Can I get some recs for books about S&M or more specifically why and how girls enjoy being degraded etc?

Can I get some recs for books about S&M or more specifically why and how girls enjoy being degraded etc?

My girlfriend insisted we play this game where she writes out two identical lists of fetishes and then we each ticked boxes on our lists as to what we'd like to do to the other person and have done to ourselves. Turns out my gf really wants to try a whole bunch of stuff.

I can post the list if necessary but really I'm looking for books about this sort of thing that'll give me some tips or like show me how to do it in a hot way.

Thanks!

lets see that list first

Unironically, Gravity's Rainbow

Hmm, well I'll type out what's written on it. She told me it was just a game that she'd read about online and it was just fun etc. Bear in mind she ticked almost ever single one:

>Choking
>Slapping
>Forced / Abduction Fantasy
>Rimming (Give)
>Water sports
>MFF
>DDLG (not sure what this one meant so I left blank)
>Anal
>Throatfucking
>Puke
>Bondage (Rope)
>Dollification
>Spitting
>MFF Bullying
>Pegging (Giving)
>Double Penetration


One she didn't tick were

>Blood Play
>MMF
>Cheating


I ticked like five things but she ticked almost everything. I mean I didn't really expect it, even though she made the list. I figured she wanted to test if I was a pervert or something.

She wants to peg you?

>DDLG
She wants you to role play as daddy to her as a little girl.
No idea what MFF bullying is.

>ywn have a kinky gf that wants to have a mff threesome with you and eat your ass

Your girl's a freak, nice.

Probably some other girl forces her suck OPs cock or something

Speak for yourself lol

My diary desu

Even when OP saw the red flags he ignored them and continued down this path.
RIP

He'll have some great material in his spank bank to help him cope with all the emotional scarring.

Okay OP here I may as well come clean. I actually found this list in my roommate's bedroom. He's a pretty big Chad and he has sex with girls quite often in his room, and I found this in there today while I was sniffing the sheets (he had a girl around last night who I like too) and I wanted to know how I can read about what girls are secretly into and whether its all this kind of crap.

>this kind of crap.
As opposed to what? Long walks on the beach? Pina Colada and getting caught in the rain? Plenty of women like interesting sex.

>I wanted to know how I can read about what girls are secretly into and whether its all this kind of crap.

Fuck that and just pretend to be a girl online. Before long you'll make female friends that talk openly about things like this.

>no kittenplay

sounds like a pretty pleb relationship lol. enjoy getting pissed and puked on

Be real fucking careful with choking. Gently pinch the sides, put no pressure on the front. You don't want to have to explain that to the cops.

Now you tell me

If you want to learn how to do all this shit correctly, don't read fiction or porn because those will give you the Wrong idea that will end up probably ruining your relationship with her.
>The Better Topping/Bottoming Book
>Screw The Roses Send Me Thorns
are good practical introductions to kink.
With things like abduction fantasy, you've got to be EXTREMELY careful.
>9464590
I don't think you are OP, but in any case, read the books mentioned above. "A Billion Wicked Thoughts" is a good statistical and social analysis of fetishes in general. Don't read Kinsey, Kinsey is fucking awful. If you're in the mood for some very interesting, Dworkin's Pornography is certainly worth a read.

In any case, you should probably get on Fetlife if you want people to explain themselves to you.

>girls are secretly into and whether its all this kind of crap
you couldn't be more autistic

see But in brevity, yes women have a sexuality. Yes they have fetishes. Yes their fetishes may not involve you.

I recall there's a thread on /d/ where people explain or discuss where they got their fetishes from, so that may be worth looking into

>I found this in there today while I was sniffing the sheets (he had a girl around last night who I like too)

You dirty dog.

read redpill shit. don't get too deep, but they have some insight.

tumblr people will act like cats and sneer at this with their poorly drawn pastel comics. fuck those fucks. life is real, men and women are real and they have likes that are a mystery to you because you live in an incomplete attempt at Plato's republic wherein you're neither man nor woman. be a man. or if you're a girl, be that. but know the differences, and stop being such a malformed thing

Why were blood play and vomiting even on the list? Theyre fucking nasty.

They made analingus vanilla foreplay a few years ago. You just wait.

>watersports
>puke
>pegging

>I was sniffing the sheets (he had a girl around last night who I like too)
So Veeky Forums

>no blood play

otherwise fucking wistful as hell i was in a relationship where most of these were on tap and it was glorious

DDLG is Daddy/Daughter roleplay btw and it is... wonderful

this

>i can use Veeky Forums as an alternative r9k as long as i start my post with "Can I get some recs for books about"
>MFF Bullying
this is ambiguous

Crime and Punishment
Discipline and Punish

>tfw no gf ever

>DDLG
>wonderful
Now I've never been the type to be trigger-happy with /pol/ buzzwords but that is downright degenerate, son.

Marquis de Sade springs to mind. Maybe that's a little extreme...

>mff
Nice

What the fuck? Why would you do this?

The Marquis is babby's first edgelord libertine- "Dohoho it's my inalienable right to rape 10 year olds in the arse because their tears are a symbol of their weak nature"

Sounds like irrefragable logic to me senpai.

The redpill is good, but if you overdose you become a disoreded fucking pleb.

you sound pretty fagable to me senpai

>One she didn't tick were
>Blood Play
>MMF
>Cheating

You lucky son of a bitch.

Is cheating so common now that you're lucky if your gf is not into it?

What a frightening thread. Celibacy is safer.

>ticks double penetration but doesn't tick MMF

How does she expect you to DP her without another guy?

Split his dick like people split their tongues.

I reckon she'd suck his cock while dildoing herself or something like that