Veeky Forums Sex Tips

Intense foreplay (fingering, licking)
Go slooow, women don't need you thrusting in there like a wild monkey
Talking, a bit of moaning, whispering near her ear
If you're about to come just pull out and lick her for a while/change position

>breath control. breathe deeply and you'll last longer.
THIS. If you pay attention you'll catch yourelf holding breath for a while and then breathing in alot. Do the opposite and breath in and out deep and properly.

Also I've heard something about holding your cum back while stilling practically having an orgasm. Haven't really tried it yet but imagine using the muscles that can hold back your piss mid stream. Apparantly doing this during an orgasm wont make you cum

back to r*ddit with you buddy

I saw this in porn, and it works. You can also lay her on her back

Best position you ever tried Veeky Forums? Mine is something special but girls love that shit.

>Have her sit on you like she's gonna ride you.
>Grab her ankles
>She stays on you (can support herself by grabbing your ankles)
>You lean her back a tad
>Optional, but you can also lift your ass up a little bit forming a mini bridge, while pulling her towards you.

Pulling her towards you while she's leaning backwards basically makes her entire body rest solely on your dick. This technique generally gets me the surprised gasp and the pleasured giggle, usually followed by a moan as you slightly pull their legs upwards.

Works really well. Be careful though, last girl i did this with i could clearly feel her cervix. So don't do it if you're with someone that's super sensitive.

>How do I last longer/

When you are getting there stop to switch positions, slow down breathing

>make her cum faster?

A meme. She's happy if you are

okay lad listen I have some time to kill so I'm gonna tell you a few things.

Firstly, the sex for a woman is all in her brain. It does not matter that much if you actually have sex for 10 minutes but the build-up is what is important.

Okay, so, considering you are not a complete autist, you can pick up social cues and can see if a girl is interested in you. This should not be hard to do. Be playful, relaxed, confident and smell good. After finding the girl you know almost certainly wants the dick, you switch her around. You go the bar for a drink, you need to get a pizza, you can't find the lighter, it does not matter. You have to get her isolated somehow through a story.

After you get her alone, you talk for a few more minutes/moments and when the silene settles in, you let it go for a bit longer and then you kiss her.

The kiss is very important. This is the make or break moment for her if she will have sex with you or not, more or less. So, the kiss is supposed to be like a flower. Delicate and shy at first and passionate and emotional at the end. A lot of girls or guys only twirl their tongues around which is a huge turn off to anyone that's been kissed more than once.

Do not overthink the kiss. It's better that you go after it and get rejected than to waste an opportunity to fill up that sweet pussy with your man juice.

So, you have to test the waters first with just the lip kissing. The lips touch, they touch again and then you slip her a bit of tongue. A bit. Not the whole thing down her throat. After this, you get in closer, you take her and you hug her a bit/pull her towards you and touch her neck with hand, the other can hold her chin up or just rests on her leg. The kiss should get from the intital shy stage to the fiery I have to have you stage but keep it cool. Keep it cool my man.

After a few minutes of making out, you tell her, You wanna go back to my place? or something along the lines. If she didnt flake on you before, she wont

Literally what???can you draw this or something??

i got a problem m8s. i can usually get em to my place but then idk what to do. i can speak well and shit on a date but when we go home its over for me, idk what the fuck to do and start cracking retarded jokes, which are indeed funny, but i can see how they lose interest and end up mostly fucking me out of obligation in those first minutes

how do i be more idk, romantic, sensual, or some shit, and how do i not be a peasant rapist who talk like a cro magon or a fucking sailor

Are you wearing a condom?

If you cant last long with a condom than just give up. You will never properly satisfy a girl

Looks like a black neighborhood.

Stimulate her clit with your hand while pounding her

Why do you think porn actresses do that on anal? it makes her cum.

Nice man

post picture, my imagination is limited

What's the biggest dick position?

I have the girl get on her stomach, close her legs. Can completely straddle and tight at fuck cause legs closed. Also, not always bottoming out.

step 2
If you really have to piss before having sex, take the piss and perform a gentlemans wash in the sink. You come back and start kissing and undressing her, taking you time. You take almost everything off but the bra and the panties. You go down and you kiss her neck, her belly, her hips, inner side of thighs etc. You go down to the panties and lightly lick her pussy through the fabric. Do this a few times and then slowly go towards the pussy again, you do not lick it directly but the outer lips at first. Slowly, you go to the clit and putting more pressure with your mouth and tongue on the pussy. This part of the foreplay is really important because of the build up. After she is wet, take the panties aside and just go for the naked clit that should be a bit hard by now. If she starts moaning and pushing her hips back and forth you are on the right track.

Insert the benis in vagene slowly. This is not a race, it is not a porno. It is just you and her and you will take your time to do with her what you envisioned. Lick her titties, kiss her neck, scratch her ass to get the blood flowing. Tell her that she's a good girl. Do not talk to her as if she is a piece of meat though, do no degrade with bitch, slut, hoe etc. This should be pretty obvious.

Anyways, the sex part should be spicy and good from here on out if you did what I said, more or less. Everything written here is pretty much made up on the fly but remember: try to go slower instead of going faster, no woman wants a 2 minute rabbit in bed. Use your fingers, change positions. If you feel like you will nut soon, you can just tell her to stop for a bit, it's not shame in it. Or just tell her that she should go on top or whatever. Lick the titties, maybe some really light choking but this is optional, go for the neck but jut very gently grip it. Almost no force on it. Slap her ass.

As far as lasting longer goes, there are a lot of ways. One is jerking of two or three times before (cont)

Imagine she's sitting like this on your dick. While she is, you grab her ankles while she can lean slightly backwards and grab yours (she's still sitting up). You then move her around slightly. Gets you usage out of 100% of your dick.

I think this one is better. I've done both, and this goes deeper from experience since you're not fighting the girls ass from behind.

Sounds interesting, but I meant positions that are hard to do w/o a bigger dick.

Listen to this guy

>One is jerking of two or three times before (cont)
This will only make me not leave the house let alone talk to girls

Fucking from behind while lying down is one. Uncomfortable as fuck, barely gets any dick usage if the grill has a fatty.

>She's happy if you are

This guy has never pleased a girl in bed

fpbp

>You go down to the panties and lightly lick her pussy through the fabric.
Stopped reading.

step 3

One of the ways is jerking of two or three times before actually having sex but this is not always the case. I can not stress this enough: breathing and flexing the core. Try to control your breathing in everyday life, try to notice the changes in airflow and wh you breathe the way you do at certain times and others. When having sex, when exercising, do not let yourself to breathe through the mouth. This makes more blood circulate and you start go get lost in the euphoric feeling of being inside a chick. Breathe through your nose, breathe slow.

Flexing the core is also a huge part of lasting longer: you do not flex the core. I dont know how, but the core muscles are somehow entwined with the dick. It makes you cum a lot faster if you flex your abs while jerking off, try it if you want. So, try to master your breathing and to not flex your core.

There are other ways of achieving multiple female orgasms everytime you have sex but are a bit more advanced. But these few things, the build up before the act of sex, the breathing, the relaxed core should already set you pretty high in the 'can that guy fuck good' scale. Now we go on to the next step: Actually training your dick to last longer in bed.

First of, do kegel excercises. They strengthen the pelvic muscle and the entire crotch region. Do them while sitting behind a pc, on the bus, etc. It doesn't matter, just do them. This is pretty important because it somehow strengthens the amount of control you can excercise on your penis, don't know how to put it otherwise. They are beneficial no matter how you turn it. Second, while you are pissing, try to completely block off your piss stream mid-stream. This helps to train the muscles that actually prevent ejacutalion, don't know how to explain it to be frank. Try this for a few days and jerk off and you will see your jizz shoot out of your dick and go a lot further than you would expect. (cont)

I'm a man of simple pleasures - face down, ass up, legs open wide

been with gf a while but I'll tell you all what I learned but all girls are different.

G-spot is a real thing for a lot of girls and you can hit it pretty easy during sex with some positions once you understand where it is.

Don't do regular missionary it's boring asf put her legs over your shoulders and push her body up a little bit or put a pillow right under her lower back that will hit g-spot even if you have a small pp.

For foreplay make sure you do a lot it makes them cum a lot easier during actual sex. When fingering buy yourself some lube put it on your middle and index finger as well as the base of your palm. Then with your two fingers you are going to do a 'come here motion' towards your palm while also moving the palm up and down slightly while keeping pressure on her clit. Most girls I've done this to have found out they are squirters and they cum like an insane amount of times. The easiest way to think about it if you're autistic like me is it looks like spiderman shooting his web, that's the hand formation you should go for.

Other tips would just be to start slow and mix and match up positions when you feel like you're going to finish it gives you a little bit of time to cool down. Long read but it's worth it bros.

Become a master of cunnilingus.

As far as lasting long goes, I think for the most part it just depends on the person. I don't last long these days, but part of that is me and my girl not getting any alone time. I've never lasted crazy long, anyway.

I had a roommate that I know was likely jackin it regularly and he lasted a pitiful amount of time. He wasn't fat or anything and he ran track in highschool. He told me that a lot of the time he came before being completely hard, the poor faggot.

>Flexing the core is also a huge part of lasting longer: you do not flex the core. I dont know how, but the core muscles are somehow entwined with the dick. It makes you cum a lot faster if you flex your abs while jerking off, try it if you want.
Bullshit. Flexing your core almost automatically makes you reverse kegel, lowering sensitivity.

It's because of irradiation, the reflex that happens when hard contraction of a muscle takes place. You can see it very clearly if you make a progressively tighter fist till you're squeezing like crazy, you'll feel further and further muscles lighting up as you squeeze harder

>try to completely block off your piss stream mid-stream

idk man, I always thought that doing that is pretty bad. It feels pretty bad.

The way you don't come is you do kegels, i.e. you contract the same muscle you use to stop peeing.

To make a girl cum, first warm her up by diddling her clit and making out. She'll get wet and you'll progress to fingering her. When she wants you to fuck her she'll tell you. She might get on top in which case she probably knows what will make her cum but if you have a more passive one I like missionary first, progress to putting her legs up so you can go super deep. IME slow deliberate deep fucking will make a girl cum, hard 'n' fast is more middle phase. Good news because it's easier to hold off spooging when you go slow.

Illustratinged it for easy understandings.

Hope it is of help.

This is kinda autistic but likely to work. But before the kiss, probably while talking or during a silence, you need to go in for contact. Hand on her arm, shoulder, leg (close to the knee) or just holding hands. When you touch her, she'll look down at your hand most likely, then look back up and make sure you make eye contact for a solid second or two. That's when you move in for the kiss.

>lasting longer

This is coming from a guy who lasted like 3 mins - 5 mins tops.

>lotion up the dick
Nothing makes you nut faster than a dry sensitive penis.
>cardio and relieving stress.
Cardio helps you last longer and get stronger hard ons, honestly a natural viagra.
>enjoy yourself and stop over thinking
You'll see how much more pain sex really is.

If that shit don't work, try these supplements.

>Maca, gaba, yohimbe, arginine

If this thread was posted like 6 hours later, this would be forced into a new Veeky Forums meme

mirin those delts

why? I like it, it's not full on let me bury my face in your pussy and it's a pretty decent prelude to the actual pussy handling business

step 4

Try to master your dick through mental control. This one is tricky and you are bound to fail at some point but still, I think that all these things combined make a big difference. I'm not talking about thinking about gore when having sex but instead of thinking oh my god this feels so good, you try to silence your mind and focus on pleasing her first. This should be the rule in any sexual experience imo.

Also, there are different techniques while jerking off that help you control your dick. When you are coming to the edge of your nut, try to push piss out of your dick. This all sounds weird but if you do this, literally try to force piss through your dick while close to nutting, the expansion of this canal or whatever diminishes the space your cum canal has and thus lessens the effect of you wanting to nut. Try it while jerking off and you will see that with proper breathing, not flexing the core, the excercise for stopping piss mid stream(you dont do this one while jerking off but while pissing obviously) and this last one, you can last much much longer than you could before.

And last but not least, this is not a set of commands and excercises but more like a guideline. Try some stuff and see what works for you, don't overthink sex. What works for me might not work for others and vice versa. Some girls really like choking, some dont, some want to suck dick and some dont etc.

If anyone wants to know something else, I'll answer, even the trolls. Hope this helps lads. Use your head and all of your senses while having sex and you will rock her world

Shouldn't there legs be on top of yours? Seems better.

Thanks on the tip Ima have to try it.

>Haven't really tried it yet but imagine using the muscles that can hold back your piss mid stream
You can actually train those muscles (kegel exercises) as you can any other, but you can do it anytime, anywhere.
Shit will give you better erections, give you, as you said, the ability to stop your cum, fix urination problems, and some more.

If you can't last long just use a lot of foreplay.
You should be able to get her off with you tongue/fingers.

Even if you can't, she'll be ready to cum by the time you put it in, so just fuck her right and you'll both cum quick

>One of the ways is jerking of two or three times before actually having sex but this is not always the case.
the fuck?

How do you "push piss out of your dick" without flexing your core?

>always take ages to cum, fucking hours sometimes
>girls would end up hurting me from how hard they'd stroke me or scratch my glans with their tongue to try and make me cum
>fapping takes a shitload of time
>about a year back everything changes
>hyper-sensitive cock, start cumming in a few seconds flat
>when fapping as soon as i even think of my cock inside a pussy i have to let go or i'll blow my load then and there

What the fuck can cause this and how the fuck do I get it back to the way it was.

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For fucks sake this is not what i meant.

How do you learn how to eat pussy? I can fuck and last ok, but eating pussy I just feel retarded.

Read the vice guide to eating pussy

You know the mouth shape you make when you bite into an apple? You just do the same thing over the clit (obviously not with teeth) and create just a small amount of suction over it then do what you want with your tongue

this is the case let's say before a girl from tinder you already banged comes over, you rub one or two out and fuck her good

It's not true. Go jerk off and tell me you don't cum quicker if you flex your abs. It is not bullshit.

That makes sense

I have heard that this is bad for you, prostate cancer kinda stuff but I ignored it. I think people exaggerate far too much when it comes to this kinda stuff desu

Yes, I agree with you here. I may have missed a few steps along the way but tried to illustrate the point good none-the-less

I agree with this guy as well, physical fitness, cardio especially helps you a lot when it comes to lasting longer

None of that is bad.
None of it.
But...sure.

Gain weight. That's all.
The body fat will help you transform your excess test to estrogen and it will make you last longer during sex.

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Just imagine you're sucking a dick, but a lot smaller. You should have no problem now.

what do you not get? You know you will fuck a girl, you jerk off, you last longer.

You try to use as little of the core as possible, besides, what I meant was not pushing your piss out of your dick but more like this forced piss sensation.

Tbh, I'm not that good at eating out, at least thats what my gf tells me. I am not the person to be asked this, besides, pussylicking is like dicksucking before sex. It's a show to get the blood pumping more or less imo

Instructions not clear. Broke my dick

I am You hit the nail on the head, more or less. This is what I tried to capture with my posts but you made it clear.

My favorite is to get on top, wrap my left arm around her head (under her neck) and my right hand under and around her left (my right) shoulder. I can hammer away so good in that position and they always love it.

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How 2 escalate kissing well? I've never figure this one out. I can usually decently when it's all lips, but I don't know how to send it over the edge with tongue and shit. pls help

Start groping first. If she's up for it, she's up for it.

Always keep your hands moving and busy exploring her

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Relevant.

This snaps the banjo

why do white women wear crosses but dress like sluts?

I can usually do that, but what if a girl isn't about it but is furiously giving me lip action, what do I do then.

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okay, you are sitting next to a girl and you see the opportunity present itself, she is staring at you longingly and playing with her hair, biting her lip, etc. It doesnt matter. I did quite few times and it was successul 4/5. You extend your hand towards her, palm up and you dont say anything you just slightly motion that she puts her hand in your hand . It is not bulletproof that she will, but she is already sitting there willingly and it is a really unthreatening gesture. And a human reflexively wants to put his hand there, escpecially a woman, dont know why exactly. You take her hand in your and just look at it for a few moments while caressing it lightly. This does two things: first of all, you make a significant bond with the act of touching alone, touching hands is even more powerful. We experience and manipulate the world around us with hands so this has a huge symbolic meaning. And it will put her in a bit of a vulnerable, unsure position. And chicks love those kinds of thins. So you take the lead, look at her in the eyes and lean forward a bit. And you kiss.

This method is a bit complicated but it is so simple and sincere that it will be hard to fail The other one is let's say you two talking, you put her hand on her leg, let it rest there a bit, say your eyes are just amazing, stroke her hair, crane her head a bit and kiss

escalating kissing is not that hatd, I described it above but there i not one simple golden rule to follow, you just go with it.

Remember, you dont use just your mouth and head while kissing but your whole body. You take her feet and put it over yours so your faces and bodies are closer. Tell me what you need to know and I'll try to explain it

Unironically, cardio.
My sex times went down when I moved and cardio went to zero.

Call her a cunt.

Really though where are you grabbing? Try the length of her legs, arms, shoulders, back etc. If even that is too much for her then she's a tease.

I am . Then she just wants to make out obviously. She could be on her period, has a bf, has diarhea etc

A good foreplay to get her heated up, I like to lick the asshole of my gf, that really gets her going.

After that, let her play on your body too, you should look reasonable good and she should know it.

Slowly start going in with her playing and start caressing her genitals too. Don't neglect other areas like boobs and especially her neck, they love to get some tongue or teeth there.

You will notice her getting ready for some fucking when she starts to got full on out on you, licking your ears or anus out, etc.

Take her on her back gently, then start pushing down her legs. You are stronger, use it!
Start with rubbing the tip of your dick around her a little, let her feel what is coming and prepare your dick with some of her wetness by rubbing tip on tip.

Push in gently at first while also pushing her lets down into the bed, the only thing her body should be able to, is to play on herself with her hands.

After the first bit went in, start to piston in and out, taking her by surprise in her state of heat. Feel her twitching hole as she gets excited in lust and her juice begin oozing.

Take a little bit on your finger tip, taste it, let her taste it, mix it in your mouths with a deep tonguey kiss. Don't forget to fuck her in your lust, always keep on trucking!

By now she should be close to orgasm herself, her hands should only target her own hip. You will feel her twitching around your cock and you will come closer to cumming by this reaction too, try to hold on.

In the best possible scenario, you will take a last deep plunge into her and start releasing your filthy semen deep in her bowels. This dominating stance should push her over the edge and get her little ladyboy cock spurting cum all over herself.

Congrats mate, but it's only one of many possible ways for a great fuck!

wat

>Also I've heard something about holding your cum back while stilling practically having an orgasm. Haven't really tried it yet but imagine using the muscles that can hold back your piss mid stream. Apparantly doing this during an orgasm wont make you cum
doing this will give you prostate cancer

source??

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i love this board

that seems to be the problem, girls seem to get with me even though they have boyfriends, and cut me off right before shit gets heated because of some guilt or someshit.

I'm in the never gunna make it zone or someshit man

Usually ass, its my fav place to grab

hmm dont know what to tell you man. except

we are all gonna make it
your time will come and you will be filling up that sweet bouncy petite brazilian teenager pussy with creampies all day senpai

I'm just gunna be emotionless and say I'm just trynna fuck to all these bitches. See if that works

yea because you are a virgin loser.

Where do I go from here?

- BIGGEST SEX REDPILL: most girls are submissive and get off big time when dominated.
- You just ask what makes her cum and do whatever it is she likes.
- Most girls can't cum just from penetration and need their clit stimulated. Tell her to masturbate for you (or use your hand to show you how she does it).
- Take it slow and tease her. Make her beg you to fuck her. Turn penetration into her reward, not yours.
- Try out "vanilla" dominant stuff like grabbing her throat (you don't necessarily need to choke for starters) or holding her down.
- Talk dirty.

When I hooked up with my current GF for the first time I treated it as a one night stand, didn't hold back and went full aggro on her. Fucked her doggy style - pushed her face into the pillows, pulled her hair, spanked that ass, held her by her wrists, choked her and did other stuff I can't even remember. Told her that she's not allowed to cum before she gets my permission which basically resulted her begging me for permission in like 15 seconds.

We've been dating for a couple of months now and the sex is great. She gets off on me denying her pleasure, she comes really close to cumming when rubbing her pussy and begging me to fuck her. I tell her to keep going, but forbid her from cumming which makes her crazy. Sometimes I tie her up and facefuck her, deep throat and have her lick my balls. If she's a good girl she will earn a fucking. She enjoys me slapping her and calling her a whore (she asked for these things btw). Most of the stuff she didn't even knew she liked herself before I did it to her or had her do it.

Long story short is that my regret is that I was too chickenshit to do all this earlier in my 20s. I was a "nice guy" and regret being such a pussy and realize that I could have gotten laid much more and had better relationships.

Pic related, it's what I requested from her while I was writing this post.

"Good"

try it, but a man with no emotion is no uhman. Did you mean emotionless in everyday life or in sexual areas?

kek

lets hump

>G-spot is a real thing for a lot of girls
No shit. You can fish hook your finger and feel it. It's a slightly different texture in the upper wall. That's why our dicks are shaped like a helmet, in order to hook that little bitch. If you aim your dick towards her clit while pene in vegeaune then you start hitting it consistently.

nah with bitches, Im done trynna get a relationship. I'm trynna fuck when Im too tired to grind my own life or someshit

a-are you talking about traps?

Stop talking out of your ass.

>gf can only ever sex once a day
>says she gets sore