Does lifting help you cope with the fact, that you never got to expierience adolescent love?

Increase your weights by 5lbs every workout to find out!

just lol only incels give a fuck about that shit off yourself faggot

I'll be 20 in March and I've still never had an actual girlfriend. A stupid middle school thing, sure, but that doesn't count. I'm not a virgin and I've gotten involved with certain girls before, but I feel like I haven't met the right one still and won't meet the right one for a long time, if ever.

Yes, but cope is the wrong word. I lift to ensure that even though im 28, once i get a gf one of us will experience adolescent love.

Its overrated user

>last "relationship" was 3 months in high school, 7 years ago
>last hookup was 3 years ago
you get used to it

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I was very lucky and met my wife when I was 15 and she was 16. While it was a great experience to be with her that young, what we experience now (25) is just as good user.

dont romanticize the literal worst form of love. What a shitshow teenage love it.

I experienced it and it sucked and was awkward. Probably because I was not a Chad on a football team in Alabama with a muscle car or something like that.

t.someone who never experienced teenage love

another dream about my ex after 15 months

haha this is great i love dreaming about us getting back together every single night and forcing myself to snap out of it before it gets too real

don't fall for the love meme lads.. it hurts;

>Better to have loved and lost

Anyone who says this is a fucking liar

>tfw almost 27 year old kissless virgin
>just keep lifting eheh you'll find love eventually

sometimes i wonder if it's even worth it. fuckin hell i'm in pain lads

Ehh, it kinda sucked. Endless drama and breakup over stupid shit. Now at 23 I know how to move on and boundaries within relationships. Rather have a relationship now then back then

>you will never have your qt crush ask you out behind the school yard during lunch time
>you will never spend the summer break playing video games with her, bike riding, going to the teacher
>she will never jokingly ask you for a kiss, only for you to man up for the first time in your life and do it, only for her to blush and smile
>you will never sit under the stars with her, wondering what you'll both grow up to be as adults
>she will never ask you to be with her forever
>it will never be your 15th birthday party, after everyone has left and her revealing that her gift to you is being each other's first
>you will never know the feeling of looking at her during and knowing you both entered the world of adults together, to look into her endless blue eyes and knowing you'll be together forever

It’s shallow as fuck. Love and relationships get way better as you age. It’s good experience but you’re not missing out on anything.

What the fuck dude

>tfw I'm literally at the end of the cut off point for this
I turn 20 in 7 months and I finally found out a few days ago that a guy I like at work likes me back after I gave him a ride to his place, since we both got off at the same time and it was below freezing and he usually rides his long board since he lives 5 mins away.
>tfw this was this past weekend and I am now 3 hours away at uni
WHY DAMNIT

WHY AM I SO SOCIALLY REPUGNANT REEEEEEEEE IT'S NOT FAIR IT'S NOT FAIR IT'S NOT FAIR IT'S NOT FAIR!!!!

As an 18 year old, you're not missing out on much. Through my teen years I used to worry about not falling in love while I was young, and then I did, and now we're not together anymore and it hurts and sucks like a bitch. (Fun fact, I suggested we did a cute Spiderman/Spidergwen couple cosplay and she said no, then turned around and did THAT EXACT COSPLAY with her new bf and even told me about it because apparently she expected me to be happy for her) Now I do hookups with dirty tinder thots and after I nut I don't even like them that much and realize that I don't want to cuddle with them at all, I wanna play TF2 and eat some fucking Subway, not have to spend time with a sweaty stinky girl, that's lame. But yeah I hope that one day I'll mature and be in love with someone that loves me too.

Maybe try dedicating a day to spend time with him and tell him exactly how you feel, user? It's not too late

>Now I do hookups with dirty tinder thots and after I nut I don't even like them that much
dumb fucking normie

hello juden, you are too obvious

whats worse than that is looking back at all the signs you missed, you could have had a normal life if you were slightly less autistic

Reminder that people who never experienced teenage love are developmentally stunted. These people are more likely to be
1. Mentally unstable
2. Have over-idealistic thoughts of what relationships are supposed to be
3. More likely to be virgins throughout adulthood
4. Suffer from depraved sexual interests (feet, hentai, pedophillia)
5. Are statistically to become sexual molesters as they grow older
6. Suffer from low self-esteem and isolation from social peer groups
7. Repressed anger and feelings of low self worth upon seeing couples or people expressing public displays of affection

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>mfw imagining guys with model-tier bodies from the CBT posting in here

>The only thing that makes missing out on teenage love bad is that lessons you should have already learned when it was okay to mess up will hit you like a ton of bricks when you're inexperienced in your twenties.
This is painfully accurate. Teenage love is best for its disasters and lessons more so than the extremely slim chance of it working out long term.

delet

if they can't get a gf then I never will be able to

I did though...

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>gf
I see you're new to Veeky Forums

you think lifting is gonna get you a gf? I'm zyzz-tier KHV lad, it's only getting worse

>Does lifting help you cope with the fact, that you never got to expierience adolescent love?
No, but it doesn't matter. All I can do is keep lifting and moving forward in order to become the kind of man a good woman wants, in order to have beautiful children who will never know what it's like to suffer the pain of missing out on standard developmental milestones.

I suffer so they don't have to.

Why are you doing this

Sorry bro, we made a board for guys like you.
You were really shitting up Veeky Forums and making /cbt/ threads into meat markets masturbation aids.
So moot had the good sense(and probably just wanted a quick place to pop into and surf anonymously) and made the above board.

So...
Go
Go on
Go get your gay on in /hm/.

It's a meme dude chill

Love is awesome no matter when you find it.

>spotted the closest gay
Its okay to come out everyone on Veeky Forums is a homo

No homo

>ywn meet qt 15 yr old at tae kwan doe class
>ywn have an awkward period for 2 months where you stare at each other across from the class with the occasional helping her form and feeling her soft skin
>ywn take her home
>ywn take her virginity to the second episode of black mirror
>ywn take her restraints off and take her on a drive to dover
>ywn throw her off the chalk cliffs
>ywn have a spirit wife who talks to you in her dreams
it's been 6 years. i'm 39 now. i am so grateful that He sent her to me.

Pic VERY related

this is the exact reason why I lift too
been going 8 years steady and alone, but the real Sisyphus-ass nigga enjoys the ride

>you either lift or live
>you either play vidya or live
>you either fuck around or live
>you either X or Y
No. Just fucking no.

Dude go fuck an escort already, get it over with

But I did though, with several different girls.
Perks of being a jock in middle and high school.

>escort
>love

Unfortunately this. I was in my early 20s before I had my first gf and because I didn't know any better I was acting like a 16 year old with a 20 year old girl. I'd never had sex before so I wanted to do it all the time while she had been getting fucked for the last five years every weekend by multiple guys at raves.

>This video is not available
it knows

solid bait

>tfw 27 and never been out on a date
looks like i won't experience 20s love either. it's kind of sad but hey, what can a brother do? i can't make girls like me,don't have enough money for that

>middle school chad
>high school pizza face

This feel

I definitely broke some hearts, had some fun, and came across some psychos. At the time I didn't fully comprehend all of it, but once I was in my 20's it definitely helped me to navigate situations and be a genuinely caring guy.

Then I started fucking sluts and became a bitter asshole. Now I find it hard to care about women, much like I was when I was a teen.

Why do people care about adolescent love?

I didn't get a girlfriend until i was about 21, my current girlfriend is in her late twenties while i am 23. Sure i wanted to soil my oats when i was a kid but it never bothered me since i was buying playing sports every single day.

Come to think of it i much prefer a girlfriend that is older over a young one. Young girls control the sex, complain so much more and just don't get it. My current girlfriend knows how to please me, will get up at 4am when i arrive home just to have sex with me as many times as i want, when she wakes up etc.. We never argue, we both work and save money.

Currently want to move out together, boy then I'll be fucking the girl 10 times a day with no housemates to bother me.

>never had a gf, ever
>still simp hard for oneitis, despite being in the lowest pits of the friendzone
>last sexual encounter was at 18, am 21 now and I can barely remember since I was blackout drunk, also still technically a virgin

Life is suffering brahs, but that same suffering is what keeps me /fitlit/. All I can do now is improve to the point of getting a qt wife so that my son may never go through the same ordeal.

We're all gonna make it.

>dating an older woman

I have no regrets, sex is amazing, we love talking to each other, can spend hours together, and we actually get each other. I see lots of young relationships fizzle very early and see nothing but arguments.

I'll say it again, older women know what a man wants / needs and how to please a man.

Because they've watched too much anime and expect their 10/10 girlfriend to be both loli and a mom to them.

I experienced it mate and it's overrated as fuck, just awkward and pointless.

Now, when I was 18, that shit was amazing, first time I was REALLY in love, reciprocated too, I can safely say that was the best part of my life. You are just happy to be around her, she's happy to spend time with you, everything you do together is fun, and you keep doing stupid shit that you know is stupid shit, but you can't help but do it because 'love'. Also, sex.

Then it all goes to shit after about 2 years. But the first year? Good memories for life, nothing beats that.

>overrated as fuck
>best part of my life
T-Thanks Chad.

sorry i might be retarded but isn't adolescent like up to 15?

He's just a retard that thinks 18 is adult love.

>feelsbadman

> You are just happy to be around her, she's happy to spend time with you, everything you do together is fun, and you keep doing stupid shit that you know is stupid shit, but you can't help but do it because 'love'. Also, sex.

SHUT UP
SHUT UP
SHUT UP SHUT UP

LIFT IT AWAY BRA

I identify with some of these points and i aint even mad, life is what you make out of it and sex isnt all there is

Adolescent relationships suck bros you didn't miss anything other than hormonal girls trying to ruin your bro relationships

FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FFFFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK YOU

lmoa being such a cuck that not getting some pussy makes you mentally unstable.

I experienced teenage love and sex, and I don't want to recapture that, it was terrible and completely uninformed on both sides

Change her and she for he and him, and this is hilarious, because if you're not a woman, maybe you should have been
Reading that post makes me think you were a teenage girl

>You will never get to fill a 13 year old girl with your seed

Are you lost? Jesus christ lurk a bit before posting.

>implying

I did, it was shit. Bitch wouldn't even let me cum in her mouth

No it doesn't and it never will. Fuck you for rubbing it in my face bitch.

This thread is literally me.
>tfw I've been depressed ever since I hit 23 about half a year ago
>tfw felt like I missed out on all of life

but hey, at least I'm not a virgin anymore...

No, really, this is killing me. I just wanted to look back on life and be happy ;_;
Every time this crosses my mind I lose all motivation to do anything and just want to go to sleep and forget about everything.
And every day it only gets worse.

Why?

/realfeelcrew/

>Reminder that people who never experienced teenage love are developmentally stunted. These people are more likely to be
>1. Mentally unstable
check
>2. Have over-idealistic thoughts of what relationships are supposed to be
check
>3. More likely to be virgins throughout adulthood
just before I turned 21. could have gone worse.
>4. Suffer from depraved sexual interests (feet, hentai, pedophillia)
check
>5. Are statistically to become sexual molesters as they grow older
I wouldn't be surprised...
>6. Suffer from low self-esteem and isolation from social peer groups
check
>7. Repressed anger and feelings of low self worth upon seeing couples or people expressing public displays of affection
check

I'm fucked, right?

faggot lol

Then again, anyone who read that is most likely gonna check all of those, simply because it is on Veeky Forums and not leddit. But I feel you man, wants to kms if I don't man up and tell my crush how I feel oops

>we

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>there are """men""" on this board right now who still haven't had sex

making your fathers proud, "boys"!!
hahahahaha

Fair enough, but it's the thought that I would never have set my foot on this shitty website if life turned out some other way (hopefully better). That's what's bothering me. Unless you have some diagnosis of some sort, we probably weren't predestined to end up here.

If you have a crush, that's good. At least now you know where to go from here and what you should do. Good luck.

glad i don't really want this, i saved myself from a lot of feels

Thanks, user. Good luck to you too.

I lost my virginity in the back of a car, to some other kids gf. I can't feel that.

Hello moot

Because he and I live in a civilised country