Who /lonelyfit/ here?

Lmao @ the gomad bloatmaxxers who think they look like this, are autistic introverts and would unironically wear this shirt around

ITT
The lie you all tell yourselves
>hurrr I hate peepol and leik be alone
The truth
>I avoid people because I'm afraid they won't like me and all my insecurities

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>>Yearn to finally have friends and maybe a gf
>>Immediately push people away when they try to get close to me

R U ME?

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Its called Avoidant Personality Disorder its a more fucked up version social anxiety and its turned my 22 years of existence into a never ending cringe fest.

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please explain. sounds interesting

Wise words

>brother is total normie, gets me into lifting and partying and shit
>start socializing
>it's surprisingly easy
>realize I hate getting drunk
>realize all these people that have been alienating me for years are boring as fuck
>exclusively talk about sports, pop politics, the last time they got drunk and how much they drank, the latest pop/rap album from the same 10 artists, and how shitty and annoying anyone who wasn't currently there is
>literally incapable of having a discussion involving a disagreement, I have no idea why
>have absolutely no desire to spend time with them after meeting them

I like you guys more.

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I wish I had Chad older brother who would take me under his wing instead I get two cunt rag sisters.

>>realize all these people that have been alienating me for years are boring as fuck
This is also why I hang out on the chans. I just can't get excited about fantasy basketball and alcoholism. Here at least I can LARP like I'm saving Western civilization

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I stopped having friends about four years ago
best decision I ever made

what do you do about Friday nights and weekends though? Aren't you worried a potential gf will think your a freak?

>Aren't you worried a potential gf will think your a freak?

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elegantly worded user.

Imagine being such an autist that you wear that in public

I walk a lonely road the only one that I have ever known

I'm voluntarily alone. Most people my age are dumb and annoy me.

Learning to be lonely doesn't necessarily mean that you can't have friends, it just learning that you dont need other people to feel happiness, love, fulfillment etc. (things typically associated with being around friends, family, and loved ones).

Loneliness is just a state of mind. People are lonely because they have a desire to be around other people, because they have a desire to feel certain emotions and feelings. I know this is all kind of common sense, but explicitly showing these desires is the first step in realizing that your life's contentment can be found within yourself.

When I first got to college I was very antisocial, and I became extremely lonely and depressed, due to the fact that I had not connected with anyone - I wasn't living the "college life" that is typically propagated throughout our culture.
All I did was smoke weed, play video games, go through spurts of exercising, and trying to get good grades. All these activities distracted myself from my desire to be with other people and connect with them, but eventually that faded when the weekend came. I would just sit at my computer desk and play video games to try and distract myself from the fact that I had no one to hangout with (and my playing video games all the time perpetuated that).

I have a good social life and plenty of friends.

Doesn't fill that void though, still feel crushingly alone every day.

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Completely agree with these. Most "normal" people act like fucking NPCs

My desire was to find friendship, but all my actions directed me in the opposite direction. I noticed that I only started feeling lonely when I became bored with the things that would typically distract me from this debilitating loneliness.

And the things distracting me stopped distracting me because they were just activities that gave me instantaneous gratification - it never really fulfilled me.

Learning to be alone, is just learning to be content with being by yourself. To understand and realize that life's journey is a journey that is walked alone, always. Everyone goes through life alone. Everyone is trying to seek happiness through external means, when happiness is found inside. Loneliness is a state of mind, and people have the ability to control their mind states. Even people with lots of friends can feel lonely, and thats because they have deeper insecurities about themselves.

They think too much, they cant live in the moment, their internal dialogue is too loud and obscures the realities of life. Being without mind and judgement of what is going around you is how to find peace of mind.

Learning to be alone, is essentially learning how to have peace of mind, how to control your thoughts and feelings.

Meditate, learn about eastern philosophy, have an open mind, improve yourself, read more, all the while being in the moment and not worrying about your current situation and circumstance. Discipline your mind.

Learn how to be alone, and you wont feel lonely. Also, having a girlfriend helps.

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of course a social life wont fill the void, only you alone can.

I'm an extrovert who hasn't friends in a year. Although I love socialising, I can probably count the amount of times I've been truly lonely on my fingers. Loneliness is a state of mind and when you love being with yourself you're never lonely.

> Enjoy being alone
> eventually get tired of it and find a gf
> just want more alone time
> break up
> enjoy being alone

Rinse and repeat.

>learning to be lonely
You almost got it right but the words you use are wrong

There is a huge difference in being lonely and being alone. Being alone is awesome and you have the best time. It is also the most important time in your life, what are you doing when you are alone?

>You almost got it right but the words you use are wrong
If you are lonely when you are alone you are in bad company. ~Sartre

This

>this

Who else here /recoveringrobot/?

How many of you guys hug your pillow at night and pretend its a girl?

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>hates being alone
>feels uncomfortable while meeting and talking to new people

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lee me alon
why u do dis

>Tfw I shove my face in my pillow and bend it around, pretending that I have a cuddly braphog gf
God I'm pathetic

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we dont care baby

Lmao this 100%
If you're lonely you don't need to tell anyone because nobody will give a shit and if you actively try to tell others to leave you alone you were never lonely to begin with
I bet his gay gym buddy shot that picture

t. typical sheep norman

idc about people in general unless they get murdered or some shit, so yeah... that's me

Stop acting like a roastie

You know what? I love these threads because they show how insecure meatshits are that they take the time and effort to start multiple anti-vegan threads every day. This guy is vegan so what? Why do you feel the need to start hundreds of threads about him? Is it because you know that veganism is right? Is it because you know that HAES, all fat acceptance groups and almost all morbidly obese people in the world are 0% vegans and almost 100% meat eaters?
Stay jelly, meatshits.

Good shit bro. I'm on the path to discovering this type of understanding for myself. Currently doing a lot more reading and getting into Eastern philosophy. Any recommendations on good stater books/resources?

I feel something similar in that:

>When alone, think I'm antisocial and depressed
>Extremely extroverted, talkative, enjoy telling stories when at least one person who will listen is close to me
>Very good at small-talk (hospital, bank, queues, market, etc)
>Still shy away from the world, never approach any girl with romance in mind, bury myself in books

I dress well, speak well, take care of body, and the only time a girl approached me was 2 days ago in the past month, where 2 girls approached me when I was pretending to take a massive shit in public.

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Delusional kek

People are vile and mean especially if you are the biggest, most muscular and arguably the smartest (med student) in the gym...

Manlets fking hate me... Thanx god there are a few 16 18 y olds that are no that beta like the other degenerate orbiters

>Me

This is so gay...

I dont do it

Why that nigga got two elbows ?

Skipped elbow day

Kind of the same with me
>go to counseling for anxiety, depression, you know the drill
>some psychotic issues as well
>get referred to a psychiatrist who puts me on benzos plus antidepressants
>finally able to socialize with others
>see that most people are superficial and retarded
>have zero motivation to interact with others but improve other aspects of my life
>tell therapist about this epiphany
>eventually diagnosed schizoid
Amazing.

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Kek

Kek
This sounds like me except I don’t have benzos. If I shared my true feelings on the average person I would probably also be diagnosed schizoid. Everything people do when interacting with others seems forced and transparent to me

Cause we can see through the matrix

Everything people do is what every other animal does.

Eat. Shit. Sleep. Find cover. Fornicate. Raise kids. Die. Repeat.

Thats the smallest common denominator of almost all b3ings including humans.

Lao Tzu - Tao Te Ching My words are easy to understand

Bhagavad Gita

The Way of Zen - Alan watts

On a side note,: if you enjoy alan watts, you should listen to some of his lecture,
>youtube
>alan watts nature of existence
Its not a lecture, but a snippet with some trippy audio and stuff.

This must be ironical bait.

i have godsent friends unironcally, but funny part is, we feel lonely af when together hanging out. we just share our pussy tier feelings and cheer each other lol
sounds pretty gay i know

>fit every single box for avpd
>go to gp
>says I just have depression and anxiety
>ok
>go to psych after referral
>just read books and join clubs man

He's probably right but it hurts, maybe I should have gone the psychiatrist path and just got pills.

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Most people have two elbows in total.

fug I do that when I'm drunk

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Have you guys ever thought about just completely lowering your standards? I mean would you rather be with an ugly/fat girl that loves you or just be alone forever?

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alone nigga, wtf??

>tfw autistic schizoid but tall, good looking and have a wide frame

I just pretend to be foreign and put on a fake accent so girls think I have difficulty speaking to them because I cant speak English well rather than social retardation. This has worked a few times.

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delete

like medstudents are smart.

good one user

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Who in here cuts a hole in there pillow and has sex with it?

Bro just buy a fleshlight, they are god tier

I recently moved to a new city and don’t feel like making friends up there since I’ll be moving away in a few months anyway. I really enjoy driving to my friends place though and hanging with them on the weekends every few weeks. I like being lonely because I get to work on myself, soemthing I’ve never really had time for.

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>realize all these people that have been alienating me for years are boring as fuck
>literally incapable of having a discussion involving a disagreement, I have no idea why

Oh my fucking god, my experience exactly.
They say that you are "missing out", but really you are not.

>do this every night
>get gf
>spend night with her
>sleep with her in my arms instead of a pillow
>tfw never been more content in my life
>mfw break up shortly after because she lost feelings

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I wouldn't call them boring because that would imply I'm "interesting", and I think that shit is subjective. I'm probably boring to them too because I don't like what they do.

But fuck, it's a fact that spending too much on a different path will give you a completely different set of references than that of most people. You don't laugh at the same things, you don't like the same things, you don't have the hobbies or interests. After 27 year being a spergo I've been trying to bridge that gap but it's hard. Usually if dudes aren't into MMA or working out I have nothing to talk to them about, because those are the only things I tend to have in common with regular guys.

Me. Trying to. Trying really hard.

My friend's gf set me up with a girl this weekend. I haven't been on a date in three years and have no idea what to say. All I've been doing is reading old french authors and lifting and monitoring southeast asian islamist movements. I don't know what the fuck to talk about.

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eckhart please go

>be born a social animal
>be socially retarded
>try to justify your genetic defect by claiming other are sheep
Lel

Just be yourself bro

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>did you know that the Burmese were completely justified in driving the Rohingya across their border? They're ethnically and linguistically and historically distinct and alien to the Burmese society, and have refused several requests to either assimilate or return to Bangladesh. The fact that it's taken until now to expel them is really a sign of Burmese Buddhist restraint more than anything else. Yes waiter, I will have extra sauce on my BBQ ribs please
>anyway, what's your opinion on Yukio Mishima? I think his association between homosexual eroticism and the underlying responsibility of men to indulge their underlying urge to serve a strongman coincide very well with the counterenlightenment period in Germany

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I'm 30 now and was a completely arrogant asshole when I was in my 20s.

At one point I had the most wonderful virgin gf ever that I dated for two years. Of course I was so insecure that I treated her like shit, and one day she just told me she didn't love me anymore.

That was years ago and I still think about her. She's getting married at the end of this month and probably doesn't even remember my name now.

No amount of lifting, escorts, or benzos have been able to help me reconcile this. I seriously have no idea how I'm supposed to move on now.

Nearly every woman I met now that is the same age as me either has kids or is a roastie looking to settle down. I have no idea what to do and have just accepted that I'm going to be alone.

Just don't be yourself bro

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>old french authors
>lifting
>southeast asia islamist movements

Dont be scared to reveal a bit if your power level and let loose user, those are interesting subjects. Just because you dont know the latest bachelorette or whos competing on the voice doesnt make you boring user. If she doesnt like what you gotta say then forget her.

I'll date ugly but not old

>Don't ignore me you rancid swine

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this is the first time i notice this and i just burst out laughing

good eye user

user is far more interesting than someone who keeps up with the putrid reality tv.

>Also, having a girlfriend helps.

How do I go about attaining one? It seems like all of the women that I am sexually attracted to either don't feel the same way about me or already have boyfriends. It just seems like every other man I know has an easy time getting a girl but for some reason I can't.

How old are you? If you're 22 or younger, then it's a straight numbers game.

If you're 30+, then it's hard as shit to find women who haven't hit the wall or have children.

Same user

You're not missing out by not going out partying all the time and wasting your life getting drunk. These people are boring af and can't an stimulating conversation. Plus they all drink and party excessively to try and fill the empty void in their lives caused by vapidly chasing instant hits of happiness.

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Me
No friends, no gf, don't talk to anyone in any of my classes, my job is isolated, usually the most interaction I get is saying hi to the gym receptionist
I'm always in my own head, it's torture

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ya I hate when people avoid conflict at all cost. That's what I remember about having friends and I don't like other people enough to do that.

Meant for the guy you replied to but too lazy to go into thread from mobile lol

I'M NOT THAT NICE. I'M MEAN AND I'M EVIL.

pls delet

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Not me. I'm just /lonely/.