Go out to bars

Yeah remember to look for cues of interest. Most of them are very obvious, and if a girl is not clearly interested then don't tryhard. I find its best when you're just having fun and comfortable with people and girls will notice that and think you're a great guy. This is why body language is important, you want to give off the feeling of being worth talking to because of a positive vibe.

This, except I failed miserably in my attempts to change and now girls go cold on me even quicker than ever before.

Last Tuesday, a solid 7 told me I glare. How did I react? I said nothing and glared at her. Just fucking kill me.

Meant for this

40 seconds is long, I'd say more like 20 seconds.
Also, before going to talk with her, make sure she wasn't just looking around and unintentionally looked at you in the eyes

>I'm better looking and more fit than 99% of the guys
>still virgin
Maybe its your shitty attitude and personality

Yeah I also have to keep reminding myself to smile. Sometimes I forget and I go up to her with a face like I'm about to max out my deadlift.

Women only go after high status men. You need to wear expensive clothing and constantly show it off in order to establish your high status.

THIS

and if your car is some old POS then don't bother

Ok Pajeet

Lmao I have the same “problem,” I just think it’s funny though, like when a girl in the grocery store is in my way, says sorry really submissively, smiles up at me and goes by and I just continue to seem pissed off and act like I didn’t notice her. Maybe I’m just a dick

Youre right. I didn't even notice it before, but its always Indians trying to wear polos, with too much cologne and flashing cash

HAPA

>I'm better looking and more fit than 99% of the guys
>still virgin
No you are not.

Nawww got me a nice country girl, cute college chick, and the essential oils chick from the farmers market, I drive a beater but, o smile like nobody's business, tell tons of dumb jokes and occasionally bring em things I've baked, and I eat puss like a boss and smoke far too much weed life's good when you're goose

"Game" is basically the "fundamental attribution bias" in action

Learned helplessness. Look it up, that's you.

How do extinguish that anxiety with approaching women or not spaget? Start low, go for the ones you know will suck your dong in a heart beat. Work on rewiring your opperant conditioning responses so it is more realistic to the new perspective.

If that is the truth, or you could just think you're good looking.

>I get constant validation now
People looking at you is not validation. When you're out with people, looking at each other is a normal function of healthy human social interraction. Get it through your head Veeky Forums. They're not mirin you. You'll know when they actually mire you.

Someone's a sourpuss

This, our ability to delude ourselves would almost be impressive if it wasn't so pathetic and retarded. I guess its selected for as it might make you slightly more sexually aggressive and thus marginally improving your chance of spreading your subhuman DNA, but people with "anxiety" like OP are those that are sentient enough to realize that something is wrong, but have yet to realize the painful truth.

Don't sweat it. You sound like a particular guy.

These sound like the textbook symptoms of being a Supreme Gentleman.
Pro tip: do not start looking into average penis size. It will be very concerning.

OP here. Just slept off the drunk.Loling at the responses. To answer your questions the validation is not just women staring at me. Though it does happen a lot. Women have actively try g to get my attention. A chick in my class was recently kicking my chair and thinking aloud to get my attention so I would talk to her. Plus my gay friend just said that all of his girlfriends think I'm cute and I could have anyone I wanted. He could be lying to me to boost my self esteem but I hope he wouldn't at this point since we have been friends for so long and I am arguably his best friend. Speaking of body language the same girl said that I rolled my eyes when we grouped together so she asked me if I was in a bad mood. I think my facial movements might be cucking me by making me seem like an asshole in this modern day insecurity fest

Take some Molly and try going to bars, also don’t go out with intent to fuck girls who will talk to you. I do the best socially when I am there for myself and no one else

I know exactly how you feel OP
>tfw gut-tier resting murder face

You're probably gonna but explain this, user

Gone* but pls explain

Drink alcohol. Makes you more friendly.

Ding ding

Delete this

>Last Tuesday, a solid 7 told me I glare. How did I react? I said nothing and glared at her.
Alpha as fuck

This is true . But OP never specified if he goes at the bar alone or with his group of friends. I don't have any friends so I don't go to bars not even alone so I can't talk on this issue.

But believe me that OP might be on something here. One of the most recent mire I got was from this woman that goes running the exact same time I go biking , she is with her husband/boyfriend whatever. She stares at me for as long as she goes pass through and I do the same and it happens more than once. I have a face that looks like I always think to kill someone and I am really pleased by the fact she looks at me the way she looks . I know that I really have small chances but next time I'll try to smile at her.

>go out with girls
>get groped and mired
>"user come dance"
>n-no
>sit still while they dance around me

how do I become more than just a "meathead" with the personality of a cardboard, seriously I can not fucking dance in clubs and I wish I did because it's fun plus a lot of butts grinding

If you are attractive yet can't get girls have you considered re-evaluating what girls look for in a guy and what you might be doing wrong?

Lol don’t do this. You will come across weird as fuck. He’s giving this advice because it re affirms what he’s doing is normal. Relax and bee yourself, then you’re personality will shine.

Stop being an insecure fag and have fun
Also drink alcohol

but I'm not insecure, I simply do not know how to dance
>bob knees

yeah not enough

>drink alcohol

but I do get some shots as pre-clubbing

Top kek

Dennis?

You forgot to do the reloading animations.

heh, I unironically think of the reloading animations when in the club but I'm not doing it

Take dance lessons you fool.
Watch instructional youtube videos.
Treat it like a discipline like lifting and practice at least once a week

>Go to anime cons
>Apparently decent looking, probably better looking than a typical con goer
>Apparently am dense anime MC tier when it comes to women according to my buddies
>Once told a girl that "I actually don't know how to talk to people so I'll let you go, sorry! :3" as I gave her the "right this way ma'am" arms to shoo.
>Was talking to a cosplayer about kinks at a room party, apparently I accidentally called her fat or something as we were talking about bdsm and how I wanted to try it out. I think I said something along the lines of not being into thicc girls, she said something like "oh but I'm kinda chubby" to which I didn't know how to respond to 'cause she actually was kinda chubby.
>Still kissless virgin
Send help.

>step 1
Relax and don’t try to be anything you’re not. If you’re fucked up you’re probably used to putting up a fake personality and mannerisms because you think their is something wrong with you.
>step 2
Talk to women. You will probably have to force yourself a bit if you aren’t used to it. Start small and go easy on yourself. Learn to say “hi” and smile. Then ask how is your day, what’s new with you etc. you’d be surprised how quickly women will open up if you talk to them. Understand that girls will barely ever initiate conversation with you. Especially if they like you. They are like little scared children with attitude so you must be friendly and confident or else they get scared and run away. Breaking the ice even if it’s a small effort is so important with girls because it gets the familiar with you and as soon as she has even a little bit of rapport she can start chasing you and giving you more obvious signs that you’d be dumb to miss.
>step 3
Look for signs they like you. How close they get to you is a big one, the biggest imo. Eye contact isn’t bad but can be unreliable sometimes and hard to gauge, staring and smiling are good signs of eye contact. Touch is another big one, if they accidentally brush up against you for example. You will feel sexual electricity with some girls. This girl is basically guaranteed to like you, you can only fuck it up by not making a move or being an asshole. Not every girl will like you, in fact this number is probably around 10 percent if you take care of your hygiene, dress nicely and are cool/relaxed. Likewise most you don’t like most girls. You may find them attractive but you’re probably not attracted to them. Only shoot shots with girls who you really like.

I started drinking like 1-2 beers and taking some GABA and 5HTP. Makes me calm and gives me the ability to hold a convincing smile most of the night. I have a serious case of resting bitch face and just all around intimidating/mean look most of the time. I don't know if the beer and the supps are just placebo effect, but I finally got laid last night by a girl who I just picked up in a bar. All previous lays were GFs in long lasting relationships

>Last Tuesday, a solid 7 told me I glare. How did I react? I said nothing and glared at her.
This is the opposite of a problem, this is fantastic.

I get tons of matches on tinder but never respond or message them because im too lazy. Id rather shit post on Veeky Forums and look at muscular guys and work out. I might be gay but in denial I dont know..

Seriously anyone else have this problem? Am I gay?

Milk truck just arrive

I do the same thing I never message any matches, i think it's a mix of me being a pussy and I don't think my game over messaging on tinder would be good. I'm actually p good looking and in a kinda bad dry spell rn I think i'm gonna force myself to try to get laid using tinder

>I notice mires from old ass women, fatties, cougars, jailbait, and gay guys
>never notice mires from chicks my age
I don't know if they're sneakier about it, if I somehow appeal to the other groups but not them, or I have a blindspot because I'm actually attracted to them.

You probably don't look as good as you think you do

Low test.

Unless you’re jerking it to fag porn in secret or something.

Autism is an instant deal breaker for girls. Doesn't matter how handsome you are.

Just be yourself. ;)

I feel this, i'm prob the best looking one in my friend group and can pull easy when i'm with girls in bars but in any club/dancing situation i'm fucked. I'm mad stiff and dance pretty awkwardly even when i'm drunk my chances of getting laid go down like 80% if it's a club. I'm like an 8.5 and i'd take being a 7 if I had any type of rhythm at all

>girls my age won't give me the time of day
>milfs are after my dick like it's made of solid gold

Alright then.

I do both of these...

>Maybe its your shitty attitude and personality
It's always the shitty attitude.
The majority of meh looking guys have fulfilling relationships throughout their lives.
If you're on Veeky Forums and you're a virgin it's 100% your attitude.
Lift all you want, it won't change shit, we get these threads all the time
>I'm ripped and still a virgin what am I missing
You're a negative, insecure misogynist motherfucker, that's what

Nice projection you got there faggot boi.

4 channers are virgins because they are autists when it comes to outside life. They could pretend they aren't and fuck some random sluts but they when it comes to sex they actually want more than just that. Probably coming from shitty lives makes you like that. Why should I change my integrity , personality ( which you assume it's negative like a beta boi) and standards just to blend in? I present myself like that not because I'm stubborn but because I want to attract people that believe in the same things as me .

xD

Literally just read books about self esteem / self acceptance / confidence, and watch videos by RSDTyler/RSDJulien on the same subjects and you'll soon sort yourself out. Your body may be Veeky Forums, but your mind still needs to catch up, so you have to train it.

THE PROBLEM IS YOU ARE A FAGGOT. STOP BEING A BITCH.

What is happening in this webm???

You're either a giant pussy who thinks it should fall on his lap or not nearly as good looking as you say you are
If you're really "better looking than 99% of guys" then you can just walk up to a woman, slap her ass, ask if she wants some drinks at your place and she will say yes in a heartbeat.
Chances are you're not that guy so you better learn how to be socially affluent instead of some boring bitch

I've never had a girl brush up on me what the hell, what does one even do after that dude?

>>Once told a girl that "I actually don't know how to talk to people so I'll let you go, sorry! :3" as I gave her the "right this way ma'am" arms to shoo.
kek I remember that thread

Did he shit his pants or something? Is he on acid? What the fuck is happening?

Virgin decision making

Nice man, making social gains

Just say you don't know how to dance. If their actually interested they'll show you how. A lot of people get off to the feeling that other people need them

I just meet gfs doing out door shit. I absolutely have no chance doing anything in a bar. To autistic I need 1v1s exclusively.

He doesn't want to step in front of the projector. Note guy in baseball cap that's not a raging autist

Can a bald, fit, good framed, stylish white guy have success at a bar? I finally got my own house and after a long work week I want to spend my weekends going to bars and picking up Latina for rough steamy sex on my king size bed.

Fake news. Not only are you ugly, you're low IQ too.

This

>Smile more
the key in all this.

>heh guy im better then every single dude there
>n-no girls talk to me though
>im like super hot too
no you are not faggot go to /soc/ to larp there, if you are physically attractive to the point of mogging all the dudes in the room, unless you are in a room of 10s- girls will definatley mire/come up to you

...

get on gear like the rest of us

it won't help but whatcha gonna do?

IIRC he's mimicking what a character in a particular video game does if you stop making him run/jump/whatever

No you're not better than 99%
Or you wouldn't be a virgin

>I'm better looking and more fit than 99% of the guys

Your mom isn't telling you the truth

This.

I fucking hate it when a girl sees me look at them because I know they assume I am checking them out when in reality I'm usually just glancing in their direction the exact moment they glanced in mine.

Mires are extremely obvious. As in, a girl will grope your arm. Or get really close to you. Or do other touchy, feely shit. Talking or looking is not a fucking mire.

>Girl found out I go to the gym
>Hey user wanna go to the gym with me?
>I don’t go to the gym with women

Everyone in the room flipped, but I didn’t mean it in a mean way, I’m just shy. Pure autism.

if they flipped out because you said you dont want to go with women, they must not lift.
So what the fuck are you doing hangingout wiht people who dont lift ? Fucking DYEL !

Lmao.
I’m in Uni. I went to parties early on to feel what it was like. I didn’t drink until I was 20, which is odd in the UK.

What are you implying? That I'm a soyboy for wanting to bed latinas casually? Would it be more alpha to get a roastie gf and raise her black son?

>be more expressive with my face.

I find that less a expressive face keeps me at peak aesthetic.

acute aspergers at work.

Sorry man but you have to not be a pussy and make an approach. It's really not hard at all to get sex once you're over that first hurdle.

I had this dime of a Stacey do that to me in class. Every time we’d go in groups she would lean into me and her hair would be inches away from my face. I didn’t move of course because I was intoxicated by her smell. I had a raging hard on of course. Eventually she leaned into my where her arms were resting directly against mine. I wish she didn’t have a boyfriend otherwise I would have made a move. Added her on Facebook and waiting for the day I can pounce.

this thread is too much truth for me right now. hope it`s still up (or achived) tomorrow.

some days I get mired by 5 girls and I still have to be high on caffeine and theanine just so I can carry a conversation.