Manage to get into bed with a qt 3.14

it's common with people on Veeky Forums who have anxiety

lack of testosterone
Eat more onions

Should have said it's her fault legit. Say she dk how to suck dick

Watch less porn

Happen to me to this weekend, it felt awful but Im reminded of an old quote from "What happened to my father hurt his feelings, but it did not unman him."

This happens, it might be a sign that this wasn't the right girl, or you need to take into consideration some other factors of your life before sex. It's one of my reason why I'm going on noFap, revisiting my diet, and soon readjusting my exercise routine. Sometimes it's best just to take a break, take a step back and revisit your life and what you really need.

Happened to me, because you're too anxious about how you'll be percieved. Better than cumming in 20 seconds, girls fucking hate that. It took me getting a serious girlfriend before I kept a boner and was able to cum in her. For a while it was just me boning her for an hour switching it up and making her cum a pool in the bed but needing to jerk myself to be done. Just get more experience until you don't give a fuck. If all else fails, don't you dare suck at fingering her or eating pussy

Alright good to know. I’m not too worried about it as I’m pretty lean and generally not anxious about that kind of thing, but If it is an issue I’ll be sure to probably make a copy of this thread

Well I had downed two bottles of wine with her just prior, might just be whisky dick

FUCKING FAGGOT, I'd say gtfo my board but it clearly suits you.

Could be that + nerves. Still though, it doesn't hurt to re-examine any weak points in your life.

anxiety dick is the worst

>when i hooked up with girls over tinder they would occasionally comment on my heart rate, super nervous
>now that i have a gf this never happens when we fuck

I don't think the feelings that bring this on are sexual anxiety or performance anxiety, I think it's just normal social anxiety weighing in. Not sure if others feel the same way.

>was just me boning her for an hour switching it up and making her cum a pool in the bed
t. Virgin larp

Anxiety is a bitch m8
I thought that exercising also doesn't help, since I've been unable to fuck my gf properly in the last days, but tonight I went out with a fuckfriend of mine and in the bed my willy was rock hard. So, I guess I just don't really like my actual gf that much, or at least my dick is trying to tell me something..

> This happens, it might be a sign that this wasn't the right girl

This so much
Not getting hard is the way your dick has to tell you this girls isn't the right one. Listen to him

this used to happen to me until i got a script for viagra. used it once, that girl became my wife and i never had to use it again.

kys

I never had this problem, but life hit me with the DHT stick super hard so I think that may be why.

Even at 27 I still get hard super easy and randomly, masturbate twice or more a day. I may be losing my hair in the one place it matters (my head) and have way too much hair everywhere else, but at least I don't have to worry about being impotent.

its anxiety, no cardio, bad genes, poor diet, jerking off excessively and retardedly, low T user. if you are young you are fine for now, please take care of your body and mind. im 22 and i already fucked up my brain, neck, knees, lower back and sex life. just value yourself and realize that not only are your fucking idiot parents not looking out for your well being but neither are your friends and physician. you need to be vigilant and self advocating or you’re fucked like all the other soy creatures

iktfb, you're gonna make it

The same thing happened to me, doubt he's larping. It sucks to not be able to cum from sexing

t. Pre- mature ejaculater

This used to happen with me OP, and she probably isn't lying. This happens to more guys than they would like to admit, and those same guys also have problems climaxing when they finally can get a hard on. Here's some shit that helped me, in order.

>stop using a gorilla grip when masurbating
We don't realize it, but we grab our cocks pretty hard. The only way you're going to find a hole that stimulates the same tightness is if you randomly shove it in that girls ass. If you are going to fap, try to use a looser grip. It'll take a while to get used to, but it will help.

>find someone to have regular sex with, and reprogram your brain to cum with a woman
This may be difficult to do because you'll probably have performance anxiety at first, but after you get over it the first time it won't happen again. After years of watching porn you've trained yourself to cum not only from your hand, but to pixels, as opposed to the actual stimulation of being with a woman. You literally have to teach yourself to climax with a woman, as sad as it sounds.

>if all else fails, stop using porn
There's a shit ton of stats coming out saying a portion of moderate-heavy porn users experience ED and desensitization to sex. I won't go in depth, but if you're watching porn more than once or twice a day, that could be contributing to your problem. PS. This will be hard as shit because Veeky Forums is filled with porn and you'll probably relapse a lot.

Now, all of this is assuming you don't have low T or some shit. If it was your first time, AND you barely knew the girl, you were probably too nervous to get hard, which is understandable. Try forming a connection with someone first, don't go on Tinder looking for one night stands. In the end, just try not to think about it too much. Easier said than done, but I know you'll figure it out OP. Good luck senpai.

thinking about being nervous isn't very sexy, mmkay

user, serious advice. Go buy a strap-on. If you can't get it up, ask her to fuck you with it. That way at least somebody is getting fucked. And your body will learn that erections prevent getting fucked in the ass.

Those 60 days of nofap sure worked well right? Fucking morons

Have a shot before sex and remember you’re there to have a good time. Slap her in the face if it turns you on. Get wild and selfish. Use that bitch. It’ll get her wet and you hard.

This is good advice. I went through a period of a couple years where this became a self reinforcing cycle. Every time a woman would want to fuck I'd try, not be able to then get even more anxious about not being able to get it up.

Eventually I discovered a combination of this advice plus one other thing
>I was not comfortable bumping uglies the first time I had a girl naked
I know as a man I am widely expected to be raring to go at the first sign of pink but I just do not work that way. I like to get naked, get intimate, get to 2nd or 3rd base the first night. Then if we seem to have grown closer the next day I like to reward us with going all the way the second night.
I've lost some lays I really wish I hadn't being like this, but a man has got to respect the way he operates.
In the big picture it has lowered my dick's exposure to pussies that wouldn't have panned out and that has lowered my chances of catching something or knocking a girl up. If a chick NEEDS the dick tonight and wont wait then she is a ho.

It's the porn. If you're having these issues stop jerking it to porn for a few weeks

Work on your cardio.
Stop watching porn entirely.
Only masterbate once a week at most. Once every two weeks if you can help it.
Supplement zinc.
Drink more water.

You're welcome.

>Hook up with my waitress
>I want to impress her with a pump before she comes over
>Go too hard
>Look amazing but 6 more weeks of winter...
Don't workout the same day you expect to get laid. Just don't.

>Slap her in the face if it turns you on.
Christ, don't do this to a first date unless she is a freak. Slap her on the ass, sure

im such a pathetic autist virgin i imagine i would cum in my pants just from kissing a girl, like that would ever happen

if i ever had the chance to have sex? holy shit i would probably cum just taking my pants off and then have to sit there and get mocked and insulted by her for being so pathetic

mate, she's not going to mock you, it's just as awkward for her. stop being so jaded

I think the problem is he's not on no fap.

Not with that attitude it won't.

The last two are the same

Kill yourself