just feel like I will be stuck in my shitty retail job forever. I want to get out because my new manager is a dick head and everyone is trying to leave.

Fucking hell you guys. How long has it been since you got a hug from a girl?

(Family doesn't count)

does comforting a 15 years older coworker woman count?

>Randomly go on goybook, girl i was talking to the other day comes on
>go off 2 minutes later
>do a cheeky check back
>shes goes offline at the same time

this has happened nearly 4 times now, she already made it clear she doesn't fancy me but this coincidence is fucking creepy

i made a fool of myself at a gay bar last night...

Drank too much, been eating like shit all week because of Thanksgiving

Not really, no. Sorry user

Holy shit are you me

What school do you go to?

Id rather not say. Its in the midwest tho. So, whats you're plan?

why.... were you in a gay bar?

>be me
>26 yrs old
>balding with gyno... for some reason I store a disproportionate amount of fat in my pectoral region.
>no gf, not even talking to a girl
>desperate for some sort of intimacy
>meet up with guy off grindr
>he fucks my ass, he used a condom going in but when I get up I see it is missing
>he claims he took it off after he took is cock out
>been feeling tired since then
>think I have HIV

Life sucks.

Deal with it. Do what you have to do. Use the extra time to improve yourself while theyre living in hedonism (and experiencing manly rights of passage to be honest)

Becuase its fun?
People are gay. Get over it, bigot.

I also think its funny you even brought that up. Like who cares? The guy said he made a fool of himself and he's been eating like shit, so why not just focus on that? Because that's the real issue, dick.

No wonder getting fucked in the ass is considered a bad thing

Whats the point of improving yourself if you are alone and unhappy? I genuinely want to read your answer to this. I have a 4.0, have been dedicated to lifting and diet, and have been practicing guitar for 2 hours a day but it all just feels like distractions.

>uni party thursday
>Chad bro pretty much dragged me there
>dinner at his apartment before party
>me, him and 2 of his friends
>drank beer, played vydia, talked about girls
>was a normie for a few hours, had a great time
>go to the actual party
>loud as fuck music
>girls caked in makeup
>people bumping into each other
>drunks
>social anxiety, super uncomfortable
>leave after an hour, tell friends I had to get some sleep so I could workout on friday
>get home
>showering
>thinking about how much I hate myself and everybody
>why can't I just be normal?
>friday
>working out
>crazy vegan chick who hit on me last year decides to return to the gym
>comes up to chat
>give her one word replies
>she fucks off, I still get pissed at losing workout time because of her
>see gymqt
>another day where I act like an autist and don't talk to her

At least nofap is going well, day 9 and still strong. Gymqt also works out on mondays, so I'll be seing her again and pussying out again. I just wanna talk to her, but I don't even know what to say.

Oh im in the North East
>what's your plan
Well i cant even drive yet and have to take the train so that makes it worse for me. Right now im focusing on driving so i can have access to go to more places.
I do go to a church and this guy I am friends with there conviniently also goes to my school so I plan on meeting up with him more, and hope he can introduce me to more people.
I also plan on getting a job so I have something that will have me go outside more and just see more people and connect with fellow coworkers.
I also did meet up with a pair of friends from high school like a month ago, and they said we should chill out during winter break. Although I'm not too sure on them since they have gotten there own lives from the time we've been seperated and I've been forgotten.

Right now im just focusing on getting everything together and taking baby steps (getting drivers license, get a job, etc).
Try to find some access to meet more people whether it be church, a job, organization, etc, I dont even believe in God and still go to church (mostly because my parents force me), but I've known the people there since I was a kid so I still have some connections there.

>broke PR's on the machines
>ended up somehow losing 1kg of muscle and gaining 1kg of fat
I slightly cheated on my diet, only thing I can do is keep going.

just came home from a date with a girl from tinder. She was smart, good looking and clearly into me but I'm a /sperg/ so I didn't kiss her or try anything sexual. Did I fuck up? What should I do now?

Realize that nobody cares at the gym, everyone is there to better themselves in some form or another. Just do your thing and ignore everyone else.

>Be me
>Got the baby dick
>Can't get my lifts up
>Ate shit all weekend
>About to order a pizza

Should I just an seppuku

If it was just a food date or something then it's not necessarily fucked or anything, as long as you didn't sperg to hard and say something dumb ask her if she wants to meet again.

someone please feed my schizo

well we grabbed two beers each and basically talked for like 3 hours straight, where should the second date be at?

medial epycondilitis has me all fucked up my man. I lost a lot of gains and at 30 I don't get them back so quickly. I hate being injured all the time. I have been battling a lot of injuries over the past few years. But i'll make it!

Sorry to hear that bro. My fiance at least had the sack to tell me she didn't feel that way for me anymore, and didn't go find a quick lay.

I'll always give her props for that. It doesn't help with the hurt, but at least she wasn't a whore.

Take her somewhere fun, ice skating's my favorite but that might not be good for you if you suck at it.
Don't take her to a movie, you've gotten to know her a bit, now show her a good time.

>gym is at my school, which is an hour away
>haven't gone to school this week, so haven't gone to the gym
I can feel my muscles deteriorating.

dated this girl for a little while about a year back, may have hugged her once or twice, she wasn't very affectionate.

Before then..... I think it was 10th grade. I had made the soccer team and shortly after had this petite blonde girl that I liked who basically threw herself at me (still managed to fuck it up). I still remember her meeting me at the end of the day looking for a hug and a kiss, she seemed like she really cared asked how my day went, the whole 9 yards, and she didn't expect anything in return except my presence, I still to this day have trouble responding to genuine affection so I ended up fucking that one up somehow.

That memory feels nice user, thank you for making me think back.

>gym is at my school, which is 2 minutes away
>haven't gone to school for the past month, but have gone to the gym regularly
i can feel me dropping out

>Everyone at work thinks the new girl is cute
>I thought I had a chance with her

F-Fuck.. Too much competition

another user here
i don't really chase girls right now because i'm focused on myself but
>Don't take her to a movie, you've gotten to know her a bit, now show her a good time.
i... don't enjoy... things , would it be okay trying to get her to take me somewhere? i mean i could something along the lines of "hey i've always wanted to learn X, and i know you're good at it, mind teaching me a bit?"?

be the first one to ask her out, she will probably say yes assuming you're not an ugly sperg.

Don't drop out you faggot ass peacock

Get your head cranked on straight and straighten up that back
If you aren't doing school well I suggest that gym should take a backburner for a bit. You're using the gym as an excuse to feel as though 'you're doing at least something in your life'

and breaking it to you: It's mediocre as fuck. When you enter the real world, no one is going to give a flying fuck whether you feel too sad, and you're just going to gym it out.

Suck it up and go to school.

T. I dropped out (got kicked out) You really don't want to be me.
For exact same reasons too.
Was too depressed, went to the gym everyday and skipped classes.

either greentext with details or i dont know what you expect us to conclude from this battered mess of a rant

I'm so obsessed with the idea of romance like in movies. I watched Before Sunrise the other day and it affected me so much
I have to believe I can make a connection like that with someone in this world. Where we don't talk over text talking about mundane things and bullshit questions, but where we can speak in person about anything and everything
I have to believe that kind of connection is possible.
I also really want a qt European girl with an accent

>assuming you're not an ugly sperg.