Sexual health

Hey Veeky Forums, lurker here
You guys have helped me out in the years I've been here and I've finally landed a relationship, I'm this girls first kiss and her first time cuddling with a guy was with me.
She's really cute and I'm super in love with her, she's a virgin (obviously) and I'm going to take her virginity
My question is does a girl have a permanent infatuation with you after you take their virginity? She already likes me but I'd really like her to be wanting to talk to me 24/7, some other dudes online and friends were saying yes a girl does get really clingy with you after you take their virginity but I wanted to hear your guys opinions.

Thanks Veeky Forums, love you all

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>believing she's a virgin
Kek

She's literally hermit-tier besides going to school, just want your guys advice, no bad thoughts

Fpbp

do it and be good to her. my first relationship we both lost it to each other and there’s something about it that you don’t realize until after that is truly special. but it’s a learning experience. virginity is a sacred thing don’t believe all those people who’ve lost it to whores or roasties. god speed user

>hermit must be a virgin

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you reckon girls in op are virgins?

haha i went to school with the girl on the right

Yea

yes they will get clingy

Thanks man, would you say that girls do have a sort of special bond with you after it though?
I have paranoia and I'm recently starting to see the world for all its beauty, pls don't pull me back into this all girls are whores mindset

been with the girl I deflowered for 7 1/2 years (me20, her18 and onwards), I had a girlfriend before for 3 years so not a virgin myself by then.
as pointed out it's somewhat of a special connection, but it depends solely on the girls character it seems as mine was never really clingy, but she's more focussed an independent than at least 95% of women (masters in maths, physics and astronomy) so this can be a statistic outlier and all other girls ARE clingy

She's independent and not very lovey dovey over text, but when we're cuddling she's very close

Sex makes girls clingy you dumbass. The exception is used up whores who can't pair-bond anymore.

How or where did you meet her?

Hyped as hell ty anons

yeah that's the oxytocine rush she get's (see and google that hormone for more info)

When I was in primary school, my mum wouldn't buy my pokemon cards cause we were povo so at lunch time, I stole a kids confiscated deck from the teachers desk and set out to become the very best. Ii swindled and ripped off so many kids to collect shinies, destroyed pokereers, ruined lives. Pokemon unironically made a monster out of me until digimon came out and I though that was gay.

Met her through a friend

cool

sweet

nice

epic

Do you think her being a hermit could lead to problems on the longer run? I am not doubting your relationship or its future, but I am generally curious about this.

Be careful what you wish for user.
Clingy can become annoying or even worse, controlling.

Thanks but let it serve as a warning

We're both hermits so it would work well

I'm a bit of a clingy pussy so I wouldn't mind her also being clingy

>virgin

How old is she exactly? Also what country?

Then even worse, you guys might get bored of each other, *some* distance is good.

Australia, 18

27 germany

Well then good job. My last relationships failed because I don't really like going out.
Yet, finding a girl to stay at home with is quite difficult.

Oh also I'm 19

Sick

lit

take her v card and then dump her like a chad

She's literally the first girl I've ever had lovesick feelings towards, I've been with other girls and I just saw them as chicks but with this one I'm really feeling something
Don't want to dump her breh

BRAAAAAAAP

I'm a guy and I didnt give 2 shits about the girl I lost my virginity to. I was 20 and it was built up to be the best moment of my life. dumped her after like a month cause she was boring in bed and would only do missionary , and also cause some chick down the hall at my residence with a fatter THICCer ass was always flirting with me, so i started banging her

I think it depends on the person. the more broken, the more clingy and weird they are

then she'll dump you
after she tries the first cock she will crave for the better one
pump and dump bro, love does not exist

Don't listen to these guys. Assuming your gf is lying is a great way to ruin a relationship, which is what they want to do to you. Relationships are built on trust. If she hasn't given you a reason not to trust her, then you need to trust her, otherwise you are doomed from the start.

yes they get clingy as fuck, but wait! Don't think this is a bad thing!

You want a grill just like that, you don't want a ho, keep her!

Fuck this is why I left this website when I was improving myself

Clingy girls grow tiresome real fucking fast. It won't be long and she will be relying on you for everything she does. She won't be happy when you leave her to her own devices. She will nag you relentlessly trying to guilt you into not seeing your friends.

That's the clingy girl.

Fuck and run

rad

yes goy, trust her, trust her no matter what
never be suspicious

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That sounds amazing wtf

Relationships are built on trust. If you don't think that's true, then fine. Enjoy your shitty life.

I was with a girl that had apparently done everything but penetration. That changed with me. I didn't note any clingy behavior or anything but two years into the relationship, shit started going south in a bad way. She became a hair dresser and began the process of going bat-shit crazy.

If you like the sound of never doing anything you want on your own ever again go for it.

This includes vidya, gym, hanging with friends etc. Because she can't entertain herself why you do all that shit. So you can't do it anymore.

If that's your bag, you're not a man. You're a faggot

they are indeed, but never fully trust anybody

How does it feel being 16?

How does it feel pretending to know what you're talking about

This unironically sounds great
Shit I might be a fag

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How do you feel about yourself now? It's pretty shitty of you to take things that don't belong to you. You should have mowed some lawns or walked some dogs if you wanted the cards. You had no right to take them. Those other kids who did have cards weren't necessarily spoiled or privileged, they could have worked to earn the cards themselves. So, it was the peer pressure of everyone being crazy about Pokemon back then? Jesus, man. I hope you've learned from all this and turned your life around.

It will grow tiresome real quick. Trust me. I've been there. I've seen bros go there.

I'm infatuated with her right now but we've only been together for around 2 weeks, will my feelings change?

yes, they will

Nah hes right. You kind of have to assume that anything you tell another person will be told to someone else later at some point

When?

She wasn't a virgin dude. Blowjob queens aren't virgins.

do you expect me to post you precise date when? it will start changing when her behavior will start affecting you in a bad way which will also happe nwhen you will behave like beta faggot who clinges to clingy girl
remember one thing - she is not the one and only one in the world
this fucking board

Next time you fancy reading a book, watching a film she isn't into, playing vidya, going the gym, having a chill day. She will complain she is bored and you must adopt the doormat position and do something you didn't really want to do. You will think it's cute at first, but when it's been a couple of months of never doing anything you want, you will start to resent her a little bit more each time. You will try to put your point across and she will relent but she won't let it lie. She will tell you how bored she is so often you won't actually enjoy doing what you wanted. Each time you try to do something that doesn't involve her she will react a little worse. Eventually she will be boiling your pet in a massive pot.

Yes, now I sell insurance

nectar

and it's not like i'm telling you "man don't try being with her", all i'm trying to say is that you have to always remain cautious and never play their games
be confident, do always what you feel needs to be done, do not fall under her nagging
i'm

...Which is why I never used the term virgin in the post. I was never under any illusions with this girl. It simply happened to be my turn.

>t.hasnt taken the virginity of his current gf
Your life is sad

Took me 4 years to break with bf after taking my virginity.
They weren't terrible, but over time he changed for the worse despite my attempts to help him
and I was too stupid to leave him earlier.
Despite everything I wanted to stay with forever all because he was my first love.

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I'm fucking retarded sorry, I'll take your advice
Thank you brother

>does a girl have a permanent infatuation with you after you take their virginity?

Yes, in 100% of the cases yes. Women aren't individuals.

Surinam 59

I can't tell if you're being serious or not

>girl
>hermit-tier

Woman always want attention no matter how shy they seem.

True, but it doesn't mean they all act on their lust for attention.
t.in couple with high school love who doesn't use any form of social media.

kek'd @ "permanent infatuation". It doesn't work that way user.

Hes not

>those tats
fucking garbage lmao.

>I'm this girls first kiss and her first time cuddling with a guy was with me

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What about love dude?

He's not.

Guys, it's been 1.5 years since I've gotten laid and 4 years since I've been in a relationship. I started taking SSRIs for depression a couple of months ago and it has been slowly killing my sex drive. I'm at the point now where fapping isn't even fun. I've gone from 3-4x/day to once every other day or so. However, it's given me the ability to recognize my unhealthy behaviors and correct them. I've been:

> More friendly and social. I greet anyone I'm interacting with and ask them how their day is going.
> More confident. I'm finally beginning to like what I see in the mirror even though here I'd be considered DYEL.
> Getting rid of porn I don't need. I (with much struggle) deleted all of my pics/videos from my ex from 4 years ago. I figured there is no real reason to keep them around and I'll just keep going back to them if I don't get rid of them.
> Making it a point to get out of the house. My friend and I just picked up disc golf and it's pretty fun. I figure that could be a good way to meet some girls since I'm living next to a college campus. I'm also going with friends to on campus events and the bar.
> Quitting drugs. I've been smoking weed almost daily for 2 years and have been experimenting with different things like shrooms, LSD, and molly. I slowed down over the last few months and now I'm 1 month sober. I'm going to try my best to make that 1 year.
> Learning to love myself. I've always been so hard on myself and believing that anything less than perfection is failure. To the point that I wouldn't even try if I thought there was a high risk of failure. Especially with grills. One of the greatest things I've realized lately is that my definition of failure is completely arbitrary and is almost 100% based on what I think others will think of me. It's time to stop judging myself through others' eyes and do what I enjoy doing. If people like me for who I am, then I like them. If they don't, I don't.

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Seconded, all of it.

Seconded

you're a fucking pathetic beta cuck. you need to have your heart broken to stop being a beta cuck

i cant believe a virgin will have more power in this "relationship" than you

I'm usually really cold towards girls (it's been how I landed previous gf's) but with this one I'm being really faggy with for some reason

My wife and I are hermits too, seriously. We even both work from home. It's awesome, she never wants to go out, never wants to be social. We just enjoy each other every day. Super /comfy/.

Again, seconded. Although I will add, my experience is that the only trust you should...trust, is when it's effortless trust. When she never gives you a reason to be suspicious, you don't even have to think about trying to be trusting. And it's not like I've not had jealousy issues before.

Do we like these women in the photo?

If these were two men in the photo with scraggly bears, tattoos, and covered in Pokemon collectors gear we'd call them soy boys. They'd probably be making the soyboy face into the camera.

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Stop talking about this stupid shit and give me source
REEEE

Who is she? She's hot as fuck

I don't care if "we" like them, I'd hit it multiple times. Plus, different standards for females.

Double standards are real and reasons like these are why they exist. God bless em

Oh most certainly I would hit that. I want to creampie both of them and suck on their feet

I'm just saying that i've seen many soyboy and numale threads recently and these women have all the exact surroundings of a soyboy

Yes, if you are in a shitty, trust-less relationship you're correct. However, mature adults are able to keep secrets.

How old is she?
And yeah she could get clingy, I think I did myself
Take it or leavd it faggot, as is her first relationship she will have to become more mature with the time you spend together, is natural
Just don't be a loser who engages in a relationship when he doesnt really want her and is just craving affection or sex. You know, like on this site

estrogen in a woman is good dumbass, the equivalent of a soyboy for woman would be an oniongirl

She's just turned 18, asked her friends and my friends and they said she's literally oblivious to everything sexual, doesn't even watch porn or masturbate

>these women have the exact surroundings of a soyboy
>persons with vaginas
>effeminate males

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