It is a mistake if you think that buddha praises emotional intelligence
Once more, the way to stop having faith in ones hedonism is to see that
- what is experienced is not personal
-that whatever is experienced is either through the 5 senses or mental (mental does NOT mean the intellect like normies claim, it means anything which is not at the tip of subjectivity)
-everything through the five senses+mentality turns to shit, because
-- everything through the five senses+mentality does not last
-- and there is a caring about the five senses+mentality
it turns out that for most people, the meditation is required. Meditation is about phenomenology for normies claiming to be rational.
So you have without details
-the intellect, meaning the imagination for anybody who is empiricist (rationalists (any normie is rationalist) claim that he imagination is ''rationality'' which connects them to truth)
-the emotions
-the perceptions, the sensations, the contact, the pleasure, displeasure, neutral taste of ''bare experience'' and consciousness
the first step in meditation is ''to stop the thoughts'' like normies.
once you stop the thoughts, you deal with direct ''emotions'' and you get mental pleasure. this is the first jhanas
once you neutralize the emotions, what normies call ''equanimity'', you deal with the fourth jahana.
the fourth jhana gets you to the barest experience. Then you try to see again the four truths, this time about consciousness, perception, contact, karma.
normies fundamentally misunderstand
-hedonism
-the source of hedonism
-the consciousness (normies claim that ''losing consciousness'' gets you in a coma or death