Is it to late to turn my life with 23

no job
no education
no friends
no driver license
live with parents
strong ocd
narcissistic
anxiety
bipolar
30% bodyfat

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No matter how many self diagnosed mental illnesses you have it's never too late

just find a way to buy a lot of coins and youll turn your life around with a shit load of money in 2019

Go to a community college or a tech school. Get certified in machining or welding, get a job

Get out of your comfort zone. Travel is the best medicine and everything will fall into place

Ive been there user and lifes better on the other side. GL

get your shit, load it up into your car and start driving in some direction. drive for at least 2 weeks. then look on craigslist for housing.

i forgot to add:

the highlight of my day is falling asleep so i can have dreams and escape this painfull daily routine

LOL thats my career now

lol how are you narcissistic when you suck so much

for fuck sakes stop eating carbs, realise you fucked yourself when you took antibiotics as a child and start to fix it

Op, listen to this.
Go for some honest (physical) work. Preferably outside. Work up from there.

Was about to say, must be tough

Work in landscaping and lot maintenance, buy shit at thrift stores and auction it on ebay, eat healthy, join a club, make enough money to move to southeast asia, ship unique snacks and toys online to americans for an exorbitant price (advertise on facebook, make a very good website catered towards redditors), hire packaging workers for peanuts to scale up and squander profits as the ceo of an international export company.

cause im aesthetic and girls never were a problem. i just rather watch porn cause its more comfy. im addicted

Medical Doctor here, no faggot it's not too late. Life tends to take unexpected turn, you just got to get out there.

what do i need to do in order to make it? what age is too old to be living with mom and dad?

>30% bf
>im aesthetic
sorry man i think you might be retarded too. your only chance is euthanasia

Richish fag here (not rolling in it but can survive without work). It doesn't get any easier with money. Op, the only way to sort your life out is to somehow learn discipline. Forget friends at this point. Exercise is probably they key at first. Once you manage to exercise 5 days a week, everything else will just start to happen if its own accord. If you throw in reading for an hour a day, you're laughing. But take it from me, finding meaning in anything in order to get the motivation to do those things is next to impossible today. Sleeps also the highlight of my day, getting up feels like walking back into prison. there are no answers, and money isn't a panacea.

*was aesthetic

i gained it in a short period of time.

me and u are very similar

why don't you become aesthetic again, get a gf

drive Lyft, buy some crypto with the gains

because fapping 4 times a day takes away all my motivation ffs

i see a hnng qt and just fap over her and then i get over her after i nut

Veeky Forums finds a way once again. fucking bravo dude.

disconnect from internet. only check emails but no browser. I did it for 2 weeks and I was feeling like a god. I was reading like 10x as usual and my lucidity was great. Excercise was improving a lot too.
The hard part is not falling in it again like I did. It's a fucking addiction

Normally my Facebook feed is filled with memes and normie trash, but I actually saw something on there yesterday that made me think. This was the gist of it:

While it's 10:30AM in Berlin, it's 4:30AM in New York. Does this mean that New York is "behind"? Obviously not.
It's never too late to change your life. People change careers at 55, get married at 70, and graduate from college at 30.
I met my best friend in the military, and he enlisted at 27 with $0 to his name.
At 23, you're young as fuck.

Do what the other anons have said, the best first step would be getting some sort of manual job. A job usually leads to friends, and money. From there, you have the means to do whatever you want.

Aw man the waking up is like rising from deep, blue, cool and silent ocean into burning hot sunlight. Hot sand hurting your feet, too bright. People and seaguls making hella noise. Every sense is overloaded in seconds.

fapping doesn't get you cuddling and love

fapping only satisfies a PHYSICAL urge, I still would like a girl to cuddle me in my bed even after I fap

you should quit looking at porn cold turkey for at least 3 months - you can fap, but you'll see a HUGE difference

you won't be seeking visual stimulation, try it, it's made a difference for me

>it's an addiction

no it isnt lmao i've been on this site for 10 yea- AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

Do something, school, job, or relationships. It's never too old to be living with your parents (that is if they want you around), but there comes a time where you have to pay everything for them.

thank you senpai

It's not an easy one but you definitely could turn your life around user.
First thing is to find an area you would want to work in (and think you could succeed in) and then figure out what pathways are available.

Once you've figured out what field you want to work in, look for education and qualifications that can get you into that field. There's plenty of tertiary education that you can get into even if you didn't finish high school. Once you've got your education all done you can start working, with your new qualifications you'll be able to actually get a job and will finally have the chance to get a foothold in the world.

Most importantly, focus on what you CAN do, not on what you CAN'T do. Focusing on what is out of your reach will only make you feel bad for no reason.

Every change starts with the first step. Make a plan, stick to the plan, and you will change.

I'm 24 and I still live with my parents, though my situation's slightly different because I'm finishing up my education this year and am getting a job then moving out once that's all set.

If I had to be honest about it. 30 years old is where I would draw the line on how old you could be before living with parents still starts to become unhealthy (with the exception of situations of mutual cooperation, like a family business or subletting a part of the house from a parent while you save up money you make through employment). Anything in the 20s means you still have time to turn things around, don't be scared to rely on your parents to support you while you find you're footing (even if that means staying a little longer after getting a decent job to save up a deposit on your house if you think that's the best option). Use the fact that you have loving parents who are happy to let you save money by living with them to your advantage to accelerate your financial life goals.

Youre only 23 retard. Still a newborn. No one expects you to do anything at that age

What the fuck is it with people nowadays that they feel old

I've had moments. Granted I'm only 24 myself but when I think about my future I end up worrying that I won't have enough time to achieve my financial goals at the age that I want to achieve them and will need to work much later into my old age than I would want to.

Then I have to kind of pull myself back and remind myself to focus more on the immediate future, as the long term future could be radically changed by any number of factors that I simply can't predict.

Still I understand why some younger people would worry. Especailly those with no job and no footing to get a job who are only not homeless right now because of their parents, who could die, become unable to keep supporting them or decide to throw them out on the street at some point. Having an uncertain future can be very distressing, even for young people.

>23
>Still a newborn

Kek

This kind of attitude causes people to wake up at 30 in the exact same place they've been since highschool.

>What the fuck is it with people nowadays that they feel old
Comparison is the thief of joy.

At 23, you see your high-school classmates posting pictures of themselves graduating from college, going on trips, getting their first "real" jobs.
You don't see their massive student debt. You don't feel the unexpected hard transition from college to professional social life. People only share the highlight reel of their life, and it's very easy to compare that to the unedited reality of your own.

At 23, you've been a legal adult for 5 years. Considering the average US male will live to 78, you've lived just over 8% of your adult life.

The idea is to focus on the moment. If you completely sacrifice the present for the future, you're wasting more than the fool who spends all his money.

This is true. You should always be planning for your future, I've seen it with my mother, she doesn't set financial goals and constantly spends her money on meaningless things instead of saving or investing it.
Now she's pushing 60 and still renting and practically living paycheck to paycheck.

Plan for your financial future, save or invest money as appropriate. DO NOT just sit around not thinking about it because it's a daunting prospect that you don't like thinking about.

dude idk is it the media or something? cuz im 22 and i feel really old like im scared bro lowkey

I'm in a similar situation as OP except I have a job but it's a shit general labor in a factory

everyday I sense impending doom and misery. Nothing happens in my life, I know no one. no friends, no trips, no adventures, no sex

being working class poorfag really sucks. I see people on facebook who never worry about money, go to uni and go abroad and get triggered

I was in the same situation until age 25 then I realized now that I’m old my life and time doesn’t worth anything anyway so I did my drivers license, finished my engineering degree, got a gf, a place, a car and started to work. I thought i will feel satisfied by achieving normie milestones but life still sucks, probably even more now that I got some shit to lost.

Yeah bro, you're sweet.

Find something you want to study, take it slow, and then you'll education, work on friends while at that. Stay with your parents for now, fuck the cultural bs against it. if it were china you'd likely be with them even after you're hooked up.

Get exercising regular, that shouold deal with a bunch of the MH stuff. And while and your education see a counseller there.

>one shot at life
>miss out on crypto
>also have ED
not happy at all with how this turned out desu

this
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Save up money for a trip then, make friends by going to social events or even just talking to people at your workplace, get a gf through online dating (seriously, if you're hurting that badly for sex just fucking do online dating).

Stop moping and actually set goals for yourself dude. You're dragging yourself down here.

Grass always looks greener on the other side until you actually get there user. Don't try to emulate others, just do what makes you happy.

u dumb af nikka. 23 is plenty of time to change your life.3 years of college and you'll be 26. Still relatively young. Stop feeling sorry for your self and get a fkn grip and try to improv your life. Start taking daily walks etc. Rome wasn't built in a day.

25 y.o here, I feel the same then I made 300k crypto and literally dont give a fuck I work at a liqour store browse biz all day and drink beers on the weekend at work fucking LOVE IT

>Just lift bro, you'll suddenly stop being mentally ill and job offers will be thrown at you just based on how aesthetic you are

Why is Veeky Forums so retarded?

no drivers licence

>tfw portfolio is growing, but psychosis won't go away

I know that feel. My parents never had the time to take me to get my hours. Now I'm going to have to pay 5 fucking grand to get my hours through a driving instructor.

>is it to late to turn my life with 23
Are you fucking retarded? It's only a few years since you left high school and you already think your life is over?

Here's a tip for you user. Women presence on dating sites peak at 30 year old. Most relationships people have in their early 20's break up because people think they can trade up.

Now you are 23. In 7 years you are 30. That is, you have 7 years to improve yourself mentally and physically.

1. Get a job
2. Get fit
3. Get literate

Can you do that in 7 years user?

Go to work every morning, go to the gym every other day, read every night. Just by doing that, you'ill become a top 1% of ubermench.

Just do it faggot!

Hey man, I was in the same position as you a few years ago, minus the OCD, narcissism and bipolar, and I'm currently in my first year of medical school and having a blast.

I'd strongly suggest seeking out therapy assuming you have the means and working on things little by little.

Talk to your parents, it might not be too late for an abortion.

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Unironically Depends what your IQ is. If it's low/average then it's too late.

> narcissist

This is a very powerful personality disorder if you use it right. Basically if you combine it with actual competence and knowledge you will advance very far, as you already have the deluded self-belief that crushes timid, insecure, uncertain normies. However, having that self-belief with nothing to back it up makes you just a deluded idiot who will always have an unhappy life.

And I was angry AF when I turned 21. shit man, I feel like I'm wasting time and other younger people realized so much more. I don't care if they are a small percentage, I want to be in that small percentage too.

5 fucking grand for that? where the fuck do you live. I paid like 350 bucks for all my hours+taxes+exam.

Watch Jordan Peterson videos on YouTube.

You are more capable than you realize

Turn your life around now.

I'm 30 and haven't done it yet, those years of your life will flyby. Hurry and get your self a career before you end up like me a slave at a warehouse making minimum wage and hoping that a crane falls on you and kills you.

same

You can still turn your life around too bro. I make good money but I hate my job and I’m the office pariah. I’m thinking about making a change myself. I’m 34

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Never too late to be what you might have been.

put in INT buy orders sub 30c
wait till march
buy shipchain
hold till april 2019
be millionaire.

Id wager most people think that way. Its the thing where any success they had is automatically attributed to skill and hardwork and any failure they have is due to something obviously unfair to them.

Then any success of others is mostly luck and any failures or hardships or others is because they must have deserved it for not working as hard as they do.

I used to think it was a way for them to not have to face how a lot of life is out of your control but now I think its just because normies are dumb and just incapable of thinking people have different experiences.

Not to late but I wouldn't wait any longer. Time is running out.