Get in here incels and virgins. When did you realize lifting won't get you laid? I did when I worked in with a guy and his gf and she was benching more than he does.
20+ virgin thread
Are you autistic? How can you not be getting laid by 20
Very ugly to the point women walk widely around me in public setting and give me dirty looks
How long until you count as a virgin again? Its been a year
20 y/o shut-in virgin checking in...
are you sure of that? I used to see people laughing at me on the street all the time, now that I'm mentally sound I realize that it was all probably in my head and they were laughing at something else.
it's nine months, sorry user
when I saw guys in way worse shape have a gf
dumber guys with a gf
poorer guys with a gf
shitskin guys with a gf
manlets with a gf
lankets with a gf
EVEDYONSZ HAS A FUCKINF GF EXCEPF ME QHAT THE FCUK
I mean im a legit chadlite and I'm still lonely (not op btw)
Tfw second year in Uni and still a virgin
22 years old
Fit, 6'3, 7/10 face, great sense of humor, confident, good flirter
Women hit on me very often
Had 2 girlfriends for 4-5 months eacg
Tried having sex several times
Always too nervous/self conscious to get it up
Actually became funny to me
Still a virgin
A month ago I was at some girls birthday party. The girl that was the host took me to her room and wanted to fuck, started sucking my dick and I had to hold back laughter because the thought of my limp dick in her mouth was hilarious to me. Eventually I started laughing and she thought something was wrong and no sex.
Should I carry Viagra with me? Should I start ZINC? Should I start no porn?
Go on tinder and swipe right on chicks who are in your league, you'll be getting pussy in no time
Not that much of a social retard having friends and some gfs through high school
Parents move to different city
Unable to get friends in this new city, olny stoners and fucking nerds
Start uni, depressed af because loneliness and no desire to do anything with my life, fail almost everything first year
Second year, new chance to not fuck up uni, start lifting again and to make it.
Currently third year of uni, have some friends but not that much of female friends even when im pretty jacked and not terrible face
It doesnt bother me at all desu anons, but sometimes it feels like im just late to this kind of stuff
Who here /volcel/?
who here pretends to choose to remain virgin in order to cope with the realisation that they can't get any no matter how they try
Omg that's so hilarious. I don't know how I would react in your shows user. God damn!
Fuck man its so discouraging.
see people act super thirsty and do shit that would feel creepy if I did it
it gets received well by people who are actually good looking
I'm genuinely angry it sucks. I feel like I want something bad to happen to these people, as if it would be their just desserts. I feel even more pathetic feeling that way. I get the world isn't fair and all but I feel like I'm getting mentally NTR'd 24/7 seeing this shit. I thought I was decent looking, try to be positive and nice, people usually think I'm funny.
But all this discouragement is just ruining me mentally. Why does everyone pretend like any of this is enough to be happy then turn around and tell you the world isn't fair when you try to ask them what must be wrong with you?
i was a fat fuck and still managed to get laid.. cmon OP if a fatfuck like me could get laid at least 15 times a year so can you no matter how autistic you are
Facial structure > fat
just lmao if you're 20+ and still a virgin
there are people who didn't have sex in high-school
how did you fuck up so bad?
Anyone older here or am I the winner?
tfw awkward as hell teenager
spent most of my time indoors
finish highschool a virgin
girl on twitter found my profile and thought i was funny
eventually meet up and lose my virginity to her
wew i was fucking lucky
21 now and haven't fucked since i broke up with her in october
try to swipe average people, even people that are slightly chubby
3 matches, one is past chubby so I did archaelogy shit
one never responded anyway
actual cute one responded, looked good for all of a moment
Holy fuck what do I do. Thought my pictures make me look good. Not overweight or even chubby, are my only options really obese people?
Tfw 20 years old and have never even seen a vagina irl
That has two answers
1.- it's in your head because you are so insecure that you made up things easily
2.- they actually do get away from you because you look at them and say shit out loud.
Now, these contradict each other but I once knew a guy in college that was a.bit weird and used to take pics of every women's asses with his phone and immediately say "ooh it's sooooo gooood" which was creep as fuck, so there is chance that you may actually be a fucking creep.
What do you do when they get away from you and what do you wear?
They might not have your shredded body
They might not be as clever as you
They might not be as handsome as you are...
But you know what they surely didn't have? Your autism
Post your pics. I'll try and give u honest help.
Not him but I'm fully aware you're right. May as well just die this is an unrecoverable disease
26 here too, there are a few older blokes who post in the virgin threads on /tv/
this is inspiring, thx senpai
I'll be 30 this year.
If you are decent looking it will come eventually. Focus on yourself, become a sick cunt, and before you realize it will be there.
I feel you bros, im 22 haven't gotten laid since I was 18, basically one of you guys again
Being fat and socially anxious to the point of self isolation
I'm always doubtful of what people tell me about looking good, probably more than half the time it's just being kind after all.
Seems like it's becoming more and more difficult to keep it going though. Staying healthy, trying to look good, trying to practice my hobbies and work on school/career but it seems like it's so late to still be the way I am.
I'm almost 24, I don't want to be 26 getting out of a graduate school program and still be the epitome of a KHV.
I'm becoming so mentally bitter too, I hate the sort of person that thinks like me. The sort of person that thinks "they dont deserve this" stuff. If there's one thing I dont want its to be that guy you know? But I'm angry and tired of feeling cucked by life. Maybe I'm just cucked by myself
I'm 5'9 and live in Denmark, if I can do it so can you
Same. Wizardry, here we come!
When I finally gained the courage to admit to myself that I am really ugly and also a bad person
173cm her. Er vi fucked for livet?
I didn't start having regular-long term sex until I was 22. I had sex about 6 times when I was 17 and didn't get laid again for 5 years. What a terrible time. I would have panic attacks thinking about how I was never going to have sex again
I'm always doubtful of what people tell me about looking good, probably more than half the time it's just being kind after all.
I think half of this board will understand you. When you see them with all their gains and getting compliments here and there you think that they got it covered, when actually they are looking for the hidden camera because they have been fat or skelly for their whole lives and can't believe that it's true. That will follow you even when you make it, so don't bother that much.
I know about the bitterness, but there is no other way. And trust me, it works. Resist, don't pull an Elliot Rodger
An inspiration to us all.
im in the same position at 21, havent had sex since 17, what changed from 21 to 22 for you, anything particular ?
Within a year of visiting Veeky Forums, I've went from being a virgin to having slept with 10 different women. Thanks for helping me make it guys.
H-h-how did you get the first one? Asking for a friend...
was shy, nerd, thought I had a stupid looking face, awful body for years. Glasses, asthma, low self-esteem. Real winner
High school saw me dating 2 whole people for a week and 3 months respectively
Oh boy, still a virgin well into college
21 years old when I finally lost my virginity
still with person I lost virginity to 10 years later. Married, 2 kids
open relationship, I've had sex with several other people, currently have 1 regular partner I'm dating outside marriage
partner will do things wife won't or doesn't want to like look at me in the eye and go "you wanna fuck my throat?"
I recommend to anyone the book Models by Mark Hanson. This is somewhat a pickup artist book, but it focuses on finding girls who are interested in you flaws and all, and how to go about that. I've had sex with a few girls I didn't have a really strong connection with, and it's always so much more fun when they're a giant nerd like you and can make dumb Star Wars references in bed even while going at it.
For all you who are still virgins, only something like .5% of people in their 40's are virgins, so don't worry too much about it.
For those who think it's body, I didn't start regularly going to the gym until about a year ago, and ate like shit before then. Physical attraction is a big thing, but not everything, and you're on the right track to improve your body anyways.
For those who think it's about personality, maybe. Take a good look at yourself, see if there are any shitty behaviors you can work on FOR YOURSELF, not others.
For those who think it's about you being a virgin, I would guess that the majority of women don't fucking care. If they like you, that's not going to be a deal breaker.
You're all gonna make it bros. Keep it up.
cuckmaxxed reddit geekcel
unironically giving advice
Who here coming to Thailand with me?
Tell yourself whatever will help you get to sleep at night man.
23 year old virgin here. No matter how much I lift I can't change my face. Also TFW wide hips.
Not like I'm going to pull an elliot rodger, I have plenty of reasons to not actually want to hurt anyone else. Hell I don't even want to hurt myself I just realize how it sucks to feel sad whenever I'm alone. But I want to change that, not permanently end any chance of me being happy. It just seems like my grasp on improving is slipping. Luckily it all distracts me so I keep doing it in an effort to hope that I'll be happier tomorrow if I'm not today.
But it just feels like everyone who tells me that the qualities I try to improve are actually pointless. I see people getting what I want while being neets, dicks, gross, you name it. The only people who could help me get out more live half a day drive away, I fucked myself over by isolating myself in such a vital part of my life and now I think I've ruined it
dude just go to a strip club or take a figure drawing class
I'm a 20 y/o virgin college freshman and I see a different naked bitch 1-2 times a week just cuz of my figure drawing class
Hi! Just here to say that I lost my virginity last month to a thick, blonde aryan grill!
stop watching porn and hentai
do no fap for 3 months
all of us will make it brah
don't message them stupid shit like "hi", "how are you", "how's your day been" no one responds to basic shit like that
message them something unique, something that has to do with them (how they look, something in their pics, their song, something in her bio)
fuck even something retarded, I literally asked a girl if she likes mountain dew and got a response and started talking to her
then just start flirting and talking sexual and shit, it is a sex app after all
I'm fucking terrible at it and haven't met a girl on there in real life yet but that's the basics of how to actually get a response from a girl
How old are you? I used to think it was too late for me when I was 27, then I had the time of my life. Now that I'm almost 29 the things have gotten boring again and again I think that it may be too late. I just try to remember that it's not, that I thought so before and it wasn't true, and also I scan fit to find 30+ y.o. people who think it's too late for them and wish they were my age.
It's in part a game of numbers and luck, some ugly fuckers have gfs and we don't, sometimes we do have them and they not. And also, sometimes they may seem better than you because they are not alone, but after I have experienced (not heard, that's not as effective) that sometimes it's better to be alone than with someone if that someone is shit, I don't feel that bad when I see couples anymore.
I got you all beat
Living on another continent away from family, doing alright money-wise, not wealthy but I can afford things, no debt.
Multiple extracurricular activities in college, including playing bass in a band and writing for the school magazine. Multiple friends with whom I still keep in touch.
Travelled by myself a few times.
Love outdoor things like skiing and freeflight
Quit my job a few years back to take a sabbatical. A few months in my company asked me to come back and gave me a rise.
33 year old kissless wizard
I will probably die alone and away from family.
What are you gay?
you're either lying or your face is legitimately deformed there's no there other way
Post pic, I doubt you are actually ugly
I'm not lying at all. I've just never tried to get laid because I'm fucking terrified of intimacy. I'm also probably gay but I'm too afraid of introspection and I feel like killing myself sometimes, even though I usually look cheerful and can maintain a somewhat normal social life.
I guess I'm emotionally crippled or something.
found the problem
I met and started dating my first real girlfriend. The only thing that I changed was I started drinking and partying a lot so I was not seen as a loner and fucking weirdo. I met her when I was drunk in a dorm and dated her for 2 years
Not that user but there are a lot of us who swipe right on everyone and still get zero matches after months.
Face, the one thing you really can't change, is the most important thing in dating
You're not wrong, but in my defense, everyone in the band either was in a relationship already or did not score at all, like myself.
How's your profile looking? Also, how big is your town? That's important
how'd you do it bro? give us the greentext
I was 26 when I lost mine. Now 28, have a loving gf and a 17yo on the side.
This is your year, brother. Just go out and make money and social gains. Make friends with chad and brad. Fuck the tinder meme.
I live in a city with a metro area of like 3 million, so that isn't an issue. My profile follows the standard rules of only one selfie, a group photo, and two portrait style shots. I just don't look good enough to make it work.
Has his own place
You need to either be physically deformed or seriously mentally ill
Well I cant message boring shit when I dont get matches in the first place. I thought I had a good couple messages leading up to potentially setting up a date then nothing, no response, on one of the few I can actually match with. I'd rather not talk at all than do the boring chitchat so that's not it.
Im nearly 24. Stuck in a town where I dont know anyone, no hobbies that get me out. Stuck here until I'll be 26. Only date I've ever been on was with a girl freshman year of high school, and it was just to the movies 3 times. Not so much as a peck on the cheek of a kiss so far. I have no experience talking to girls, or even talking to people outside of a classroom setting. I have literally 0, literally zero, social life for the past 5 years
Not physically deformed. Mentally ill, probably, but it doesn't affect the people around me.
20yr old 21 in a couple days klv
Drunk at a party, friend of a friend powered past my autism to get to the D.
i just came to the realization that im having a cartoon like mid life crisis but im 24
Who else here literally afraid of intimacy? I wanna be intimate with a woman but I'm so god damn scared of touching one it's retarded. I feel like if I put my hand on one I'll break her into a million pieces. The fuck is wrong with me?
I just fuck whores and give no fucks about morals.
Join the military guys, it won't make your life better but it's better than dying alone. We have hookers, beers, and PT. It's like living Veeky Forums
I'm good st talking to women, but I never get any farther to ask out because I'm scared of the results. I know it's better to try than not but something tells me not to try yet.
been out multiple times and its gotten progressively easier to flirt and get to know girls and do the whole nine
dick doesn't work
its weird knowing(being deluded into thinking) that i would be a pusii fiend right now if i wasn't doing nofap
those are not the standard rules. the standard rules are:
1. Photo at the beach without a tshirt, taken by somebody else
2. Photo holding a doggo
3. Photo surrounded by black children from that time you went volunteering. If you haven't just go to the black ghetto
4. Photo doing some niche sport in which the forearms are shown
just with that I can see a potential problem. 3 times to the movies? maybe you should have escalated there. that would be a good sign because it is something that can be learned, it's not something inherent to you
I'm . I said exactly that.
blonde hair blue eyes
crippling depression social anxiety make my good stats irrelevant
furthest I've gotten with a girl is making out a bit
I wish for death everyday tbqh famalam
Your 19, man up pussy go get laid
I've had several opportunities to lose it. Girls like me but I don't know every time they try and touch me I freak out. Really scared of not doing things right. Literally everyone I meet thinks I'm a player when in reality I'm a kissless virgin at 21.
The girl I went to the movies with during high school was before either of us had cars. She was also either very prude or just using that and her overprotective dad as an excuse. Anyway that doesn't really matter to current situation. What matters is that is the extent of my romantic life, nothing since then and I'm about to be a graduate student at a university, with not a single friend to celebrate with when I graduate. I try to improve myself but I don't know what to do to improve my absolutely bottom barrel social situation that doesn't make me terrified to even consider.
And I'm away from the gym and it's spring break, I don't even have a way to distract myself from myself
Use viagra that's what helped me.
haven't even kissed a girl yet
is there any hope?
what to do bros
live in small city
no place for me alone, living with parents (not uncommon in my country, most people my age do, including girls)
dont use social media
dont speak too often with girls
sometimes make out with drunk girls in a parties but cant escalate to sex
I'm self improving and learning social skill and things like that but I'm fucking obsessed with losing this shit
tfw don't know if I want a gf or to get laid
feels like it would just suck the life out of me due to induced nervosity
shut the fuck up kid
how much of you are struggling with porn?
just relapsed and my sexuality is all fucked up
fap to gay shit and traps and hentai all sorts of shadman shit
hate internet porn
porn in general everything is ruined
there's like no point to getting laid
i saw it all ready for free
everything is so much effort
can make it if i try
stopped writing this half way
bored and now i lost interest in posting this all together
posting this because
wondering if there's something wrong with me >clearly psychotic
experimenting heavily with drugs the past month
extreme self hate
know i need to sort myself out but
keep burning out
I'm 18 and got my first kiss and gf this year. Although my mum put me through school a year late so I would've been 17
bro i was having this same problem a week ago. You're so fucking neurotic that you're constantly obsessing over limp dick. All you gotta do is lay over her and start kissing her neck and touching her without worrying about limp dick.Act like you're just teasing her but dont even think about your limp dick. Also noporn, nofap, and start doing productive shit before you fuck. Also, even when you start getting a little chub, dont be afraid to smash that shit in there after she's all wet, you'll get a boner in no time. Like, pretend you're already having sex with your little chub before you actually go all the way in. That being said, try not to stress.
I'm not struggling with porn, I've fully joined the team
I've spent maybe ½ hour on average every day for the last month saving pictures of monsters on pixiv to fap to
and I don't mean monstergirls like nagas and catgirls, I mean full on kaijus
I regret nothing
you're now gonna start becoming a virgin again. Wait a year and you'll feel exactly like you did before :)
31. Never thought it would.
It doesn't get easier.
I fucking hate normies so much.
kinda attractive face, but baby-sized dick
Just the thought of a roastie laughing at my dick and telling her friends how tiny it is.. I'd rather kill myself
looked like trash, still sort of do, avoidant, no girls in high school, no friends in uni
Girls actually seem like they want to talk to me ever since I started lifting and stopped looking like a skinnyfat piece of shit. I'm still fucking socially retarded though and I'm in a similar situation some years late.
A girl showed some interest but the age gap made it weird. Good thing I met this one from a different grade who's 17 thanks to a friend, let's see what happens.
i realized it when i hadn't lifted a fucking thing in my entire life and then i got a latina gf and started to fuck her daily
You incels will never know what true pain is. Having sex only once (or a few times with the same person) is infinitely worse than being a virgin. Because you have experienced it but it is like a early drug addiction because you have done it so few times such that it's still new and special to you but you can't get any more of it so you feel like shit.
33 years have passed, but...i do not score. Pussy has lost it's effect on me. Yet, the suffering continues. Chad's grasp chokes the past, present and future. Hope is lost.
Gotta get back, back to the gym, Incel user
I have the most woe
dude lmao just do whatever you did again
24 year old virgin here.
I don't really have any desire to have sex with someone outside of a relationship and I find it hard to be really attracted to someone I don't know that well
Also I find it hard to meet new people. Anyone else in the same boat?
24 yo virgin here. Got brutally agepilled when I started norwooding. Got on ru, will get on fin next week and on roids in 2 months. I must ascend or I will kill myself
stop using lookism lingo, you're making yourself retarded
26 year old kissless virgin. I also live with my parents and work a minimum wage job even though I have a four year degree. I've almost given up. The worst part is that I actually come off normal to most people, at least for the first impression.
gay friend keeps telling me I can have any woman I want and all of his girl friends think I'm cute
girl once told me I could have anyone I wanted
girls will smile at me casually on the street
girls have obviously flirted with me
girl in my class currently has dropped phrases in a "joking" manner about how we should get food sometime(she obviously likes me but has caked on makeup)
too picky and socially autistic around women to do anything about it
one girl I actually like but was fat said after I grabbed her tit while making that she is waiting until marriage so I bailed
A lot of these chicks are far too ugly for me because I'm pretty much an 8/10 now since I got fit(7/10 face). Also I'm cute so girls tend to give me the romance vibe instead of the fuck me vibe. Life is suffering
lmao. Reminder that even retards can get laid
It really makes me wonder how those of us who are still KHV have possibly done this. The likelihood just keeps getting smaller. Imagine having this as luck instead of as bad luck.
Seriously wonder why I had to hit the circumstances that make me so rare in that I'm an incel now
you're almost me to a T, except for the "people think I'm normal at first", im sure people know right away that im a weirdo
I am currently a 26 year old kissless virgin, never been on a date, never even asked a girl out in my life. I'll tell you guys how it got to this point, it's actually a lot easier than you might think. It will probably be hard for normal people to comprehend, but maybe some fellow autists here can relate.
had friends in elementary and middle school
high school hits, lose my friends
just have a lot of "acquaintances" i never see outside school
become socially isolated, which leads to becoming even more weird, ADD and autistic, and especially angry
obviously don't meet girls eitther
no social skill development, become shut-in
go to college, no social skills from HS so again, just have some acquaintances but can't make friends
become shut-in again
only friends i have are my roommates and their friends
shut-in misery leads to meh grades
after college move back home
been living with parents for 4 years because i cant get into my planned grad schools due to meh grades and make shit money because i work an entry level type job for the grad program i want to do for "experience" and i have no idea what to do otherwise
The worst part for me though is that I do talk to people, and I can make people laugh and all that, they just don't like me. And not having friends for so long, or any sexual experience at this point is so humiliating I don't even want to try to fix it.
And then of course now anyone who is a virgin past 20 or so gets called an "incel" or get assumed to be a mass murderer, so you can't even talk about this anywhere except anonymously on Veeky Forums.
also sorry everyone for the blog, like i said, only place to talk about this is Veeky Forums
22, gonna be 23 in less then a month
kissless hugless and all of that above
GOTT DAMN the way this story keeps getting better and better, there's no way its not real
not many friends growing up until late in high school and had very bad acne
in college now and have a lot of friends and probably a 7-7.5/10 after using accutane and seriously lifting
never knew how to be more than just friends with a girl
never knew how to take things further
It is what it is, I’m not in a rush
my story is similar cept i get interest all the time but can't act on it because health reasons... what keeps me going is that i see the funny side in all of this, for now
About to turn 26. I stopped caring years ago. In every other way I have my shit together. Started a good career last year, make enough to have just bought a house by myself, own my car and motorcycle, etc. I have gotten so used to being single at this point I don't like the thought of having another person to have to factor in opinions on decisions and spend money on and worry about what they think and want. I'm aware of how selfish it sounds. I'm not attractive enough to run around getting laid every week either.
Trouble holding a conversation and being entertaining. Any help brah?
20 years old and I don't feel comfortable getting naked in front of a woman because of my love handles that are still visible at 15% bf.
So I guess mental illness is the answer you're looking for.
Me except the first one.
You guys just need to put yourselves out there more often. Not for the sake of trying to get laid, but for your own mental health. Just join a club or a sport. ANYTHING. Try talking to people. Anyone. Seriously there are some ugly fuckers out there who have kids. Meaning they somehow we're able to get laid. You can do it as well. I suggest from now on try to look at social interaction with women from a the stand-point of someone who is trying to improve their own health, and not some guy trying to get laid. Everyone has to do it.
work a decent job ($55,000), starting a phd next year
people like me cause friendly and have good personality
women at my work talk to me
talk to random women
26 years old
it wasn't meant to happen for some of us. i've already given up on a happy future.
Joined an organization that did volunteer work for school once. People were nice. Felt like they pitied me when they talked to me though. A year of being there, never once felt like any of them was a friend, just acquiantances I'd see twice or so a week. Eventually stopped going, saw them a few times across campus but never a word to me, probably because I'm too weird. Some of us are beyond saving, we've missed it.
it's actually all about getting out there and dating girls you're somewhat like personality wise, and yes they exist, if you're super shy, you haven't met them because they are also super shy.
I lost my virginity at 15, was feeling great. at 21 had really bad mental illness issues come up, never had sex for 4 years. finally i'm over it and back in the dating game. but those 4 years showed me that my success dating was because i was putting myself out there.
I said no at first when I lost my virginity. I was going through a rough stretch in my life, so I sealed myself off from women for years. Now I almost feel like trying, but I don't know what I'm should be doing and every time I try to fumble my way through it I only make myself hurt.
For what it's worth I am apparently attractive
Ok, what do we do then? Do you have advice to share?
He unironically used the word "Aryan" dude. Why are you humoring this?
I hate talking to normies
Holy shit speak english man. What the fuck had happened to you
You have to do it if you want to get laid. You just have to do it. I hate talking to people just you just have to fucking do it man. If you want to get laid no one is going to knock on your door and fuck you unless you hired a hooker or something put you just have to put yourself out there.
was virgin until 23, then lost it to a girl off tinder. online dating is the way to go user.
never use to talk to people besides my good friends
sort of ugly (6/10)
fuck it get /fit took diet seriously for the past 3 years
actually good looking now (God tier cheekbones)
tfw see grills mire all the time
even cute bitches
only the ugly ones(5/10) only come up to me and strike up a convo
talk to them because they actually came up to me, which I respect them for that.
don't want to fuck them at all
Fuck it when summer comes I'm just going to lose it to any bitch that I come across for the lulz
How was it? I imagine you didn't tell her?
i was 32 but gay and closeted, i had many opportunities with girls and turned them down
19 year old virgin here. I'm 6'2", large frame, decent looking, very autistic when meeting new people but after that I have a good sense of humor. Honestly dont know what I'm fucking up in, it's probably the fact I dont know how to talk to girls I just met (I never had any girl friends in hs). I also feel like I cant handle mires and flirtation well because it never happened to me before (i lost a ton of weight and looks maxed). Thing is: I'm not even really an incel, I knew this one girl liked me and still does, I could hook up with her probably any time but she's my friend and I'm not attracted to her at all. I'm waiting for either a gf to lose it to or a girl I'm legitimately attracted to. So am I technically a volcel?
was 24 year old virgin, lost it to a qt 18 year old after getting Veeky Forums. Feelsbrettygood
Different user here. I've been doing some reading on socialization and conversing and essentially it all involves listening and being interested in the other person. What I dont get how to do is how this is putting myself out there to show I'm romantically interested in a girl and also how do I go about acting interested or even being interested?
Have you tried lifting?
I'm 27 and have started suspecting that I'm the same way
had plenty of opportunities, but damn I just don't want to and I don't know
Never really gave it too much thought, since I've conditioned myself to liking straight stuff, but when push comes to shove I just fucking cant do it
I'm in a long distance relationship, so currently yeah.
Girls I'm attracted to aren't looking for guys like me, and I'm not looking for the girls I attract. My love life is a venn diagram where the circles' edges only just touch.
for fucks sake, just because you dont want to have sex doesnt mean youre closeted gay.
mfw 23 y/o virgin
started going to church again to get myself together
start playing in the band
mfw church girls are beginning to mire and initiate conversation
Im not going to fuck this up, I'm gonna get me a qt church wife
I am a 23 virgin due to religious reasons (Christian). I know one girl from work who is in to me but she is a whore and I have too much self respect to deal with whores. Than there is one blue eyed red haired girl at my Bible study who is really fun to talk to, can take the bants. But she is moving across the state so I dont see anything coming out of that. Im just being paitent and waiting for God to find the right time to put someone in my life. Im not remorseful about it, I do my lifts, go to school, and go to work. But it would be nice to have a partner to hug and spend time with. O well
I'm not making this assumption for no reason you fucking faggot, of course there is more to it than that. You are attempting a psychoanalysis based on a single post in a bangladeshitan toy forum you imbecile.
im not a faggot youre the faggot you closeted faggot
Er vi fucked for livet?
WTF is this actually your language? What a fucking meme, it's just English in a weird accent.
Guys in need to confess to you. I told my brother I had blowjobs and got laid a few times. I told people that I know that I got blowjobs and got laid. I didn’t. I’m 21 years old and I’m a kissless, hugless, virgin who has nearly zero friends and no social life. I’m living a fucking lie. I hate this
beautiful girl i work with, lightskinned indian petite beautiful face accent etc
decide to actually try to "flirt" with someone for once in my life
my "flirting" with her consists of teasing her and saying lightly racist indian jokes
she's pretty shy and aloof with everyone else at work but i actively engage with her and we just end up acting like a married couple who have been together for 20 years bickering back and forth at each other
this is why im a 25 year old virgin
Good on you user, I’m similar except I’m 19 and not in any rush. God bless, bro.
Heh join the club. My friends back home think I slay pussy at school, and my friends at school don't exist. In reality I'm a 21 year old virgin about to graduate from one of the biggest party schools in the country without even having had my dick touched once. At school I basically just go to class and participate in a few extracurriculars, but otherwise spend most of my time on my computer. Lately it's gotten unbearable to the point that I'm bored of video games and I'm bored or shitposting, which I guess is good motivation, but I don't even know what I'm supposed to be doing. The girls here are so hot but I don't know how to meet them. They're all in typical female majors like nursing and communications while my major classes for economics are full of chinks that barely speak English.
Same for me. I also have a thing for brown/dark chicks. I have no advice just solidarity.
Just turned 30. I've had plenty of opportunities and offers, but I'm trying to get a good wife and start a family. It can be frustrating occasionally, but it's a goal for me, so I'm perfectly happy pursuing it.
If I get drinks with a girl from tinder am I supposed to pay for her drinks?
The only relationship I've ever had lasted two months. Either I'm completely oblivious, or women just don't show interest in me. Most of the girls I ask out ghost me, anyways. At this point, I've stopped caring and I'm gonna cruise through life until I get wizard powers.
21 year old virgin here. 6'3", well built, and can socialize normally. Had a qt3.14 girlfriend two years back for a few months but she was ultra Christian and wouldn't have sex. I've had acne problems for 4 years and it destroyed my self confidence. Thankfully I'm 3 months in on accutane and it's working wonders. Things seem to be getting better and better everyday. Hang in there guys we'll make it someday
This is literally me.
Thanks for the advice and glad your not sick anymore. Godspeed
your bait worked far better than you probably extpected fag, have your unironic (You)
How the fuck to i text girls on tinder? I getting some results but i text like a fucking retard
WHAT ARE YOU DOING THURSDAY ETC.
WANNA SEE/DO ETC.
FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK YOU YOU YOU YOU
30 HHKV here. 31 this year. I dunno I just sort of stopped caring, a loooooong time ago.
I don’t actually leave my house and prefer the isolation, I guess my mind has just become accustom to it. The thought of actually having a relationship now just scares me instead of excites me.
Not ugly or anything I guess I just never really cared enough to try as again I prefer to stay home and do my own thing, not a social person at all.
Kind of hard to get a GF when you have no interest in getting out and meeting people.
Why can't I get a gf bois? What do I need improved? I haven't had one since 15. Everytime I've tried I get refuckingjected short term and long term.
inb4 u look 15 lol
You look and sound like a bitter fuck.
Asking coworkers out can only end badly. Wait until you or her are about to leave. That way if you get rejected you can save face at work.
Workout you fuck
these are the people on Veeky Forums giving you advice
23 year old checking in
earning 6 figures
195lb DYEL with thicc legs
don't drink or party
I was dating a girl a few years ago for like 2 months and I was too stupid to fuck her... She was really into me too.
Fuck I'm a retard.
"sort of ugly (6/10)"
you fucking retard. this makes me so mad.
6/10 is above average. If you are sort of ugly you are definitely 3-4/10. Think for a second before you post
Recovering 200lb+ fatty, doin my best
29 reporting in, looking forward to becoming a wizard in a year.
Can't say I disagree.
Nothing changes. I feel exactly the same as before.
lurk social media of beautiful girl I work with and been crushing on
its nothing but normie spongbob memes, degenerate shit, and RTing "woke" bullshit
her boyfriend is a fat 4/10
lol just lol
you have great hair
Have you guys tried just beeing yourselves?
just be yourself bro lol
Are you considered a virgin if you've only fucked guys
Pls go back to r9k, this isn't a loser board
Unless you were forced to fuck her, no. You are not an incel. GTFO.
Congratulations by the way
Found the thread on reddit.
Emma says the guy has a job and is stable. The only thing wrong is his social skills and he doesnt know restraint.
It seems to me that Emma is a slut who fucks anyone who gave her time and attention
Tfw you realise being able to talk to sloots is more important than being able to lift them.
I don't go out much
Thank u :^)
22 year old virgin
Never even had a girlfriend
Not even bothered since it all comes down to me not caring enough to try
have gf for approx 2 yrs
try sex a couple times but couldn’t stay hard the second I had to go in
breaks up with me
now we are talking again 2 years later
why can’t I do this
Are you me?
Great sense of humour...
Laughs because a limp dick is funny
stop lifting for girls you absolute fucking autists
You are gay
Listen to this dude, he's right.
That's pretty tricky, but it's something you must learn. You need to behave in such a way that it shows that you are interested, but that at the same time if she walked out suddenly you wouldn't care, because we humans usually don't like it when things are straightforward and lack mistery.
If you haven't read Models by Mark Manson yet, do it. You and all the incels reading this.
my major classes for economics are full of chinks that barely speak English.
FUUUUCK this is so true
econ major here, I fucking moved cities to try and make friends and they're all gooks who don't fucking speak english
I'm 24, I don't care, I only cuddle my Teddy every day since he is pure and fluffy and cuddling him makes me happy and is super fun! :)
stopped caring about 2 years ago
195 cm 100 kg ripped, 45 cm arms. started lifting at 14 years old and am turning 23 this year. Kissless, handholdless virgin, on the way of getting my STEM PhD but it all seems hopeless
Lol, danish people are attractive as fuck. You’re a moron.
buy kamagra oral jelly from ebay bro shits cash
You mean a fat bitch?
He be preaching
That's right, ETC is the future and brutally oversold right now. Get it while it's cheap.
Nice stats. I'll let you suck my p9 to make you feel better.
Is it feminine though?
severe social anxiety
it literally took me:
being wasted out of my mind during party at my place
some fat chick making an excuse to go to my room with
straight up asking me for sex
Even though the sex was shit and i barely remember it, it took away some mental barier and i'm much more relaxed around woman now
21 here. Because I'm waiting for marriage to my fiance. We're both virgins and we both want to wait for the other person. We met at church when we were 8, and we've been dating since 16
haha limp dick xD so le funny
You deserve to be a virgin
I think the problem with most of you guys is total lack of human interaction brought on by technology. It's ironic really considering we as humans are more connected than ever, yet at the same time more distant than ever. I can't drive past a single bus stop without seeing 10 people all with their heads down glued to their phones.
I came up in my late teens during the early 90s and although i was fairly geeky with building computers and going to lan parties i was still forced to interact with people on a daily basis. I had to call the girl and speak on the phone or drive to her place and hangout all day. Whereas now, verbal and physical communication is all but optional in society.
With all that said though and having been with a good amount of different women in life, i can tell you with certainty that sex won't change anything in your life aside from becoming more comfortable with the act itself.
Don't fall for the meme of the past. There were shy people in the nineties as well, they just avoided calling altogether and died alone. Nowadays some of those can at least set up dates by message.
sex won't change anything in your life aside from becoming more comfortable with the act itself.
And with yourself, as you stop thinking that you there's something wrong with you
AHAHAHAHAHAHAH HOW CAN VIRGINS BE REAL? LIKE JUST GO GET LAID NIGGA LOL LIKE JUST GO FUCK HAHAHAHAHAH.
all these virgin lanklets
lmao so thats why we have like 5 manlet threads going on all the time
had 3 girls into me in the last couple months
turned them all down
feels good being a virgin :^)
Virgin. Never even been in a relationship.
Every time I tried I got burned really really badly. It's almost like just rejecting me wasn't enough but that they needed to hurt me badly too. I also haven't had a friend in 12 years. I just sort of fell through the cracks and no one cared enough to help.
I stopped caring 4 years ago. I just shut that part of my brain off. It was a survival strategy because I was really on the verge of killing myself back then. Not caring lets me get through the day in peace, but sometimes it really gets to me knowing that I'll never experience one of the most fundamental parts of being human.
Didn't tell her, but then again she was 18 so she probably wasn't super experienced herself. She was definitely a thot though. We ended up banging in the back seat of my car in a mall parking deck because I live with my parents and her roommates were cunts.
Sex was fun but the best part was the increased self-confidence. I'm a 5'9 skinnyfat pajeet and not exactly good looking. If I could pull a cute girl who wanted to bang me just because she was attracted to me, it really boosted my ego.
This. I've been so fucking scared all my life because of my below average dick. Is there really no fucking way out of this nightmare? I know that some girls might not care about it but it doesn't fucking help at all. I know that sex is an important part of a relationship and i'm going to be very lacking on that part so what the fuck do i do? FUCKING HELL
how big is your dick? if it's smaller than 5x4.5 then yeah you might be in trouble, but if it's bigger than that you're probably fine dude
Be me 16 years old
Go in 9th grade
Hate everyone in my class because they are normies
a bitch tries to slip'n slide diss me. I tell her that shes insecure that's why her make-up is more noticeable than her confidence.
Girls get mad at me because they can't do make-up without skullfucking a cake
Guys hate me because girls don't like me
Black feminist tells me i'm a sexist
My entire class will never like me. completely fine with that.
Fast forward a couple of months.
I had a test a particular day.
Wanted to go to bed because fapped and watched memes all night long
But in a classroom with a bunch of normies. They would never understand
Normie in my class that actually has been diagnosed with Autism tries to steal my pencil
My pencil was new so i stabbed him in the hand while he was trying to steal my property.
Normie yells and has a mental break down.
He screams at me telling me that i'm dumb and that i'm ugly
Teachers tries to calm the sperg down by saying calm down
I make a joke following : Autism can't be cured by words. You need to stab the fat fuck.
At the time i said that i didn't know he had autism.
Teachers Get's pissed at me and they go for me leaving the sperg in the classroom.
He picks up a chair and throws it at 2 girls
Girls : REEEEEEEEEEEEE
Girls boyfriends from other classes comes out of their classroom and beat the shit out of the autist.
Teachers don't give a fuck. They want to fuck me over becuase why tf not
Next thing i know there are about 9 teachers gathered trying to break up the shit that's happening
I wonder if it's my fault.
Anyways fast forward to the end of the day and i get a talking to by my principle and my teacher.
The principle gathered me and my teacher and the 3 girls.
I explain everything to them and they understand my point of view.
I know they were BS'n because they still gave me shit.
Autist normie has a mental break down outside principles office.
Stay the course, brother. Careful not to take too long. It’s just a fact that the older you get, the less virtuous the women will be so start making some moves soon.
He took someones headphones and didn't want to give them back
The guy whom he stole them from was a serbian criminl or something.
Autist got popped.
It's 4.5 and i don't know the girth. I AM fucked, i already knew that. That's why i never approached a girl in my entire life.
no matches, running out of likes, swiping well below where I feel like I ought to rank myself
Yeah just be yourself, put yourself out there right?
How the fuck do you practice if you can't even practice
I was a virgin till like February Valentine’s Day this year. I’ve had numerous jobs been working out for a couple years now. I’m not ugly, I’m tall and got a decent build. I never got laid because I was so introverted due to years of not interacting with women.
I needed money so I started driving cab.
From the last month
I had sex with a girl I met driving cab on Valentine’s Day. Literally within 24hours of meeting her. We banged like 4x then just stopped talking.
A escort I met going to a client asked me for my number, I chatted her up nice. I drove her home later, yes she paid.
2 Weeks later she calls me asking for a ride from her friends place. It’s like 5am, I was gonna start work around 6. We get to her house, she tips me and says she’s home alone. I’m no longer a virgin, I invite myself up. I fuck this 7/10 escort tier milf for 2 hours, jacking off in her mouth before going back to work. She had her arms all over me, wouldn’t let me leave. I’m so serious.
Busy month. I’m loving this new confidence, I know I can fuck and I fuck good.
cut a hole in the bottom of the teddy and put a fleshlight in. Boom, insta-cute girlfriend
can't even imagine how a girl could like me, I mean io hat emyself way too much and my life is a loser's life
Go full bear mode with lifting. There will be a girl who will accept your butterface.
No shit? She is banging a retard and posts in something called stupidslutsclub
I have a friend with actual autism who actually managed to get married to a passable girl.
There are people out there who would rather fuck a horse than you
move around my whole life
no problems talking to people
haven't had a friend since middleschool
easy to make acquaintances
never given time to form real relationships
on speaking terms with many girls
never know how to go beyond that
every time I try, I get ghosted and end up heartbroken and alone. At 22 I still have the social intelligence of a 12yr old and I still struggle to visualize sharing my life with someone. whatever hope i have is quickly dwindling, this life is making me bitter
Most lads that make it past 20 and are still Virgins don't give a fuck anymore, you managed to go 20 years with out it, you are good bro, its like one of those things, like never going backpacking across Asia. Sure some lads might still want that someone to share intimate companionship but at the end of the day the virgin mindset will stay with you till the day you die.
You look fine user, I'm sure a ton of nice girls would love to date you! W-what? Me? No I already have a bf user, don't be silly!
I get that too often, I realized it's just the polite way of saying "You're ugly"
Honestly its not even the lack of sex that bothers me but that I feel like of everyone I know from high school I came out the most pathetic socially. Everything else seems to be in order, I'm healthy, stay in shape, good career. Not an ugly face I can say at least, wouldn't be confident rating myself but you get it, not deformed.
But none of this seems to help at all in what I'm looking for. I just want someone to spend time with thats more than just platonic since I've never had it
Wait different user here, is the "you look fine" meaning you're ugly?
Don't worry bro you are fine, there is nothing wrong with you, just get a job, work out, clean up that skin, etc etc
Saying one looks fine, is like commending someone for not being born fucking deformed, its the most barebones basic compliment
A friend of mine is 33 and still a virgin. Pretty sure he hasn't even kissed a girl yet.
The problem is, I don't know how to help him, he gets super insecure and anxious when trying to chat up girls :S
What do I do guys
almost 21 year old virgin
been told I have a cute face
still pretty dyel, but more "jacked" than almost everyone I see in public
Multiple times I've been eyefucked by girls in public
In one of tutorials in class I could feel this girl just looking at me and smiling out of the corner of my eye
When I walk past her when class ends, I'm holding something in my hand and I can see her staring at my bicep
too beta to make eye contact or do anything about it
what do I do lads? My social autism has prevented me from taking risks. Whenever I talk to randoms on tinder that I have no intention with meeting, they are always shocked that I am a virgin.
Forgot to add: he once asked me how to become something else than the "friend type"
which...fucking I dunno, I never believed in that friendzone shit anyway, sometimes people are just not into you
Yo how do I help my """friend""" get over 33 years of underdeveloped social issues, lack of physical and emotional development and psychological troubles
Multiple times I've been eyefucked by girls in public
stop being delusional first off all
why are you telling them you're a virgin? don't do that.
That is what I'm wondering, yes. I don't care if you don't believe me that it's a friend instead of me, but them's the facts.
I...think he's getting therapy, but I'm not sure how much he talks about those issues there
Star Wars references
I would rather kill my self than go out with a "OMG I'm like such a geek XD" girl
it's fucking easy if you don't socialize, in fact it's impossible to not be a virgin if you just lock yourself up in your house
nah any girl I'm just on tinder to shoot the shit with i talk about everything
I wish normies would fuck off
how about you just start acting normal, freak
Do you think you are capable of helping your friend more than a educated psychotherapist ?
obv not, but since he occasionally approaches me for advice, I feel like I should do something
have you ever made a move on a girl?
if no then thats the reason your an incel
find some good pics of his and make an account on tinder or bumble. he should at least find someone to go on a date with.
I'll pass that on, ty
34, landlord, 10 houses\appartments, decent looking, have always stayed fit, european, jack of all trades.
I cannot stand people. I really really cannot do that. I accepted a log time ago that nobody in this universe will share my interests or my way of life. Never even had a best friend.
Every time somebody has pointed out to me that "«'m cold», i replyed that they just throw away their feelings, like they were nothing valuable, at least for me my emotions are important things to preserve and dose in the right amount.
I know i will die alone.
I once tried to date this girl that was a big loser in highschool, slightly overweight, extremely socially awkward, and looked like a goblin. She refused to date me, and then got pumped and dumped by my coworker who had a huge reputation of promiscuity and looks so similar to me people often thought we were brothers. He rejected her multiple times, then finally gave her a time, had her book a hotel room and fucked her once, out of pity.
I have the worst luck with women, and more stories if anyone cares.
34, landlord, 10 houses\appartments, decent looking, have always stayed fit, european, jack of all trades.
In sims city
yeah but im afraid of being rejected
Prince of Autism here.
21. Never kissed a girl. Get hit on by girls all the time. I can go to the library and a teenager will yell out her car that I'm hot. I know there's something wrong with me. I just don't know how to fix it. I've accepted it and taken it as a personal curse. A burden layed upon my back from the Creator. I unironically believe that I must full fill some goal before I am deemed worthy and fate grants me a wife. Wish me luck brothers. Farewell
20y skinny college virgin reporting in
A girl literally grabbed my arm at the club and I freaked out an walked away like a pussy.
I am so scared of girls. I was only friends with 5 girls in school. 3 of them called me nice and always caught me off guard when they said it.
One of then on the last month of school started to make me feel bad about myself by saying I have no friends and laughed. I started to think that I had no friends.
I am really awkward, insecure and have social anxiety
Last (and only) time I had sex was 11 years ago.
I'm in my thirties now. Does this count?
Because of reasons, I've never once uh...made love.
I've had sex sure. I've been with women of various backgrounds and races. I've had sex with lesbians and a few self proclaimed and early transition ftms a few times and was a hairs breadth away from taking a twink to pound town before I came to my senses and realized that I wasn't gay.
I've turned down more sex then I'm willing to admit.
But never, not once have I ever made love. I've never had HER. Every single time I could have had something special or done it I've bitched out. One part of me was even scared that I'd see her as one of the sluts or whores or...that I'd fuck it up.
I did fuck it up by not just going for it and taking care of things and her as it happened.
I can make a woman I just met and had sex with tell me she loves me while in a moment of passion and she'd feel and believe it. But she might not truly believe it.
But I can't do the same with a woman I care for.
In every way that matters, I'm a virgin. And I'll go to my grave like this. Because it's much too late for me now.
falling for the stupidslutsclub meme
Lmao anybody can tell after five minutes of browsing that it's 95% neckbeards writing shit-tier erotica
Yes, I lifted weights, set a few local records, but I will never be MR.Olympia
19 here, wanna loose it before the Summer.
I don't understand.
What are you saying?
visit a prostitute
alternatively cure autism
girl said there was another bed upstairs after we fooled around on couch
"no there isnt"
22 next month boys
I got a gf at 20, before i was Veeky Forums 115kg->80kg now. You still have the chance. Unironicly just go up to the girl and talk. Worked for me
never change Veeky Forums
Zinc and noporn + nofap
That you are a fucking autist that's complaining for the sake of doing so
Got laid, had bunch of relationships
BUT GUYS IM STILL ONE OF YOU IM TOTES A VIRGIN HAHAH
shy and awkward fat manlet with no personality
Lool don't have to be so mad man, when youre a 6/10 your options are still limited especially if you can't convince a bitch above your league to go out with u.
I never had a real relationship.
I am alone. Very much so.
theres your problem
ask out 10 girls you are into, and one of them will agree
you just need to accept other 9 times was just learning experience
t. 3/10 in said experience
I'm 19 atm but I'm 5'4 so Im perm virgin for life
Can't you have sex with shirt on? I have lots of gross acne scars on my chest and back.
I don’t know if this helps but you have my dream life.
I’ve already had sex and it’s meh
Tfw I get matched every so often but they always bail the day before or day of the date we set up, so I just ghost and move on
How do you get full Rakemode?
having attracted someone once in your life is worse than never attracting anybody at all!
Should I just go barhopping with 2 mates this weekend and fuck some beached whale? I'm soon gonna be 20
25 year old virgin dodging sex opportunities because I'm really scared for some reason
anxiety through the fucking roof, resting angry face
31 y/o virgin here
turn 32 in august....getting close to killing myself if it goes on much longer
all symptoms of one underlying condition
the state of the virgins
mark my words, you autists numbers game will always be zero
Congratz!! Youre now a wizard
started sucking my dick and I had to hold back laughter because the thought of my limp dick in her mouth was hilarious to me.
lad you do have a great sense of humor indeed, i nearly pissed myself laughing hahah
doesn't feel like something i should celebrate, sadly
Basically stay a virgin until 30.
find broken women
have broken relationship
raise broken kids
Hey just do this guys!
Ya this kiddo sheesh we have bigger virgins to lay come back in 10 years
Nice larp bro.
Why don't you guys simply pay for sex? It's not really expensive and you'll feel much better.
Just stop crying like a child and do it. You can chose the pussy, the looks, the age. Whatever the fuck fits you.
ugly creepy autist of 22 years checking in
it seems i struggle with social anxiety regardless of age or sex
How is it cartoon like? srs
My diary desu senpai
this is bad advice, because simply paying for a hooker doesn't fix all the mental roadblocks and mindset that led to being a 20+ virgin in the first place
and the same age
It literally doesn't matter. Once you had it you'll realize sex does not matter that much.
Being together with another person, that's the real deal.
Don't give up, do not be insecure about this my man. Stop giving a fuck and live for yourself.
tfw upwards curved 6"x6" chode
FML... That,plus the regular autism.
because sex is not what I'm really looking for. I'm looking for intimacy.
I never meet girls through any of the activities I do. When I do meet them I get extremely nervous if I even try to have a conversation related to hitting on them. I can talk to girls perfectly fine if I'm not doing that though.
22 yo virgin reporting in.
I've actually had a gf when I was 16 but we were super awkward with each other and never got past kissing.
Years of Veeky Forums and social and sexual neglect steered my tastes off and now the thing that gets me the hardest is lolis.
It fucking sucks cause I feel less motivated to engage with girls and further spiral into this low self-esteem cycle.
Anyone else feel /loli/ broke them?
Honestly, I masturbate so much I have no sex drive or real commitment to getting a date. Yuri is my main fetish, but i have had some shameful moments with traps.
Are you stupid or something? That's pretty much the perfect size and an upward curve is good.
wasted dubs. Just stop watching this shit altogether and don't touch your penor for a few months. This is exactly the reason why there is nofap in the first place and not some retarded superpowers