Sex and shame

Why are so many people convinced Sex and sexuality is a shameful thing that humans should crush and suppress within themselves.

I understand that the importance of being responsible with sex but all to often you hear people straight out say it's something to be ashamed of.

I'd prefer secular arguments but if all you have are religious ones, then you may as well share

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large and stinky sausage-like piece of meat, molding in wet, stinky and weird-looking hole. Its just disgusting

because sex is the most plebeian thing a man can do and woman can love.
Religions are meant to leave material-bodily hedonism, travels, concerts, foods, sex and so on, for a spiritual hedonism, through prayers for theists and mediation for atheists.
Plenty of material hedonist love to think of themselves as less hedonistic than they are, since it improves their hedonism in thinking that they are not animals...most people who claim to be religious are not all, it is just the way they are.

Sex itself is a rather pathetic means of gaining perceived social validity by penetrating a unit of perceived high value. Only sexual intercourse with a familiar individual in an intimate setting is of any real value. I'm a girl.

>Why are so many people convinced Sex and sexuality is a shameful thing that humans should crush and suppress within themselves.
Slave morality.

Please G-d be in or around London, England.

There is no sex.

explain

In finnish it's built-in the language for women: häpeä means shame and häpy means womans genitals.

Men are meant to be the ones making the moves toward sex and the so-called women of loose morals are asked "Eikö sinulla ole häpyä?", "Do you have no shame?" (Literally "Do you have no vagina [to be ashamed of]?")

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Sweden needs to put those sexist, slut-shaming scumbags in place. Begin by eradicating their language!

>It's a fact...that in societies like ours sex truly represents a second system of differentiation, completely independent of money; and as a system of differentiation it functions just as mercilessly. The effects of these two systems are, furthermore, strictly equivalent. Just like unrestrained economic liberalism, and for similar reasons, sexual liberalism produces phenomena of absolute pauperization . Some men make love every day; others five or six times in their life, or never. Some make love with dozens of women; others with none. It's what's known as 'the law of the market'...Economic liberalism is an extension of the domain of the struggle, its extension to all ages and all classes of society. Sexual liberalism is likewise an extension of the domain of the struggle, its extension to all ages and all classes of society.
Think about why it might be shameful to, if you've got a working sense of decency, drive around in a gold-plated Lamborghini; the societal role of these two reactions is roughly identical.

They can't get laid so they think to themselves that it's a bad thing anyway to justify their own inadequancy.

Or they are ashamed of their own fetishes and therefore publicly condemn them

And then there are just religiously indoctrinated people

When did thing start to swing from "Having sex is shameful" to "Not having sex is shameful"?

What book?

This is subjective. Some people, many people find the "complete" male (and female) form to be enjoyable. Both physically, and spiritually. It is the subject of many arts, study and and is maybe revered more than it is scorned.

using words like wet, weird and stinky just make you seem narrow.

Attainment of sex in a healthy relationship is thought to be important for a healthy society, but not everyone seeks sex for social validity. The main drive is biological. The arguments that come after are attempts to rationalise a hunger that lies deeper than conscious thought. Its just a thing that people and all life does.

What makes sex such a low act to participate in. The is room for learning, and growth as well as immediate pleasure.

Who are the slavers?

If you can afford a gold plated Lamborghini, then you may buy it. You may brand it around for what ever reason you choose (provided those reasons are civil). The shame lies in the people seeing the lambo. Perhaps in realising that they do not have one, because they do not have what it takes to attain one.

Are people supposed to be a ashamed of other people knowing they are rich?

I'm not sure either are shameful. But this is less to do with the peer pressures of simple children (not having sex is shameful), and more to do with doctrines trying to infiltrate from above.

It's only stinky because you don't wash it; things only look weird if you're not used to seeing them. Your post says a lot about you.

>AHAHA LOL YOURE A DISGUSTING VIRGUN!!

Stockholm syndrome

it's animalistic.

what gets me about many people in today's age where there is a lack of shame associated with sexuality, is their belief that they are so much more advanced than previous humans because we have disassembled these social barriers around sexuality. Meanwhile, they're spending most of their time occupied with thoughts of sex, they dress in an attempt to procure sex from strangers, spend their leisure time on dark dance floors listening to primitive rhythmic music while rubbing their genitals against one another to find a mating partner. Then they'll turn around and slam the people of previous centuries for attempting to quell these purely animal thoughts and actions and instead spent their time philosophising and striving to raise man up to a higher standard than a mere beast..

Humility's an almost universal value, apath.

Shame makes sex more exciting. It makes one's heart pound to do what is shameful but desired, such as committing adultery - which for this reason will always be higher than regular sex. Similarly, the more one tries to suppress a desire, the more powerfully fulfilling it will be to surrender. It's a game the unconscious plays for one's own benefit.

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porn destroyed me

There is no sex nor shame in the 21st century, only desire.

Some people make an active effort to procure sex. Some people do not. Some people are hypocrits, and some people accept that they don't really know anything or have any real beliefs at all.
Some people think about things, while also going along with social norms in order to be involved with people and get along with life.

The character you've singled out amidst all the others is just one kind of person. Why should they bother you.

Shame ruins sex for many. It doesn't automatically out rank it.

When you get some life experience in you, you'll see

On its own shame is painful and hard to endure. It has to be unified with a stronger desire to produce exhilaration.

rekt

Your dichotomy is showing

Sounds like this only really applies people with risk taking behaviours and poorly adjusted personalities

Reminder that liberals believe that sex is a human rights, because deep down, they know that they have nothing else to offer that sensual hedonism

>Men are meant to be the ones making the moves toward sex and the so-called women of loose morals are asked "Eikö sinulla ole häpyä?", "Do you have no shame?" (Literally "Do you have no vagina [to be ashamed of]?")
holy shit epic

Reminder that all women ought to remain virgins until they marry a white man.

Reminder that if she wants to 'explore' her sexuality or try 'kinky' things that she has been brainwashed by liberal thought.

Reminder that anyone who enjoys sex is a degenerate.

That's right. The last man is unable to know this happiness.

because their arrogant regressive hedonism is dragging the whole of humanity down with it after generations upon generations elevated us to the level we sit at now where we're free to destroy their work.

kys/10

Sex is disgusting and only something degenerate liberals engage in to subvert the West and decency.

I am proud to remain a virgin; I am taking a last stand for a conservative past that we ought to revere. A woman who has sex with more than one man over the course of her life is a disgusting, immoral, and worthless degenerate.

Pleasure (of the sexual kind) should be outlawed. It takes your mind away from thoughts about God, whiteness, and the health of the Nation.

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