Has dressing nice help you in getting a gf?

>he's dating somebody from work

You'll learn soon, youngster.

think first about yourself, chances are that if you see a girl with good fashion, you will be more attracted than an "average" looking girl.

i think most women appreciate men that have some good taste in general, so yeah, having good taste in fashion can help you a lot

but it's all a matter of confidence and presence. with my own experience, it didn't help me that much, it's like a "bonus point" if i may say so.

If it works out I'm gonna quit 4 her. Working retail sucks anyway.

Wow, this sounds like your first girlfriend.

I wear the same combo of APC PNS, uniqlo tees, dark brown clark desert boots everyday. Havent gone longer than 6 months without either a gf or at least a fuck buddy in the last 6 years. Feels good.

Actually I had a gf for 5 years before this one. I just understand that working with a gf is not a good idea.

Where do I sign up to be basic in every way?

also chill I have it all figured out my man

Oh you're one of those "we dated through high school" types that needs somebody long term.

nope. I've been by a girl that she wants me to dress more dadcore.

what did he mean by this?

OP, I'm skinny nerdy engineering student and have never lifted a weight in my life but dressing nice makes you look nice to girls. More importantly though, it can make you feel more confident and that's what matters most. Any pleb can go to GQ website and match an outfit and look fine, but feeling that you look good will give you more self esteem and confidence which will help you with the females. Fuck all these Veeky Forums people too. You should only dress similar to the tastes of this board when you have a wife that will never leave you cause any sane woman will find it wack

I do dress basic..but i have also have a lot going for me. Im fortunate to have a pretty decent body and im an actor in my cities theater scene..my looks combined with my interest in arts is pretty clutch.

Plus i live in the SF bay area and girls here are kinda into weird dudes. Works out great.

You sound so boring. I'm glad I quit studying engineering because everyone in the curriculum was boring.

been *told by a girl.

kill yourself my man

>dressing nice makes you look nice to girls
there's no girls on your career mate
t. engineering dropout

Too close to home for you?

Work on yourself before lunging into another relationship and playing house again.

I'm not even the guy you replied but you sound like the kind of faggot who thinks getting fucked in the ass is being open minded

Lmao that is the most un/fa/ shit I have ever heard in my life

No, just the kind that isn't desperate for codependency.

lmao keep projecting

I was unaware that speaking about myself was projecting. Why don't you use more words you don't understand, you parrot?

Kind of. It helps with confidence.

Last girl I had sex with does modelling, but doesn't really care about fashion much. I'd like to think that me dressing nice helped make me appear attractive at least sub-consciously

Fight, fight, fight.

because I'm sick of being lonely

no it was my personality and we were friends already
my gf likes how I dress tho and she said I can dress her
I'm sure there are people out there tho that a conversation might have been sparked because of how a person was dressed that eventually led to those two dating

Yeah, kind of.

She thought I was unapproachable at first, like she had no chance with me

She didnt know I had a crush on her for years

I somehow got lucky enough to become friends with her friend, and then I finally met her

Now I remember the days that I'd go to sleep late at night talking to her and smiling really hard into my pillow whenever I felt my phone vibrate and I'd know it's from her

She always told me that she had full consummate love for me and that itd never fade

And that my body was attractive to her, much to my surprise

And she was totally ideal to me in every way

She knew how much she meant to me and then at one point she started constantly threatening to break up with me, she even admitted that she only did it so she could hear me beg for her to stay

And I always forgave her

Then all of a sudden we stopped talking every day, and I got worried

I asked her if she still liked me, and she said she loved me

I never felt more relieved in my entire life

Then two days later she told me she found someone else and asked me if I would stay for her if she left me and it didn't work out with him

I told her I couldn't do that

I waited a day and told her how much she meant to me and that I'll always love her

She only replied with 'okay cool'

I'm still astonished at how she did that

Then two days later she broke up with him and told me. We got into a fight then a week later I apologized

She didn't apologize but she agreed to be on good terms

Then a few months later she wore what she knew was my favorite outfit of hers, and followed me into a library to show off her new boyfriend in front of me. She sat right in front of me facing away and sat really close to him. I saw her smile as hard as she could when she told him to sit down there. And she'd sometimes look back to see my reaction

I couldn't handle it, I immediately left. I still feel anxiety literally every day when I might see her, and every time I think about her. It's literally torture.

Also to answer your question, ya lol it helps definitely man but sometimes gfs aren't worth it

nice blog, how do i subscribe?

bitch sounds crazy as fuck

threatening to brteak up with someone to hear them beg to stya... that's sociopathic shit

bitch sounds Borderline Personality DIsorder as fuck. manipulative tendencies, love/hate extremes, etc.

t. actual psychiatrist at a top medical institution

gotta blowie last saturday bc i dressed up well enough. i honestly believe that. she didnt fuck bc she was on her period

>actual psychiatrist

You must be very, very smart

honestly this, the people on this board they hate generally nice clothing just call it normie tier and literally shit on it because its not sticking out or flashy, but still looks nice. Literally its autism, no one wears shit like that in public half the time anyway

No, girls our age are just very, very stupid.

second.

>t. The Last Psychiatrist

Update your blog you fucking prick.

You sound like the most pathetic, bitch made, piece of shit on the face of this ungodly planet. If you're that much of a little pussy, you are undeserving of love or respect from anyone. Point blank. Period. You little fucker. I hope that dude fucking reamed her ass after she showed him off just to shame a little cucky bitch like you. Faggot motherfucker. Kill yourself.

not really a gf, but i get a lot of one timers
it obviously depends a lot more if you are good loking

You think I'm fucking joking? Kill yourself. You're not even a man. You don't deserve a cock or balls. You're woman from now on you little faggot. Bend over and get reamed up the ass like a slut. You should get pumped full of hormones and some guys should take turns gang raping you.

I like you. You're a beacon of self respect and masculinity in a sea of pussies.

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What do you mean?

Actually it has, in it's own way. I'm a pretty good looking guy, I'm 5'11 150lbs and have a good jaw line. so fashion aside I could get girls easily. But I went to an all guys school where I didn't get much experience with girls. So I was awkward as fuck and it didn't help that I was an introvert who only had friends outside of my school. But I dressed well and my ig looked cool so I had a lot of online attention from girls and even guys that thought I was pretty cool for not filling the rich, white frat mold that our school basically made you fit into. But the mere fact that I differed from everyone in my school got me some attention. like people staring at me in the halls or asking questions about what I do. When I entered collage there were a lot of girls I met that saw my ig and instantly were attracted to me by like 10x more. And there are the obvious art hoes that want to suck your dick every second too. Moral of the story, it's not just fashion that helps, and I don't like using this word, but it's having your own aesthetic that is different than anyone else. That's the type of stuff that automatically filters out all the Stacys and basics and leaves you with your fav type of girls that are also attracted to you. People call me "stoner" or "edgy" all the time, but at the end of the day, when I chose to only focus on myself and not worrying about others, I end up winning. Sure, people shunned me, but when I look where I am now I can't help but laugh at all the idiots who called me a looser. You do you, and don't regret it.

senpai nobody's gonna read all that

post ig

Dressing nice and becoming physically fit has given me body dysmorphia. Any time I look in the mirror or see a picture and I find it beautiful, I have the urge to break it because I refuse to believe it's me. It's made me become an asshole and break the hearts of girls who love me while I'm out chasing hoes just so I can say I banged the bitch with big titties and a fat ass who then reveals her mental problems to me.

Don't dwell too deep into fashion or fitness

I read it and thought it was a pretty cool story desu it reminds me of me

Sorry, i'm not ok with giving out my social media to the internet, go ahead and call me fake if you want

thanks, it's been a hell of a ride, but i'm glad I am the way I am.

Yeah, guess I kinda got carried away

fake nigga bitch

I'm not really Veeky Forums but I got a hy haircut and I've getting laid like never before, I'm from a small town tho. It kinda made me less of a sad fuck, for now atleast.

I have gotten several gfs through thrifting and talking to girls about clothes in stores

>playing house again

hahahahahahahahaha

psychiatry has no foundation in science and is not medicine

kys

Qt tumblr girls approach me all the time when i wear meem clothes
>still too autistic to ask them out

Possibly if it boosts your confidence, which is what it seems to do to a lot of people.
Can't really say myself I've always been confident, clothing really didn't do much in that sense to me.

Hawaiian shirts and baggy cargos got me a 10/10, petite, sex-crazed, babe.

That is the very definition and action of being 'sexually active'.
Humans are literally refusing Evolution Theory, blocking out sexual education, and multiplying against the wind because the education system and entertainment industry convinces them that only the strong survive, that sexual behavior is in our nature and perfectly normal, even for young children, and that we're mature and advanced enough to understand - as if being in a first world country makes any of this plausible. And the church has nothing to do with it. Plastics and rubbers have to sell, so does sexual science, and the medication and medical practices related. And teachers have to sell the education they paid to learn about.

Anyway, you're just fishing for attention. You want to hear that you don't have body dysmorphia. 9:10 chance you have not the slightest fucking clue what it even means. or entails. So, you know. Shut up. No one should care about how you look except perhaps an employer, but most of all yourself.

Not the one I want, my guy

nope but I got my fair share of girls telling me I look like a model or dress modellike
20% of those sucked my dick

even though i look like shit

have you actually tried speaking to one?

Hope you are doing well user;

Yes i have a different underage 9/10 each month lol

>pattern recognition has never helped anyone
nykys

ugh, this.

Wtf is the matter with your face

I speak to girls every day.

What is this meandering drivel actually attempting to convey?

girls say I dress like a poet, but anyway >dressing for women

only way you'll pick up chix with your clothes is
a) being rich and flexing in tacky shit
b) dressing like ur Mac Demarco or any other shite for vapid slags who's whole identity comes from what p4k buzzbands they like

any decent womyn doesn't care, and if they do care, it's only a little. Not gf-levels of care, just vague-interest levels of care

I disagree. Dressing well says that you are self aware and maintain good hygeine. That says that you care about your own well being and have self worth. That says that you are of higher social value as you hold yourself to be valuable.

as long as you lurk on Veeky Forums none of you will ever get a girlfriend. quit this garbage site and start living the good normal life. i am a wizard and will remain as one.

This

>thread

No, but she does appreciate that about me, and her friends are always asking me to help dress their boyfriends, so that feels pretty good

I look cool when I smoke weed so

>Tfw I already reduced my Veeky Forums browsing to Veeky Forums and Veeky Forums but can't let go of those

>live in literally nowhere
>into tumblr girls
you get the point

fuck off chris

ive been with my gf for close to 3 years now, she was pretty basic at first but shes slowly transitioning to Veeky Forums, shes not the submissive type so its hard to tell her what to wear, and she cant take criticism so its been a long process.

this is true, even if i dont want to admit it, even if the girl is intelligent she lacks depth.

if you ever find a girl that you can have an intelligent convo with dont make the mistake that i did and let her go.

>the mere fact that I differed from everyone

>having your own aesthetic that is different than anyone else

>"stoner"

>can't help but laugh at all the idiots who called me a looser

oh boy

most tumblr girls are just basic bitches in different clothing

t. big city fag

How old are you? I'm literally 18 and there are a fuckton of girls my age I can have hours of intelligent conversation. Where do you live?

that's women for you. They can only be happy in drama. They can only be happy if they are told they're #1. They can't be happy with things that actually make them happy.

They are the rulers of the social and drama domain, and nothing else

Yeah, I get it, it sounds edgy, would you like to write my story. Also I never even smoked before, if you were different, you were called a stone fag. Also wtf are you even implying.

> so you ask for fashion ratings on a Japanese image board in order to acquire a "qt3.14" gf? Plz explain.