Tfw too embarrassed to buy nice clothes

I wish I could wear a huge thick wool overcoat but you've got to be like 30 to pull it off without looking like a try hard

don't worry about others, most could care less about what you're wearing. you should do whatever makes yourself feel good about doing and not worry about what other people think. you only have one life and it's not to be spent worrying about what others think of you because that's just a waste of time.

..a-are you Jesus?

I'm always scared that people will think "ew you like fashion ? But you don't even talk at all and you don't seem like into a weird hobby, like, stop pretending, creep"

>dress like I'm a successful and confident man
>am literally a broke NEET with no self esteem and massive anxiety

ARE YOU ME?

It's in your eyes man. Hope you can pull off fake confidence, because people around can smell insecurity for a mile.

*by a mile

I probably appear confident as girls approach me on the street but it's the "n-no I don't study, I d-don't have a job, I live with my parents" part that's hard

tfw I want to buy nice clothes but I'm bald so I'm ugly anyways.

Fucking genetics ruined my one chance.

>giraffe neck
>even my mom used to scrunch up her face and mention it

Dude holy shit same

It absolutely fucks up your confidence having your own parents make observations about something like that, but (at least, in my own case) it's something that most people don't notice unless it's pointed out to them. Like, I used to spend massive amounts of time looking for examples of long-necked celebrities that people found attractive (like David Bowie etc.) so I could reassure myself that I wasn't a lost cause. But the thing is, everyone that pointed it out wasn't doing so because they thought it was horrifically unattractive; I just snowballed their comments in my mind to mean that.

I think the reason it's something your mother mentioned, like with mine, is because it's not something that's considered conventionally unattractive. Like your parents are unlikely to point out if you have an ugly nose or if you have bug eyes, but because she might not quite get how insecure people of that age are (especially now) she pointed out something she thought of as unconventional and different, without knowing that you could construe it (like I most definitely did) more negatively than she intended it.

But it is a hard thing to deprogram, that kind of insecurity about a particular feature of your appearance, especially if it came from a source that insecurity isn't supposed to come from (i.e. your family). I definitely still think about how I can hide my neck, when deciding what to wear, despite knowing rationally that it's something nobody really cares about, except me. So I definitely empathize.

If you have to fake it, you'll never make it

You just gave me a whole new fucking perspective on chatting up women. I'm confident as fuck when buying clothes and try everything on while asking a billion questions. I enjoy finding good cops.

You made me wonder why I don't approach women in the same stream of confidence. I'm gonna try applying that now. Thanks user.

It surprises me the various things people get insecure about on this board that j find insignificant.

Think about it like this: clothes shopping is all about you and you're the star, the diva. You are building a look, almost like customising your online game character. Have fun with it and no one will ever judge you openly. Fuck the haters.

jesus desu you're all so beautiful and i don't want any of you feeling like you can't pull off clothes that'll make you feel beautiful

hating yourself is not a good look for you. you're cute you don't really NEED hair when you're that cute

>confident as fuck
>asking a billion questions
>you're the star, the diva
>customising your online game character

I'm sleepy ok, I'm talk strangely when I'm sleepy.

just don't put them on a pedestral and you will be fine. look what happens when talking to her and listen to her too. And if there is some kind of chemistry, this might develop to siomething. I don't get why guys act like there is some kind of wall seperating them from the girl

Just become George.

Do you seriously care about being accepted by people who talk like that?
The sole fact that you're depicting them in such a negative and unlikeable way suggests that you don't.

you'll meet a nice girl who will support you anyway

don't be ashamed of where you are in life rn. girls are nice but you're more important to yourself. please don't feel ashamed of being a NEET.

you have plenty of time time to grow and get to know yourself.

life is beautiful and everything will be ok

these are cheap. also really good quality and look awesome!

If you need to buy timbs buy them from the official site, the ones from Amazon are cheaper quality

good call, thinking of buying some soon.

are you guys serious

kanye wears them. timbs are a staple boot. whats not to like?

why are you doing this

You can still easily look good with no hair

Right in the feelerinos

Long head, and my mom pointed that shit out every goddamn day.

I think it helped though because she teased me in a playful way, so when other people try to do it maliciously it doesn't really phase me.

what the fuck does this mean??
how does being shy/insecure cause you to NOT buy clothes THAT YOU LIKE???

its a meme you dip

Having a neck is better than haven't one. I consider long necks elegants (both on men and women)

- I hope your health situation is better than in the past.

- And my engrish is bad.

Here.

* Having a long neck is better than haven't one (or a short one).

ive seen people say similar things like this plenty of times and i still can't comprehend it

i don't want to sound like a SJW

but it's either masculinity so fragile or you're way too scared to go out of your comfort zone.

maybe just insecurity?
wearing nice clothes usually gives me confidence

>tfw you're in a constant limbo of feeling like you're better than everyone and not worth shit

i don't think that method will work well with random women, employees at stores are suppose to act like they want to talk to you and want to help you.

Then what do you want the nice clothes for anyway?

>but it's either masculinity so fragile or you're way too scared to go out of your comfort zone

are you implying that dressing nice is feminine?

yes being into fashion is seen as feminine by normies

The point is to be myself, be confident and creative like I am in clothes shopping, not exactly copying the way I shop and applying it to pickup.

Today for example, I was working in retail and went from awkward in the morning to very sociable and charismatic at night, met my beautiful friend at break time and she made me so happy from the rapport and chemistry I had with her that I was on a high for a while (honestly meeting beautiful women puts me back in reality for a bit).

Gonna try and do it tomorrow when I go to a singles night at a club (but it's probably full of uggos).

Just embrace your skeleton genetics, thats what I did a long time ago

>>tfw too embarrassed to get a Veeky Forums haircut

This

This

my dude. do you hang out with people? if you dont, i recommend that you do it more; you'll realise that most people don't give a fuck, and the people who do give a fuck will appreciate your effort. It's not uncool to try, although the word 'cool' implies effortlessness. Give up on being effortlessly cool if it doesn't come to you naturally. Try. At least it's better than not trying in anything in life and ending up as a total nobody with no friends, no memories, no experiences and no life.

>I probably appear confident as girls approach me on the street
FUCKing NORMIE GTFO

>yfw to dumb to meme right