How do I motivate myself to approach women...

How do I motivate myself to approach women? It's such a fucking cold world I don't even want to leave my home or even wake up. Everywhere women just purse their lips at me and frown at me. They just treat me like shit all the time. How the fuck do I motivate myself to approach women then?

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If you want to get better, you have to find out what you’re avoiding and what you’re afraid of. And maybe what you’re disgusted by. You have to expose yourself to that voluntarily, and you have to let that change you. It’s not a pleasant process. It’s a voluntary confrontation of things that make up life’s horrors.

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Learned the hard way user. But unless ur good looking and tall there's no point

>It's such a fucking cold world

It's fucking February retard, it's supposed to be cold out

>How do I motivate myself to approach women
don't you mean
>how can i become a more effective sexual predator
you fucking creep

Can confirm. I live in California and had to put on a cardigan before I left it was so cold

I just want to stay home and masturbate to porn all day.

No I don't. I haven't watched porn or masturbated for more than two years.

There's so many 10/10 qt3.14 brappphogs at my school gym

fix yourself first

Not gonna make it

No, not going to wait until I'm "fixed". I'm 33.

why are you still on this website

Well women dont want a man without confidence in himself. You need to lose the scarcity mindset that it matters if these women reject you. It could be shit tests they are putting you through or they just dont know what they are losing out on. You have to think about it like that. Im not saying be a jackass and respect women who are actually women not this western Europe north american dogshit and be a man that dominates her sexually and mentally. A man she'll want to give herself to.

For example I approached a woman in a supermarket. Talked to her about random stuff. Then I asked if she wanted to go have a coffee some day. She then pursed her lips so fucking hard and looked really disgusted. It kind of made it worse that the whole time she was smiling and nice but when I asked about having coffee she broke out of her fake niceness and then right after it she flipped right back and had that fake smile again. I fucking hate her.

Still? I started using Veeky Forums last year.

That's rough user

If you’re a woman who has trouble with men or you’re a man who has trouble with women, it’s not the women and it’s not the men; it’s you. Because the women are telling you what’s wrong with you, and the men are telling you what’s wrong with you. And if you don’t listen,

..........then it’s you.

First, make yourself laugh.... and then spread that outwards

Be chill with being single. Be chill with being in a relationship

you probably escalted too quickly

Bro that's nothing. Back when I first started college there was a Puerto Rican chick in my class. During break she went to go get Starbucks and I immediately mobbed up next to her and introduced myself. She looked repulsed but I wanted to train myself to endure hardship so I just kept at. Then she "receives" a phone call from her mom and begins talking Spanish the whole time. Meanwhile in committed to the interaction and Starbucks is like 10 minutes away which is actually a full week when ur cringing hard. We walk to Starbucks and back literally the whole time she's on the phone and im forcing myself to stick through it until breaks over. Finally we get back to class and she moves her seat to the absolute far opposite end from where I was when before she was more closer to me. Still had the class with her for another 4 months and had to see her everyday. Super beta of me but u gotta learn how to take it under the chin sometimes. Afterthat experience though getting rejected was nothing as they tend to be a lot quicker and shorter interactions than that horrible one I forced myself to endure.

You approached a random person and started talking to them when they obviously didn't care to do so. They entertained your conversation to not be rude, but broke face when you pushed the boundary of how much they'd accept. Your issue stems from an inability to read people, otherwise it would have been obvious that they weren't interested.

Pity party: The thread.

1. get a puppy
2. women approach you themselves
was that so fucking hard?

You don't
When you are good looking
Women approach you
Kys

Stop caring about the outcome when approaching women. Also stop looking at porn if you do.

Checked

Fuck you and fuck your degenerate mindset that’s ruining this board

fucking so much this

I love the mad bantz but people fucking spreading there inadequacies like a plague really makes me question coming back.

The hottest girl I ever knew was 5'4 and friend zoned me.
A few months later, she comes into the place I work with her bf, and I had to get an item off the top shelf for them because they couldn't reach it. he was like 5'9 tops. I was actually mad.

Nothing is a guarntee. If you are a chad short guy who is fun and funny, you'll get girls as long as they are shorter than you.
Humor helps, looks, confidence, money etc.

If you are a tall jacked guy but are shy, introverted and have no confidence, you'll never make it. Ive gotten better but I realize that a 'fit' guy who is well dressed and fun is much more successful than a bodybuilder with no personality

Before older women would come up to me and i always blow it because i am not a smooth talker. I'm 6'3 and 195ish lbs

this is true but then you have to pay for puppy expenses and fur on your shit

I just started Zoloft and it's already making a huge difference for me. I seriously had no clue how much anxiety I was walking around with all day, just feeling constantly uneasy around others and being deathly afraid of talking to girls. All that hesitation is melting away, more and more every day, and I feel NORMAL for the first time in years. I actually talked to this grill in my class today that I'd been getting super worked up about and it wasn't scary at all after I said hi.

I'm just so pumped at being normal again I gotta share it with somebody

I'm OP, that you replied to. I've had women tell me to move to the other end of the room, fuckwit.

Interesting. You're a jew who unknowingly chose to literally bluepill himself into gentile cattle. But then again the fact you did that probably means you were gentile cattle to begin with.

haha that's literally me, when girls started liking me I thought it was cuz I was getting buff, then I realized it was actually cause I'm good looking.
So now I'm a good looking fresh cunt who's fun at parties with a good bod I'm not even that big or ripped and I slay

I'm 5'8.5", good thing I made friends with chads in college and got off this board when I did, otherwise I'd let autistic ideas fill my head and drown in my own delusions

Wtf are you talking about?

You do understand that anecdotes are not an argument right?

There are a multitude of studies showing women and men in general prefer tall men much more than short men and tallfags earn way more than manlets. No one sees short guys as leaders or alpha of the group.

The average height of CEOS is like 6'2 compared to the general population which is 5'9. Shit, the only reason an idiot like Trump won the presidency is because he AMOG'd the shit out of all the manlets on stage, even berating the 5'9 Marco Rubio with the nickname "little Marco". A life as a manlet is suffering just stop copeing and admit it.

You stoned?

What do you expect you fucking loser AHAHAHAHAH. I think you've been reading too much PUA scam garbage. In have or college you don't just "sit next to someone and introduce yourself" what the fuck is that. Life isn't like some movie. Also you can't force human ineraction

Second this analysis. The ruse that women want to be approached in non-threatening environments like bookstores and markets is that they are there for books and groceries, not dating.

lmao sounds like a triggered virgin lanklet, you completely missed the point you fucking autist holy shit you're retarded, he was simply explaining that there are multiple variables to getting girls and that being tall is not the ONLY one

ok. Heres my opinion on your problem. youve already defeated yourself by thinking its just a cold fucking world. For the most part, your problems are usually concerning yourself, weather youre a neckbeard, or you have anxiety. I'm not trying to come off as judgemental I suck with girls also. It really is about being confidence. Look em in the eye, be firm, and never be a nice guy. you aren't entitled to shit, you have to work for it. some people are born chads, some have to work for it, thats just how life is. Go out to a bar tonight, just say some funny shit to a girl at the bar, and JUST TALK TO HER.


The only thing that holds us back are our mindsets, and until you figure out how truly primal mindset is, you will not make it. It is primal also, do you think back in the fuckin dindu ages that women wanted to produce offspring with men who werent alpha to just come up to them? of fucking course not, and its still the same today. They want a guy who can take control of her.

stop being a fucking bitch, get off this board, go work out, and watch some videos on developing a positive mindset.your problems are your own and you're the only one that can solve em.

You are going for women out of your league.

If you’re getting rejected you need to readjust your standards until you can improve yourself.

Eventually once you feel confident you can charm an ugly woman you’re going to want to naturally challenge yourself more and approach better looking women.

t. Marco Rubio

These. It sounds like you were too scared to convey your intentions from the start

Literally no one wants to be approached at the grocery store. You're a fucking retard.

b-but I saw it in YouTube video

I don't even like to see my close friends at the grocery store.

Have you not tried online yet? I went from zero action for 5 years to swimming in phone numbers and dates in less then a month on Timder/Bumble. I was looking for a worth while relationship and luckily I found an awesome girl pretty fast. You have to be proactive though. A gf isn't going to fall into your lap.

explain Jeb! then. Jeb! heightmogged trump by a good 2" yet he was still cucked at the end

Yeah but she made eye contact. She totally wanted to fuck

He's only 1 inch taller than Trump. Also notice how Trump called him "low energy Jeb" and called Cruz "Lyin Ted". Those are personality traits that can be changed but being a manlet is a physical deformity, that's why Trump attacked Marco on height and not personality traits like he did to every other male.

/nofap/

>In have or college you don't just "sit next to someone and introduce yourself"

Wait so I shouldn't talk to girls or people in college classes I take? Is that common etiquette or something? How am I supposed to meet people if I don't talk to anyone? Collegefags pls explain

t. High school senior going to college next year

find women who are in your correct dating pool.

Pretty alpha desu

Don't listen to that autist. You'll learn very quickly what girls in your classes are open to talking to you. Sit near the front of the class and look interested in the lecture and pretty soon girls will start finding an excuse to sit next to you. This is assuming you're not ugly of course.