It's another night browsing Veeky Forums alone edition

It's another night browsing Veeky Forums alone edition

You're not.alone breh, I'm here with ya. Not long tho I gotta work in 7 hrs.

How are you holdin up faggot?

Sorry for the faggotry, but we are all alone together :)

Not terribly great, but I'm used to it now

>last week she starts being aloof
>I suspect something is up and ask what's wrong
>she says she's not vibing with me anymore
>I proceed to get black out drunk and be sad the day of
>Tuesday 2am
>about to sleep, start thinking of her
>text her and say i miss her
>start talking again
>earlier today, I randomly decide to delete our conversation and her number

It's feeling okay. Two hours later I went to go fuck a girl from tinder and have a few more lined up.

We're all going to make it brahs

Are you a /fat/ newfag?

Not /fat/ but am newfag. Started browsing/fit/ about a year ago

Yet another morning alone

Don't worry Anons. If we can vent to eachother, we'll never be alone. We're all gonna make it

Then post in a pushup thread until you can do triple digits. Otherwise swallow your pain and refocus it into your lifts.

>tfw just woke up from a nap and settling in for a cozy night online
>tfw thinkin bout her tho

>finally getting over her
>fully understand that my obsession is not healthy and I will never gonna make it if I keep thinking about her
>start reading manga and playing vidya to keep myself busy
>enroll in my gym's competition to win money
>feeling pumped and full of life

we are gonna make it brahs

Eat shit and die faggot.

Watch her come back after hearing you fucked a bunch of girls after the break up

>tfw had really weird relationship with ex following breakup
>tfw meet new girl
>tfw going well
>tfw new girl now in hospital for some serious shit with possible serious diagnosis
>tfw don't know what to do

i'm at a complete loss. i kind of want to go to see her but i've only been out with her a few times. this is all driving me into shit with the ex again and wanting to talk to her.

another night browsing /fit and I'm a 24 year old virgin. It sucks because everyone that I know thinks I pull all the time cause I'm decent looking but the truth is I always pussy out right before sex. Help me /fit :(

>tfw when gf getting fat

sorry to tell you dude but she definitely already cheated. She acted aloof cause she fucked someone else, got her serving, then started to talk to you again cause she was satiated. Good on you though for making the move and moving on. You deserve better user.

stop listening to your brain and just fucking go for it. when you hit 24, it's just easier to fuck girls. the girls 2 years younger than you are now 22, and now what they want.

I went for a run instead. I ran for like 2 miles.
>lungs hurting
>shins hurting
>calves burning
>sting in my stomach
How do people enjoy this shit? I probably ran too fast but I cycle every day for 30 minutes so didn't expect it to be this bad.

If you like her, go see her

It's hard man, my brain keeps my dick from getting hard and I've been dealing with family issues that always crosses my mind during the time. I think I'm going to try no fap just to give me the extra hornyness to push me over.

Send her flowers at the very least

>meet girl on night out
>drunkenly tell her i'll take her out sometime
>wake up
>wanted to just never message her
>think "fuck it" and message her
>do opposite of what my brain tells me to do every step of the way
>end up dating

don't listen to your brain. listening to your brain has landed you as a 24 year old virgin. seriously, fuck the cunt off. your brain is great for a lot of shit like thinking and keeping you alive, but it fucking sucks for breaking these patterns and doing shit that has no real negative consequence other than some illogically perceived one (courtesy of the brain).

think with your dick.

issue is that she is in a public hospital, and i don't think they'd be keen on flowers in there. plus, if i go then it will be a pretty strong indication of me wanting to move forward. i think i do, but it'd be slow given everything that's gone on.

they're my issues with going. i think i will try to, especially because i'll be in the area tomorrow but i'm a bit hesitant.

thanks for the advice, any tips on where to start out for a shy guy and build some confidence? I was thinking on hitting on some girls at my martial arts studio but I don't really know how to there. One in particular has a very fat ass that I just want to go to town on but I don't know what the hell I'm doing straight pick up. It's strange though when I'm working, I can interact with women just fine and they seem to enjoy my company but it's always initiated because of my job (food industry.) but any other place I'm fucked

I think you should definitely go there, she may dealing with some serious life threatening issues and your visit would probably make her day that someone out there gives a shit. Worst case scenario, she's doing alright there, but thinks you're creepy for showing up, and you walk out and go on with your life. That's on her if she doesn't respect your act of kindness but honestly I don't think that'll be the case. Your situation is very particular and normally I would suggest not to come off as needy, but she could probably really use your positivity at times like these.

Get on mixer and chat to someone

i would meet girls on a night out with friends, or through my friends gf's. the former is good because for the most part, i genuinely couldn't care less whether i see them again or not. the latter has a much higher likelihood of seeing them again and if you royally fuck up, it might have some consequence if you care (i.e. not being invited to stuff with the girls again).

i'd stick to things that have less likelihood of seeing each other again without a common interest in doing so. tinder, nights out etc are good. that way you can stop being so shy and fuck up along the way, insteaf of spaghetti'ing out in front of the girls at the martial arts studio and really making going there tough on yourself. save the martial arts girl for when you have some confidence and know how to fuck. that's another good point for trying it with girls you might not encounter again, you waste your first time on a burner who you couldn't care less if you see again. the time for candles and romantic music is over.

I’m 20 and my body count is well over 30 by now. And I’m deabatabley /fat/ it’s all about confidence buddy

that's a really good point. i should stop being so selfish about it and actually think about her situation. she said to me last night "seriously, thank you for caring" so i think she does appreciate it. i'll still message her beforehand. i don't want to just rock up, i think that'd be a bit full on for her but it wouldn't be hard to propose stopping by seeing as ill be in the area.

thanks for the advice

Maybe you’re over thinking shit, you need to relax into your surroundings. Feel her touch, her gaze lingering on your, the smell of her scent and the energy buzzing between you two.

my friends are pretty shitty so i think ill opt out of going out with them. They drink wayyyy too much and I"m trying to make gains and be healthy which is the most important thing to me right now. But I will try tinder, just gotta take some new pictures for it and figure it out as I never tindered before. thanks for the tips user

>"user kinda looks like x hot guy from y hollywood film" (I don't)
>(intangible)
>"no, the other one"
>(intangible)
>after a few intangible lines of dialogue another girl says "well x hot guy is not that hot"

Sometimes the scariest things are the ones we don't hear

Definitely ask if you can visit her, she may not want you to see her in that condition. It’s the thought that counts with the flowers though.

It's not about being selfish at all, it's just really easy to think in standard dating terms like " I'm I too needy, am I too distant? Should I do this or should I do that?" I think for this it's a pretty terrible place to be in for her and just calls for a different thinking style is all. For the record I do think you should ask yourself those questions if it was a standard dating issue so you know how to play your hand correctly but again, your situation isn't standard.

>running
pleb tier cardio desu. try swimming

ya definitely give her a heads up but make it still kinda a nice surprise. Giver her a text 30 mins or so before you go and if it's not a good time she'll let you know but if it is, then you'll still have that spontaneity factor kinda at play which is cool

Nice man! Keep it up. I, too, know the obsession goblin

Swimming is fun but such a hassle to go to the pool.


I can only do the breaststroke too

>try to do front crawl
>tfw too much of a brainlet to coordinate both legs and hands

I'm always embarrassed to go swimming

yeah i'll try to see her tomorrow. i'll get it if she won't want me there and seeing her like that but i get the impression she isn't talking to many people about it.

>Sit next to cute girl in uni
>Make her laugh
>Think about her all day

I get to attached to girls desu. Like any girl that gives me attention I'll fall for

Theres no excuse for being a virgin at 24. Even if your completely socially inept you can find someone to fuck. Get your first one out of the way and take away the mystery of it.

Either drop a viagra or take something to calm yourself down. Don't let your brain stop you having a great time.

>3 weeks into cold turkey from drugs

If i didn't have Veeky Forums and /pol/ to browse i'd have gone insane, don't do drugs kids

>browsing Veeky Forums alone edition
My bro is banging his gf on his bed behind me though. I'm never alone

>intangible
user do you mean unintelligible

What kind?

I'm the exact same user, and it drives me crazy.

I know that feeling user.

>break up with gf
>been friends with her for 15 yrs
>she says she wants to stay friends, considers me her best friend
>she starts dating a guy 20 years older
>unfriends me on faceberg
>start seeing this girl on bumble
>not that into her but she's cute and agreeable enough
>text her every day and hang out on the weekends for the last 2-3 months
>last Friday she completely stops texting me with no explanation
>today her faceberg says in a relationship
>can't stop thinking about how much these two women disgust me
>now I'm back in search of and don't even know why because bitches make me sick

gonna go to her place again in an hour

we're not together, but already have had sex 3 times

guys...

why is my ex so god damn much on my mind lately, even though i'm with another and inside another girl?

Nasal decongestants