Cum relatively quickly in the first round

>cum relatively quickly in the first round
>can't cum at all in the second

Every fucking time. What causes this? How do I fix myself?

You trained your body through years of fapping to only last a single round. It is too late.

edge more faggot

what's the problem. you don't want to cum the second round...so long as you can get hard. what you have is the ideal. you fuck. quickly get yours, and then fuck her til she gets hers. whats saying you have to cum the second time.

it's called a refractory period, dumb shit.

While this sounds perfect it doesn't work if your girl is actually a female. If they can't get you to cum it makes them feel like shit, ruins their confidence etc etc.

But I can cum more than once fapping?

Fuck that, I make them cum 2-3 times and I get to cum once? It makes sex horribly boring. Also this

but she already did make you cum... at least in this make believe scenario you're talking about. this makes no sense you're saying you care that you cum too quick the first time? if not for her sake then why? if you could care less about her b/c you're "bored" then wgaf anyway. cum once and be done with the damn thing. if you do care about her then go a second round and stop once she cums too

sounds like you need some communication in your relationship. or at least some bs communication. ex: "baby you're soo beautiful you make me cum so quick but I want to go again because I love you and I want you to be pleasured too. Idk what it is but I've never been able to cum a second time in a row but I can get hard and pleasure you and that's all that matters to me"

OK, sure, i agree, "fuck that". it sucks balls that women can multiple orgasm but men cannot. doesn't change the fact that it's a biological reality.

from wikipedia:
>According to some studies, 18-year-old males have a refractory period of about 15 minutes, while those in their 70s take about 20 hours, with the average for all men being about half an hour.[15]

it varies from guy to guy and increases with age. viagra and optimizing test levels through diet, rest, and regular exercise will help. probably best to edge and learn how to last longer the first go around, though.

I don't know, my friends don't seem to have this problem.

>it varies from guy to guy
>my friends don’t have this problem
That’s because you’re a different person you fucking imbecile.

So I'm an outlier then?

Yes

Time to kys then, I guess.

my refractory period is long as fuck too op. my problem is that after I get over not cumming right away it is difficult for me to cum at all

yeah no, they wont look at it like that m8.

>can only cum to luv

>Can't cum at all during sex if I fap daily
>Nut within 3 minutes if I nofap

Those pornstars who can nut on command are gods.

Here's the thing though, I have low sensitivity even on the first time. This chick was blowing me yesterday day and I barely felt it, and once I put the condom on it was gg. I only blew my load in normal time because I hadn't fucked anything in months. The only time I've ever had decent sex was with a qt virgin I had gf-ed. I guess I'm a fag who needs lots of foreplay.

foreplay is fun though. not so much if you don't know the person well, but maybe that's me and my inhibitions

>Even getting it up for a second round
I have only been able to do this like twice in my life. Once I cum, I'm down for the count for at least 4-6 hours.

>Refractory period
>15 min
>Amerimutt detected

Then you keep gettin tired as fuck while she rides you for 15 min while you cant come, I have the same problem.

>Get tired
>She rides

t. virgin

LOW TEST

Actually it's dangerously high. It's been causing mental health issues for almost a decade now since I finished puberty.

They use fake penors user.

>tfw cant cum unless I love the girl
had a couple of one night stand things in my life and everytime I can't cum and even have trouble staying/getting hard
never had this problem with a girlfriend