Anyone else getting approached by relativly cute girls wanting to go on a date with you but you decline every one of them because you know you will fuck up the date. Even went so far to insult one of the sweetest girls I ever met just so she would leave me alone.
Do you have simliar experiences?
Any tips?
When i go out i have both guys and girls buying me drinks lol but that is about it
>tfw too ugly despite being fit
If you don't go out on dates with these girls then how do you get good at dates with girls.
If you keep fucking up, go on dates and practice.
Make mistakes, embrace the pain.
2b is my waifu stop posting images or cosplays of her!!!!
Never even occured to me that this is 2B
Girls never approach me so I assume that I'm not attractive enough.
Girls don't buy me drinks, but my girlfriend says she sees chicks pull down the fronts of their shirts and fix their faces/hair when I walk into rooms.
I wasn't asking for this information, sometimes she says "that girl was checking you out" or something and I don't believe her so she's kind of started pointing out chicks she thinks are hitting on me. If it was a dude doing it it'd be pathetic but when she does it it's cute, like she thinks somebody's going to steal me and wants me to be on guard or something.
OP you sound like an autist.
I get flirted with but I never got asked out. Yet...
Yes
>Go to Renfest as goofy looking shirtless viking
>Plenty of guys and girls try to chat me up
>tfw most of the girls where ugly
>tfw when sexually harassed by two separate older men dressed as gay pirates
are you american OP? I couldn't imagine anything like this happen where I live, then again I only leave the house for uni and to commute, and people don't approach people they don't know. I heard americans are more outgoing
>mfw go to runefest
I've been hit on by an extremely foul smelling autistic girl
She even went for the crotch rub with her foot
I just pretended to be clueless and she eventually gave up
german my dude
was she atleast cute?
post face
Not really. She was a bit chubby and her hair was extremely greasy
nope not gonna sry
I've had girls approach me many times, but I'm so fucking bad at conversation that I can never take it anywhere. The farthest I've gotten is actually getting a gf but I guess she just dumped me when she realized how boring I am to be around. Really the only person to blame for my being alone all the time is myself but I really can't help it.
yes, but my resting face looks pissed/uninterested and girls have said I look scary and its hard to approach me
Just accept in order to get some practice OP. You'll never get better with girls if you don't. You might even meet a really good one doing it.
In my home country I rarely get approached, but don't have much problem getting laid when I'm the one taking the first step. When I've been elsewhere it happens a lot more often. That might just be thanks to standing out from the crowd more by looking different than the locals, speaking another language, and just generally being in vacation mode being more open and high energy which might bait grills into getting attracted.
So either I'm attractive enough and Swedish girls are just generally frigid bitches, or I'm boring average mode
they tell me excacly the same also people always tell me I look like I'm about to kill them probably because of my eye circles and dark eyes
Are you white?
Might explain why Swedish women don't want you
my gf asked me out, hopefully that counts.
Still at the "fat girls will flirt with me as a joke" stage
J-just a few more years lads
After pretty much coming to terms no girl would ever love me or even look at me, I spent most of last friday night dancing like a maniac with a girl and talking so much stuff with her. She actually aproached me first. She called me amazing and a thousand other compliments. Honestly I was absolutely floored. She was very physical too. I asked some of my friends about her because they knew her and they were telling me she was not bullshitting. We were extremely smashed.
I've added her on facebook but I'm clueless and will probably fuck this up one way or another.
>mfw only girls that approach me are underage
life is suffering
Should've expected that one
I've always been chased by girls. Never had to do anything to get a girlfriend, just be myself.
>tfw only twinks and guys bigger than me hit on me and ask me out to dinner
>tfw I'm going on a date with a twink tomorrow
so much for attracting cute girls...
>get hit on by teenagers who think I'm in their age range
>get hit on by creepy old ladies who aren't even MILFy
>get hit on by crazy girls
>largely don't get hit on otherwise
Pussy
Years of low self esteem means I automatically suspect ulterior motives whenever a girl shows genuine interest in me.
I got hit on only once, when I was doing lots of cardio and bodyweight work. I (mid 20s) went to the Roswell UFO Festival and very pretty schizophrenic woman (mid 30s) carrying a large alien mascot outfit walked up to me and told me that Michael Jackson was assassinated and he never molested any kids, and that the government was covering up UFO landings. She was making me nervous so I said I was going to go inside the UFO museum, she followed me and I opened the door for her and said "ma'am" and she said "you're cute AND a gentleman!" I intentionally lost her in the crowd, then about an hour later I heard a bunch of banging on the glass next to where I was sitting and it was her in the alien outfit waving at me. I waved back then looked away and never saw her again.
What? Just go on the fucking dates. If you fuck it up who cares? You're already purposely fucking it up anyway. At least give yourself a slim chance of possibly not fucking up.
not tryna get anally annihilated by tyrone in jail, my b
Sounds groovy I'd ask her out for coffee if you really hit it off conversation wise too.
I'm a talkative flirt but I get approached a lot. Often it feels like they're "presenting" to me, so I just engage if they don't first.
Take the initiative, ask her out. She's tossing you an easy home-run, just swing you faggot.
I get hit on semi frequently, which I don't really get considering I'm a bald 5'9" guy. I'm pretty outgoing though, got hit non by a latina with long hair and enormous tits who asked me to play pool with her, during which she was slapping my ass as I went to take my shot. She then gave me her number, even after I told her I have a gf. Last week I was at a wine bar with my gf (first place we ever went on a date, 4.5 years ago) and two blond girls followed me into the mens room and went, "damn!" Then left. I have no idea why.
Maybe you've got a really handsome face
Never had any girl approach me, show any interest, ask me out, anything, ever.
Feels depressing
all the girls that showed interest in me were taken
happened more than once even, dont know what up with that
I only get hit by max 5/10 girls or fatties, feels bad since it probably means I'm around 5-6 too.
>Sounds groovy
>just be yourself
I get drunk chicks hitting on me, usually older mommies since they like it when a young guy smiles at em. I wouldn't consider myself to be that attractive though. Booze + a uniform does wonders however.
I think I remember you, were you in the thread where someone got into a taxi with a redhead and didn’t cheat on his gf?
>Not using outdated adjectives
You Jive ass. Bitches love when you say shit that nobody else says. Calling parties shindigs and saying we should blow this popsicle stand.
I'm not sure why I shared that pro-tip, it's the last one Veeky Forums is getting out of me.
This, there's a reason women find you boring.
>"Hey user!"
>"Hey"
And that's that.
>Wearing your uniform out
What a tool
Why do I feel like sexually destroying this girl.
I meant at work (security guard). My bad for not being clear. I'm not chad enough to wear a gym uniform outside the gym.
I have the feeling that I don't even look like I'm lift in clothes, I bench 120 kg, squat 130, row 140 and deadlift 180 and don't have the feeling that lifting made my chances better, I think I look like a normal, a bit fit at best, person as soon I put on a normal sized T-Shirt and doesn't have any pump at all.
Not possible then, I'm this user and in Germany everyone has a stock in his ass and never talks to people outside of his closed group.
It has a reason why the virginity rate for males over 25 is so high in Germany, women are, thanks to feminism and left extreme propaganda in schools and universities, extremely picky, you could look like Adonis, but if you are not rich or let ONE SINGLE boring moment in a conversation happened: Next.
Girls do not approach me. It makes me very sad but I have chosen the partner-less path so at the end of the day it doesn't matter much.
that was my first post in this thread, don't so sensitive lads
within the first few sentences they can detect my autism
lmao malnorished poor africans can get girls in germany
Eggman has a quite good looking gf.
>gf
It's a man.
I didn't get into any taxi with a redhead, but I didn't cheat on my gf either. That whole shooting pool with a hot latina girl was the first part of a very odd Thanksgiving I had this year.
Maybe, who knows. I think my parents socialised me well as a kid/teenager mostly.
A result of our victim culture. There is a reason why so many angry young men with extreme right wing ideals exist here, I don't say I share their opinion, but I can understand their suffering very well.
I'm not fit enough to the point where it shows (slightly bigger arms than normal, abs are visible but only in the right lighting). I get approached for my face and probably my height.
im glad germany is dying
I'm hoping for a phoenix from the flames kind of situation
nah it will be a bunch of africans if that ever happens lol
Lucky you, I was just manipulated.
bringo
lol, that happens to me sometimes... I end up insulting great girls just so they leave me alone. fuck... Hang out with dudes instead.
Girls will isolate themselves and eye-fuck me, but not active approach. They just make themselves very available to be approached. Not sure if because 71" manlet or they just aren't slutty enough. Not dominant enough for ONS usually, so it's like 2 dates till nookie on average. :( sad many such cases
I need this girl's Instagram. I know someone linked it before and she does heroin or some shit.
ive never had a girl approach me to say i was attractive but once i had a girl come up to me and introduce herself. after a minute spaghetti falling out of my pockets she walked away unimpressed because i have no social skills but also because i am so ugly that my face cant compensate for my autism
no
>tfw used to have friends and random girls approach me back when I was Veeky Forums
>autism prevented me from doing anything productive or satisfying with said attention
might just kms desu lads, I just missed too many opportunities
I'm 37.
They always have a kid.
So the answer is no. I decline dates for a reason.
should've been born Bavarian.
I'm 34. So are we just fucked now or what
ITT: things that didn't happen
>the fourth (black) reich
>aydolfton hytlarious
>we wuz fuhrers
You know you're ok with this.
Yes.
I get approached all the time. But I avoid it because I'm awkward and anxiety ridden as well as being depressed and having zero confidence or self worth aside from momentarily when some girl tells me how attractive I am but that feeling only lasts a few seconds and I go back to thinking I'm disgusting and everyone hates me as soon as the compliments end more or less.
Tips? I don't know, eat a fucking bullet?
im a 6 on a good day and girls never approach me. could be because i look like a brooding autist
sauce?
someone please take the time to help this user out
Nah you're probs just ugly. I get approached all the time aswell
>not becoming chad enough to annihilate tyrone in jail
>not fucking the guys bigger than you to prove how chad you are
its like youre not even trying
I catch girls mirin and trying to steal glances almost daily, I guess at work some chicks come up and try and talk to me but very rarely so girls make much of a first move besides playing with their hair around me or something stupid like that. I don’t go out to bars or anything fun since I don’t drink so I’m probably missing out.
no i guess i am too ugly. i was 2 times in my life in clubs and both times i got asked out by dudes tho. freaked the shit out of me. it never happened to my friends but they arent attractive either i guess. does that mean i look gay? or do i have a gay atractivness? or do gays just ask anybody.
Yes to all
>26
>Asian
>5’10
>so focused on brain gains and my financial health I’m utterly inept when it comes to women
Planning on just shaving my head and become a monk if I hit 30 without any social gains.
At least my lifts have been going up
175/245/365/295/455
ohp/bench/backsquat/frontsquat/dead 1rm
I'm a legit 8/10 and I hardly ever have girls approach me, I'm assuming people are making shit up.
who is this girl?
did rome rise out of the ashes or was it the barbarians?
>I'm a legit 8/10 and I hardly ever have girls approach me, I'm assuming people are making shit up.
Always cage at posts like these, imagine not only being subhuman but not even being too low iq and low sentience to even be aware of it.
nier: thotomata
I have (it's rare though) but they're almost always either fat or ugly. I don't really get why they would approach me in the first place because everyone either tells me that I look really angry or depressed
5 years ago yes, kind of. ever since i started lifting though, it's usually like 90% gay guys and old men that approach me.
i let the old men buy me a couple of drinks and i bail at the last minute but the younger gays are too smart for that.
not even memeing. the furthest i would go with another man is letting a trap suck my dick
Why do lookism incels always speak the same way, not just using the same terms but even the pronunciation, and have the same handful of gifs they use?
i recently got low bf%, slightly above ottermode fit and attractive, joined a club sports team at my university. got female attention for the first time in my life, several girls im pretty sure want me
not only do i not act on this knowledge, i do my best to keep up the facade that i dont know theyre attracted to me. i have no idea why i do this