>be chubby/fat/obese for the first 24 years of my life >become Veeky Forums >now I'm a tall, fit guy with a handsome face >start getting approaches and mires from grills >have no fucking idea what to do because while natural Chads were hooking up with girls since elementary school, I was sitting in front of a computer or a TV
For example, one of the recurring episodes in my life is that for some reason my eyes meet some girl's eyes, she smiles at me, I look at her blankly for a second or two, I casually turn my head to the side to break the eye contact and straight after that I start mentally whipping myself. "That was rude, you stupid fuck, now she thinks you are autistic, why didn't you smile or at least nod, you fucking loser?"
One time I was sitting in a bar drinking whiskey and a pretty girl came to me. She asked if she could sit there, I said "yeah, sure", she sat down and started taking her jacket off, I downed my whiskey in one go, grabbed my jacket without looking at her and left.
One time I was in a library trying to find a particular book and a girl came to me like and nervously said "hi..." I turned my head towards her and said "hi" back. Then she said "I just wanted to come and say that I think you are really handsome. Wanna go out with me sometime, like get some coffee or something?" all the while spilling her spaghetti on the floor. I apologetically said "sorry, I have a girlfriend" and she said "oh, that's too bad" and left.
Hjälp!
Austin Cruz
You already know what you have to do. Sack up and say yes in those situations even though every molecule in your body might be screaming know out of fear. Ask the girl at the bar how her night is going even if your hands are sweating throughout the whole conversation.
All that's left is for you to do it and you know that. So just do it. Nike
Caleb Bailey
The first one happens to me all the time. Trouble is you really can't change instinct and hindsight is easy.
The number of times I wish I had just smiled instead of looking away is unreal.
Brandon Mitchell
You know what to do, you just have to stop stopping yourself Just ignore the voice in your head that tells you whatever bullshit excuse to get back in your comfort zone Like literally don't even think about what to respond with, just respond the first words that come to your mouth just to get yourself out of that habit
Angel Butler
Force yourself to do the uncomfortable thing. Just like the last deadlift, you do not want to do it, but you _make_ yourself do it anyway.
Ryder Miller
The thing is, I think I'm not so afraid of the talking and getting to know each other part but more about the after that.
1) my teeth are fucked
2) I'm poor so my apartment sucks balls
And now I pretty much answered my own question. Stop being poor, fix teeth, find a better apartment, right?
Charles Parker
>girls approaching you in sweden outside of a bar what the fuck user
Jonathan Young
>a girl came to me like and nervously said "hi..." I turned my head towards her and said "hi" back. Then she said "I just wanted to come and say that I think you are really handsome. Wanna go out with me sometime, like get some coffee or something?" Either she was 12 or this is bait.
Camden Lee
I don't believe the third one. Even if you are extremely handsome that is just unreal
Nicholas Young
those are excuses bro. You don't need perfect teeth nor a luxury apartment to make a girl fall in love with you.
Jason Smith
Those are things that CAN be fixed in due time DONT let them stop you. I would fucj my ex in a small bed (eventually got a bigger one).
Angel King
>1) my teeth are fucked >2) I'm poor so my apartment sucks balls >Implying any girl whose in a bar to fuck gives a shit Honestly, women care just as much about that as men do. Who gives a shit if it's just for the night? And if you really do care, then fix it.
Connor Edwards
post your face LARP-ing fatty cuck
Grayson Bennett
I'm not Swedish but I had to learn Swedish when I was a kid
Neither
I have cavities in my teeth, user. That's why I always avoid opening my mouth. Otherwise my teeth are fine.
I know, I know. If I was a Chad, I would fuck them behind a dumpster or in the gym broom closet but I'm not
Yeah, I really want to become a meme... not
Ian Morris
>Hjälp!
Salam
Asher Ramirez
Alright, I thought something was in the wrong here
Ryan White
>She asked if she could sit there, I said "yeah, sure", she sat down and started taking her jacket off, I downed my whiskey in one go, grabbed my jacket without looking at her and left.
A L P H A L P H A
Cameron James
Having an apartment is such a huge plus, even if it is shit
Jaxson Moore
Lol this isnt unreal. Im handsome and get this shit all the time. Ive been asked to dance by girls and approached multiple times. OP just dont over think it
Logan Price
Chads are born, not made lad. I got Veeky Forums and Veeky Forums. Have a great job, great body, wear nice suits because I can afford them now, sitting on mad stacks of crypto too... but I do the same mang. While Chad was slaying pussy in middle school, I was playing Baulder's Gate II and LoZ.
James King
do girls really smile when you make eye contact? this never happened to me. when i catch them looking they either look to the side or down, or when they hold it we just stare into each others eyes. germany
Anthony Torres
You have to get a waifu. Just marry the first one you see and change her as you see Veeky Forums
Ryan Bell
Females are shy as fuck and fear rejection much more than we do. If she holds or repeats eye contact, thats the most you get from most. Außer Schlampen.
Thomas Mitchell
Nice larp is it your first one? Next time use some green text and put more emphasis on your autism
Levi Nelson
As a former hamplanet: fake it till you make it
Noah Harris
>I'm not Swedish but I had to learn Swedish when I was a kid Swamp mongol
Easton Robinson
Not here. Everyone has one after they turn 18.
Most of the girls do what you described but some of them smile. And the smiles come in two varieties: either it's a shy smile kind of like "hey..." or it's a full-on smiling with the whole face including the eyes thing