Are you and your high school sweetheart still together Veeky Forums. If so, do you lift for her?

Are you and your high school sweetheart still together Veeky Forums. If so, do you lift for her?

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Already chopped her into about forty pieces and flushed her down a septic tank user.

>tfw never had one

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same. gear is a helluvadrug

I've never had a girlfriend

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Hooked up with one but trying to get into relationship with one atm

I dumped her 4 years ago for retardedly dumb reasons. Then I realized how fucking stupid I was and now I lift for her, one day I'll have her back.

I was going to say I'm 26 and have never had a girlfriend, but as it turns out my birthday was last week and thus I am 27 and have never had a girlfriend. I hope this helps, OP!

i actually saw her the other day after some years
no we were never together
didnt like what she did with her hair
but whatever im over her

We have this thread every day

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Didn't have a gf in high school. First, and only, time 6 months ago, after my first year at uni.
Got cheated on and she left me for that guy.
Been lifting.
Lost 20 kg.
Looking better every day. On my journey to a six pack.

Thank you cheating ex.

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i work with a 30something woman who married her high school sweetheart, she literally talks about leaving him and cheating on him all the time lol.

dont fall for this meme lads.

We're all gonna make it bruh, heartbreaks make bodybuilders

Yes to both. We both love eachother still. However
>tfw she's been considering leaving tho because I'm not catholic and she doesn't know whether only our love will be enough in the long run

Boys, a man isn't meant to carry feels this heavy. I can't even show a single sign of weakness either, because she's a woman and she'll smell the weakness.

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Been together for 7 years now. Lifting for myself though.

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Need help. I was invited by this chick to watch some movie at her place. We did and it was fine, we joked around and talked and shit but I never made a move. I just couldn't see any opening. How the fuck do I go for it without freaking her out? She invited me over to her place next week again.

>another girl related non-fitness related thread on fit

Heart gains.

You retard she wanted to fuck you but you never made a move

Cucked by religion

God I hate threads like this. I just get the feeling OP is wallowing in some kind of guilt or self pity for something that literally doesn't even fucking matter.

This is the reason I left /r9k/ and seeing threads like this pop up here take me back to that dark time where all I did was feel sorry for myself and have a defeatist attitude.

Threads like these are a waste and don't serve anybody any good.

what thread in particular are you referring to? just like OP is trying to remind people that they didnt have anyone in high school to make them upset/

Yeah, 5 years in April.
I lift for myself because one day I could lose everything and only have myself in life. Loosen your attachments in a positive way

Still together for 2 years now.
Lift for myself but I think of her to get me through those last reps.

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>invited you over again
Bring condoms this time. She wants to jump your bone, bad.

show her the true path

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If you don't get her pregnant soon, enjoy a break-up.

She literally gave me no indication whatsover. No touching, nothing. I'm going there next week anyway

>she's considering leaving

This means she's looking for a replacement for you right now and keeping you as a backup plan in case she doesn't find someone. Leave now.

Maybe I'm generally pretty good at telling when women wanna do it but this time for some reason I had a stroke of autism

If that's what happens then so be it.
Want to enjoy my career and eventual marriage with her before children

This thread, and threads like it. What else would I be referring to? It is a fucking pointless thread because (1) highschool is fucking over, or at least it should be if you're old enough to post here and (2) what fucking good is looking back at that time gonna do for you now? It screams
>"I feel like I wasted some of my life or didn't live it to it's potential and now I want to feel bad about it instead of just dealing with it and moving on"

I fucking hate cucks who live their life through women and the past. No one cares if you USED to be able to lift X amount of weight or if you're a lonely virgin. Glory day/wasted potential fags need to fuck off. If you don't want to bring anything constructive, go fall into the pit of /r9k/ and let it chew you up and spit you out like it did me. You'll realize crying about shit that holds no substance does you no good.

Yeah let's turn our bodies to stone.

I know. I really think she can't do any better than me. Not to brag, but I'm a pretty good catch, and she knows it.

Huh?

Pretty much, yeah.

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damn you must not like fit that much then considering all this board does is live their life through women

What do you need user? A formal written invitation?

No user. You’re a weak man. You can’t depend on that happening

That would have been helpful with the stroke of autism I had today

That isn't true. I just hate all the tinder, Veeky Forums, and fags crying about worthless shit that keeps popping up.

my friend i may be a virgin but even i know that girls will rarely give you any indication. they will expect you to do everything because you're the guy

then again, it could end up that you try to make a move and then she rejects it and says "whoa whoa did i give off that idea? sorry if i did" and then you are humiliated and your friendship is ruined, but thats basically the only other option you have

Women don't make moves unless you're a gigachad in which case they'll chase you relentlessly. Otherwise, you're expected to do everything. Control the conversation, keep things rolling, and yes make the move to initiate sex. The best thing in my opinion is to do it gradually.
>Just watch whatever dumb shit you two decide on
>After a while, get closer to her (arm around her, hand on leg, both, etc)
>If she makes no attempt to stop it or distance herself, you have the green light and her intentions from the beginning were for you to smash
>At that point, just start kissing her, feeling her up, whatever
>She'll get into it and from there shit will just happen

Healthiest mindset I've seen here in a while

so yeah basically 80% of fit threads

>>never had one
>mfw still trying to find that one 15 years after HS

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what an absolute pleb

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this strikes me as she wants children and doesn’t look up to you as an ideal father, maybe you are too childish

My high school sweetheart is in college now. I kind of ironically/unironically have a huge crush on her but she might be taken. She's just so cute and pure. I didn't know her that well. Only did acting club for like, a few months. But she's totally wife material. I knew her brother a bit though.
My expectations are super low so I mean if I'm around when she gets out then maybe I'll ask her out. But she's like 2 years younger than I am. I'll probably have a full-time job and be in another state by the time she gets out of school.

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There’s only one person from my high school i’m still friends with. No one from college or post grad.

That’s life.

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so you only have oen friend? mr popular over here

>tfw I didn't realize my high school sweetheart was actually into me until high school was over and she moved across the country to Texas

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Convert heretic.

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listen to this guy
he's totally right when he says try putting your arm around her or hand on her leg. If she doesn't stop it, you are ready to fuck.

Why do you torture us like this?

Eight years and counting however it just occurred to me that we'd have little elliot rodgers if we got married since shes asian. What do Veeky Forums?

Yep, we've been together for almost 7 years now, married for two of them. We've known each other for almost 12 years as we met in band in middle school. I started lifting for her right after we got married and she got pregnant. She is still hell bent on making me happy everyday and I couldn't be happier. It's possible lads, you just have to find the right girl.

Mah feels

I didn't either.
High school was rough.

If you loved her you'd convert and followe Catholic traditions. It'll feel good. Even though I'm atheist I still comsider myself Catholic because of the culture and heritage.

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No but at least I had one and got the experience luckily i got redpilled to the modern women by my pol bros before it was to late

this except my phase of wanting her back is over because she got fat
you were perfect bitch why'd you do that

Thats like saying you lift because you used to go to the gym 10 years ago.
That said, I hope you did keep the life teachings of Jesus with you if not the belief in God.

Pretty much cut off contact with everyone from school. Glad I did.

>Go to different colleges
>stay kind of in touch first year
>don't see her again until we've both graduated and I'm back home visiting
>she's fat
Welp

I didn't even go to public school, went for the last semester of my Senior Year and that was it

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We are. We celebrated our three years in January.

And no, I don't lift for her. I lift for myself and to set an example for her in terms of living a healthy lifestyle.

>i dont lift for her, i just lift as an example for her

are you mentally retarded

I helped get my friend together with his high school sweetheart, they're 2 years in happy.

I never had one, though. I didn't care about women too much towards the end of high school, school was multiracial and filled with roasties.

We drifted apart after high school. We had vastly different personalities so I doubt it would've worked out anyway. Looked her up on Insta recently and saw she was modelling for clothing companies in BC so I guess i'm glad everything worked out for her.

Still, she made me feel like a king on Prom Night. I'm 5"6 and she's 5"10 but I felt 6 feet tall that night.

Still think about her but I wouldn't say I lift for her. We went our separate ways.

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There was some unpleasant bottle fucking where one of us forget to pop the cap off of it and it may have hypothetically tore something inside of her vag. Things just weren't the same after that.

Lift for your future children, keep at it my man.

>5 year relationship
>she kicks me to the curb when things get tough
>finally decide to leave humanity behind
>fastforward one year
>no longer skelly, but still a long way from making it

This existence is pretty alright once you come to terms with the deep-seated self-loathing

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Happy birthday user, hope you get your gf this year. Don't lose hope

Thanks m8ey, I hope I get a gf this year, too. We're all gonna make it.

I finally got a gf at 26 last year and it wasn't really that a big deal. I broke up with her yesterday.

I'm sorry to hear that, but if you broke up with her, then I guess she just wasn't the right girl. I hope you find her soon.

>tfw girl i had crush on in hs had same feelings about me
>both of us were to retarded to make move
>she tells me by now
>tfw gf
>tfw everyone was noticing it in hs

Yes, for over 10 years. I lift for many reasons, but she's also a motivation for me

Jokes on you I am Chad so I don’t have long term relationships

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Yes. For a decade already, but she's still as paranoid as she was in high school. Each moment she doesn't have her eyes on me, or every time I'm not texting her, she suspects that I'm cheating. Never even cheated on her once.

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Hello newfriend

No we broke up soon after graduation.
I don't understand how anyone can marry their high school sweetheart, there's just so much left to do. Not saying go fuck everything and be a slut, but you're gonna change so much from high school. I can't even imagine still being with my high school gf

Does it count if you date an 18 year old high schooler when you’re 21? If so we’ve been together 3 years and will get married soon.

Reminder to get yourself a cute virgin teenager or you will get cucked.

>Be me
>Confident but dyel
>Quiet girl is highschool sweetheart, lost virginity together
>Be together 5 years
>My confidence rubs off on her, thinks she can do better, cheats
>Drop her like a sack of shit
>It destroys me, confidence, self respect, everything
>Person she left for pumps and dumps her
>Comes crawling back saying she realises now what a terrible mistake it was, how much she misses me
>Lol fuck off
>Finally pick myself up
>Inspired to be better
>I lift now, read more books, went to uni got a masters degree, looked into fashion and take care of myself so I'm always complimented on appearance
>Find god and go to church
>My now official roastie ex checks in from time to time
>Deliberately kept her on Facebook so she can see what I've become, what she threw away
>See's how well I'm doing and wants to hang out like old times
>Lol fuck off
>She is now dead beat roastie with dead end job, no prospects with a guy who dropped out of highschool
>Get a job abroad and move to a new life in a new country
>Meet new girl
>Stunning little 5'0" qt Asian, literally everything I find attractive
>Traditional, Christian, virgin, no sex before marriage
>Get along with her like I've never gotten along with any other woman
>Very happy together, encourages me to lift, gets me to teach her recipes so she can cook healthy stuff to support my lifting, always encourages me
>One day realise that I am the person I am because of my ex, that I did it all to spite her
>Finally let go of that spite and embrace who I am now.
>Realise I have finally made it

Never let thoughts of her keep you down Veeky Forums. Use it to fuel yourself and push further than ever.

This happened this past weekend
>See my old high school best friend post on instagram that he's in town (he moved out of state after hs)
>Decide fuck it, I'm sick of being a sad sack lonely sack
>Hit him up and ask if he wants to meet up this weekend and catch up
>He says sure
>Weekend rolls around, ask him when he's free
>I'm not sure, I'll let you know
>Never messages me again
I tried

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I seriously respect people who make the first move to reach out to others and ask if they want to hang out. You did good, dude, it's the other guy's loss. Making (and maintaining) friendships is hard work later on in life, you did the right thing.

Yes, been together 15 years
Lift for me

Im with mine, bro. We do stuff together. Dont think of relationships as a ball and chain. Marry someone who you WANT to do cool stuff with.

Fair enough, but speaking in a general term, high schoolers don't get married.
Good for you though, hope it works out

>girls talking to me in highschool
hahahaha

tfw she left me a week before prom for another guy and I was forced to take a fat girl.

Broke up at 21

Girl who I used to like in highschool (feeling was mutual but nothing ever happened) just messaged me. Had a lot of attention from girls in highschool but porn literally cucked me. What do i do kings? I feel like I've become MGTOW without choice because I have actually isolated myself from everyone through studying/work and the general /struggling/ of life. But last night I couldn't sleep I felt super lonely in my apartment by myself, is this a sign or should i just keep focusing on bettering myself and pull myself through to the other end

t. 2 years out of high school and an autist (sometimes) who overthinks everything

She died last day of the second semester on a snowy drive to class. I can still perfectly remember that day. There isn't a single human being I've ever connected with that ever made me feel that good. Imagine the strongest of drugs, the strongest of confidence, the incredible belief that anything was possible with her at your side. And then imagine the fucking cold of the sudden removal of everything you loved in life. I don't know why I continue but there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of her.

We split up to avoid arguing but neither of us ever hurt one another. I steered her life in the right direction and shes always been grateful even many years later.

She has a family but still contacts me for every occasion. I asked her to stop and even ghosted her but she was persistent.

We would joke about names we’d give our kids and she named her first daughter with what we came up which kinda upset me. But she is 6yrs old now and im still a single manwhore who worksout too much.

That's first love mate. Sucks you lost her that way but keep in mind the reality of the matter is you would have broken up eventually

>But she is 6 yrs old now
So you were fucking a toddler?

Lol no.
Her daughter is 6 years old and i dont plan on having kids anytime soon, so im cool with her stealing the name.

Thanks for the you i guess

I started dating my long term girlfriend at 23. No idea how you manage to be such a good pick of women at 16 that you want to stay with them forever. Seems unlikely

It wasn't, I just resonated with her more than others. Gem of a human being, genuine as fuck. You're right though, all good things must reach their end. I just wish I could've said goodbye.

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Same user, but she's taken so my chances are slim.