Mentioned to my gf that im getting fatter, that I love eating out with her and boozing and cooking, but that I am gonna make a diet to drop weight.
She Then told me "youre acting like a girl" to which I called her out for, she has Mentioned before that shes a feminist etc and now she's insulting me implying dieting or eating less is something a woman does... They love their feminism but they want to be sexist when ever they feel like too, they want you to pay for meals, go pick her up and drop her off in your car etc
I feel like I Cant even talk to her about dropping weight because she thinks thats proper for a girl, Why the fuck even talk then If youre gonna be critized for everything?
Now im not even texting her, went radio silence so she knows im not tolerating bs behavior, id rather be someone who gets angry than a Doormat. Thoughts?
Josiah Peterson
>went radio silence so she knows im not tolerating bs behavior
alpha bro move not girl-like at all
Jose Miller
You made the right move, user. Don't let your gf's hypocrisy get in the way of you making healthy decisions about your life.
Jose Gutierrez
Thanks bro
Oliver James
Should have went like this: >you're acting like a girl >if wanting to be in shape is acting like a girl maybe you should try acting like a girl, too
Adam Phillips
Why not, its a punishment for bad behavior. Its saying kay im gonna go do my shit without you
Hudson Russell
Damn thats good. Might use it still
Jace Jenkins
it's a passive-aggressive bitch move usually used by teenage girls
Connor Harris
I dont Care, im honestly fed up with it and rather watch a movie and jerk off than hang out with her desu
Josiah Evans
Sounds like you can't really say "kay im gonna go do my shit without you"
Post boipucci
Jeremiah Morris
Its literally as If some women dont want you to be fitter because its dangerous for her, other girls might be interested
Lucas Flores
I am a woman and literally know NO other woman who are like that. What has happened? What timeline is this? Am I that old? In my world the girls always followed the boys, always. I think if you can lay down the law and still be loving she might come around, but I honestly don't know anymore...
Evan Lopez
>dating a self proclaimed feminist boi
Isaac Fisher
I know...
Owen Allen
Use this strife in your relationship as an opportunity to dominate it. Get in better shape, tell her she could use to work out too and lead by example
Nathaniel Ward
You’re totally acting like a girl though, it’s so cringeworthy. You should have just said “fitness is important to me”. And nothing else on the subject. Stop acting like a bitch while you still have time, or be ready to do better on your next gf.
Caleb King
OP listen to this nigga.
Joshua Watson
the fact that you've made this thread to complain and not outright dropped her tells me you're beta
Kayden Powell
>I am a woman
Damn, why did that turn me on?
Carson Cox
Your gf is insecure about her weight. Just do your thing and fuck what she things, not wanting your partner to improve is bullshit.
Kevin Ortiz
You'll always be a doormat with that attitude
Also if you date a feminist they'll always view you as a lower being as long as you are male
Julian Williams
>have dubs in a thread with a female commenter goodbye humanity
Michael Allen
Two great light skinned twins once said that no one is going to appreciate the work you've done in the gym except for other gym goers and gay guys
Brayden Wood
This. There's no argument to be had. If a girl tells you that you're "acting like a girl" it's a 90% chance that they're just fucking with you. I'd never take that seriously. Your own fitness is your goal and most people aren't going to understand
Connor Price
>this
Brody Harris
I think I see where you went wrong >you talked to her about it Too any people talk about the wrong things too much. Yesterday I was at a reverse vending machine and the woman in front of my said “I’m going to be a while, I need to do this so I can afford bread” Why did she even need to mention the part about not having enough for food otherwise?
Christian Johnson
Like your response did to me.
Eli Jenkins
Don't let her make decisions about your body and health for you. You want to be a sick cunt? Be a sick cunt. Guarantee if you're willing to put in the work and accept help like a man then Veeky Forums will support you every step of the way. If she tries to bring you down and sabotage you then the first bit of weight you need to drop is her.
Noah Nguyen
>went radio silence
Sounds like you really are a girl, OP.
Being passive aggressive is the absolute most beta thing you can do.
You know who can't clearly articulate what they want out of relationships? Women and children.
Daniel Wright
To be fair, you sound really feminine. She's probably the man in your couple you lil emotional bitch.
Julian Cooper
She's wrong, you're not acting like a girl. You're acting like a bitch.
Nolan Ortiz
>I feel like I Cant even talk to her she sounds lovely
Jack Bell
you are angry because you assume girls are capable of logical thought. They are not
Isaac Thompson
yeah you're acting like a fucking woman OP, most of all complaining about relationships on an imageboard instead of sorting your shit out proper go get fucked by men, you'd enjoy it more
Jayden Barnes
You do you.
Jordan Taylor
>Ever showing any weakness to them >Not realizing she's insecure of losing you
Just lose the weight and don't mention it to her
Zachary Miller
>western "women" in 2011+7
not even once lmao
Christopher Parker
Hard to do when they probably eat out 3+ times a week.
Austin Mitchell
women are gains goblins, op, and they can't help it. the first thing they do when they get in a relationship is try and make their dude fat and it's up to you to control your household and refuse to let her steal your gains.
they do it because they love you and they don't want you to be able to leave. they can't help it; it's their nature. but still it's up to you to keep your gains and not let her take them
Jose Flores
>talking to your woman about what you’re going to do instead of doing it because she’s barely sentient and just ignoring her because again she’s barely human
Julian Turner
I do that tho and managed to drop quite a bit.
No >Burgers, fries, fried food Yes >Salads, wraps, fruit cup
Pretty much just looked at the menu, found the lowest cal/highest fiber 3 items and picked my favorite