Does guys who are raised by a single mother or women in general low test...

Does guys who are raised by a single mother or women in general low test? I was raised by women watching soap opera bullshit when I was a kid. My father was violent and he never thought me how real world works . I never had the balance that normal families have.

Now I got clingy to every woman that show me attention for more than 2 weeks , google said that guys like me grow up to idolize women. I obsess over a older woman that I met on tinder like wtf. How to stop this ? Lifting helps but is not as effective.

Hey guys, whats going on in here?

should work itself out i dunno, I just came for the braps

god i wish that lotion was me

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My fathers had a divorce when i was a kid and i grew up with my mother, honestly i think im autistic but apart from that i just grew with internet being my friend for 11 years, now im one of the most laid back dudes i know and mostly i don't give a shit about women, still high test tho.
It's all about genetics and how you grow up i think, discovered porn at a really young age so i think that might have helped me.

I think it's just because you're lonely. I come from a perfectly functional intact family, and I'm still clingy and obsessive when it comes to women. I put it down to never learning how to socialise properly as a teenager - I was fine as a kid but puberty really did me over.

Not inspired by strong ass woman raising a pathetic insecure fuck who still wants daddy

You're low test because you choose to be. Kys

My parents are divorced too. I'm just trying to figure it out why I sometimes let myself being treated like a backup plan . I been depressed since i was like 20 yo I'm 24 now. I don't really have a problem going away from people since deep inside i know nobody will ever understand me. For example even tho this woman said she will text me and she's not even tho she's online , I can't help but feel abandoned. I don't text her shit tons a day I'm not clingy i know women don't like that. But deep inside it bothers me.

Your first mistake is clinging to the reason why something is wrong instead of the actual problem.
Try to fap only once a week and find some dudes to lift with
Eat good and do what makes you happy and the chicks will follow.
Chill and enjoy life its not all about girls

That must be it too. I have nobody , I wake up strangely hoping for a text from someone but never comes.

I respect those women bro , the thing is I get to emotionally attached to them . This woman I'm talking about unlocked some feelings and thoughts that i never thought i have. It's sound cringey but it feels like i want to better myself because i want a strong , secure , independent and mature woman if i stay like I am I'm doomed to date broken women.

Take fucking control of your life bro, i can't really give advice as i don't know much about people and shit but you should as a matter of fact stop dealing with people who treat you as a back up plan, since you don't have a problem with getting away of people then it will be easy, act as you want to be treated and stop thinking they are abandoning you

The dude i had went to another country. I once fap a week to imagination , I don't drink since i was 19. I know it's not about girls it's about me being to clingy .

>single mother
>strong ass women
Top kek. I'm not saying to dislike your mother if she was a single mother, but I'm saying to stop glorifying it. They are scum and hurt society as a whole.

I will . Actually already am. In the future should I just tell them why i got away from them or keep it to myself? For instance this woman and me we only talk online , if she text me back should I tell her no and why I'm doing that or just wait to see how the convo goes and decide from there?

My mother went to another country because we were poor and my father never took initiative . It was his job to go not my mom's . Then the other women in the family raised me. My mother is strong though.

Wait to see how it goes with a cool head, if you tell them that it was their fault or whatever that might make it seem like she's in the wrong they will attack you, their minds work like that of a child, they never do something wrong and it's your fault which seeing how you are now, will only make things worse for you.
If they talk with you again i advice you to answer late and with a short answer or just staight up ghost them.

forgot pic.

also you shouldn't take eveything i say seriously, i lack the knowledge to give sound advice and honestly im dizzy right now.

That's not a test thing, that's just a "lack of father figure" thing.
Go lift, improve yourself, and generally teach yourself that women are only human.

OP, find a therapist that you're comfortable working with and tell them exactly what you told us.

I grew up in a similar situation and although I got close to repairing my habits on my own, it wasn't until I went through a few months of therapy that I was able to maintain stability and balance. Life is much better now.

Therapy isn't the cure per say but a good therapist will help make the process a lot easier. If you can't find one, begin practicing mindfulness and meditation (as two separate practices).

Date a lot of women and find out firsthand how shitty they are.

Thanks.

No problem, i just want to post thick girls

I know that . I don't even remember saying something to this woman that would make her go away . When it comes to deep topics I was just giving her normal short answer. I gave her the time she needed we weren't even talking everyday . Probably she's just evil.

That's a no no man sorry . Thanks for the advice though.

Temujin was raised by a single mother, look how he turned out. Just take responsibility for yourself, grow a pair and be assertive

Learning how to act around women isn't just a case of telling yourself "just b urself" then all your problems vanishing. You have to actively work to, for example, keep more female friends/ talk to women without necessarily expecting anything from them, generally improving yourself so you feel like you're attractive enough for them to want to talk to you.
One thing that massively worked for me is treating confidence like acting: simply pretending to be confident as though you were playing a part in a movie, regardless of whether you believe it. It might not work for you and that's okay, but it did wonders for me.

We're all gonna make it brah

Worked itself out for me at 26, having lots of random sex made women not so special anymore.

Fucked two girls with boyfriends at the same time, ended up with the best one. I’m happy.

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>a woman is strong because she irresponsibly fucks random men with no protection and gets pregnant with no job before marriage
Wow so strong, how inspiring.

good thing a soyboy beta cuck didnt grab, rape, and impregnate your mother a million times while giving you a home,family, and father-figure to look up to.

I want to grab and lick those thighs, bury my face in her ass, and cum in her pusy

lots of negative implications. seems like you choose to be stupid, and it's working well for you.

Brah please be merciful and give sauce

>grew up with good father
>he's more autistic than me
i was only born because my mom was ugly and poor and my dad was good looking middle class

>single mommy without breadwinner is now married to the state for welfare cheques instead of actively seeking a new man
>inertia leads to her children believing that leeching off the state is acceptable
strong independent womyn amirite?