Redpill me on celibacy and saving yourself for marriage

Everything else I did for the first time felt better the first time.

Sex doesn't feel best the first time unless you never improve your skills

not entirely physical

virgin partners have the most stable marriages

When women have sex they pair bond with their parter. Each person they pair bond with diminishes their ability to pair bond with a new partner. Basically after about ten partners a woman becomes unable to pair bond and makes her unable to truely love and stay faithful with their husband if they ever get married. This is not true for men. Men can fuck an infinite amount of women and still be able to pair bond with a wife.

Because its the way god made us user and besides not very many people will make the arguement for jewish hookup culture being good for society

I need more info about this.
I had this feeling from long time.

hariomgroup.org/hariombooks_default/celibacy/Dr-Raymond-Bernard/Science-Discovers-the-Physiological-Value-of-Continence-1.pdf
hariomgroup.org/hariombooks_default/celibacy/Dr-Raymond-Bernard/Science-Discovers-the-Physiological-Value-of-Continence-2.pdf

If you’re a guy yes a meme. If you’re a girl it’s essential to get as close to a virgin as possible when you settle down or your relationship will end in divorce.

1. STDs.

2. Multiple partners can fuck with you. Same as porn, the more you fuck other women and watch porn the more boring your wife will become. That's why people sink into deeper levels of degenracy with porn. They are chasing a high they are becoming more and more desensitized to. Many men cheat with ugly ass women simply because they are chasing that high of fucking a different woman, see Arnold.

3. It takes away from the intimacy you can have when you know someone else has done one of the most intimate and special acts of love two people can do together.

4. You and your partner will always compare your current partner to past partners. This can lead to intimacy problems as well. You will always wonder if you are pleasing her as good as so and so did. Also like point 2, this can make you wantnother women if your new partner does wuite stack up to one you had before.

5. A relationship needs to be founded on more than just sex. Young people especially get caught up in the wonders of sex and will marry people they shouldnt for the wrong reasons. Looks fade no matter how hot they are. Having sex can cloud your judgement on that and make you desire more even if the person isnt right for you.

6. Anytime you have sex there is a chance of pregnancy. Even with protection accidents happen. Having a child is not some trivial matter. The life of that child is affected by the enviroment that is set up for it. The family unit is designed to provide the best environment for a child to be raised. Statistics back this up. Children in single parent households general perform worse than children from 2 parent households. There is no reason to chance a bad situation like this and being tied to a person you really don't care too much for just for a little feel good. Plus a baby momma and child is going to be a financial drain on you for a long time that will still be there even if you move on and find another partner and have children with them.

Found the cuck

Daily reminder that you're a delusional beta if you think a woman's virginity is equal to a man's.

Fuck that shit.
There needs to be chemistry between you and your wife and if you don't find out if you two complete each other sexually and wait for marriage then you are fucked.

>actually believing this Jewish lie

How does one even function being this stupid.

Found the virgin cuck

>makes no reference to marrying a virgin
>would willingly fuck another man's leftovers
>calls others cuck

Pottery

>Implying getting laid is super duper hard hard
>Implying being a virgin is bad
I dont know why the guy you responded to wants to be traditional, but im doing it because I want a nice christian wife and to follow god's will, obviously he would know better than I do.

I'm an adult and have critical thinking skills so the church doesn't tell me what to do with my cock.

>2018
>not going MGTOW
>falling for anti-science pair bonding myth

Ishygddt

It's hard af
>MILFs literally can smell the virgin from miles
>Will throw themselves at you for chance of being the one take your V card
>Assuming you gf is also a virgin, there's a lot of humping, close calls and frustration.

I just hope you are doing for religious reasons (like I am). I have to police my gf and she's doing the same for me.

Enjoy your aids and brown children, cuckold.

300lb Neckbearded Ogre detected.

It isnt the church telling you what you should do, it's god and its for our own sake, or are you suggesting that the current hook up culture is sustainable?

It sure as hell it easy bro but its worth it, we're all gonna make it

Thanks m8
I hope you make it too

Im a sexually active mgtow man who plans to stay sexually active until i grow old and decide to just hire the occasional prostitute.

Swearing off marriage doesnt make you an antisocial monster, it makes you free

>Don't have children goy just be free!
Who could make such a post?

yeah ok buddy

I don't know man, there's a bit of magic about the first time

Which part of your chart says anything about men? If it's the left part, it's too small to read.

From what I've seen, people that are peaces of shit and lack loyalty are more likely to cheat regardless of sex. You act as if men having many partners is a good thing and doesn't affect their potential loyalty in a marriage. While there may be a difference in how much it affects men vs. women, being promiscuous is damaging for both sexes in regard to the ability to form long lasting commitments in the future.

Good luck with that. You wont be very free when your STD ridden and paying child support to about 3 different whores.

Statistics are your friend user.

an excuse and coping mechanism for virgin incels

It’s a safe reason you give in order to not have sex with someone without really hurting them. My ex used it on me.

Would you buy a Ferrari without test driving it?

Don’t get married. It’s basically signing your soul to the devil but definitely date around and focus on yourself and becoming better!

thats why vasectomy is a thing

This

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Why would buy a used car when you could have a new one. Statistically the only reason a marriage wouldn't work is if the woman wasn't a virgin at marriage. So you're only selling your soul if you marry a pre owned vehicle using your shitty analogy.

Not really. I was madly in love with this girl and she was a virgin too. We did it and it was meh. Annoying as fuck as she was too tight. Didn’t enjoy it and after finishing it was just meh. Once you get into it then it’s just another way to jerk off. I actually just enjoy the cuddles, her skin against me and her hands on me the most. I’m a sucker for that

haha yeah glad I'm only 22 still

Just don’t marry a whore. Marry someone who truly loves you no matter what. Doesn’t matter if she ad sex before but if she isn’t committed to me her fullest and love me more than I love her then don’t fucking get on your knees for her

What are you talking about cretin? I have never planted my seed in a woman, never will. What a foolish thing to even imply

Good i hooked up with some girls that claimed to be virgins. At least thats what they tell to marriage trip you.

Cant wait for some nerdic stemcel to marry one of those thinking theyre pure, top cuck

Ive also slept together with a 8/10 and we never went deeper than cuddling, since she was saving herself

I'm saying that promiscuity affects women far more than it does men. All the betas acting like female polyamory is equivalent to men's are oblivious to the fact that sex involves far more emotions for women. While promiscuity is bad in both sexes, the effects on women are orders of magnitude worse.

I used to be all for repopulating the white race but i could not feel innocent bringing children into such a hellish and awful world. Perhaps ill have a surrogate if i change my mind

The bottom middle graph shows that both men and women are less likely to remain married if they have more sexual partners. Women are a about 5-10% below men at each threshold, but it is clear that promiscuity is not good for men either if they plan on having a long-lasting marriage. Many of the other graphs and texts on there are irrelevant.

>don't marry a whore
>it's okay to marry a whore

Why can't I hold all of this cognitive dissonance.

At this point I'm saving myself till death. Fuck those succubus

If you think marrying a virgin is going to get you heaven and loved then you have no idea what is coming for you

it's a meme

Good on you lad, there is nothing wrong with celibacy. C.S Lewis stayed celibate his whole life and he turned out alright.

Don’t marry.

coward

Women are the ones who 'choose' in relationships whereas men fight for partners and are more likely to be content with what they can get. It's a fact that women are far more picky than men area. Ratings of the opposite sex on various dating sites show this because women on average give a lower score to the average than the average man gives to the average woman. That makes sense biologically as well because females want to choose the best mate to reproduce. So it makes sense that a woman would be more likely to voice dissatisfaction with a partner when he is not living up to her standard and she thinks she can find a better partner. Focus on improving yourself as a person and being successful in life and you won't have to worry about a woman wanting to ditch you.

>saving your hymen for Jesus
Noble, user

I'm in 20s now. If it was meant to be it would have happened by now. I think moving on is going to help me with my life. I need to focus on my future instead

people lose their virginity in their 20s all the time dude

happened to me

Who said anything about heaven? Sorry you're trying to rationalize your gf's sexual past to feel better about your cucking.

great way to cope when you cant get laid

All the people I know have been fucking since they were like 12

He turned out dead.

Okay virgin.

I support your argument about marrying a virgin. I just don’t see how that guarantees a happy marriage or sex life in general.

>okay virgin
>implying

I'm just not dumb enough to get cucked.

What's the point? Most marriages end in divorce anyway. You're gonna save yourself for years just to get cucked a little bit down the line? I don't really see that many people getting married in their 20s any more. Early 30s more like it. Self-imposed wizardhood has to be the most retarded punishment you can give yourself, unless you are a devout christian

See
Female promiscuity ends marriages

Am I missing some indicator that shows how many sexual partners a woman has had? How could you possibly know that?
Unless you live in some tiny middle of nowhere town with a tight-knit community and propose to your next door neighbor or the girl from the church, I don't see how this would work.

Don’t bother with this thread. I believe in god but I also believe he gave us choice. Self imposed celibacy is taking the dick and nuts god blessed you with and letting it rust. Be happy. Deep down I know you want to be with someone and want us to talk how great being a celibate is so you can feel better about yourself but let’s be real.

Get fit, get your life sorted, work towards success, thank god and bang Chicks along he way!

They were asked by researchers?

I don't know how big the sample size was, but the bottom line is more partners = higher chance of marriage ending in divorce.

It probably doesn't have any specific benefits for guys apart from saving you from the occasional VD testing. Virgin women are great, but you should usually avoid women who are "saving themselves for marriage".
Personally, I'm a virgin because I'm a Don Quixote-tier delusional romantic.

>claims to believe in God
>goes directly against God's will on purpose

Nice try atheist shill

Why was I gifted something I can't use? Why am I taunted so?

Only ugly people are celibate. Sex is best when you're young, and gets worse as you get older.

Dude. I remember somewhere in the bible during Abraham’s time, the alpha leader ( Abraham in that case) had salves and concubines. They fucked. They worshipped. Abraham did find a virgin wife but that’s not my point. My point is if you want to be a Virgin then do it. Don’t let it hold you back from being confident with girls tho. Don’t go advertising it and don’t bring it up on your dates ever. If you find a virgin loving wife then that’s amazing. I wish and hope you do( there are some cuties in my church). Be sexual. Chicks love it. You don’t have to stick your dick in her

What happened to your dick bud?

I'm voluntarily celibate and saving myself for marriage. I'd say not having sex frees up time to do literally anything else (like exercising) and its rare that a teenage or young adult male can support a child anyway so why bother? Also recreational sex imo is just masturbating with friends, totally fucking autistic.

>sexual immorality
>Bible verses
Throw yourself off the nearest bridge

You're gonna make it

Le enlightened fedora

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Fuck off pleb

>>>/Reddit/

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Only betas give a shot about marriage, real alphas pump and dump

Keep in mind, I am not a virgin till marriage, personally, but bear this in mind.

>Humans are a species which prefer low offspring and high effort (as opposed to fish who are high offspring, low effort, say)
>If a human baby does not get adequate paternal and maternal attention, their outcome is limited
>Having sex always creates a risk of pregnancy
>If the pregnancy is within wedlock, there is a certain legal and/or merely religious agreement to stay together in light of this pregnancy. The same cannot be said for out of wedlock
>Thus, having sex outside of wedlock gives rise to the abortion "debate", creates more opportunity for single parenthood, and generally means teen pregnancies can occur earlier - especially single teen parenthood.

>Bonus: Less STDs are transmitted, pair-bonding is optimised by remaining a virgin till marriage and you won't find that you hate your partner after your sex lives have worn thin.

I am not a virgin till marriage myself, but I think it is a good cultural evolution desu. We (myself included) are all just too degenerate, hedonistic and nihilstic to value this these days.

Unironically using the spacing mem3

Hello nu

h-heh imagine that

Don't be sad user, you're still gonna make it.

You have a great strength of resolve. I'm saving myself too. Well, I've kind of abandoned any hope of finding a partner, so I'll likely just end up dying a virgin... But I've decided to not do it with anyone else but with someone I truly love and want to spend my life with as partners, and it's a decision I will not regret.
Men tend to think that there's no value in celibacy as a male, but I disagree. Abstaining from "degeneracy" not only strengthens one's character but also shows dedication towards their future partner building a solid base for a future relationship, as this
user so well explains.
It saddens me that today relationships are seen as "disposable". There's no respect between partners and knots are tied with the prospect of divorce. People cheat on their spouses without a second thought, abandon their partners for hedonistic pleasure, and even drag their children down with them in the process.
This applies to both men and women. Deciding to stay pure for your future partner shows your own dedication and respect, and when both parties have the same resolve, I believe, it leads into a mutual trust - a lasting base for a life-long fulfilling partnership and love.

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Bruh I can relate to girls being sexually aggressive. it also doesn't help that I've been a lifelong nofapper
How did you find your faithful Christian gf?

>I'm saving myself too. Well, I've kind of abandoned any hope of finding a partner, so I'll likely just end up dying a virgin...
There it is. You're not saving yourself. You've been incapable of finding someone. Experimenting as a teenager and in college is not degeneracy. It's a way of finding a relationship.
Once these threads come me along I find d more evidence that this faux religious prudishness is just the way these people are rationalizing their lack of partner or social anxiety.
Treating sex as some sort of monumental occasion is nor productive.

With a seemingly simple act of strength like resisting temptation, only more and more strength will find you.
If any man have ears to hear, let him hear. And he said unto them, Take heed what ye hear: with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you: and unto you that hear shall more be given. For he that hath, to him shall be given: and he that hath not, from him shall be taken even that which he hath.