Balance between no-fap and PE

If I don't fap, I come really fast.
If I do fap, I'm not nearly as horny and sometimes don't even get hard

How do I strike a balance? I don't get laid regularly enough to plan ahead. I feel like I need to train myself better somehow.

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>I don't get laid regularly enough to plan ahead
Ok well how do you get laid? Having a night out with your friends? Jerk off the day before. It's not like you're having surprise butt sex randomly in the day.

Also, fapping in general is just not a good way to cure premature cumming. Learn to take your time, start with slow, shallow strokes. Literally count slowly in your head to time your strokes. You can go deeper and faster once both you and the dude you're fucking in the ass are warmed up

>Ok well how do you get laid? Having a night out with your friends? Jerk off the day before. It's not like you're having surprise butt sex randomly in the day.

This weekend, I wasn't planning on going out but friends came into town so I did. I didn't fap for a few days and blew my load basically as she was jerking me off just to get me hard at the beginning. If I knew that would happen, I guess I could have fapped the day before.

I'll work on counting strokes.

>Also, fapping in general is just not a good way to cure premature cumming. Learn to take your time, start with slow, shallow strokes.

this contradicts what you said

>I didn't fap for a few days and blew my load basically as she was jerking me off just to get me hard at the beginning
the absolute state of Veeky Forums

I know, that's pretty much exactly what I was thinking while I was jizzing.

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Doesn't matter if you cum quick if you can get it up again asap. I do this and no girl seems to mind.

How quick is quick? I'd like to be able to go for a little while. I didn't have this issue when I had a gf so I wonder if it's just mental

Eh, i go really fucking fast if i'm fucking missionary. 3 4 mins of full speed ramming tops. Being Veeky Forums defo helps. If i control myself i can make it to ten minutes but sometimes i just power through the orgasm asap.

>tfw you fucked her for more than an hour straight, she had multiple orgasm and you didn't cum.

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They don't mind if it's only 3 minutes? My previous gf would rather just get eaten out so I guess she didn't care about it either.

This would be impossible for me unless my dick was pumped full of anesthetic.

3 minutes of proper pumping is enough to get off quite a number of girls, user. Just prep them real good. Also, as i said, it shouldnt hurt to try and power through it. I can go pretty damn far for 2nd round. Most of my control comes from breathing and dozing off. If you're that worried you should trouble your mind with something else.

Bruh I'm hooking up with this qt blonde. I have had premature ejaculation before and it's fucking embarrassing. Lately I have been reading about edging, so I have been fapping a lot (no porn tho) try to last longer and longer. So this weekend I was so nervous because I knew I was going to have sex with this girl. When the moment came I didn't get hard at first (she was to beautiful naked I got scared I'd cum in seconds) , but when I finally relaxed and got hard I was hammering for more than an hour using my edging thing, fucking amazing man, I strongly recommend it, remember don't use porn and really control yourself when fapping to last longer.

pls post what youve done

Can you give a quick rundown of what you did? Like I said, I didn't have an issue with my previous gf and it's probably a combination of knowing each other well and relaxing. But with some girl I just who isn't even all that great, I ejac super fast...

I started trying to stop when I’m peeing and then letting it go, I read there is some muscles over there that help you stop ejeculation, then I started to doing when fapping, and breathing at the same time to calm myself down. I’d say between 20 seconds and two minutes, if you’re having sex this would be time for her, try to find out without asking what she likes besides getting hammered, you know use your tongue or fingers down there, her ears, nipples, her thighs, pay close attention so keep her in the mood while you relax.then start the hammering again. Use the standard advice of change speed and deep of strokes. Oh as you get better you can relax leaving your meat inside her, make it her time again, don’t move it in and out, just try to make circles so your pubis stimulates her exterior labial

>then I started to doing when fapping, and breathing at the same time to calm myself down

Could you explain this? You stop breathing or you breathe more? I'm asking a dude on Veeky Forums about the best way to breathe while jerking off.

>I don't get laid regularly enough to plan ahead. I feel like I need to train myself better somehow

Well here is a crazy idea; how about you train yourself into being more successful with ladies?

>Well here is a crazy idea; how about you train yourself into being more successful with ladies?

Well that's a completely separate issue.

>move to new city for work
>don't know anyone
>coworkers are all married or live far away in different direction
>lift at 5am when the gym is empty because of bad traffic in the evening
>reluctantly use dating apps
>meet barely average girls once in a while, and the rest flake

I could make a whole separate thread asking about how to make friends in a new city too because I have no idea. I'm used to having tons of people my age and with the same interests everywhere since I've been in academia for the past decade.

>Pic related.

Do you want to become Big Boss ?

Commit to NoFap.

(Yes, I'm slightly retarded )

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Don't use porn, buy an onahole or something and train with it try to last longer every time set a time 10 Min or something and improve upon that

Don't buy a fucking onahola holy shit. Practice by getting laid, don't shit where you eat. It's only awkward the first few times

I only fap when I'm aroused enough to finish myself with nothing but still images, nothing hardcore either. Works well enough for me.

Fap all the time and buy liquid Cialis.

>nofap for 7 years
>become boss

You meant... 9 YEARS ?