Is anyone else a bitter and blackpilled ugly male? I am. Everything I do every day is tinged with the knowledge that I'm treated like shit due to my awful looks. And all my nostalgic memories feel the same way. Never having friends in university, never going to any parties when I went to school or university, and so on.
It's not an issue you see in the mainstream media, with its relentless propaganda. Ugly males who are social failures can turn even the biggest Marxist in to a just world Randian. "It's not because of your ugliness or my good looks! It's because of your laziness and my hard work!"
I am stuck in a bind to be honest. Caring too much about the thoughts of others is demoralising. I don't want to humiliate myself in public by trying to socialise. Every single activity, reading, lifting weights, turns in to a dominance hierarchy with its own form of work. But if I think for myself and ignore the useless noise, I suddenly have no motivation.
Background: >aged 21 >manlet >no friends or social life since 12 >no female attention ever >went through university with zero social experiences >became the loner nobody talks to within two days of my current job >never been to a bar, club, or party >missed out on all the 16 - 22 formative social experiences that people look back on fondly (teen crushes, school prom, school dances, university fresh week, any sort of relationships at all) >know that women all have 5000 tinder matches and think the average male is ugly; seeing attractive women everywhere is demoralising >feel completely bitter and detached from others due to being an ugly subhuman; lifting weights did nothing
Henry Gutierrez
what's your height?
if you're ugly you can still be intimidating so people won't mess with you. If you're below something like below 6' then you can't
Michael Ramirez
Go back to your lookism trash heap, incel. The only thing you bring is negativity. You're too low even for this Somalian farming forum.
Alexander Perry
>what's your height? 5'10-11 >if you're ugly you can still be intimidating so people won't mess with you. I scare them away plenty >If you're below something like below 6' yes
Andrew Bennett
You're just 21, you still have your whole life ahead of you. Get plastic surgery, work on your psychological problems and you can live life (almost) normally. You're probably narcissistic too, thinking you deserved to look good or something. Maybe you won't get a girlfriend, but having friends has little to do with being ugly.
Brayden Robinson
Just need to grow up kid, no advice needed
Robert Watson
Post body manlet. You say lifting did nothing but that doesn't seem possible. I know a 6ft lanklet with a head that looks like the doctor squeezed him like a tube of gogurt when he was birthed. Diet + exercise got him a six pack and he has a new 3-6/10 spread eagle on his bed every other month. Did you really lift user,or did you just go to the gym?
Nicholas Sanders
Ha >be me >white male with good facial aesthetics and naturally muscular body >girls are always hitting on me But because I have severe autism, I avoid and ignore all women like the plaque. Never asked a girl out and turned down all girls that asked me out. It's all my fault that I'm still a virgin.
Colton Young
I'm not the prettiest dude around and I missed out on most of the "formative" experiences people talk about but I've had my own formative experiences both good and bad that have made me who I am today and I wouldn't have any other way. Stop taking these stupid pills anons; you don't need them.
Jayden Morris
nah man, i'm ugly too with the big nose and weak chin, but i'm charming and funny as hell. it gets you laid and you'll never have to settle for anything less than a 7/10.
i'm also 6'2" though so idk, good luck if you're any shorter
Gabriel Myers
how do i become funny?
Luke Williams
Being ugly sucks sorry user
But Veeky Forums how do I get with this qt3.14? She messaged me first
Pls help
Ethan Russell
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Adrian Reed
Ugly dudes should smile and be more over the top happy it’s literally was one of my old mates did and he had trillions of friends he was literally like 5,6 and not that great looking maybe he wasn’t all thst ugly but my gf at the time thought he was and I’m just saying the guy had a positive attitude and he had a lot more of a social life than me.
Noah Green
nope im a chad 5'9 manlet with a 9/10 gf and i lift 1/2/3/4 and make over 100k/yr so im pretty happy
Aaron Gomez
>aged 21
Christopher Jackson
>qt
Jayden Thomas
ur one rep max
Elijah Clark
kv agdq is shit this year
Jonathan Perez
"Want a banana?"
Its ez dude.
Benjamin Edwards
I'm legit hideous and p irrevocably blackpilled, but I gotta admit, I'm not that unhappy. I do everything I want (lifting) and live a comfy life. I troll a lot about lookism stuff and my own looks, but I've honestly come to terms with it for the most part. I made the balding thread on here when I know that I'm legit not balding lol, and another thread raging at people about looks.
Honestly bro, just give it up. Just relax. You're ugly, I'm ugly, we will never have women. It's ok. Lift for yourself and enjoy it. Don't let this stuff ruin your life, because it has definitely almost done that to me.
Ryan Harris
Man, there's nothing you can do about not having an attractive face...You just can't worry about that shit. Alll the experiences you are talking about not having or the life you aren't living, i had/ have and all my friends had/ have.... and not a one of us is some uber attractive dude. We're just social and outgoing... that's the type of person most people like being around. Maybe your crippling insecurity caused it, but these problems come down to your attitude, how you choose to communicate with others, and just what you do with your life day in and day out.... or what you don't do. You honestly can not believe that none of this is your fault and it's really about how attractive your face is... that's utterly ridiculous because EVERYONE knows short ugly dudes that slay pussy, have a bunch of friends, and are the life of the party.
You really need to reevaluate your attitude and stop "accepting" in some weird way that you're doomed to a shit mediocre life and start talking steps to improve your situation. Women come and go and are easy as hell to land and you'll realize that one day when you grow up a bit and come out of this self pity funk that's lasted a whole decade (when you're 29 you'll realize how childish this thinking is), you'll see its true. What's hard to get is solid MALE companionship and true friends... once you have that, the rest will fall into place.
Leave your house, join sports leagues even if you suck, go to meetings abd join committees dedicated to your field of work (almost all industries do this), pick up new hobbies, get a job somewhere social like a bar.... best ass of my life doing that and you'll make tons of friends and meet women if you're a nice guy. Don't waste your life with pity, its unbecoming of a man. Do something to change it. If you refuse, maybe you are a lost cause and then you'll finally rightly blame yourself. Wake up.
Dylan Cox
hey there boyo, what are u doing here with this bluepilled shit?
Owen Ortiz
Oh my God you big cry baby. The world isn't out to get you. Quit being an autistic fuck head and people might like you
Josiah Rivera
This is the reality everyone lives outside of this echo chamber of self pity called Veeky Forums. As much as everyone shits on the normie life, its all anyone here seems to really want, but somehow can't figure out. It's baffling.
Easton Roberts
Even if people can’t become happy, good things happen to them… as long as they’re alive That's my quote to live life by
Brody Martinez
A couple years back I knew a guy who looked like fucking Frankenstein's monster. Dude was fucking horrific. Worse than that, he was about 5'6", and despite lifting since early childhood, looked more like an over-sized gingerbread man than someone who is actually buff. But that dude fucked more women and was more successful than anybody I knew. He actually worked towards things and got shit done. He knew that life was a game, but instead of getting upset and flipping the table over, he played it and mastered it with time. If you're content to wallow in self-pity, do it, but don't complain on an South American mutt forum. If you aren't content, do something about it. You can't change your face, so don't try. Instead, change the way you act, how you present yourself. That ugly bastard from earlier had a huge presence no matter where he was. He would consistently draw attention to himself and keep crowds of people entertained through conversation and stories. In other words, stop being autistic. You THINK that you are hiding these insecurities from people you talk to, but they can see it. You must lose them and forget about them if you want success.
Brayden Cook
FUCK Veeky Forums
How do I recover?
Matthew Howard
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Daniel Johnson
>i dont use lines, i prefer fly fishing
Jaxon Richardson
Lmao now what do I text her
Noah Williams
>hehe I hope I’m the first person that’s gonna put his dick in you because if you’re not a virgin you’re getting unmatched
William Barnes
OP, I am exactly like you, except I am recently turned 26.
The only thing for me is that I don't get that Elliot Rodger style rage that you have. I've just accepted it and stopped caring about my life. Also I don't blame everything on being ugly
Justin Fisher
Holy shid ur fugged
Gabriel Harris
You do realize that not everyone by nature is social and outgoing right? There are plenty of people who are shyer, introverted, or even have ingrained weird personalities that push people away from them
Congratulations on being born where being social and outgoing comes so easily to you and you can easily make friends, get women, and that everyone likes you
Gavin Miller
Autism can work miracles.
Come on bros what do I text her
Luke Nguyen
bait
Logan Moore
This
Aiden Collins
I'm unironically trying to get her #
That's just cringe not autism, come on anons
Adrian Phillips
do you no da wae cluck cluck
Nathaniel Diaz
wtf is this
David Adams
im the guy who posted the stupid fly fishing pun
what is your name? make a pun with that
Owen Cox
Michael, help me out
Isaac Thomas
>im sorry for that terrible pun. ive told myself to stop making them but mike orny brain cant stop
Angel Collins
that skull is disproportionately small, but you’re not ugly, just very plain
Anthony Cox
do you know da wae?
John Barnes
What's the next move bros? How do I get her number?
Adrian Butler
If the uglyfags itt are redpilled and blackpilled on looks, tell me you are also spreading the good word about the assorted subhumans and their (((shepherd))).
Or do you want to watch it all burn?
Hudson Murphy
>if you're ugly you can still be intimidating
This, I'm a 6' bean that looked like a ugly big headed loser when I was a skelly, ever since I started lifting and started to fill out, I went from ugly lanky loser to ugly but intimidating, I also never go clean shaven (unless for special occasions) and maintain an eternal stubble. This adds to the ugly tough guy look, along with those ugly dark eyebags
Brody Allen
Yeah, my skull is only 23.25 inches in circumference, and about 9.5 inches in length from the top of my skull to the menton. It's over...
Evan Thomas
shes an ugly low iq shitskin cease posting your shit conversation maggot
Hudson Turner
Girls named lauren tend to be massive bitches and she's asian so she most likely is a massive whore and annoying
John Sullivan
my friend you are posting on a Veeky Forums fitness board asking how to talk to a girl, its beyond hope
damn you think he should tell her that?
Cameron Lewis
>avoid women like the plaque.
Gabriel Walker
Fuck you Just tryna bust a nut and caught yellow fever this past week Ik user. I'm completely retarded with socializing, only gotten laid because of my looks
Jose Lewis
>if I think for myself and ignore the useless noise, I suddenly have no motivation
You have no motivation because you're not doing any activity for it's own sake. I lift because I feel better about myself after I do it. I know I'm doing something good for my body and developing a discipline and that's the reward. I feel good after reading because I know I'm learning new things and broadening my thinking. I feel good working on an art project or a piece of writing because I know I'm putting in work and I will end up with something tangible, even if nothing ever comes of it "in the real word". I'm ugly too, but guess what? I keep bettering myself, not because I think I'm gonna get some pussy from it, but because the work is its own reward. You have to realize how absurd the world is anyway and find something productive that makes you happy. Also, I don't know if you have a job, but I feel like most people's unhappiness comes from having a shit job. If you can find something you actually like doing, that's a life-changer right there. Of course, once again, that might require work on your part.
Leo Bell
This is true user. I'm basically the same case as you and all your bullet points except i am 26 years old. being ugly as fuck does not doom you to a horrible life. it is easily possible to be ugly but still have a normal social life, have friends, go to parties, have girlfriends and regular sex, etc.
I know that in my case, and you are probably heading down this road or may already passed the point of no return, it turned out this badly for me because of my shitty personality (ADD, weird as fuck, annoying) that left me friendless since your age, about 12, and it just made me bitter and miserable and year after year of not developing social skills until it got too late for me. all ive ever been able to do is make people easily laugh, thats it.
and i think this way full believing i am objectively ugly, as i have been told in numerous places online as well as being insulted for my looks most of my life
Julian Flores
Hope catching yellow fever would be worth catching an STD to
Ayden Morgan
Got her number faggot
Jace Morgan
fly fishing guy here
please post convo screenshots so i can see how you salvaged it
Eli Ortiz
>EVERYONE knows short ugly dudes that slay pussy, have a bunch of friends, and are the life of the party
Kek, nice pasta 8/10 made me wonder when they will learn
David Watson
STOP FUCKING COMPLAINING YOU FUCKING LOWTEST NUMALE CUNT! YOU CAN BLAME THE WOLRD ALL YOU WANT BUT ITS NOT GOING TO CHANGE SHIT. SO EITHER STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF, OR ACT LIKE A FUCKING MAN AND JOIN THE MARINES!
Jk about joining the marines, but you sound like a pussy and its pathetic.
David Nguyen
I'm not gonna lie, I'm MAYBE slightly above average and get off with a lot of shit I shouldn't.
Lifting helped. It'll help you, too.
Henry Sullivan
You have no reading comprehension. What I'm saying is that regardless of your circumstances and where you start in life, its up to you to do something with it, up to you to build your life, up to YOU to improve your situation and find the right path. All you're focusing on is how "easy" it might have come to sometime else and how you weren't born with "it".
What a pity you are. No doubt at all that this floods into most every aspect of your life and fucks you up all the time because you don't see the value in relentlessly working to build the life you want and never giving up like some halfafag and accepting mediocrity and blaming it on chance. You use not being social and outgoing by nature as some excuse to fail. Christ imagine if people actually used this excuse in real life... well im bad at math by nature and have to put more work in than my peers so fuck this i quit and just won't learn how to multiply, its not fair....well I'm weak by nature, fuck lifting.....jesus.
The good news is that all you dudes can change this anytime you want.
Hudson Russell
Hint, he's not the person who spams his face.
Aaron Diaz
Anyone else constantly bordering on sort of attractive and unattractive? I found out that if I put a ton of effort into my appearance and also deprive myself intentionally of sleep (6< hours) I look really good for a day Girls have told me I'm cute, athletic, etc, but it all comes at the cost of >barely eating to maintain low bf% >aforementioned sleep deprivation >carefully trimming beard and cleansing face All of this and I will get a little bit mired and my interactions with everyone improve. But if I overeat or sleep too much(this is big I don't get why) I look disgusting and get treated like op
Lincoln Peterson
>what are angles Not even him, but you're an idiot.
Austin Walker
Your attitude must be different when you're sleep deprived which makes them drawn to you more.
Jonathan Sanchez
Nope, it's entirely a facial change. My attitude with women Is probably worse when I'm tired. Pictures taken before/after reveal that all my facial fat sort of melts off, and I have a decently defined face behind it. Even if I don't eat before bed and then sleep I will look bad.
Tyler Howard
jesus christ is your lord and savior. submit
Ian Foster
this and chances are hes not even that ogly
Robert Harris
Bored of you self-pitying, fatalistic cucks
Almost anyone (save for literal midgets and badly disfigured/deformed people) can become a 7/10+ with some hard work and effort >Be Veeky Forums as fuck (this includes cardio you runt) >Fix skin if problematic and sort your hair out >Put effort and funds into your wardrobe >Develop hobbies or at least be interesting and more importantly interested - at the very least, read >Actually try to interact with people in an ernest way >Go out and do stuff - doing things alone is fine, good in fact
Guarantee the biggest reason you're alone is because of your negative outlook (which is quickly apparent to other people) and unwillingness to try.
Change the fucking record.
p.s. take psychedelics and read the stoics.
Luis Kelly
>caring this much about what women think of you So there's a couple of things that are possible -You're a faggot -You will commit suicide -pull an Elliot
Women either like you or they don't. Sure you gotta talk to them, but body language says more than words do. Learn to read how body language before talking, during and post talking to them, particularly facial expressions. Yes autism is bad but most of us probably aren't so autistic that we can't learn new things. Nad if it turns out that all the women you meet don't like you or don't want to fuck you, so be it that's just what you're going to have to live with. Focus on something else instead of dicking things.