Why am i this insecure

Supergrass
Supergrass

dislike girl at work so i ignore her
tfw she ignores me too and im sad about it

why am i this insecure

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girlDog
girlDog

Start a business together

Evil_kitten
Evil_kitten

because you are immature. We have all been there.

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hairygrape
hairygrape

how do i get mature im 22 desu

FastChef
FastChef

travel, speak to new people, meet new people, make mistakes, fuck things up, go on crazy adventure... basically live !

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Lunatick
Lunatick

travel

Techpill
Techpill

i traveled around Africa. gave me a lot of perspective and life experience.

And obviously I'm not talking about going to a resort and not leaving the hotel...

or going on a drinking holiday to ibiza or whatever. that's not what I mean

Snarelure
Snarelure

It just means you're secretly a nice person user. This is a good thing. Don't let anyone convince you otherwise.

Evilember
Evilember

By putting yourself in uncomfortable positions where you need to overcome adversity. By failing repeatedly. By experiencing pain. By building discipline and accomplishing difficult tasks/goals.

This

OP I know it's easier said than done, so I'll spoon feed you a few.

Do things on your own

Go out on a friday night completely on your own and socialize with various people. Go to events completely alone and meet new people. Travel alone. This is where your true self shines.

Martial arts
Pick up a striking/grappling art and learn it. I find fighting hardens men and instills in them a deep confidence.

Meditate

Calms your mind, reduces anxiety. not the end all be all, but a contributing tool.

TechHater
TechHater

like girl at work so I ignore her
tfw she ignores me too for first few months, now she won't stop giving me attention

JunkTop
JunkTop

im still asking that and im 48

Lord_Tryzalot
Lord_Tryzalot

ask her out and watch her recoil in disgust

haveahappyday
haveahappyday

Congrats, you figured out the secret to getting women

cum2soon
cum2soon

any more of this milk truck?

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askme
askme

I wouldn't date her she's just nice to look at and talk to

Inmate
Inmate

you both need makeup sex

Gigastrength
Gigastrength

yeah sex is overrated, i don't like it either

Stupidasole
Stupidasole

Nope, some pajeet posted it in a fb group related to old coin collecting.. don't ask me why..

Boy_vs_Girl
Boy_vs_Girl

Or, you could become even more jaded by realizing that people are even shittier than you first imagined.

DeathDog
DeathDog

I stopped giving a fuck basically.. I just do my own things and that's it..

I keep nice people as friends and retards, drama queens and morons get booted. Simple as that.

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Booteefool
Booteefool

thread about girls on Veeky Forums
350 replies guaranteed

CouchChiller
CouchChiller

I have something to say about that as well.

I stopped pursuing relationships as well. Not interested anymore. If I want to get laid I just visit the local brothel around the corner here. Which I do once a month

And yes obviously there is more to a relationship than just sex... but I can sleep very well alone at night, just to name something. Also I enjoy a dinner very well alone.

w8t4u
w8t4u

tfw your wife used to look like this but then she got pregnant and now she's ruined bc latina genetics don't bounce back

TalkBomber
TalkBomber

marry her, is the only way.

VisualMaster
VisualMaster

even without pregnancy they all go this road after 30.

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Evil_kitten
Evil_kitten

Go out on a friday night completely on your own and socialize with various people

how do you do that? just hit up a group of people and join their conversation? how tf?

hairygrape
hairygrape

you are both attracted to eachother.

Evilember
Evilember

Smoking, unronically
Asking someone for a light or being asked for a light is without a doubt the perfect conversation starter.

takes2long
takes2long

are you sure you aren't the girl? you sound like one.

SniperWish
SniperWish

What the other user said op.
I have dated a shit load of girls and all the people I know look at me like the most confident guy. But with new girls, i also have that thing, just care what they think even if i don't want anything from them and just think they are nice. Obv, not in a girl bitch way but it crosses my mind.

I am going to study abroad for some experience, learn to do everything alone and meet all new people, think it will be good in the end. Maybe something like that? Also, just try to push the thought out, work on you and be the best version than everyone likes you. It's a grind tho and you maybe never accomplish it.It's fun tho, it's called life. Goodluck

AwesomeTucker
AwesomeTucker

Not that everyone needs to like you. But you get the idea. Also the girls i dated all were from my town so i kinda knew them, which meant i was that confident guy. Or so far away that i wouldnt care.

Evil_kitten
Evil_kitten

how do i get mature im 22

You can speed the process up by trying and failing a lot and learn from the experiences.

likme
likme

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FastChef
FastChef

This.
Have fucked several girls doing exactly this.

PurpleCharger
PurpleCharger

I have a qt asian coworker who talks to me a lot and sends me snaps of her lunch and other cute stuff. we always talk about drinking or doing acid but nothing actually happens. how do I not fuck this up, im slightly autistic

Dreamworx
Dreamworx

Girl I work with is just my type; petite, olive skin, green eyes, slim but with pert booty
Avoid her because don't want drama or sexual harassment charge
Walking to work this week
Reading a particularly jovial Veeky Forums thread on my phone
Forget myself and say "My linky stays super stinky" with a shit eating grin on my face
notice someone to my left
Girl from work who was walking at my pace
She now quickly speeds up and is walking faster

She fucking heard me. I don't even think chainlink will be worth $1 EOY.
Fuck my life.

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Nude_Bikergirl
Nude_Bikergirl

ORGANISE IT. LEAD.

For fucks sake be a man and stop waiting for her to do it. JUST LEAD. SHE IS WAITING.

takes2long
takes2long

I bought chainlink at $1

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lostmypassword
lostmypassword

How do you kiss girls who smoke?
I can't even stand it when a smoker gets on the bus I have to move to the other end.

sends me snaps of her lunch
Was she dropped on her head, or is that like the snapchat thing where she is sending that to everyone?

Just ask her to make you lunch one time in a joking manner.
For example:
Looks tasty, make one for me next time, haha

The haha is key in these situations.

Burnblaze
Burnblaze

Explain the oracle problem to her, it's like printing pussy.

ZeroReborn
ZeroReborn

she just sends me random snaps of things in the office that are funny, pretty sure im the only one

theyre usually premade salads from trader joes, so i dont think i can say that.

haveahappyday
haveahappyday

Smoke yourself so you can't taste it
Also man the fuck up its just tobacco

Deadlyinx
Deadlyinx

She might just consider you a friend honestly, if she starts giving you strong iois like touching/staring at you a lot ask her out

WebTool
WebTool

This. regardless of if shes into you or not, keep her as a friend so she can hook you up with her other friends.

lostmypassword
lostmypassword

what in the fuck does this have to do with business & finance

StrangeWizard
StrangeWizard

Drink more

Emberfire
Emberfire

using chainlink oracles to stalk the physical out of your waifu's imperfect meat form
use the data to 3D print her vagina and ascend

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ZeroReborn
ZeroReborn

using chainlink oracles to stalk the physical details out of your waifu's imperfect meat form
use the data to 3D print her vagina and ascend

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Inmate
Inmate

no DONT do the 'haha' shit. Holy shit, are you guys a bunch of soy faggots?

Show your intention ffs.

Playboyize
Playboyize

how do I not fuck this up
you already did. you're a beta-orbiter. the only way to fix it is to pretend you're seeing someone and ignore her.

Boy_vs_Girl
Boy_vs_Girl

Like a girl at the office
Try to talk to her but she barely responds
Later she likes me on Tinder but doesn't respond to my message
Ok

BinaryMan
BinaryMan

The absolute state of biz
^

Lunatick
Lunatick

being tsundere FOR A GIRL
pathetic desu

Emberburn
Emberburn

coworker has birthday
everyone gratulating her
fuck its my turn but I ignore her for weeks already
fuck it, I get up, walk up to her and shake her hand
say „happy birthday, how old you got?“
she: „27“
“what? already?“
awkward silence

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PurpleCharger
PurpleCharger

100% true