Gf wants a threesome

>She was a virgin before we met
I've seen this problem with a couple girls who only ever have had one sexual partner. They feel like they haven't lived and wonder what they're missing.
Don't take it too personally. Yes, you might not be enough, but for some girls no one guy ever is enough because they want a chance to be freaky.
Don't listen to the people saying the relationship is fucked for sure, though. There is still some hope. But get ready to bail if you see other warning signs.

Walk away.

>There is still some hope.
Wow, people are still competing for the beta of the year award. I thought the season was over.

This is one of the reasons why I think that trying to wife a virgin is not always the best solution.
Full on used goods is trash, but I'm yet to meet a virgin girl that is not a complete moron and a blank slate or not a whorebomb waiting to blow.
A girl around your age that maybe had one or two partners is more likely to be not a complete fucktard, especially if someone broke her heart at some point.

drop her, she will cheap on you sooner than later.

>I know she was a virgin before we met
She's already fucked him I guarantee it, move on.

you have two choices
give in and have a mmf/mff threesome and 3 weeks later she'll ask you to do another one, repeat ad infinitum
or start thinking about how to drop her

sorry lad, shit sucks but odds are theres nothing you could have done and it wasnt you. some girls are just shitty like that and its hard to tell beforehand. hope your luck is better going forward, keep hittin the gym you're gonna make it

merry christmas

Thanks anons, I just messaged her saying we need to have a talk about last night. Going to meet up soon and get it over with.
On Christmas Day, nonetheless

You are a beta. You couldn't accept your partners potential (and understandable) fantasy, so you gave her verbal abuse and stormed away.

Additionally, you've made it about you by thinking she's implied you're not enough for her. ffs mate are you telling me you wouldn't love to fuck her brains out along with another fit girl?

tell us how it goes

>along with another fit girl
Learn to read, for a start.

Well OP, there are a few possibilities

1. She saw it in porn or somewhere and thinks it's hot
2. There's a specific man she wants in it
3. She wants to experience a different dicking

She's shit testing you

whatever the ch0n's telling you, do the opposite since they're 99% angsty teens without life experience.

your gf is a whore

jump off the ship

Hearty kek
No offseason for the Betas

I'll break it down for the "speicials". I was asking OP to put himself in his partners position, to imagine himself being with his partner and another fit girl. I'd be very surprised if this did not appeal to him.

Why should it be any different for his partner to fantasize about being with 2 attractive members of the opposite sex at the same time.

>if you don't let another guy have sex with your girlfriend you're a beta

regardless of whether or not she is a whore. If you feel like she really ment it, then gtfo. Best option. You seem to be a more conservative, loyal type than she is. Generally doesnt mix well.

On a side note: As many other posts suggest, she IS a whore in many peoples value systems; in mine too.

Bull shit. You're a beta for not understanding the fantasy and giving your partner verbal abuse. You can say "no".

What alpha male storms away from his partner? A fucking insecure weasel, that's who.

F
Now sage

DESU OP Id get it out of her if she has anyone in mind, if she says yes it means she's already thought of someone to cheat on you, still unacceptable and you should dump her but if she's thinking of a friend of yours she might of already cheated

>whatever the ch0n's telling you, do the opposite
does this include your own post?

>I freaked out and called her a whore
>It's like I'm not enough for her
>I gotta run to an Iranian pube-scultping board for advice
Clearly this is the superior response of a secure alpha male.

Agree, but make it a ffm, even if you have to hire a prostitute. Let her have her fantasy, but in your terms and to your advantage.

But yeah, she probably has cheated you already.

It doesn’t appeal to me, I’d never want my girl to see me fucking another woman. Imagine being a long term relationship with a girl. Watching another guy fuck her. Then having to wake up with her the next morning. Shits weird and degenerate

This happened to my bro. He and his hs sweetheart were in a relationship for 5 years or so and she cut it off. feels bad, they were very serious (lived together) and everyone thought they were going to get married :(

here's what you do op
>meet to talk with her about last night
>seem really pissed still
>give in to threesome but make her agree to mff first because you're worried mmf will damage the relationship
>have your threesome with two chicks
>immediately dump your now ex gf
>possibly start banging the new chick introduced in the threesome
>?????
>profit

>My girlfriend recently mentioned she “might be interested in a threesome in the future.” When I asked with a girl or guy, she said either but preferably another guy. I freaked out and called her a whore and left, haven’t spoken to her since last night.
>I’m 6’2, not big by Veeky Forums standards but definitely have a “muscular” body type. I’m not beta in attitude either, really. What do I do? I know she was a virgin before we met. What do I do? Why did she propose this?
Ah, classic Veeky Forums. Your burning insecurities are instantly triggered by even the suggestion that you might be left as "the quiet little kid in the corner" by your gf. Your first and only defense is to make reference to your height and build. Grow a pair of balls (sadly there's no machine in the gym for that)

Have you been dating your girlfriend for 1 or 6 months?

You're trying way too hard, cuck/roastie. She wants to fuck another guy (or already has), plain and simple.
She's comfy in the relationship for what it brings to her, but needs more dick. Preferably Bavarian.

kek seconding this

Break up with her before she cheats on you

Well, it appears we have a master among us.

Yeah those are actual problems! instead of thinking "oh I'm not enough for her", you've brought potential relationship breaking problems to the argument. which is far more mature and understanding than calling her a whore.

Almost 2 years

Whore culture took her. She regrets not fucking more people before settling down. It's over man, she has the mind virus. Leave.

>When I asked with a girl or guy
>I’m not beta in attitude either, really.
Cucksoyboi-manlet, fuck outta here with your low quality bait.

Wtf are you talking about
Why would any self respecting man let his girlfriend have sex with another guy
Who gives a shit if it's a fantasy.

This obviously
Take dick pills so you can bang em both equally
This kind of things dont happen oftenly.. You got one shot. Will you capture it? Or let it slip?

Wow, fit is such a toxic environment for people. It fucking blows my mind how insecure some people can be.

Some people are into that shit just like how some people are into foot fetishes. But it's either okay with you or its not okay with you.

T. Was in an open relationship and a lot of my friends are poly in the west coast. It's not about "not being enough"... Sometimes it's more about the excitement. If you fuck her well enough, she always comes back to you until she doesn't.

We fucked other people but were secure enough to know that it was purely physical. Not saying you need to do that, but the knee-jerk response from fit is so pathetic...

This is why people should search for soul mates with their fucking brain, and not by some retarded infographs posted on Veeky Forums.
You need a girl that is not a fucking moron, is conservative, is clingy and is hot first and foremost.
Shit like
>Durr she must be a virgin and I must be 5 years older than her
Almost never works in modern society because there is too much temptation around. If she is not a developed person yet, she might end up being a fucking moron and then you are stuck for life with a retarded whore that will feel sad eventually and will cheat on you.

Worse than being a whore, she's an insecure selfish whore. She's trying to climb the tree but wants to hang on to two branches at once for her own safety.

Wtf does he have to be secure about brainlet.
His girlfriend told him DIRECTLY to his face that she fantasies about having sex with another man

Either this or do a 360 degree turn and walk away

This. Lmao.

I am not against that shit, but it will never result in a stable family.
If you are in an open relationship you should know that this will never be your wife, and if you will wife her it will be a disaster.
Marriage is about creating smart and beautiful children in a good environment above all else, you need a faithful wife with similar morals, who also happens not to be a fucking tard.

t. Disgusting Degenerate

Inb4 /pol/, I'm not actually /pol/ at all, but you sound revolting, as do your friends

Then it's not her fantasy you Mongoloid.

>yeah, you can do what you want. Except not how you want but how I want.

There IS another option but only the bravest could pull it off...

Accept the threesome and do one of 2 things:

1) go full homo and completely put off the guy

2) do the threesome but fully alpha up on the guy, make him insecure and on edge and you'll have more appeal

Which part of the fantasy am I not understanding?
Care to explain?

Rape the guy in front of her to assert dominance then invite him to a deadlift competition

I vote for this power play right here

How old are you/is she?

gotcha beta boy fuck back off to Cuck-o-fornia

This OP, is your only real option.

>"I have a lot of degenerate friends on the west coast, therefore it's ok to be degenerate"

I'm not sure I agree. I have friends in the west coast who have a stable family. Unorthodox dynamic for sure, but the kids are healthy and mentally okay. What ends up in poly culture is that they end up having multiple environments but are raised in more love than tradition ones because everyone's a fucking hippie.

Marriage can be whatever the fuck the person wants it to be as it's 2017.

Btw, there are plenty of swingers, swaps, etc. Marriages that are healthy. Kink is an interesting world and the people that are really into it are generally pretty secure.

Well, if she said "either" suggest doing it first with another girl. Cum over both of their faces and dump her right after that

>Cuck your gf's bull with her right in front of him
I like the way you think.

You're going to try delude yourself.
Don't do it.
Leave her now.

Yeah I've always been critical of that sort of stuff because of this. It's not just Veeky Forums, you see it everywhere. Fucking autists projecting their fantasies. Not defending roastie's or anything, it's just how it is unfortunately. Had my bro pretty fucking depressed for a while. It's okay though because she wasn't that great or anything.

I don't even think being attractive is that big of a deal. I definitely think you should get some who is around the same level of attractiveness as you though - never discount yourself, or inversely shoot for some thottie who's way outta your league.

I do think you should find someone who is, first and foremost, sensible. Like someone you want have to explain trivial shit to. There's a sam hyde video where he talks about how unideal it is to have a gf/wife who is too stupid to do basic, everyday shit.
>honey can you make me a coffee?
>uhhhh I don't know how to do dat blah blah blah
fuck that man

>let another dude bang your gf man it makes you more secure lole!
The absolute state of America

It's that or leave, the only two options.

Let the guy suck her tits while you fuck her.

Nice taste my man, Cara Buono has such a hot mouth.

Sounds like child abuse but ok

your relationship is over. she has already cheated on you. this is her way of trying to make it alright.

> Marriage can be whatever the fuck the person wants it to be as it's 2017.
> Current year => human institutions of previous years have no meaning outside of the heads of individuals anymore

Retarded logic my friend

You already called her a whore, and you were a 100% right. Doesn't matter if she was a virgin, I had two virgins as gfs and they both turned out to be whores. Just leave the roastie, she'll have her threesomes in her twenties, hit the wall in her thirties, and regret being a whore for the rest of her life. Assuming, of course, that she has even a bit of self-awareness, which, admittedly, isn't guaranteed.

Fuck the dude in front of her the entire time.

I've never had a gf until now because of that exact reason.
I honestly can not imagine sharing my time or even worse, living, with a person that I consider to be a moron and beneath me.
What is the point? if you just want a thotie, fucking a thotie, you don't have to fucking give her that much time and effort.
I partially believe that only retarded people act that way in the first place, because I feel fucking ill when I have to spend too much time with people that are obviously infantile or stupid as fuck.
I had this funny shit last summer, there is this girl in Ukraine who has liked me ever since we were kids, I'm 21 now and she is 18. She is an alright gal, attractive and everything, she is also generally smart but when I talk to her I feel like I am talking to a fucking child because of the way she perceives and reacts to shit. My aunt was trying to get us together because her parents are rich as fuck, but this is literally a recepie for disaster, who the fuck knows what kind of a person she will develop into? I sure as hell don't and I don't want to wait 2+ years for her to stop acting like a child.
People who want retarded vegetable super young GF's are insecure as fuck.
Now, I don't have something against young girls intrinsically, if you find a 18 year old virgin who is on the same level of intellect as you and has same morals as you and is also super hot, you've literally got yourself a jackpot, but that shit almost never happens.

>feminists are stupid and men's masculinity is NOT fragile

This board is full of depressed degenerates; who cares if she wants to have a threesome. She respected the relationship and did the right thing by having a conversation with her partner about her desires. If its not your game, then just say you're not into it and go from there. Its sad that you couldn't even keep your feeble mind in check from calling your girlfriend (who trusted you enough to confide these feelings) a whore.

And you hypocrites would be on cloud nine if your girl let you fuck other girls to no consequence

>Tell her that you overreacted and weren't sensitive enough to her sexual needs.
>Say that you'll do MFF just to try it out and if you can be comfortable with that, you'll do MMF.

Fuck the other girl without touching girlfriend at all, bust all over girlfriend, put pants on... leave.

BTW, she is already fucking somebody else be you giver her financial stability.

She already cheated, and is trying to hamster it away by letting him "cheat" on her in turn. It's women logic 101.

lol I’m from California, the only people like this are rich/preppy white folks. You are definitely going to get cucked, men always do in open relatonships. It’s “purely physical” for you the guy, “your” wife is still shopping around looking for a better man. You think “your” wife is gonna stay with you if she sleeps with someone richer and better (which she will)

>if you find a 18 year old virgin who is on the same level of intellect as you and has same morals as you and is also super hot,

I got one but im also pretty good looking and rich myself so it figures

This is just paranoia, you should see a mental health professional. You cant have a successful relationship if youre constantly assuming the worst, trust is important

I think I finally found my girl, there are a lot of problems but she is the only girl I've ever felt like myself with.
Good luck to you and your gf user and props to your parents for building a proper capital for their children, hope you will not waste that shit.

Pretty good indicator she's found someone else and is trying to do the "right thing" (for herself) by having her cake and eating it too.

DESU if your gf lets you openly fuck outside the relationship, it means she doesn't care anymore. (Because she's getting some dick on the side.)

>bragging on Veeky Forums
That’s how you know someone is lying about what they have lel

This is basic self-preservation, reasonable caution and a perfectly logical assumption given what is known of female sexuality, their complete lack of internalised morality, and the state of Western society.

Enjoy your poly "relationships", you cuckold. Don't come here crying when you're stuck with paying child support for a niglet that the courts don't care isn't even yours, and alimony to a cheating whore.

same dude here
Yeah me too. I pretty much agree with everything you've said lmao.

>who the fuck knows what kind of a person she will develop into? I sure as hell don't and I don't want to wait 2+ years for her to stop acting like a child
Something I've thought about a fair bit (and this is just a stupid \ autistic theory) is that you shouldn't make any permanent decision to be with a woman until she's 25. My theory is that because the pre-frontal cortex doesn't mature until then you have no way of knowing what they will finally crystallize into. This is pretty interesting to me, because my dad used to tell me something similar about how women peak around 26 and they are best around that age give or take a few years. It might sound like some goofy shit, but he and my mother have been together for around 30 years without many hiccups. She's also very close to being as intelligent as him and they make meaningful conversation pretty much every day. He was older than her when they met, but I believe she was around that age bracket.

Be careful but this is an option. Dumping is non negotiable though.

That's a leap of logic with no evidence. Sounds to me like insecurity. If you assume your girl is cheating on you because of a statement like this, your relationship wasnt built on trust from the start and it was doomed to end badly regardless

go back to rleddit scum

Your fault for dating a virgin. Of course she's going to want to explore her sexuality and push the bounds, you can't just fuck one person for your entire life idiot.

> If she cared before and doesn't care now, something's changed.
> If she cared about your fidelity before and doesn't care now, something's changed wrt fidelity.
This shit isn't hard.