Http://forums.catholic.com/showthread.php?t=870532

>>This is somewhat of a difficult time for me. My wife and I have been together for five years. I'm truly blessed to have her in my life and we love each other wholeheartedly. Regrettably, several months ago, we were at a low point in our marriage. At this time, I had to go away on a business trip for the weekend. In a moment of weakness, she had an affair. Immediately, the next morning, she called me in tears and told me what happened. I felt anger, betrayal, and sorrow, and found myself unable to deal with the situation. I couldn't talk my precious wife for days. It was only until I got on my knees and prayed to God for his strength that I received the courage to try and mend our relationship. Through time, I understood that what happened was a product of my faults as well as hers. I had no right to judge, and forgave her with open arms. At this point, our marriage was greater than it's ever been. However, a life changing issue has arisen in past two weeks. We went to her doctor and he confirmed that my wife was now 9 weeks pregnant. A realization hit the both of us that given the timing, there was no chance that I could be the father. At this point, I'm not sure what to do. Horrible thoughts of divorce and abortion enter my mind every day, and I'm trying my best to suppress them. The man my wife had the affair with was African American, while she and I are both Caucasian.

>Honestly, I think that Joesph had that same questions when he found out that Mary was pregnant and he had never been with her. I think you can raise this child. I can understand your fears, but the thing is that this child didn't ask to be created. It was created by our Lord.

>Please dont assume the child is not yours.

>>My wife and I have decided to keep this child.

>I applaud you for staying with you wife and keeping the baby! I know that is what the church says, forgive and turn the other cheek. Many men would not have stepped up to the plate like you have.

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saintdemetrios.com/our-faith/divorce
stmarys-waco.org/documents/Grounds for Marriage Annulment in the Catholic Church.pdf
ewtn.com/expert/answers/marital_consent.htm
strawpoll.me/10407759/
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Weasel_word
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Appeal_to_nature
twitter.com/AnonBabble

Atheist here. Truthfully, I feel bad for the guy and don't think his situation would be easy to deal with even as a non-Christian.

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Absolutely beautiful that he could forgive like Christ would

Marriage is for life, and any trial can be overcome with love and patience

Let he who is without sin cast the first stone

mayday mayday abort mission abort mission

We don't call them Christcucks for no reason.
The meek shall inherit mulatto children.

>god saving a marriage and the life of an innocent child
>The man writing the post is learning how to truly love someone else, and this child will be a reminder to him about how he is to express love completely selflessly
Sounds amazing
>Fedoras will never know the love of God
Arms wide open senpai

Lol fuuuuck that.

Well, the RCC doesn't allow divorce, so that's what you get. You can have an annulment for all sorts of things (e.g. your spouse did not have the social statue you expected), but you can't divorce someone for adultery.

I dont think the church allows divorce even in this circumstance. You can separate but you can never have sex with anyone else

Worth it desu

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It is probably a troll threat. Either way people usually separate when shit like this happen.

yep
You can divorce for this in the Orthodox Church though
These are the Orthodox grounds for divorce (pic related): saintdemetrios.com/our-faith/divorce

The following are some grounds for Catholic annulment

*you married for social status but the person did not have the status you expected
*you didn't know marriage was a "permanent relationship"
*you married intending to have the option of divorce open
*you did not know marriage was an "exclusive relationship"
stmarys-waco.org/documents/Grounds for Marriage Annulment in the Catholic Church.pdf
ewtn.com/expert/answers/marital_consent.htm

All these silly reasons, yet adultery isn't grounds for divorce

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It's always a black guy
honestly if you marry a white woman you better lock her up and never let her out because the moment she sees a brotha she'll automatically spread her legs wide open. White girls just can't say no to the BBC

it is natural for men like him to crave the validation of their existence and get depressed if they fail to feel relevant, responsible.
The best way for a man to cater his need for approval is to serve some woman (and some of her children) through emotional&financial support.
Men are pleased to contribute to someone else life, to support their family.

Why women are a good way to feel relevant? Because women love to be provided for and each woman will always find a man ready to please her.
[for most men, the best feeling of feeling real is when the girl moans from your cock in her pussy]

THe problem for men is that they are disposable in the eyes of each woman, since all men wish to serve the few women who talk to them.
Men must thus invent several ways to please women, invention and creativity which strengthen their feeling of being worthy, relevant, in touch with reality.
Men are too impotent to find other way to feel real.
Once that the a woman replaces a man by another provider, the man gets very upset and depressed.
THis leads men to think that they are better than women, stronger, smarter and that they must built a life outside women. Some men manage to indeed built an empire, but they will always loose it for some women.
Women give meaning to men and betas, no matter how successful outside women, will always give up everything for some relationship with some woman who claim to fancy them.

le cug

women cannot be religious

On the one hand, I kinda admire the guys commitment to making the whole marriage thing work.

On the other hand, she obviously doesn't give a shit about their marriage, and deserves to be booted out on the street.

>catholicucks

Can you blame them? Turn on your tv, the radio, social media, etc, it's all a big pile of propaganda down our throats, i'm not even white and I can see that, white kids get indoctrinated to hate themselves, to know they are never going to be as cool as the nigger rapper, the nigger athlete or the nigger president, it's only logical for white girls to rather be with a "cool" black thug than a "boring" white guy.

Not their fault their dumb Church doesn't allow divorce because of adultery.

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Do you think most religious people in the US don't have sex outside marriage?

Cuckolics TOPKEK

Is this what constitutes as shitposting nowadays?

Fedoras are killing Veeky Forums.

The Constantine guy is tolerable because he actually tries to make posts and discuss things with fedora anons, but you are just fucking trash.

You are spouting that reddit shit and you don't even fucking get it at all. You are the epitome of an upvote shitposter, and you are a tripfag. You clearly found this website relatively recently, and that's fine, but don't use reddit as an insult when you are tripfagging and upvote shitposting on an anonymous imageboard. I truly despise you, and if your religion is real Jesus probably thinks you are a fucking dick. Divine or not, when that guy spoke it was at least about things he had a basic fucking understanding of.

>Christians worship a KEK-baby

Stay cucked m8

I've been on other blue boards for years, I'm not new here kid. This thread is a shitpost general and OP needs to take his cuck meme back to where it belongs. I also have a good understanding of my religion which is why I am able to defend it whilst providing info in religious threads. What are you trying to imply here?

Why do people focus so heavily on salvation and ignore everything else the bible says?
Obviously nobody can judge her besides herself and God, but why would she ignore everything else in the bible for some momentary pleasure?
Surely she knew what Jesus had to say about adultery right? I can't help but feel sorry for Jesus and the abuse he has to go through when all he wants is what's best for us although that's probably blasphemous.

>The Constantine guy is tolerable

Nope.

>bls be nice wid bedoras!
kys Veeky Forums is a Theist board

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strawpoll.me/10407759/

What reason do atheists have not to practice infanticide and ditch a cheating whore?

democratic values

My conscience, my love for the woman, etc.

Do you need god to feel guilt for hurting others or abandoning those you love? That's strange user, I am sorry to hear that.

I didn't ask anyone to be nice to anyone kid, you've got me confused with the guy you supposedly worship.

Reminder that in a protestant church this wench would have been banished, the man allowed to remarry while also still being able to go to heaven.

>conscious
So you feel responsible for raising a wife's sons? Like I get not actively killing the niglet but I wouldn't want to raise it and deal with that shame.

Same for a woman, why would you love a cheating bitch who obviously doesn't respect or love you enough to not jump on nigger dick?

Thanks for responding

I don't think my point was implicit, I am trying to explicitly say that

if you are a one-lining pls upvote me poster who USES A TRIP you MIGHT be the reddit

not me

I don't have particularly strong feelings about black people so for the sake of argument you can drop the nigger shit and pretend they are white if it helps you.

lmao

can't make that shit up

Good thing anti-abortion people will remove themselves from the gene-pool.

Atheist here.

I'll dumb that bitch in a heartbeat.

Read some stoicism user. Don't let emotions cheat you out of doing what's right.

It's the same reaction faggot white or black, it's a breach of trust and clearly she doesn't love you.

Also agnostic right now but yes, I don't see any reason to value human life if it's not made by some divine creator. I'll obey laws due to social contracts, not because I buy into secular humanist bullshit about humans deserving rights.

>catholic and atheist board
>twice as many atheists as Catholics

this is an interesting place

First post in the thread here, what relevance does it have whether she cheats on nigger dick or white or asian?
>Inb4 shitty /pol/ answers

Speaking as one of them, some of the "Catholics" are likely also lapsed and thus not really faithful but not ready to let go.

>Good thing anti-abortion people will remove themselves from the gene-pool.
...By having more babies than pro-abortion people?

>if you are a one-lining pls upvote me poster
I'm not though. Go in the /rel/ threads.
>TRIP
I just post with it when religion is the topic so I don't get confused as a proddy and get easily dismissed as a "burger fundamentalist". I don't see it as le epic Veeky Forums account at all, don't get me wrong.

If the cuck wants to keep his cheating wife for some reason then a white baby (or whatever the cucks ethnicity is) is easier to hide the fact that his wife was unfaithful.

>the niglet

If you had any ounce of respect for yourself and your family then you'd see why human life is valuable.

by being stupid and getting cucked

>divorce
So not only the guy stole your wife for 9 months and a night, you lose her for good and you can never have children (or sex) ever again.

Explain.

You could always tell God to fuck himself and accept going to hell.

It's natural human instinct to care for those around you if they're close. These people who made your life including individuals you don't know (scientists, doctors, engineers) are objectively important in your life thus you must value them.

Mods do your fucking job.

I value them because of their relationship to me, I reject the notion that humanity intrinsically has value.

If I put value to a stranger like say giving money to the homeless, it's pure emotions not some ideological belief that he deserves support for being human.

For instance I realized something about bearing children. If my child is born deformed and severely retarded I would not love it like I would a healthy child. Someone who values human life intrinsically would likely raise and love that kind of offspring. I wouldn't and their most of history neither would most of humanity.

>Most of humanity
Are people actually capable of dumping their own flesh and blood? There are a lot of children out there with those deformities that are still kept by their family.

As for the homeless example, altruism isn't a bad thing since it improves yourself.

Veeky Forums has mods? Coulda fooled me.

>christcucks

It's less likely now thanks to legal restrictions on infanticide.

Granted it's possible I'd still raise and attempt to care for a retard or a baby born with a physical deformation due to it being my flesh and blood and the haunting thought of killing your child.

>think it might be cool to start going to church again, get some perspective on spiritual shit
>see this
>completely turned off by total slave mentality
I suppose it's admirable of him to forgive her, but chances are she's a horrible person who he really shouldn't be associating himself with, also this is probably more of an example of being a human doormat than being like Christ

How many posters here really fit into completely following a certain religion? I'm a lapsed catholic and while I don't find the idea most religions' perceptions of god impossible at all I just can't really get into faith. It's big and rather foreign to me and the pope keeps saying things I can't get behind.

One of the guys in the thread actually goes full scripture on the OP and says something like 'act like Christ, not a doormat. And everyone comparing this to Joseph and Mary is disgusting.'

Pretty based.

>It's natural human instinct
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Weasel_word
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Appeal_to_nature

I can only imagine how the guy feels

Watch/read ntr pornography to get a more in depth look at the issue. It's a beautifully fucked up situation this guy's in. Truly the great tragedy of our time. Stupid shit like 'cuck' doesn't catch on to the degree it did through pure meme-forcing. It sticks in our minds in a real dirty, insidious way, it's the ultimate humiliation. I love it.