Tfw have no friends at university but like what I'm studying

>tfw have no friends at university but like what I'm studying.

Anyone here like this?

>3rd year med student
>still no friends
>don't even talk to anyone. Just show up for lectures and leave
>only talk during group tasks

How have you not killed yourselves yet?

Just talk to people. It's not hard.

Mainly because I care too much about my parents. I used to have dreams where I kill my self then my parents find me. I always wake up with a face full of tears
Anxiety. Talking to people gets my heart racing so fast its not even funny

Last year was like that but now ive made some friends. The downside is that you spend more time drinking and talking than you do studying.
>inb4 bitter virgins pretend nothing would change if they had friends and a gf

i'm studying to be an engineer but other engineers hate talking about engineering related subjects aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

But.... you're going to be a doctor. How the FUCK did you pass an interview and how will you be a good doctor if you can't speak to people? WTF?

I get depressed looking at Stacy and Chad so I just ignore them and go to the library/go home.

>caring about 3dpd
This is why you will never be a good scientist

I can speak to people when I have to do something.. Just not socialise.

learn to socialize then. why would you want to subject yourself to misery every time you talk to people? desu, im pretty sure that you were meant to be weeded out from population.

exactly but i dont go to school

LOL fuck people, fuck having friends. People exist to pull you back into the bucket when you try to make your way out. Pretend to care as it suits your agenda. Thats what you should offer people.

You use people, and then you complain about people using you in the same sentence? Veeky Forums really is full of antisocial losers.

Im not complaining, im articulating. I dont have a problem with the game at all.

>its not hard
ITS NOT HARD

ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME

dude, its fucking hard.

get out normie

No it isnt nigger, you having to overcome your anxieties in the midst of talking to people is difficult.

I'm sorta similar, I have no problems socializing (really) I just don't want to go out and try and put in effort to maintain a relationship and have to care what people think. So I just avoid people mostly. I'm a special kind of lazy.

But relationships that are not meaningful are... How do you become interested in these people anyway? I'm friendless and like what I study too.
Used to kinda talk to people before changing my degree and they were cool people but I was too autistic and didn't really say anything.

Why the fuck would you want to be interested in people you dont value? I mean, learn to talk to people to see if you value them certainly, but fuck people who bring you no value.

I spend most of my years in university living like a castaway. It can get unbearable.
My problem was mostly financial. I was poor and the uni was filled with spoiled brats.
Do what you can to socialize, because being alone is detrimental to your mental health.

Except that that's not what people do? Believe it or not, most people really do value companionship. It's all about what both of you put in the relationship. If you only befriend antisocial people, then yeah, of course you get into that retarded cynical game.

Thats a very very good question

I really just want someone to talk to

Yes, people that are not in competition with each other. I assume you want to come out ahead of the others at whatever school you go to.

This is you.

Bullshit, you can be friends with your competitors.

Yes, keep your friends close, and your enemies closer.

And I wonder why you think that relationships are just about mutual exploitation. You actually think about people as "enemies". Absolutely pathetic.

I dont look at people as my enemy, but that's because I'm not in competition with anybody. I only care about food and shelter and any menial job. These things are plentiful, satisfying my living standards, therefore I am generally very peaceful and amiable.

I'm about to graduate, and I have zero friends. I got kind of depressed at one point, so I stopped being with the few friends I had. Now I haven't talked to anyone except my mother for years. Still, I'm about to graduate, and I'm feeling better, so I think I probably could stop being a recluse. Truthfully, I'd be happy to just have a girlfriend. Only it's a bit hard to find one when you're completely alone. Oh well.