When did you realise being a loner is aesthetic as fuck as long as you embrace it. Don't talk to anyone...

>"Im 15 and think getting laid is as easy as 'I have a hot body wanna fug? :DDD'"
When you become an adult you realise asking women to fuck all the time just gets you labelled as desperate, and the only girls who say yes are fatties or equally desperate women. A hot girl texting you hearts every day is a fucking masterpiece accomplishment in my opinion. I'm in this for the long run. When I make my hot coworker even more desperate for my love/dick than she already is, I'll tactically show some love in return and make her my gf then wife.
When you make them know you exist. Get a good body and a job, then do what I said above.

>break up with her gf
>her gf
>her
>gf
stonings when?

>Look mom I'm being old fashioned like you were raised! Love is wrong unless you can have kids! Infertile males and females and homosexuals should be stoned to death haha right mom? Haha do you love me yet mommy? Why did dad leave haha I'm so alone

Back to rebbit faggot

She'll get bored if you do nothing, and if you do something she'll forget you because the only reason she flirted was because you didn't looked interested.
Playing hard to get is a losing strategy

>playing hard to get is a losing strategy
All my highschool/college gfs were because I played hard to get, and I didnt even lift back then. Women talk, you'd be surprised what a reputation you can build by being hard to get, it's like a social status of its own

Doesn't work for me and I'm an introvert.

What's the difference between virgin loner and incel?

One is incel the other is volcel.

are u me OP?

Or at least that's what the "vol"cel would like to believe.

one is involuntary the other one is "voluntary"

Therapy

t. Nicholas Cruz

Loner =/= NEET

I’m sorry user, but I’m naturally extroverted and social.
I enter a room full of people and (even though there are moments of intense hatred for humanity, and odd vivid fantasies of torturing people for fun) I see opportunities to find out about others and socialize and have fun with them.
I like people. I like learning how to deal with different types of people. If you were to lock me up and isolate me, I would be very upset very quickly because I need social interaction.

You don’t. If your personality is disagreeable, the only thing you can really do is to find other disagreeable people.
If you’re organized, find professional people with a strong work ethic. If you’re lazy and disorganized, join a gang.
Don’t look for a submissive partner because you’ll be stuck in a very unhealthy relationship.

>A hot girl texting you hearts every day is a fucking masterpiece accomplishment in my opinion
Is this satire?

insect

>If your personality is disagreeable, the only thing you can really do is to find other disagreeable people.

Please stop lifting shit you've heard from Jordan Peterson and using it in speech liberally. You have no idea what "disagreeable" means if you think two disagreeable people are some kind of match for each other. It doesn't even make sense outside of the context of psychology or personality archetypes.

Keked
This thread is so fucking stupid

>If you're fit or at least not fat, girls will come crawling to you because they think they have something to prove
Th-thanks Chad. You obviously are underage but good luck out there.

Isolation will fuck your brain up. Dont fall for the "cool loner" or "lone wolf". Also online socialization is still isolation.

men
sent
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emoji hearts (the equivalent of goodboy points)

yes it works but u gotta be hot
when i stopped caring about myself then the charm stopped

>approaching and talking to women is desperate bro they will come to you
>pursuing women is simply asking them to fuck
>texting hearts is an accomplishment better than actually having sex

Wew lad supreme b8 here

when was the last time you got laid? you seem like a fucking ugly retard quite honestly

Just got back from 5 weeks in Thailand, went on my own.

Left a girl I was seeing who is pretty insane, my "friends" who didn't enquire where I disappeared to and my mentally ill parents. I was really unhappy and stressed, I badly needed space to get my head together

Mainly did it to establish my independence and to "embrace the unknown".

In the beginning I was really happy and I loved the independence.
By the end I was randomly breaking down in tears in public and on the verge of a mental breakdown.

Social isolation is absolutely brutal for your psyche. I've dealt with it all my life and I've pretty much done what the OP says, which is to embrace being a loner and give up trying. It makes you tough but cold and cynical aswell.

When you consistently make an effort and consistently get negative feedback, that's a negative feedback loop that probably started at a very young age. I was a loner as a 4 year old, it's really no surprise I'm a loner now.

I'm tall, handsome, successful academically, good sense of style, well-spoken, confident poise and walk, I just don't know how to function socially properly. I talk to everyone in a business like manner and minimise social interaction as much as I can. I smile and try my best to be friendly with people but I am very standoffish and generally want to end social interactions as fast as possible. I keep myself very busy with self improvement to minimise the pain of it all.

>le myaterious cute boy meme
What are you? 14?

Niggers approach like a gorillion times a day and are by far the most common lover for females in America.

you are a fucking psychopath my dude

Well, then there’s a good point for having been called a social butterfly.

I am whatever Boobario wants me to be

I guarantee OP has slept with barely any chicks

> durr but that’s cus I don’t give a fuck heheh, I work out for ME

But if they both don't get laid for years, they become duracel

>Pretending to be a sadboy as a strategy to get girls
Doesn't work past 5th grade. It's Friday aren't you supposed to be in middle school rn?
also as someone with unironic chronic depression, I hope you get hit by a bus.

Don't be so negative. Just be a positive guy that people wanna be around. You might be quirky or weird or whatever but that's cool as long as you are in a way that doesn't drain energy out of people. Unironically just bee yourself

...

Wow, huge tits are so nasty.
Gigantic sacs of fat arbitrarily bolted onto a weak tiny skeletal frame

I always considered myself decent looking but whenever i just outright don't show interest in a girl they just ended up thinking I'm weird and disliking me.

exactly, especially since they hang so fucking low, I hate tits that are so saggy the cover half the chicks stomach

This only works if you're a confident loner. I was a loner basically throughout highschool, could literally count number of friends on one hand and I didn't even use all my fingers.... Most time you just come off as socially autistic, which I was. I should have started reading manga in the cafeteria by myself to fit the rest of the cliche, kek. But the only thing I got out of being a loner was regret of never experiences young, and innocent highschool love.

i hope you 2 drop dead

We will one day

You're an idiot lol. It's all subjective. Plenty of people like men who are good socially and promote positivity, and I'm sure there are others that like wannabe edgelords like you.

LOL what a misinformed loser you are.
FYI, i don't believe you have any women coming to you at all.

maybe testicles are more your thing

Did you fuck a ladyboy while you were there?

samefag

learn sales

>I was a loner as a 4 year old, it's really no surprise I'm a loner now.
in the first four paragraphs i was thinking you were just a pussy, but that would be unfair if the quote is true. you've been failed in being socialised as a child and have failed to properly develop. i'm sure you know this already.
i have some knowledge of child development due to work and the above quote is a pretty startling warning sign that a kid will have a troubled life.
the solution is therapy as you need to go through a process of basically learning how to socialise. you can still lead a life, but you should seek a solution in order to maximise your potential. good luck user, it sounds tough.

I really fucking miss the mid to late 00 holister/AF fashion thing. This high waisted shorts and thicc stuff is the worst fucking meme.

DO NOT LISTEN TO OP. This does not work if you are average. All through school I was le ''lone wolf'', and it ruined my life for real. Not once did 1(one) girl come up to me to start a conversation, not to mention the lack of a friend. Being alone for an extended period of time will irreversibly fuck your brain and you will never be the same, no matter how hard you try.

tfw like high waist + sticc

Get the fuck off this site

Ah yes the Pacific Northwest SJW. Its a solid second choice to mid 00s prep girl.

Quattro's right.

I do this because I'm finishing one highschool class and all the girls are underage and while I catch some looking or even stop talking when I pass by, they never do more than simply miring.
Do love the attention though

That strategy may work fine for individual girls but I am skeptical there are benefits to not having a group of close friends and a social network of acquaintances. These are invaluable both for dating and your general mental health. I never understood why Veeky Forums is so against being social. I consider myself an introvert but having friends and a few groups of people to hang out with has been crucial for getting me through more difficult parts of my life.

the times I was the happiest were when I was going out clubbing with gf and her bff plus all those late night bbq parties on a friends house in the middle of nowhere.
and I did not like clubbing(purely because I dont know how to dance in the club) and did not smoke weed.

I got a bunch of high-fives since everytime I went out dudes would ask if those two girls were my gf's and I'd say yeah

Yeah that’s great you interact with her friends but do you have a set of friends that belong to just you and not both of you? I’m not saying it’s 100% necessary to be happy, but I definitely think it helps to have a support system that includes a group like that.

nope, and those friends have left either for a differnt city hours away or for university, which once again, is hours away.

its basically us two now

It only works if you lift and look decent. Bitches were constantly miring me and tried to flirt with me but they didn't dare to go further than that. You need to showcase that you at least have some constant social interaction. Be constantly on your phone and look busy. Don't text or chat, call some of your buddies in front of people so they know that you aren't a total shutoff. When I was in high school I knew a bunch of people from different countries, I would call them in front of the class and talk about business/finance/politics and several languages. More people became interested in me and started asking what I did after school, they would ask me several times if I wanted to hang out with them after school but I would shut them down each time and tell them that I have things to do. If you want to be the mysterious and cool guy that doesn't talk to anyone you need to indirectly showcase it or people won't take you seriously and will think that you are just an edgelord. Wear decent clothes, be constantly on the phone(talking), go to business trips to Europe/Asia, lift and take care of your hygiene.

>I think TV shows are real life: The Post

So much this. Even though some girls actually tried to start things with me, but I'm an actual loner, not a "pretending to be a loner to pick up chicks" so it never got anywhere because of my emotional inavailability

Being hard to get has resulted in me getting far less than I should

Cringe af.

I'm with you man, parents didn't socialize me at all from when I was born. Neither of my parents have ever had friends, and I never saw them interact with another adult in a healthy manner. My father has never told me he loved me, that he was proud of me or even gave me a pat on the back, even though I was really succesful in sports as a kid. My whole psyche is fucked. I can't interact with other people properly because I assume their intention is like my parent's. Being my actual self around my family has always resulted in mocking, aggressive questioning or dismissal.

Even now I generally avoid contact with my family (I live with them). I literally cannot sit down, shut up and eat a meal without somebody trying to instigate some sort of fight with me over some trivial or nonexistant problem (they frequently make shit up that I usually can't quickly disprove) . Thought I was making a good choice not shilling out for loans to get out of house for uni, but most days I just wish I was gone.

>be meme wolf in uni
>not saying a single word the entire day
>not trying to get friends because it's so mentally exhausting and I need my mind for classes
>only one girl ever approached me
>she was your typical pale as fuck lefty with vegan tendencies
>we talk a lot during breaks and before entering class
>suddenly she stops coming
>go back to the same

stay away from chicks who even approach weirdos, they're likely to be weirdos themselves.

I had a very similar experience, seriously. I was a pretty popular guy in school (all boys school) but knew zero girls so whenever girls seen me and were attracted to me, they always thought I was "mysterious" and "interesting". I knew this because I got talking to a girl and she said all her friends thought this of me and used to ask their male friends about me.

Is this bait? You have to be < 20.

I pray it comes back user, it has to

>Things that never happened for 500

this is my only cope

Happened to me.

Had a tren/mast/prop shredded physique. Girl at work mired me hard always. Touching me, telling other girls she thought I was hot.

The minute I started opening up and talking about feelings and trying to have deeper meaningful conversations the sexual tension immediately dissipated.

If you want other people to like you, don't say what you want to say but tell them what they want to hear.

If I wasn't so nieve about girls/women I could have have escalated things to at least sex but no I had to go digging for personality.

I'm attracted to genuinely conservative girls who don't do the things regular girls do. Bad news is I don't know how to attract conservative girls.

damn, i thought that said boner when i clicked the link. what a shit thread. back to /r9k/ loser.

sage

Kys

how to find gf who is ok with loner lifestyle

I feel you, high waisted is the worst fucking meme just after the nigg thicc meme. It looks fuckig horrible and not attractive at all. I hope it dies soon.

>live in bustling college city
>enjoy walking through the city and looking at people
>only people i talk to during the day are my grocery store checkout lady and the doorman to my apartment
>walk to everywhere i have to go, school, work, store, etc
>get to watch life quietly like Gondola
>quietly go about my business during the day
>lift and write in my poetry book and read william carlos williams during the afternoon and evening
>girl comes home to our shared 1 bedroom bronx apartment and talks for hours about how her day went to me
>she loves how i listen, i love how she talks
>she always tells me how easy i am to be with
>no social media or web presence beyond occasional Veeky Forums and /out/ browsing
>not worried about anyone but myself, my girl, and when my little brother sends me mail from home, as i dont have a cell phone
>life is so easy and i am happy, never been stressed
>this is the most ive written on a Veeky Forums post in years

Poor fag detected

loner to you is an image

in reality a loner is a person who avoids or does not actively seek human interaction for whatever reason

we dont need much, user. i have no tv and only a cheap laptop to look stuff up on but i put money away each month

i can honestly see how this leads to a happy lifestyle

this thread is some pretty serious cope

This might actually be a good strategy for long term relationships. Any girl you fuck on the first date probably fucked more guys than one you fuck after meeting 3 times or so.

This. A real loner wouldn’t be on Veeky Forums, and definitely wouldn’t post

I agree to some extent, but you legitimately have to look like you still care about yourself.

Today I sat at my college's canteen alone. I usually wear a basic T with nike trainers and go for the bedhead look, but seeing as I wasn't training today, I decided to come in with a mockshirt jumper, boots, and a leather jacket. I sat in the canteen alone eating while listening to music and checking my phone, but I was probably the best looking guy there. Almost every single girl checked me out, while I just sat there marinating in dopamine

Unfortunately, despite how I looked like some sort of mysterious and handsome Christian Grey, I proceeded to get up, knock everything off the table I was at and then walk into 2 chairs. I played it off like it was intentional but holy shit i went from hot to retard in the space of 5 seconds

>26 year old kissless virgin
>been basically friendless loner since i was 12 years old (went through high school, even college friendless besides my roommates)
>don't even care at all

i wish i had this "mysterious lone wolf that everyone is attracted to" fantasy of yours happen to me OP. problem is that i have never been attractive, i've just been a loner because im weird as fuck. always making people laugh with my observational humor but they are just laughing at me