Manhood (2)

I posted this on /r9k/ for advice.

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When does one "become a man", i am 19 and i feel and look like a child, i am 5.7 and i only weigh 110 pounds, i dont feel very masculine.

I dont even eat soy or drink tap water, i only eat organic food! Virgin btw.

How can i improve my situation for the better?

You will always be who you are. There is no sudden moment where you become someone different. You’re stuck with yourself, but you can change who you are through grit and determination. If you find that you are lacking in areas that you wish you excelled in, you can make the time to become proficient in them. You can become determined and do what you want, create your own path from your own desires. It only takes willpower. That is what being a man is about.

You have a few more years before your fate is sealed to become a soycunt for life.

How do i prevent becoming a "soycunt".

It's not too late to improve your physique, if you do your confidence will explode like a volcano. Being 110 pounds at 5'7 makes you a literal manlet skeleton, and you would be considered unfit even for a 14 year old. Consider eating a lot more, it's likely you haven't reached your full height potential just because of your diet. Find the willpower to work out before it's too late and you're stuck being Gollum for the rest of your life.

if you dont feel it by now. you need some testosterone injection

t. soyboy

Should i go to a doctor? is it that serious? i feel perfectly healthy.

>19
Boy, you ain't even old enough to drink, you've only been able to post on this shit heap for less than 2 years.
You
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My suggestion is go on a vision quest. Go on a road trip or study abroad or some shit. Only when you figure out what kind of man you want to be can you truly become a man.

>aggressive driving
>call people out on their bullshit
>stare at other males until they look away to establish dominance

The thing about diet is, my mother makes food everyday of the week, and usually it consists of pork chicken and wheat "noodles", along with assorted sides such as vegetables and other things.

And i snack alot, i eat alot of microwave meals as well.

Yeah that's true, but there is also the fact that there are dudes i know the same age as me, and the look like my fucking father, hell they are with at least 3 women every few months, women dont even LOOK at me.

You probably have very high metabolism or your mom feeds you like you're a fucking 7 year old. Just exercise and the calories will go towards building muscle instead of other things, then you will gain weight.

you just sound like a sadcunt

go out and live life. if you wanna gain, eat more and lift heavy using a PPL or something.

ignore meme's, educate yourself, broaden your views.

move out of moms

Yes, i can't gain weight seemingly.

Some guys just get lucky like that. Just cause you'll have to work harder to get on their level isn't an excuse to give up. Once you reach that level, you'll have an appreciation for hard work and grit

What? I became someone different. I feel like an adult and am ready to take on responsibilities I was afraid to take on before. I look better, get along with people better, and I have a place in the world when before I found no hope. It didn't happen until I was 23 though.

You only think you can't. I was in the same fucking boat when I was in middle school but I started gaining more weight when I lifted and exercised. As long as you're not Steven Hawking or have muscular dystrophy or some shit there's really no excuse for not leading an active lifestyle so that your body resembles something that actually looks like an adult male.

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You have to take risks because if you play it safe your entire life you might as well get off this board now. Real men aren't afraid of confrontation or risk, they attack situations head on. Never hesitate to do anything unless it compromises your or other's safety. Get into car accidents, fight your landlord, don't ever flinch, and always stand your ground. You absolutely MUST be or at least seem to be the smartest person in any group, be it at work or with your friends. That is how you earn the respect of your peers. Not everyone will like you, find out who immediately doesn't like you and make sure they never do. It's good to have enemies. Respect your elders and listen to their advice. Always engage in conversation with an old man whenever possible, learn what you can, and listen more than you speak. Stop watching porn and fap on occasion, just not everyday. Take cold showers and practice good breathing techniques. We all eat the same food yet some of us look like incels and others look like Chad. Be conscious of your good and bad habits. Faggot, in the end your mindset is all that matters.

I speak with my grandpa every weekend.
Solid alpha advice, cept' i only weigh 110, and pretty much every risk i could take would be dangerous to my health, one good slam and i'm fucking out sonny boy.

When I was 18 I was 5'10 and weighed 105. I'm 25 now, 5'11 and 183 lbs. Mind over matter and you will make it, user. You will fail more times than you will succeed.

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got a few more years

I've always been pretty on point, voice dropped ultra deep around 15. had a dad build due to rugby and eating gud for most of HS
had people mistake me for a 20 something when i was 17. Was not ID'd going into bars by 18 for the most part.
worked manual labor, landscaping, construction and running some sports camps most summers, currently working in the field for forestry.
I've been a man since before i was one legally.

Veeky Forums gonna give me shit for this but weed legit helped change into the person I was today. And no I don’t mean become a fucking pothead loser, I mean smoking 1-2 a week really helped me adopt a sort of “fuck it” or “roll with the punches” attitude which helped with confidence, as well as give me a more optimist outlook on normal shit like helping others or physical labor. I wouldn’t have started lifting if I smoking hadn’t just given me the push to relax and not be such a sperg.

Take the “be the smartest man in the room” part with a bit of moderation. If you’re not and you get caught bullshitting it’s cactus for you. Similarly if you’re so bombastic that you basically won’t listen to anyone else or appear to think you’re better than then it’s also cactus for you.

Same goes for the other shit he was spouting off about. Being a man is a lot of things but Veeky Forums is the last place I’d come to find answers.

This literally applies to every facet of life. People aren't born equal. On a similar note, just because someone else is born rich doesn't mean you should spend your life living in poverty without ever trying to get out.

My advice? Stop looking at other people as a way of gauging your own self-worth, everyone has a journey to go on: just don't be a fucking loser about it, make your own choices and learn as much as you can