20+ virgin thread

>Tfw second year in Uni and still a virgin

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>22 years old
>Fit, 6'3, 7/10 face, great sense of humor, confident, good flirter
>Women hit on me very often
>Had 2 girlfriends for 4-5 months eacg
>Tried having sex several times
>Always too nervous/self conscious to get it up
>Actually became funny to me
>Still a virgin

A month ago I was at some girls birthday party. The girl that was the host took me to her room and wanted to fuck, started sucking my dick and I had to hold back laughter because the thought of my limp dick in her mouth was hilarious to me. Eventually I started laughing and she thought something was wrong and no sex.

Should I carry Viagra with me? Should I start ZINC? Should I start no porn?

Go on tinder and swipe right on chicks who are in your league, you'll be getting pussy in no time

>Be me
>Not that much of a social retard having friends and some gfs through high school
>Parents move to different city
>Unable to get friends in this new city, olny stoners and fucking nerds
>Start uni, depressed af because loneliness and no desire to do anything with my life, fail almost everything first year
>Second year, new chance to not fuck up uni, start lifting again and to make it.
>Currently third year of uni, have some friends but not that much of female friends even when im pretty jacked and not terrible face

It doesnt bother me at all desu anons, but sometimes it feels like im just late to this kind of stuff

Audible kek

Who here /volcel/?

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>who here pretends to choose to remain virgin in order to cope with the realisation that they can't get any no matter how they try

Omg that's so hilarious. I don't know how I would react in your shows user. God damn!

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Fuck man its so discouraging.
>see people act super thirsty and do shit that would feel creepy if I did it
>it gets received well by people who are actually good looking
I'm genuinely angry it sucks. I feel like I want something bad to happen to these people, as if it would be their just desserts. I feel even more pathetic feeling that way. I get the world isn't fair and all but I feel like I'm getting mentally NTR'd 24/7 seeing this shit. I thought I was decent looking, try to be positive and nice, people usually think I'm funny.
But all this discouragement is just ruining me mentally. Why does everyone pretend like any of this is enough to be happy then turn around and tell you the world isn't fair when you try to ask them what must be wrong with you?

i was a fat fuck and still managed to get laid.. cmon OP if a fatfuck like me could get laid at least 15 times a year so can you no matter how autistic you are

Facial structure > fat

just lmao if you're 20+ and still a virgin

>there are people who didn't have sex in high-school
how did you fuck up so bad?

>26y virgin
Anyone older here or am I the winner?

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>tfw awkward as hell teenager
>spent most of my time indoors
>finish highschool a virgin
>20
>girl on twitter found my profile and thought i was funny
>eventually meet up and lose my virginity to her
wew i was fucking lucky
21 now and haven't fucked since i broke up with her in october

>try tinder
>try to swipe average people, even people that are slightly chubby
>3 matches, one is past chubby so I did archaelogy shit
>one never responded anyway
>actual cute one responded, looked good for all of a moment
>stopped responding
Holy fuck what do I do. Thought my pictures make me look good. Not overweight or even chubby, are my only options really obese people?

>Tfw 20 years old and have never even seen a vagina irl

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That has two answers

1.- it's in your head because you are so insecure that you made up things easily
2.- they actually do get away from you because you look at them and say shit out loud.

Now, these contradict each other but I once knew a guy in college that was a.bit weird and used to take pics of every women's asses with his phone and immediately say "ooh it's sooooo gooood" which was creep as fuck, so there is chance that you may actually be a fucking creep.

What do you do when they get away from you and what do you wear?

They might not have your shredded body
They might not be as clever as you
They might not be as handsome as you are...

But you know what they surely didn't have? Your autism

Post your pics. I'll try and give u honest help.

Not him but I'm fully aware you're right. May as well just die this is an unrecoverable disease

26 here too, there are a few older blokes who post in the virgin threads on /tv/

this is inspiring, thx senpai

I'll be 30 this year.

If you are decent looking it will come eventually. Focus on yourself, become a sick cunt, and before you realize it will be there.

I feel you bros, im 22 haven't gotten laid since I was 18, basically one of you guys again

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Being fat and socially anxious to the point of self isolation

>Tfw 27

I'm always doubtful of what people tell me about looking good, probably more than half the time it's just being kind after all.
Seems like it's becoming more and more difficult to keep it going though. Staying healthy, trying to look good, trying to practice my hobbies and work on school/career but it seems like it's so late to still be the way I am.
I'm almost 24, I don't want to be 26 getting out of a graduate school program and still be the epitome of a KHV.
I'm becoming so mentally bitter too, I hate the sort of person that thinks like me. The sort of person that thinks "they dont deserve this" stuff. If there's one thing I dont want its to be that guy you know? But I'm angry and tired of feeling cucked by life. Maybe I'm just cucked by myself

I'm 5'9 and live in Denmark, if I can do it so can you

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Same. Wizardry, here we come!

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When I finally gained the courage to admit to myself that I am really ugly and also a bad person

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173cm her. Er vi fucked for livet?

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I didn't start having regular-long term sex until I was 22. I had sex about 6 times when I was 17 and didn't get laid again for 5 years. What a terrible time. I would have panic attacks thinking about how I was never going to have sex again

> I'm always doubtful of what people tell me about looking good, probably more than half the time it's just being kind after all.

I think half of this board will understand you. When you see them with all their gains and getting compliments here and there you think that they got it covered, when actually they are looking for the hidden camera because they have been fat or skelly for their whole lives and can't believe that it's true. That will follow you even when you make it, so don't bother that much.

I know about the bitterness, but there is no other way. And trust me, it works. Resist, don't pull an Elliot Rodger

An inspiration to us all.

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im in the same position at 21, havent had sex since 17, what changed from 21 to 22 for you, anything particular ?

Within a year of visiting Veeky Forums, I've went from being a virgin to having slept with 10 different women. Thanks for helping me make it guys.

H-h-how did you get the first one? Asking for a friend...

>was shy, nerd, thought I had a stupid looking face, awful body for years. Glasses, asthma, low self-esteem. Real winner
>High school saw me dating 2 whole people for a week and 3 months respectively
>Oh boy, still a virgin well into college
>21 years old when I finally lost my virginity
>still with person I lost virginity to 10 years later. Married, 2 kids
>open relationship, I've had sex with several other people, currently have 1 regular partner I'm dating outside marriage
>partner will do things wife won't or doesn't want to like look at me in the eye and go "you wanna fuck my throat?"

I recommend to anyone the book Models by Mark Hanson. This is somewhat a pickup artist book, but it focuses on finding girls who are interested in you flaws and all, and how to go about that. I've had sex with a few girls I didn't have a really strong connection with, and it's always so much more fun when they're a giant nerd like you and can make dumb Star Wars references in bed even while going at it.

For all you who are still virgins, only something like .5% of people in their 40's are virgins, so don't worry too much about it.

For those who think it's body, I didn't start regularly going to the gym until about a year ago, and ate like shit before then. Physical attraction is a big thing, but not everything, and you're on the right track to improve your body anyways.

For those who think it's about personality, maybe. Take a good look at yourself, see if there are any shitty behaviors you can work on FOR YOURSELF, not others.

For those who think it's about you being a virgin, I would guess that the majority of women don't fucking care. If they like you, that's not going to be a deal breaker.

You're all gonna make it bros. Keep it up.

>cuckmaxxed reddit geekcel
>unironically giving advice
jfl

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Who here coming to Thailand with me?

Tell yourself whatever will help you get to sleep at night man.

23 year old virgin here. No matter how much I lift I can't change my face. Also TFW wide hips.

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Not like I'm going to pull an elliot rodger, I have plenty of reasons to not actually want to hurt anyone else. Hell I don't even want to hurt myself I just realize how it sucks to feel sad whenever I'm alone. But I want to change that, not permanently end any chance of me being happy. It just seems like my grasp on improving is slipping. Luckily it all distracts me so I keep doing it in an effort to hope that I'll be happier tomorrow if I'm not today.
But it just feels like everyone who tells me that the qualities I try to improve are actually pointless. I see people getting what I want while being neets, dicks, gross, you name it. The only people who could help me get out more live half a day drive away, I fucked myself over by isolating myself in such a vital part of my life and now I think I've ruined it

dude just go to a strip club or take a figure drawing class
I'm a 20 y/o virgin college freshman and I see a different naked bitch 1-2 times a week just cuz of my figure drawing class

Hi! Just here to say that I lost my virginity last month to a thick, blonde aryan grill!

stop watching porn and hentai
do no fap for 3 months
all of us will make it brah

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don't message them stupid shit like "hi", "how are you", "how's your day been" no one responds to basic shit like that
message them something unique, something that has to do with them (how they look, something in their pics, their song, something in her bio)
fuck even something retarded, I literally asked a girl if she likes mountain dew and got a response and started talking to her
then just start flirting and talking sexual and shit, it is a sex app after all
I'm fucking terrible at it and haven't met a girl on there in real life yet but that's the basics of how to actually get a response from a girl

How old are you? I used to think it was too late for me when I was 27, then I had the time of my life. Now that I'm almost 29 the things have gotten boring again and again I think that it may be too late. I just try to remember that it's not, that I thought so before and it wasn't true, and also I scan fit to find 30+ y.o. people who think it's too late for them and wish they were my age.

It's in part a game of numbers and luck, some ugly fuckers have gfs and we don't, sometimes we do have them and they not. And also, sometimes they may seem better than you because they are not alone, but after I have experienced (not heard, that's not as effective) that sometimes it's better to be alone than with someone if that someone is shit, I don't feel that bad when I see couples anymore.

I got you all beat

>6'4"
>Living on another continent away from family, doing alright money-wise, not wealthy but I can afford things, no debt.
>Multiple extracurricular activities in college, including playing bass in a band and writing for the school magazine. Multiple friends with whom I still keep in touch.
>Travelled by myself a few times.
>Love outdoor things like skiing and freeflight
>Quit my job a few years back to take a sabbatical. A few months in my company asked me to come back and gave me a rise.
>33 year old kissless wizard

I will probably die alone and away from family.

What are you gay?

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you're either lying or your face is legitimately deformed there's no there other way

Post pic, I doubt you are actually ugly

I'm not lying at all. I've just never tried to get laid because I'm fucking terrified of intimacy. I'm also probably gay but I'm too afraid of introspection and I feel like killing myself sometimes, even though I usually look cheerful and can maintain a somewhat normal social life.

I guess I'm emotionally crippled or something.

>bass
found the problem

I met and started dating my first real girlfriend. The only thing that I changed was I started drinking and partying a lot so I was not seen as a loner and fucking weirdo. I met her when I was drunk in a dorm and dated her for 2 years

Not that user but there are a lot of us who swipe right on everyone and still get zero matches after months.

Face, the one thing you really can't change, is the most important thing in dating

You're not wrong, but in my defense, everyone in the band either was in a relationship already or did not score at all, like myself.

How's your profile looking? Also, how big is your town? That's important

how'd you do it bro? give us the greentext

I was 26 when I lost mine. Now 28, have a loving gf and a 17yo on the side.

This is your year, brother. Just go out and make money and social gains. Make friends with chad and brad. Fuck the tinder meme.

I live in a city with a metro area of like 3 million, so that isn't an issue. My profile follows the standard rules of only one selfie, a group photo, and two portrait style shots. I just don't look good enough to make it work.

you're gay

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>Financially stable
>Socially included
>Has his own place

You need to either be physically deformed or seriously mentally ill

Well I cant message boring shit when I dont get matches in the first place. I thought I had a good couple messages leading up to potentially setting up a date then nothing, no response, on one of the few I can actually match with. I'd rather not talk at all than do the boring chitchat so that's not it.

Im nearly 24. Stuck in a town where I dont know anyone, no hobbies that get me out. Stuck here until I'll be 26. Only date I've ever been on was with a girl freshman year of high school, and it was just to the movies 3 times. Not so much as a peck on the cheek of a kiss so far. I have no experience talking to girls, or even talking to people outside of a classroom setting. I have literally 0, literally zero, social life for the past 5 years

Not physically deformed. Mentally ill, probably, but it doesn't affect the people around me.

20yr old 21 in a couple days klv

Drunk at a party, friend of a friend powered past my autism to get to the D.

i just came to the realization that im having a cartoon like mid life crisis but im 24

what do

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Who else here literally afraid of intimacy? I wanna be intimate with a woman but I'm so god damn scared of touching one it's retarded. I feel like if I put my hand on one I'll break her into a million pieces. The fuck is wrong with me?

I just fuck whores and give no fucks about morals.

Join the military guys, it won't make your life better but it's better than dying alone. We have hookers, beers, and PT. It's like living Veeky Forums

I'm good st talking to women, but I never get any farther to ask out because I'm scared of the results. I know it's better to try than not but something tells me not to try yet.

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>mid twenties
>been out multiple times and its gotten progressively easier to flirt and get to know girls and do the whole nine
>dick doesn't work

its weird knowing(being deluded into thinking) that i would be a pusii fiend right now if i wasn't doing nofap

those are not the standard rules. the standard rules are:

1. Photo at the beach without a tshirt, taken by somebody else
2. Photo holding a doggo
3. Photo surrounded by black children from that time you went volunteering. If you haven't just go to the black ghetto
4. Photo doing some niche sport in which the forearms are shown

just with that I can see a potential problem. 3 times to the movies? maybe you should have escalated there. that would be a good sign because it is something that can be learned, it's not something inherent to you

I'm . I said exactly that.

>19
>210lbs
>6'3
>blonde hair blue eyes
>crippling depression social anxiety make my good stats irrelevant
>furthest I've gotten with a girl is making out a bit

I wish for death everyday tbqh famalam

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Your 19, man up pussy go get laid

I've had several opportunities to lose it. Girls like me but I don't know every time they try and touch me I freak out. Really scared of not doing things right. Literally everyone I meet thinks I'm a player when in reality I'm a kissless virgin at 21.

The girl I went to the movies with during high school was before either of us had cars. She was also either very prude or just using that and her overprotective dad as an excuse. Anyway that doesn't really matter to current situation. What matters is that is the extent of my romantic life, nothing since then and I'm about to be a graduate student at a university, with not a single friend to celebrate with when I graduate. I try to improve myself but I don't know what to do to improve my absolutely bottom barrel social situation that doesn't make me terrified to even consider.

And I'm away from the gym and it's spring break, I don't even have a way to distract myself from myself

Use viagra that's what helped me.

>18
>haven't even kissed a girl yet

is there any hope?

what to do bros

>20yo virgin
>live in small city
>no place for me alone, living with parents (not uncommon in my country, most people my age do, including girls)
>dont use social media
>dont speak too often with girls
>sometimes make out with drunk girls in a parties but cant escalate to sex

I'm self improving and learning social skill and things like that but I'm fucking obsessed with losing this shit

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>tfw don't know if I want a gf or to get laid
feels like it would just suck the life out of me due to induced nervosity

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shut the fuck up kid

how much of you are struggling with porn?
>just relapsed and my sexuality is all fucked up
>fap to gay shit and traps and hentai all sorts of shadman shit
>hate internet porn
>porn in general everything is ruined
>there's like no point to getting laid
>i saw it all ready for free
>burnt out
>everything is so much effort
>can make it if i try
>stopped writing this half way
>bored and now i lost interest in posting this all together
>posting this because
>wondering if there's something wrong with me >clearly psychotic
>experimenting heavily with drugs the past month
>extreme self hate
>know i need to sort myself out but
>keep burning out

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I'm 18 and got my first kiss and gf this year. Although my mum put me through school a year late so I would've been 17

bro i was having this same problem a week ago. You're so fucking neurotic that you're constantly obsessing over limp dick. All you gotta do is lay over her and start kissing her neck and touching her without worrying about limp dick.Act like you're just teasing her but dont even think about your limp dick. Also noporn, nofap, and start doing productive shit before you fuck. Also, even when you start getting a little chub, dont be afraid to smash that shit in there after she's all wet, you'll get a boner in no time. Like, pretend you're already having sex with your little chub before you actually go all the way in. That being said, try not to stress.