How do you forgive your parents?
How do you forgive your parents?
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You remember you're basically them
Buy their house for them because they're failures if you're me.
You don't senpai.
If they were shit parents and damaged you for life the dont deserve forgiveness. They are probably toxic shitty people anyways
realize that when they had you the world was looking like a golden age and they couldn't have foreseen any of your current deficiencies mattering back then
Why aren't you all in on www.cryptocities.net ?! That's a more important question.
foreskin restoration?
realise they did their best
/thead
Oldfag parent here. Go fuck yourself. I guarantee you are nothing but a disappointing millennial sjw who virtue signals on social media all day. Do your parents a favor and kill yourself.
This is the most boomer post I've ever read.
is that alexis ren
god i love her so much
If you don't help me murder my uncle who ruined our life then you're next, paps. And you'll be begging me for death, the both of you.
>sjw who virtue signals on social media all day
this is the wrong site to be saying that you know
Fuck off old faggit
You leave them rotting in the old age house and never pay visit
This is true. Only born in '92 but have a very sharp memory of the 90's and the overall mentality of the country at that time. People were a lot more optimistic back then. Not to mention the boomers I remember spending money like it was water. The extra income people had was also an influential factor in why the 90's were so fashion and style oriented. Only a very small intellectual minority of people knew what was coming. I look at everyone now and everyone is fucking miserable. No hope. No optimism. People like to criticize my generation for this, but they don't realize that we don't see a prosperity when we look forward. I think that's why I always tended to relate more to my Greatest Generation grandparents rather than my boomer parents. They get what we're going through right now, and sadly many of them are 95+ or dead now. I hope a lot of us have the strength that they did to get through this shit.
Forgiveness is a waste of time and is easily forgotten. You should be aiming for reconciliation. If they reject that, then the unfortunate truth is that they're prideful and hide they fact that they probably didn't even want to be parents.
Came to post this
right in the feels
>tfw you will never be succesful
get your mother a BBC so your dad becomes a cuck. The american dream
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Eat shit nigger loving faggot
Forgive my parents? Ha ha, actually THEY have to forgive me, for I am such a failure.
>sjw who virtue signals on social media all day
>Saying this to literal Nazis.
90% of people here are really just libertarian, only the unaware retards take natsoc seriously, it was just used to trigger sjw's. the idiots who didn't realize we were pretending to be idiots and thought they were in good company ruined pol.
Become a parent yourself. That's when I learned a lot of me being an entitled brat, and my parents much better parents than I had imagined.
Not /pol here, fucktard.
pol has undoubtedly invaded here you faggot.
I never forgive people for anything desu.
Not sure how someone can just forget the acts of someone else.
I am absolutely not my father
Just remind yourself that You are the composite of their mistakes and shortcomings
>parent
You fucking idiot
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I havent. Mum destroyed my self confidence and notion of self worth. Dad did the same x5. Ill bash that cunts head in if i ever see him again, he is lucky he skipped out on me
Drug addict piece of shit here. My parents raised me pretty well, i come from a good senpai.
Crypto is my only way out, i have no idea what i want to do in life. Haven't for years, everything seems too hard and annoying for me to go through with.
No, I'm not.
Fuck off boomer scum. Go cause another housing affordability crisis you cunt
>build empires
>raze other empires
>command vast armies, men who will go to their death for you
>only to become some slut's Instagram picture prop 2000 years later
Humanity was a mistake.
Give details m8
I wanna know how shitty your parents are compared to mine
How did you make it out? How long have you lived away from them
Yeah I'm sure your kids turned out great you fucking loser.
you are young mate, its so easy to smell you from here.
You meant to say
>female suffrage was a mistake
Mum was single mother with a few different men in her life. One tried to be "stepdad" but fucking tormented me psychologically for years, got worse after he impregnated her with my brother and sister, i was old enough to stand up to him then. Made it to 16 and told her i want to find my real dad. Did, went well for a while. He was a pretty big figure in organised crime in aus (kek) and has ptsd and other disorders from drugs and savage fights/beatings. Heaps more but essentially now 24 and still trying to find myself. Moved out of home at 17
Forgot to mention, father disowned me after a couple of years of no contact, via facebook message because he is a chicken shit bitch
No you faggot, my country and my people take precedent over our worship of Mammon.
Seig fucking heil.
>father disowned me
How does this work? Does he just say "You are no longer my son" or something like that?
Sorry if this breaks up old wounds, I'm genuinely curious..
cuts you from his will. my father did the same to me. bitcoin skyrocketing has made him eat his dick, McAffee style
>will
Wow, my parents said they wouldn't be able to give me shit if they die, why is this a big deal? They always said "Son, I want to give to you with warm hands and not with cold ones." Words to live by, frankly.
He told me i am no longer a true *instert last name here* and called me a cunt. I decided he was dead to me after that. All good user. It helps me process it rather than repress it
Yea my mother told me I'm not her don anymore and that all the time she spent raising me was a waste and that she regret birthing me
Ouch. That certainly hurts more than being cut off from some will. I hope you'll make it, user. Don't repeat the same mistakes your father did. Find some nice virtuous woman and contribute to something great in this world.
It does. But it has made me stronger and realise what i want from life to a degree. Im going to do everything i can for my children and their success. The start of a family dynasty
kek
I don't know.
The second I move on my own I will send both of my parents a message that they've never raised me, since they divorced young. My mom is a desperate depressed person, coming home from work and watching TV all day, neglecting my younger half sister, that is also burning her brains everyday by watching cartoons 24/7 and being obese at the age of 8.
My father is more old school and at least disciplined, but he always had anger issues and never knew how to communicate with their kids without making them cry and hate him, even though he meant good sometimes.
I truly don't know, if I'll ever be able to forgive them, nor go to their funeral. I've thought about it a lot actually.
If I learned anything from them, is what parent I don't want to be and what kind of relationship I will want to have with my wife/kids/family.
It's sad world and these questions are hard when you turn out to be 20 and realize you've been misguided all your life and nobody taught you shit in life.
At least I'm not in my 30s and realize this, but I feel like my whole childhood and teenage years were soaked in depression, even though I was social kid and people loved me, due to my parents bringing me down with their problems and emotions/lending them money since they are poor and not teaching me about finance/money managment/how to have positive outlook on life etc..
I don't know OP, I have yet to find an answer to forgive them.
Read the bible, senpai, It will have your answers.
Yeah 90s was fucking great. And it may be somewhat of nostalgia. But shit, nickelodeon, space jam, walking into sizzler with your family wearing clean cotton sweaters and ball cut hair with fresh optimism in the air. pogs, pizza hut dine ins, water guns with fucking batteries that shoot out automatically, rollerblades, de la soul and arcades and bright happy music. It was a great time, i think the 90s really was the hippy era of the 70s. Peak entertainment. Since 9/11 and recurrent school shootings the world has steadily gone to shit.
Nigga that is too much nostalgia. You had me fucked up at sizzler
Weren't army toys also a big deal. I remember my cousing that was born in 89' having these huge aircrafts and a bunch of other legit soldier toys. Was fun desu, none of the teachers in our kindergarden gave a fuck about young slavs killing eachother with military toys.
good times
Yep 9/11 really was the turning point where everything started to get worse.
1. Are you circumcised?
2. Were you put on Ritalin or SSRIs at a young age?
If your parents didn't impose either of those things on you, then be at least slightly grateful.
>tfw social libertarian and unironic economic national socialist
It's a shame political pressure from the Yanks has made Australia abandon what was essentially NatSoc lite, it was legitimately the economic system that lead to the rest of the world knowing the name of this tiny population nation.
Delet this
I have caring parents i cant complain although they gave me some personality traumas that turned me into a person full of hate towards the society in general, i guess the point is you'll never be happy with what you have no matter how good or bad your parents were or how good you think you would be as a parent no matter how hard you'll try there will always be something you do wrong
MDMA with therapist
I'm on adderal. Which was a huge turning point, since for the first time in 20 years I feel like I'm me. I though the chemical imbalance was a meme, but I found out it's not and that my brains were paralyzed for 20 years basically.
Can confirm, I was 20 when 9/11 happened so I actually lived as an adult before and after it.
It was such a blatant power grab as liberties where turned to ash across the western world but somehow my naive 20yo stoner brain noticed what the vast majority of voters didn't, politicians the world over were saying "to protect freedom" while taking those freedoms away.
Power grab is right. Not just politically but socially and psychologically as well. People don't have hope anymore. People don't even see the future as being something to look froward to. Some turn to dread and despair, others to nihilism. The end result is a population that's far more malleable.
I'll remove my fedora now.
yea im not my father. he drank 1 quart of vodka everyday and died at the age of 45. he was never in my life. im a fucking organic farmer, I can drink a few beers a month and not let it take over my life what so ever.
Don't hate them for who they are and what they did to you and your surroundings, be gratefull for what they have teached you in the long run and what positive traits you'll be able to pass on.
lul ur gunna crash so hard. get off that shit while u can user im begging you.
Why? I feel fine for once in my life.
this
Resenting your parents is gay, as is whining about things in general
Are you his wife's son?
14yo newfag detected
she ded
In my exp the "skips a generation" meme is real. So, I'm a lot more like my grandfather, than my dad, and I imagine (based on what I know about my grandfather) that my dad is a lot more like my great grandfather than his dad. That doesn't mean that they are exactly the same, the environmental factors are key to personality development, but in general if you had placed my dad into my great grandfather's shoes, he would have turned out very similarly and vise versa, where as if you had put him in my grandfather's shoes the way he would have reacted would have been quite different.
Just a theory.
meant to say
>still a pimp 2000 years later
jesus man i can't believe you posted this. this story is so messed up.
too early
This
There's is not point in forgivig them.
They are subhuman.
Suicide is the only real answer.
Never forget
LMFAO I knew this board had parent issues based upon your fucking boomer hatred
called this shit
When you forgive someone for what they did, you don't do it because you hope to be right about them and pretend that everything can be fixed. You don't do it out of blindness or naivete either. You do it because it's the right thing to do, to allow the best of them to come out. And even if you don't give a shit about them anymore, you do it to be free.
Otherwise you'll we shakled to that resentment for the rest of your life unable to cope with the fact that your life could've been different.
The fruit doesn't fall far from the tree, but it does fall away from it.
the threads hitting me hard
didn't really come here for this
By realizing that they are only human and that they had the best intentions with me and my siblings, also that nature probably has a mechanism developed that kids should at some point detach from their parents and travel out into the world independently, and that some conflict with parents is pretty normal for teenagers.
Holy shit is that Saddam Hussein?
hold off sending that letter at least a year after leaving mate
Too bad we sold all of our industry and infrastructure to the chinks. Its a goddamn shithole now
86 here and I agree.
Boomers don't seem to realize were not bitter per se. It's that the party is over and we're the ones that have to do the cleanup.
So we're not exactly pumped for the future.
Boomers are the most selfish and shitties generation ever. They have huge egos and false sense of accomplishment, like they are the most fucking amazing people in the world, even though they onlu succeded because:
>they inherited the economic boom from the greatest generation
>because of the economic boom, jobs were abundant, so all you had to do to succed was to not be retarded and wageslave whatever meaningless job available
And to really crown them as the "Worst Generation ever", they are fucking AT LEAST the next two generations during their time in power by:
>gigantification of government
>ATH government spending
>Unsutainable debt system(they don't spend like crazy and don't give a fuck, since they are no the ones that are goona pay the bill)
So nice jobs you piece of shits...we can't even have the piece of mind that they are dying soon, because medicine evolved a lot since the 60's, so they're gonna keep fucking everything up for the next 20 years.