Why are you so insecure Veeky Forums?

Why are you so insecure Veeky Forums?

bcuz ugly :(

bc bitch tits (aka gyno)

This

I'm afraid I won't ever be able to relate to other people because I don't like or do things normal people do.

Because I'm a fat soyboy.

Cause 5'10 manlet

skinny calves 2bh

years of bullying and child abuse :333

>no chin
>not white teeth
>5"5 dick
>khv

Because I'm not good enough, and I'll never be good enough, but at least I can relish in the temporary feeling of progression before I wither away from this pointless existence.

broke and manlet. that's about it.

>5"5 dick
I know the feeling user

i dont seem to get the validation other people do i assume that there is something in play that makes it that way, and because i cant figure out what it is i feel insecure about the most things i have become conscious of

I hate being 5'8". Feel pretty small compared to my friends that are mostly 6'0" or taller.

I have a big forehead coupled with per-mature balding. I started balding at 15.

Basically I'm ugly, but I've seen uglier dudes getting prettier girls.

I just have to overcome my social autism and fear of being called a rapist for kissing a girl in a risky situation.

Because I'm in a bucket full of crabs.

short, small dick, low test, basically a soyboy who doesnt want to be a soyboy.

Skin problems :( I have severe eczema and scars all over my body. My dermatitis spikes periodically and randomly and can go from barely noticeable to very bad

The eczema never reached my face and I don't think my face is ugly. I work out and i have a nice physical shape 34-24-36. But the truth is I don't like looking at my body even if im fit because I hate looking at my skin. I hate seeing my skin. I'm honestly always terrified men will be disgusted when they see my skin. It makes me really depressed :(

i have a 1' dick

Am still fat, literally the only thing holding me back, the more weight I'm losing the better life gets, I'm gonna make it guys.

how old are you user?

visiting pol/

I'm a nigger

Girl down the street raped me in my youth and told me nobody would ever want me

Why are you projecting, user?

This :3
>also fat and ugly

20 so it's not a puberty thing. I just have it and have to live with it. Allergic to tons of foods and dust and animals and even trees

>gril raped me
holy fuck how much of a cuck you are?

Never had any good friends

>abusive parenting
>social exclusion, mainly self-inflicted but I tell myself everyone hates me anyway

It goes back to being bullied and criticized by the people who are meant to love you

IN
MY
YOUTH!

The two main reasons are:
1) I can objectively judge my own attractiveness and how people perceive me
2) I easily notice the different cues people give me when I interact with them compared to when a more attractive person interacts with them

I'm a ftm tranny and my hips are really wide. I fixed my chest, I can fix my bits, but there's no surgery to make my hips narrow so I just have to deal with it. Seeing biological men who have wide hips makes me feel slightly better.

I look around me and see all these couples and feel bad for not having a gf. I see 15yos together and know that they are fucking and that I never had at this age, now it's too late for me to experience having careless sex while still in HS with my gf. The thought of it torments me every day. Knowing that I only did vidya back when I was a teenager and fapped to porn, that so many people have experienced what I never will. Now I lift, talk to qts, socialize, it's been like that for a while. And no matter how good I do with girls, deep down I know that I'm lacking something so basic.

My gf cheated on me two months ago and I still had to live with her up until a few weeks ago. The daily emotional and mental abuse took its toll and now I have severe anxiety and zero self esteem.

>peacefully sitting in my room doing homework
>she bursts into my room and starts yelling at me
>"I hope you always get cheated on you piece of shit, you're way too short for me anyways the other guy I had sex with was so much better than you"
>few weeks after that she asks me to leave the house so she could bring the guy over to fuck
>I tell her word for word "im not a killer but dont push me"
>she flips again and begins the name calling and saying im short, etc

I can't really talk to girls now. I used to be the center of attention at parties and social gatherings since I was a funny guy and everyone loved hanging around me. Now I can barely stand to look someone else in the eye.

Fuck you Anna, I'll bounce back from this harder than ever.

Basic? The majority of people lose their virginity at 18 or 19 in college not high school. And trust me, you do NOT want to be a girls first relationship in this age. She will eventually leave/cheat on you after she hears about her friends and how much dick they are getting from Tinder and all else. Virgins are hideously overrated, you'll understand after your first heartbreak user.

How tall are you?

>poor
>severe self esteem issues
>5"2 dick
>5'8 height
>POOR
>bullying
>abuse
my whole life was set up to fail, I try to make a change but it never works. Im about to invest in the 9mm problem solver

GO FUCK THE WORLD user YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT BITCH WHORE WHO HAS TO SCREAM AT YOU BECAUSE SHE IS THAT INSECURE.

5'11

why would you complain about having an average sized dick

got cheated on too, I know it's the most painful thing you probably have experienced till now. some anons on /adv/ wrote that it hurt them more than the suicide of a friend or the deaths of their parents.

If you want an approximate timeframe, provided that she's gone for good and you've blocked all her shit, give it a year and you'll be the fun guy again.

you'll make it dude be patient

media, porn, and one particular girl when i was growing up skewed my image of a "average" dick so now im just constantly self conscious, plus this site as a whole shames anyone with a dick below 7 inches. There's no escape

Not 5'11 that wasn't me I'm 5'10

Thanks to the other anons for the kind words, we are all gonna make it

>fat
>ugly
>started losing my hair at age 12
>I'm bad at the very few I actually enjoy doing

story please, sounds hot as fuck

>oh no i had to have sex b4 my wittle peepee was ready for the hardness
unless she gave you an anal pounding or was a fucking whale then you were blessed you lucky faggot

Poor as fuck
Terrible social skills
But I'm working everyday to fix these problems. Luckily other than those two things I'm pretty well off very healthy 5/10 looks which is getting better as I become more fit

>still overweight after 6 months of cutting
>spent a lot of money on getting driving licence
>failed 4 times already
>failed 4 times on first year of college
>unironically don't know what to do
>no money to start any business
Everything is so shallow. There is nothing value in this world to put hands into.

nobody cares. You fell into Veeky Forums meme
I had so-called friends. They aren't worth any time.
get any job. Extra points when it is sales job.

>5'11 Manlet
>lazy eye
>IBD, have to know where toilet is at any given point

>6'2 with decent genetics and a good face
>gyno and nonwhite teeth
>whyl ive

I like your attitude senpai

im ugly and overweight

>6 ft
>p good shape
>really nice face
>pretty fucking awkward and introverted
I still get laid sometimes but i'm a huge waste of attractiveness

like attractiveness has any value in this numb world

Stories like these are the reason why I can't get emotionally invested in anyone anymore. People seem nice and all until they suddenly backstab you for no apparent reason.

Bad Gpa. 5'7. Black as fuck.

this + gyno + 5'9

I was raped
twice
by girls.

so much this. I just become detached, cant seem to bond to anyone or anything, I dont do it on purpose

gyno, literally got social anxiety and fucked up life

Weird overprotective mom. Would praise me for literally nothing and whenever I tried to try something new she'd say no it's dangerous. I wound up just staying inside watching TV and playing games for my entire youth and college.

ez surgery and whitening your teeth is possible

Because I’m 5’2 and not a 6’5 Amazonian braphog to shove a masochistic bodybuilder bf down and do whatever I like with them.

Oh, and trauma.

used to be a fat kidthen I lost weight and started lifting. Now i have a good physique but I can never take off my shirt anywhere because I got stretch marks on my shoulders, thighs and back due to puberty and weight loss. I'm tall, fit, decent looking, and I get lots of attention from girls but I'm too insecure because of these things. Fuck guys I was so close to making it

Does your mother know she raised a degenerate waste of life?

JUST-tier jaw/chin

Ex-gf told me I'm not as hot as any of her guy friends even though I'm in better shape than all of them. I broke up with her a week later and she started dating a nigger a week later that she probably smashed while we were dating. I guess I came out better in the long run because, as always, she PAID THE TOLL and he keyed her car and has a restraining order served now. We broke up 6 months ago and I haven't even gotten my dick wet since then ;_;

Not cool
Engineering major makes me realize I'm not that smart either
Am a nigger
Ugly
Not 90 lbs
Being molested + used sexually for many years eradicated any shred of self esteem
Bullying

then tell me how bad it was mister cause this is usually every kids dream. Unless youre gay

jeez and I sometimes think my life is bad. keep going bro

because my LTR won't have sex with me,
been together for a year, she has some emotionally trammatic stuff happen to her when she was younger, so I know it's not just me. She has had BFs in the past that she never had sex with.
Makes me feel very insecure, but god I love her so much, honestly feel like I've found my soul mate with her. Sex and the feeling of being desired is something that Is very important to me, but I would follow this woman til the end of the earth.
Can't say that I don't feel insecure about the situation though

yiff in hell, bitch.

Because I am the bucket
I can't help but keep people around me from progressing, always telling them they're doing good and correcting them only when I'm sure to be better than them
This is keeping me up at night, I'm ashamed of what I am but I can't help it

if you haven't had sex, I'm afraid you are not in a romantic relationship

she likely won't be changing anytime soon user

you sound like a decent guy user, be honest

do you think you might be in this relationship due to co-dependence and the fact that her being unavailable physically somehow makes it safer due to the lack of real intimacy?\

I know this is armchair psychology, but what you're describing doesn't sound healthy or sustainable

honestly a lot of what you said sounds true,
I have felt so much heartbreak in this relationship from my insecurity. I wish everyday that we could be physical. But I love her and the type of person she is, she is like one of the guys in a group.
It really doesn't feel like a full healthy relationship sometimes, but her friends and family have told me that she tries harder with me than she did with any of the other guys that came before me. and her friends have told me before that "I am the best thing that has ever walked into her life". her family joked that they were gonna kick her ass if she ever broke up with me. I love my time with her and I think that shes the most beautiful girl I've ever met. just the first time I've seen her, it just hit me with an energy I could never forget. But honestly the feeling of not having that physical intimacy really makes me feel awful and insecure about myself. I am still in my early 20s, and I have a chance to be with someone that I sincerly love, if it works out then I have something great, and if not, oh well, hopefully I'll be fit and will make a killing off my potential crypto portfolio

also I feel like we are a little codependent on each other. Most of her friends moved away, so she comes to me during most of her free time, and I've always kinda needed a relationship to make me feel fulfilled.
I actually feel the lack of intimacy has made the relationship feel less safe , because I feel like wihout intimacy there isn't attraction, so it could be all be ended quickly

0 social skills

Because i want to look like a feminine guy but i know that in order to achieve that id have to completely starve myself, stop lifting and probably destroy every social connection i have in my life

I’m insecure because I don’t have confidence in myself. It’s why I’m so indesicive, which makes me look like a fucking cuck sometimes. But I’m slowly working on it. I remember not to overthink situations in my head. Sometimes I act before I think but then what would chad do? It actually works sometimes.

I don't know.
I'm tall, white, I'm told I'm good looking often enough, girls start conversations at the club. Yet I'm still this spaghetti ball who only fucked once with little to no social skills

Because I'm extremely judgemental and self-righteous and as a result assume that people by default dislike.

This. I judge myself harshly, therefore, I judge others harshly

its definitely the 40+ hours of anime I consume every week.

Iktfb. I used to be fat and I thought they would go away if I lost weight, but now they just stick out more. I hate wearing a patterned shirt and seeing it warp around my tits.

I used to be 160lbs at 6'4 from 17-20 and got fucked with and intimidated. I bulked up to to 225lbs, and now I'm at 200lbs and a blue belt in BJJ. I'm way more confident in that regard (confrontation with other males) but that mentality of being a skinny weak pussy still shows up sometimes even though I can wreck 260lb dudes in the gym.

I had three somewhat long relationships from 17-22, all super attractive girls but none ended well. In 2 years I haven't got a gf or gotten laid because I have really bad acne scars on my back or chest and I'm to insecure to have a one night stand out of fear of the girl freaking out about it. I've had a couple opportunities to lay the pipe but didn't because of this. And a bunch of dates, either where I didn't feel anything towards the girl, or I did and they didn't want to keep going out.
In the meantime I find solace in working out and training hard, and self-improvement.