What are some books on male virginity?

what does it mean? i fit the OP image too well to understand what i'm doing wrong and don't know about

The fuck does "autowalk" mean?

insecure people will react to their hair getting fucked up in the wind all the time because they're afraid it makes them look ridiculous

This.

why are there so many socially damaged young men like this? It's saddening and you see it every day

At least I don't wear fucking NBs.

Do you were your virginity like a desperate boy scout?

If youre really that sexually frustrated you can get sex through romance or paying a high class escort.

>secretly hates people who walk slowly when side-by-side
Ya got me

Everybody will identify with at least a couple of these. That's the point. The image throws a bunch of generalisations out knowing the reader will self-identify with a couple, and conveniently discard the others which he doesn't identify with. It's the same way horoscopes work.

Bro wtf. Is someone spying on me? Where did you get this information?

>virginity
>male
Pick one.

Hypergamy/Jews/blacks/liberalism

I go to a stem school and I am surrounded by it, it's fucking soul-crushing to see sometimes.
So many genuinely nice people who by all outward appearances are almost always anxious and uncomfortable. Some subset of them embrace it and look awkward but clearly don't give a fuck, so they're happy. Others, if you pay attention, are constantly self-conscious and uncomfortable about the slightest situations. I can't imagine them relaxed any time other than being alone in their rooms.
It's sad but so morbidly fascinating that I find myself watching engineer-autists around campus a lot. The shoes are always a dead giveaway.

What if you get just about all of them?

what about the shoes give them away

Don't know if I'm bisexual or lonely.

the hell does any of that have to do with angry loners?

It means it's time to die user

t. woman

St. Gregory of Nyssa, On Virginity

newadvent.org/fathers/2907.htm

Excerpt:

Now we declare that Virginity is man's fellow-worker and helper in achieving the aim of this lofty passion. In other sciences men have devised certain practical methods for cultivating the particular subject; and so, I take it, virginity is the practical method in the science of the Divine life, furnishing men with the power of assimilating themselves with spiritual natures. The constant endeavour in such a course is to prevent the nobility of the soul from being lowered by those sensual outbreaks, in which the mind no longer maintains its heavenly thoughts and upward gaze, but sinks down to the emotions belonging to the flesh and blood. How can the soul which is riveted to the pleasures of the flesh and busied with merely human longings turn a disengaged eye upon its kindred intellectual light? This evil, ignorant, and prejudiced bias towards material things will prevent it. The eyes of swine, turning naturally downward, have no glimpse of the wonders of the sky; no more can the soul whose body drags it down look any longer upon the beauty above; it must pore perforce upon things which though natural are low and animal. To look with a free devoted gaze upon heavenly delights, the soul will turn itself from earth; it will not even partake of the recognized indulgences of the secular life; it will transfer all its powers of affection from material objects to the intellectual contemplation of immaterial beauty. Virginity of the body is devised to further such a disposition of the soul; it aims at creating in it a complete forgetfulness of natural emotions; it would prevent the necessity of ever descending to the call of fleshly needs. Once freed from such, the soul runs no risk of becoming, through a growing habit of indulging in that which seems to a certain extent conceded by nature's law, inattentive and ignorant of Divine and undefiled delights. Purity of the heart, that master of our lives, alone can capture them.

Usually they're cheap tennis shoes, new balances or asics most commonly, that they buy in a utilitarian mindset because they want to be able to only have to own one comfy pair of shoes. They see caring about the way you dress on any level as superficial, so they literally don't think about it at all and just wear their nbs with poorly-fitting 90s jeans every day.
There's nothing wrong with the mindset really, I'll be the first to admit that my clothing choices stem from narcissism and materialism, but the combo of out-of-place shoes and bad jeans is almost always a sign of autism.

Testosterone

i literally have all of these, except glasses (i should wear them tho, astigmatism), and i am 21 virgin loser

FUCK
FUCK

LITERALLY ME

What does it mean if I conciously force myself completely erect, hold my head high, swing my arms broadly and stare others in the eye as much as possible?
Am I the most powerful man in this thread?

the image said that the *hair* overreacted to the wind

I have all of them other than the shoes, and I always stare straight ahead instead of down. I managed to get laid. Don't let an internet meme stop you from gaining some self confidence.
To make people insecure. The whole point is to make autists think that everyone knows they're a failure at a glance.

>tfw knowing this meme I post-ironically bought a pair of new balances

what about chastity in marriage etc etc

sometimes i think these guys are just trying to justify their life choices. Celibacy is something you can choose yeah, but to say that it's better than marriage is a bit haughty

t. Christian virgin

this. no male over 16 has neither managed to get laid nor raped. claiming otherwise is just political correctness

This desu

Only in the sense that if you pretend to be something for long enough, you may actually become it.

>walked past a dude in his 30s the other day
>he said out loud that people rarely walked faster than him
>I didn't make small-talk

>It's the same way horoscopes work
This is said a lot but in actuality horoscopes are much worse than this. Try actually reading them.

Daily reminder that Paul was so salty about tfwnogf that he encouraged the entire church to avoid marriage and said it was basically worthless and only hindered God's plans.
t. another Christian virgin

>tfw this was me in middle school but I grew out of it when I started wanting to date girls in highschool

Thanks, self

Elliot Rodger manifesto

at least he admits that he's speaking for himself and not for God.

I have almost all of those characteristics
But every time I try to be normal I just end up looking even more weird

FUCK
ME TOO

inb4 my diary desu

just keep trying user. I could hardly talk to cashiers a couple of years ago, and now I'm passably good at smalltalk. Just look for chances to talk and be around people, and you will get better.

Internet gives men porn and video games, women attention/confidence in social media

technology

I do all this but ironically so I'm good

There is literally nothing wrong with New Balances. Nikes have no arch support and are shit.

This describes me but I'm not actually a virgin.

I had sex, once.

Sounds like a poor tradeoff

>Not having sex twice with the same person before she dumps you without telling you why
Ahahahahahahahaha you LITERAL cuckold

My short story is a great start...

She was standing in the door frame, her thigh-high socks had a glossy sheen under the summer sun, her chiffon dress wafting as she poked her toes out to feel the breeze; the roses and lilies printed on her dress danced. I was sat on the staircase behind her, admiring her healthy thighs that showed between her dress and socks. Though she was my older sister, I still wanted to protect her, so when my friends had made comments about her body I told them to stop and moved the conversation along. But sat on the staircase, seeing her curves outlined by the sun, my penis had become hard and engorged.

>tfw I wear Merrell's hiking boots all over campus because I used to live in actual mountains and they were useful shoes, and now I'm reluctant to spend the money on a new pair of shoes because I can barely afford textbooks and these Merrell's have already lasted me 4 years anyway so might as well keep going
r8 my aesthetic

Has Coach Z fallen on even harder times?

can r9k and pol please leave this place

>I can't imagine them relaxed any time other than being alone in their rooms.
y-yeah what a bunch of l-losers right

What kind of person do you think reads books as a hobby? Virgins or the politically minded, if we exclude the "hurr look at me I'm a guuuuurl I loooove boooks #dumbledoresarmy #resisttrump" crowd

The Sot Weed Factor by John Barth

>healthy and adjusted people don't read books

nice to see that all those books you "read" are expanding your worldview

Wtf? I fuck and walk like that. What am I?

It's not that they don't, it's that they don't use Veeky Forums to discuss them.

>and i am 21 virgin loser
Virgin master race turning 23 next week

Half of Americans are barely literate to begin with.

>healthy and adjusted people don't read books
Not the user you were talking to but the truth is that if you don't take YA readers/posers/pseuds into account then all you're left with (99.9%) are social outcasts.

>healthy and adjusted people

citation required

>citation required
Sure thing buddy.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Literacy_in_the_United_States
>The 15% figure for full literacy, equivalent to a university undergraduate level, is consistent with the notion that the "average" American reads at a 1st or 2nd grade level which is also consistent with recommendations, guidelines, and norms of readability for medication directions, product information, and popular fiction.

Does virgin shame ever cease, lads? Like, even if I got laid tomorrow it will always have taken me 23 years to do so, and I can never change that. We're forever beholden to our past and I hate it.

Dude nobody fucking cares

If people find out they'd just think its wierd and then forget about it, and why would people find out anyway?

Your autism is the problem, not your "virginity" (males cant really be virgins)

>males cant really be virgins
>virgins actually think like this
LMAO

Nice (shit) reading comprehension but the post was explicitly about internal shame

>explicitly about internal shame
No it wast explicit

If you feel bad internally about not being able to get laid then get laid you fucking loser

Jesus you're bad at this. Do you even read or do you just like to hang out here? The idea (laid out explicitly) is that the bad feelings probably won't upon getting laid, the anxiety that we're forever chained to what we were even when we overcome it.

It's actually extremely obvious when you see a virgin. You don't even need to know body language, subconsciously they project a terrible image and subconsciously humans can pick up on it. Even if you take perfect care of yourself, with a chiseled body, expensive clothes, clear skin and so on, it is obvious.
>Controlled breath
>controlled voice
>shoulders forward
>chin down
>face tense, or exaggerated expression

What about voluntary abstainers? Do they project the same insecurities?

I miss being 17. The world was so much simpler. Clear winners and losers. Rules to follow. Prizes to be won.

That is not virginity, but a specific psychological pathology that is related to but not directly with virginity

you are retarded

>Waaah i'll always feel bad about losing my virginity at age 23 for the rest of my life

and you have the nerve to criticize me? fucking loser

I'm a bunionboy™ and wide NBs are some of the more comfortable shoes I've found.

>you are retarded
Perhaps, but at least I can take some comfort in knowing that I'm less retarded than the guy who repeatedly failed to comprehend a simple post.

At least I didn't repeatedly fail to insert my penis into a vagina

>voluntary abstainers
You mean Tibetan monks?

He will NOT recover from this

I hum a beat when i notice im walking manually. Or i sing; it's good excercise for the lungs

I'd say virgins on suicide watch, but no one cares if virgins kill themselves.

BTFO

You've got me there, but I can nonetheless honestly say it's given me solace to remember that I post here with retards like you. I may be a virgin loser but at least I'm not a virgin loser with your brains. Keep on keeping on mate, you've improved my mood immeasurably.

Virgin dork on suicide watch

How can you be smart if you could never even convince a girl to have sex with you?

i had to find a source outside wikipedia to confirm but it appears that you're unfortunately correct, mostly due to the qualifier "barely" but still.

>nbs with poorly-fitting 90s jeans
that's Veeky Forums af

My nigga you like a thirsty American at a 711
Graspin for straws lmboookkkkk

I mean puritans