Good feels thread?

How do I not fuck up the text conversations?
How long should I wait before asking her out?

>Be me
>32yo single dad
>used to pull 8-10s on the regular
>let myself go when I had a kid
>best shape of my life now
>not even trying because full custody
>THICC booty Latina is miring
>kid scares everybody away so I'm out with it right away expecting her to run
>doesn't
>swooning over fit good dad
>been talking to her all day for a few days
>turned her down for Vday to dress up with my son and go to dinner together
>her face when (pic related)

Is this a new subclass of woman that I had never experienced before? Is she actually into me because I'm a good dad or is she into me because face/frame/abs/biceps and just telling me what I want to hear?

You shouldn't really be texting her unless you're making plans or have a genuine question. Girls text their orbiters

ask her out asap, can be somethign basic like "how about we eat together thursday or next tuesady" (assuming your uni has MWF and TTH classes) or if midterms are close "want to study at coffee shop this weekend?"

75% chance its because you're a good dad/single father. Most girls i knew in high school would swoon when they saw a dude (especially tatted up or some what alt but still thin/skinny fat) walking his kid in a stroller alone.

...

OP she probably has STDs

>>turned her down for Vday to dress up with my son and go to dinner together
You sound like a bro.

So text her only to ask her out and nothin more?
I've only known her a day, would that be too soon?

It's just like that user, congrats, a new part of your life just began.

Never too soon to do good

Whatever you can say / do over texts you can do better in face.
Best method is actually to never text, and just give her like 90 seconds cellphone calls.

>Hey it's user how are you doing / how was your day
>...
>Another bullshit sentence, asking question about classes or w/e
>...
>Hey, I've got some free time on XX day, would you like to hang out?
>Yes >> Say you'll take her at YX place (never ask her where she wants to go, you're in charge)
>No >> offer a dual choice such as "How about Wednesday then? I'm also free on Friday". If you didn't do anything creepy she'll agree to one of those 95% of the time.
>All right sounds good , I'll be in touch for the exact details yeah? Have a nice day, ciao

Boom you've got yourself a date

Even if she is a shy girl?

> be miserable oldfag (30)
> last real gf I had was 5 years ago
> last time I tried to have sex I couldn't get it up
> want to die
> meet girl on tinder
> she's perfect
> she tells me she has a boyfriend
> wanna kill myself
> keep seeing her as friends because whatever
> one day she says we could fuck if I wanted to
> her bf doesn't mind as long as she tells him about it
> we get in bed
> dick won't get hard, I get depressed
> try again a few days later, still nothing
> keep trying, she's the most patient person on earth
> one day magically my dick is reborn
> I now have a fuckbuddy and a good friend + she resurrected my dead penis
Life is beautiful

He's old enough to have taught her while she was still in High School.

Not sure.
I would argue that taking charge works especially well with shy girls. Like don't let shyness an opportunity to kick in. Just "Make it happen".

You already made first contact, that's the hardest part

YOUR SON IS LUCKY AS FUCK.
Good going user, you sound like a good dad srs.

>can’t get hard at 30
wew

if she gave her number and replies to you, you should be in the clear.

porn

>Had anorexia three years ago
>Thought that being as skinny as I can would make me look good
>Started doing drugs and skipping meals to boost weight loss
>Eventually got too deep into drugs, and became really antisocial as well
>Talking to some old friends I knew from back when I used to do kickboxing
>"Holy shit user! Is that really fucking you? What happened? I really did not wanna see you like this"
>At that point I realized how much I had fucked up
>Decided to start going to the gym again
>Its been a tough three years but now I've been completely sober for almost a year now
>I'm still working on getting big, I'm at otter mode rn but I'm really happy with that as well
>Knowing people care about me has helped me immensely in social situations, I'm not the most popular but I definitely have a lot of friends I can count on.
>I feel like I've done really well in these three years, and I don't know if I will make it or not but I know I won't stop trying. Not after everything that's happened

>can't get it up

THIS is the only person NoFap was meant for. Once you can no longer have normal sex because of your masturbation habits, it's time to stop.

CCFFH

i scored the winning goal in a rocket league game

Have you tried lifting and Nofap?

>her bf doesn't mind as long as she tells him about it
He sounds like a literal cuck.
Is he cool?

She seems genuine about it so I was hoping for this. It's just not something I'm used to, maybe because I always went for thotties and not women with their shit together.

>bro
I can't tell if this is negative if positive context. I'm definitely not the typical fratboipucci type but I'm sociable and liked by most.

Thanks. My dad was a hardass and never gave me such much as a hug in my life. My mom was sweet and sensitive. I'm trying to give him everything that I had and everything that I didn't so it's a weird dance to try and play both rolls.

She op but are girls really not weirded out by someone they've known for an hour asking them out?
If a girl I talked to for an hour asked me out the next day, I'd be a little confused, think they are desperate but probably happy and say yes.

Not OP*

I really like him, he's funny as shit, a weakling though (skeleton mode). She lets him fuck on the side as well, they both seem happy with the situation. It's weird but kinda awesome.

That feel when the preworkout kicks in. Is there a better feel?
I wish I could take it on days I didn't work out. I love the feel.

>She lets him fuck on the side as well,
I mean, it is her BF after all?
Has he ever watched?
Does he fuck other girls?

Call her. Text only if you want to be friendzoned.

Veeky Forums,

I've made a lot of fuck ups and I let myself slip to rock bottom. I was failing at my job and hated every minute of it- hell I was about to get fired. I was getting fat and losing what strength I had. My dad died, my dog died, every relationship I was in collapsed before it really began. Everything was a mess. The only reason I didn't just fucking end it was because I didn't want to put that on my mother and sister and I know it's the cowards way out.

So I went and got help, and fighting my way through things. And my doctor supported me when I said I didn't want to go on any meds or anything. I actually like the guy because he calls me out on my shit a lot.

I've moved to a different section at work and enjoy my time a lot more now. I finally told the girl of my dreams how I felt, and even though she turned me down because she's apparently seeing someone, at least I said it. I'm actually running more, and I'm cutting a lot of weight and holding to my diet really well. I'm getting compliments for how I'm handling things. An old friend hit me up about starting a casual relationship. Of course, I turn around and shit goes wrong elsewhere. I've got a bunch of unexpected payments due, my taxes are all jacked up, and I'm coming to terms that pretty much everything I knew and cared about is gone. I still wrestle with feelings of solitude and loneliness. Getting rejected was so much of a gut punch I couldn't sleep that night.

I feel like Rocky Balboa fighting Clubber T and Ivan Drago at the same time. I'm getting my ass kicked, but I get my blows back in and I'm learning how much further I can go. My head is bloodied but unbowed.

I'd also recommend Unfuck Yourself by Gary John Bishop. I've been listening to it on runs and it's been a lot of help so far.

Yeah he's her BF and they love each other, they live together and plan to stay together forever. They also don't mind if their partner wants to have some fun on a tinder date or whatever. He does that sometimes with random girls, she comes over to my place about once a week, I know she also bangs this other dude she's known for years.

They're not interested in any triangle stuff or other weird shit.

>sitting at a lunch table with a friend
>having a good conversation, getting along well
>notice a girl across the way is looking at me
>she's cute
>go back to talking with friend, but can still see her looking at me through the corner of my eye
>tfw haven't had a gf in 4 years

I've been lifting for 2 years, maybe someday I'll work up the courage to talk to mirin girls

I mean it shows you’re serious. I would say a good portion of girls who weren’t interested wouldn’t give their number, or would just offer up Facebook or Instagram. If they do give a number, it’s real and they don’t ghost you or block you, you’ve got more of a chance. Worst comes to worst she’ll put it off or say no

>find girl I like
>pretty certain she likes me too
>ask for her number
>she gives me her number
>ask her out
>she rejects me
Getting a phone number is not a guarantee.

Great shit user

Regarding money, always keep some shit on unexpected payments.
what i learned in my poorfag life, whenever big payments come, they happen to come in pairs or trios that will ruin you. And try to not take any credit shit, pay upfront and be done with shit.

Im still a beta loser, 25 that never even held hands with girl, but im improving in looks and discipline. And my chad brother who was popular with chicks is now spiraling in alcoholism and is permamently broke havent achieved anything in decade now.

I dont want to seem like petty guy that pushes off people shoulders or gets off unhappy brother, but he rejected our cries far too long.

good job user!

I know user, and it's mostly my fault I ended up with them. I'd just start buying crap during anytime my depression flared up, so I rung up a lot of bills. And eating out. And travelling.

But I've mostly got in under control again. It's just a pain paying off credit.

I would say my shitty story but its pathetic as fuck and i can shorten it to
>tfw oneitis
And
>tfw oneitis dates chad now

I need to meet more people, im sure theres some7/10 cute that would love to have someone like me, i just need to get out and advertise myself more.

Feels good when you see girls on the street and cashiers etc smiling to you or looking deep in your eyes.

One day i may

Someone pretended not to hate me more than once. Best moments of my life.

I care about you user. I care.

Pls be well!

Whoa whoa whoa buddy what's with these C words

Don't fucking call. Calling in 2018 is intrusive as fuck.

Your gonna make it

>Oldfag
>26
Nigga I'm that age and I feel just as energetic as I did when I was 20. Get more vitamins in your system.

how do i make it Veeky Forums?

Truly making it comes from within bro. Lift hard, work hard at your goals and be a good person. Read stoic philosophy and all that jazz

I wonder why they would give you their number. Was it a classmate? or coworker?

Im afraid i wont make it fit
I will become second George Leeman except far less known and successfull

>racemixing divorced dad

Man, I'm glad you're not my father.

Classmate, but it was obvious my intentions. Like we weren't in a group project or in a class where we needed each other's numbers, we were sitting down together talking after class and I was like "hey can I get your number." I guess somewhere along the line she lost interest, idk. People are hard to understand sometimes.

>be walking home late at night
>decide to take a shortcut through the alleyway
>kinda like pic related
>bad_idea.jpg
>midway through I see a silhouette appear
>mildly freak out but think nothing of it
>keep walking
>walk by him
>turns out it's some guy wearing a pigmask
>at this point I'm about to faint
>he starts following me
>I want to run but I can't, my body refuses
>I'm so scared that I stop
>pigman walks up to me
>among snorts and gargling I can decypher him saying "I think you look really cute"
>"t-thanks"
>he asks if I live around here
>"yes"
>he asks will I go out with him
>"yes"
>he asks for my number
>"yes"
>"what do you mean? just give me your number" he gets visibly aggressive
>tell him my number
>he snores and laughs
>says "bye"
>I do a 360 and get the hell out of there (power walking)
>get home and cry myself to sleep trying to calm down
>get woken up at night
>it's my phone
>it's an unknown number
>answer the phone
>AUTISTIC SCREECHING AND PIG SQUEALS
>put the phone down immediately
>can't fall asleep for the remainder of the night

I was thinkin' the same thing, people only call nowadays if it's on emergency or to give/get help for some shit.
>call and interrupt her day to ask if she wants to go on a date
It's a 50% 50% chance she'll even answer.

Make plans asap. Otherwise you will fade form her mind and become nothing to her.

If you hated the pig outfit why didn't you say something cutie ;)

>30 second talk on a phone means interrupting somebody's day
Those bitches are glued to their phones 24/7 anywy.
>It's a 50% 50% chance she'll even answer.
If she can't answer then she won't - was that so hard?

Well yeah, by that logic whatever you're texting is automatically relegated to the same importance level as an instagram notification or her latest tinder match.

Calling is just insanely more effective to invite a girl on a date. As I explained above it shouldn't take more than 90 seconds. If she can't answer, then it's okay to text her. But it's 1000 more alpha to cold call.

P.S: Obviously never start with texts and then call. It's all or nothing.

To be fair I'm in way better shape than I was at 20. I was an alcoholic skinny fat fag. Now I'm a lean fag with more body hair.

>and better at talking with women

>tfw lost 17 pounds in a month of keto + deficit
>four matches on Tinder, two dates this week
>Drastically reduced drinking from every night two once a week at best, now focusing on cutting down/quitting cigs

Feels good men.

They are glued to their phones for texting, not calling.
Also hurts less if they say no via text.

finally hit 1/2/3/4 today

leg press was easy, deadlift took nearly twice as long, but finally got it

user, if someone called me after only talking for an hour. I probably wouldn’t pick up and I probably would be weirded out unless he was the type to never text. So it would say it’s a full commitment thing and you basically would never want to be texting around here unless it’s an “ok” to confirm you got a message. If you’re active on any social media or were texting it would be creepy

>met girl over weekend, had good time and kissed
>bday yesterday, got drunk and had a good time with the lads
>lent starts tomo so i'll not be drinking for 6 weeks, going to really focus on lifting
>first driving lesson tomo
>guess my new life starts tomo

What happened to your baby mama?

I don't know fellas
I'm not saying I hold the truth, just what worked in my experience.
What's the point of getting a number if not calling? If you're just going to text might as well use Messenger / Insta / Snapchat, they are much better suited for this.

Whenever I get a number I say "I'll give you a call" or something like that, when I do they always pick up or call me back / ask me to call back.

There could also be a cultural thing (im from West Europe) but I've been told a couple times that a call means much more to girls than a simple text, for some odd reason. Probably the balls it takes because you can't spend hours perfecting the ideal conversation (>implying) you must make it happen live

t. roastie
Do you also consider phone calls to be sexual harassment?

nice larp faggot

>Beginner, been lifting for almost 3 months
>Goal is 1/2/3/4
>Injured myself benching and took a week break pissed off and only doing light chest workouts to try and maintain the progress I made
>Went back to benching yesterday
>Hit 185, a new PR
>Wanted to scream but am a quiet beta so that is off the table
Only 40 more pounds. Trying to hit it in 2 months, not impossible in my mind since I started off only being able to bench 110 pounds 3 months ago.

>leg press
user...

>son soon to have midget beaner bro

Same except she did like me, I just waited too long to ask her out and she went cold. Started dating some other nigga.

lol im about to date a 17 years old being me 26 years old lawyer, we got good connection at the gym

Creepy as fuck. Remember how much of a fag you were at 17.

When i was 17 years old I was playing WoW, fat kido, with no future. Now Im fit, i bought a Lexus, working in a law firm and i dont drink alcohol nor i do drugs. Why not?

Men and women aren't equal you imbecile.

>t. insecure dicklet virgin

Yes. She is the equivalent of that but in female form. I’m not saying she plays wow. But she has the mental maturity of someone who does dumb shit like that.

That means he can shape her into a good person.

That's why she's a perfect specimen to become his personal dick rider.

YOU ARE GONNA MAKE IT AND GONNA BE FUCKING HAPPY ABOUT IT

I had a similar reaction from my gf:
>bring her to a family reunion dinner
>all my nieces and nephews are there
>they are kids
>I'm great with kids and I'm the fun uncle
>play with the kids
>while I'm owning these kids in 1 v 8 basketball I see my gf miring
>just sitting in a chair with her legs spread open and with bedroom eyes

She may be a pedophile though

Same p much

The way you did it? Yes. You noted her body language, paid attention to non-verbal cues like her eye contact, made conversation about her that wasn't centered around you and how she pleased your dick. Where people usually fail in the approach is they don't bother to actually engage the girl they're trying to get with - you've already surpassed the majority of people who approached her by a long mile by doing that OP. Good job!

Getting her number isn't indicative that she likes you, by the way

YOU NOT ONLY GOING TO DO THAT 40, YOU GONNA DO 50.

>actually sticking with my diet and exercise plan for once in my life
>slowly getting my sleeping schedule back on track
>quit smoking
>quit masturbating
>feel nothing inside

I'm not happy, nor angry. I'm just a dead husk, consuming calories and expending energy through exercise.

>grow up as fat kid, with no siblings, single mom
>at age 20 mom dies and I am left with nothing
>somehow manage thru depression and shit, start working out
>fast foward to age 24, still KHV but at least I have gym gains
>work in retail, meet several girls, start to also get social gains
>autism still fucks up most dates, never even get to first base
>suddenly this one girl seems interested (she is sticc AF)
>same story as always, I think
>just don't give a fuck at this point and text whatever
>she says she just left her last relationship and isn't ready for something new
>ohboyherewego.avi
>"I just wanna fugg you tho, you are so hot"
>doesnotcompute.exe but I am fine with it
>we go to my place and fuck for 3 hours on and off, can't cum because of deathgrip
>don't know what to think, at least no longer a virgin
>nothing major has changed tho so don't feel too different

being a virgin or not is a meme
it's more important to find the person that you share a lot of interest and humor
maybe sticc girl is the one tho...

anyways, we are all gonna make it brehs

its literally that easy

you'll get over it, my dood. you're still adjusting.