K i need help

Not really sure but chad jaw is not required. You have that cute boy look. Boyband/10.

>I don't really have a strong jaw.

You're 18. You're not really supposed to have a strong jaw yet.

M8, your hair as is looks fine and you're a decently handsome chap, all things considered. I agree with this user, this hairstyle would work well for you as long as you stay fit.

As others have said, you should focus on learning to be confident in yourself. There's no reason to be so negative about your looks

Well, thanks very much, I'm really glad to hear it since I always thought I looked like shit. Got that opinion on myself since I could never have women/girls take notice of me or even acknowledge my existence.

Oh fuck, really? I thought stuff like bone structure and stuff could be seen since after puberty started.

Thanks very much, I appreciate it a lot. I'm actually gaining confidence just by what you guys are saying.

I'll definitely look into that hairstyle

>slightly overweight
>As you can see my hairline is shit
>I look slightly shit
>I know I'm an ugly piece of shit

Your main issue is your self-confidence.
Your hairline and looks are fine.

Male faces mature throughout the early-mid 20s. They get rougher and more square.

>I could never have women/girls take notice of me or even acknowledge my existence.

This has to do with confidence and self-image. Don't worry friend you'll get there.

Thanks very much. I'll work on that

Right, understood. Thanks
Thanks very much.
It probably has something to do with me being an edgy autist when I was younger. I had long hair and glasses and wore those black skinhead shoes and wore all black etc

I'm growing out of this now thankfully

Do you know for how long cheekbones grow? Mine seem to have gotten bigger lately but I don't know if it's because they actually grew or if I've lost some fat in the face, or if they've always been there and I haven't noticed them. Like OP I'm also 18.

Op here, can you post a photo of yourself?

I can post a picture of my fridge if you want

Nigger this does not deserve its own thread

nigga literally no one would notice your hairline, and if they did its not even bad

>Yeah I know I'm an ugly piece of shit
Jesus christ and I thought body dysmorphia was just a meme

Yeah probably

You think so? I always thought it's really noticeable

What can I say? Low self esteem

A lot of young folks nowadays have low self esteem. Its because we live sedentary lifestyles. We would all be happier as hunter gatherers. There's is no debating this, unless if you are truly enlightened by your own intelligence rather than the blessings of some God

>hmm would niggers be happier as slaves..

That's true I guess

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How can I discipline myself? I told myself I won't eat like shit since today and I've already ate some chocolate cream or whatever.

I live with parents and they said they don't give a fuck about my diet and they even say I'm skinny even though I'm about 20 kilograms overweight

Not fa related I know sorry

You look like a normal 18 year old. Stay in shape and you'll be a good looking 30 year old with those facial features.

I'm in the same boat as you OP, slightly overweight and also working on it + shit widow's peak hairline and can't find a good hairstyle

this.

If you're trying to impress someone your clothing won't do shit if you self deprecate and come off as confident. All clothing should do for you personally is give you a confidence boost.

by the way your face looks fine, stop being a sad kunt.

Thanks, I will.

Yeah

OK, thanks very much, any thought to my other post? Posted it in this thread a moment ago

have some pride. its a lot easier to say no to things when you feel guilty for doing them and get a sense of satisfaction for persevering through the temptation. along with that, don't make fucking excuses, don't allow yourself to be debating whether or not to eat chocolate or break diet. I always remind myself that the satisfaction of keeping a rule is always greater than the instant gratification that breaking it would provide. practice these too thing's and NEVER self deprecate or loath, It'll make progress much harder.

read this too.

Thanks very much. My biggest problem with myself is weight and lack of friends.

The lack of friends part is so huge I can't even start now since it'd take so long to explain.

I tried numerous times to start working out, running and eating right but only running works.

I'm too weak mentally and too self-conscious to work out and eat right.

I'd love to do it and just start but it's hard and I always failed. And I've tried to do so for about 2 years now.

Id say a messy crew cut, a bit patchy, you might want to emphasize that wooliness to your hair.

I think that would look the least forced.

The more messy the more youthful and slightly grunge-esque clothing, when you want to look more business you can grow it towards something Erik Prince inspired, but not as harsh, with a lower transition.

>The lack of friends part is so huge I can't even start now since it'd take so long to explain.
I've got time

It all started when I was 7. I'm from Eastern Europe and when Schengen started everything changed. Me and my parents moved to England and I started to go to school. I've been there 6 years and it was hell. Racism, lack of friends name calling bullying you name it.

During those 6 years I only played games and ate sweets and stuff(hence the fat).
Tbh I thought everybody lived like me, sat in front of a computer and just browsed and I got used to it. Looking back now I was almost suicidal since I'd make comments to my parents with a straight face as a 10 year old It'd be better if I'd kill myself and not live etc

I didn't know people had friends and when I moved back to my home country I was shocked people wanted to be my friends(I was 13 at that time). I didn't know how to behave so I'd just shut myself away from these people and not care.

Loneliness and bullying at such a young age changes people's brains and I believe I'm just mentally ill or at least show symptoms of being a fucking weird person.

Now I'm 18 and I still have no one. No close friends even though I know most people at my school(about 100 people so not big by any means).

Apparently I'm smart but an underachiever and I'd like to change that but my procrastination is horrible and I can't even force myself to do things.

Games don't interest me, nor does nothing else.

I used to play guitar and even played in a band but I got bored of it.
The only thing I have that other people don't is a driving license. Passed 1st time which is apparently hard here so I might not be so stupid after all.
I took up boxing as well which I really enjoy and apparently I'm making lots of progress.

That's it I guess

Thanks bro

You can always start writing down where you want to go, what you want to be, you can always phantasize about that, in your mind be that person, and that gravitate towards it.

Sometimes the brain, or better, in these times our brains aren't sufficient to store what you might have decided on priorly, when you write it down you can be sure that the anchor gets stored in your brain for sure, ie the topic opf the project or whatever it is, and all details you have safely written down and stored, so you can file that away until the situation allows it or calls for it.

As for food, I think you might want to try make that your hobby for a while, like study all that food you think is "right" which might be largely raw plants, and further other healthy things, you can even do so with a burger in your hand, first get your brain right and find a comfortable position to start from.

I think the hair looks good, it's a little boring since everyone wears that same style but I think it fits you. Also about eating right remember the best diet is no diet - eat whatever you want, but eat only when you are hungry and make your portions smaller. You can do it, I'm rooting for you; just lose the 9gag tier memes

Right, thanks. Believe me I try to think positively and fantasize. I always think of myself as this great dude that everyone likes and that has all the women and a good body and is a boxer etc but it just doesn't work.

Fuck it I'll quit bitching.

That's a pretty fucked story, especially since it happened at such a young age. look at getting a CBT therapist man. I used to see therapists for three years. eventually something clicks and things begin to make sense.

Very well, thanks for the fa advice and for the rest.

I'll try.

Very well. I'm afraid there might be a problem, I don't think there are any therpaists in my hometown, do you think a pedagogue would do the job for the beginning? Of course I'd be able to talk to her even now since I'm on good terms with her

Thanks man

I suppose... sounds like your parents are doing more harm than good. make sure they sincerely want to help you out. long term look for a CBT.

Sometimes one hits a low, though I can assure you 100% those getting into those comfortable positions where everything falls into place and you already forgotten about past discomforts is definitely possible.
Handsome kid, smart, youthful appearance... you pretty much hit the jackpot when it comes to raw material... you'll get there.

Life is always a bit practice as well, the deeper the hole you need to dig yourself out from the stronger you'll get.

You're so handsome, be a polite person when it comes to normal situations, with women you can let your dick guide where to go, once it breaks through.

In case you got time on your hand and the capacities, you can read lots of books as well, all the hard science literature is at your hands. Just make sure school or whatever it is doesn't suffer.

Filter the advices and concepts according to your own reason.

My parents are really weird. I've never really had good contact with them and desu I don't think I want to, they're not people I'd stay in touch with if they wouldn't be family
Thanks very much

We'll see how it goes, right?

I usually post on /adv/, and I might post a thread there sometime soon, I guess you'd find me there in the future

Thanks a lot

Oh I try to read, same problem as with learning, procrastination.

I'll look into it

Reading all this I've become somehow attached to op, i want to be his friend. Now I'm sad

just post here. /adv/ is just a reddit retard feel good exercise and nothing of actual benefit ever comes of it in my experience. at least on here or on Veeky Forums some people are actually educated and have a good grasp of basic stoic and existential philosophy

good luck

Very well, thanks very much

That's really nice. That's just how I work on people, sorry

rude

Quit with the fucking pity party holy shit you humongous fucking faggot
The fact that you aren't ugly and are rather cute (at least from the angle you posted in OP) means you have it better than at least 75% of the world's population.
Get it out of your fucking head that you aren't as good as other people, right fucking now.
I guarantee you that you'd be hit on by at least one drunk girl if you went to a bar on a weekend, and if you were gay you'd have endless fucking dick.
So please, actually shut the fuck up. Go see a therapist if you really need to. Go to college and try to make friends through clubs and shit.
It's not that fucking hard.

What about the army? It's shit pay here but it'd help me straighten myself out I guess.

Thanks

annnd that 75% info is not true. Just man up and get out of you comfort zone.

Your face looks pretty good for someone who's overweight, so there's a good chance you'll look chiseled when you lose weight. Are you Brit or American?

Citation needed

I just drink a lot of water, chew gum for 2 to 3 hours a day a few days a week, and then run and do push-ups/pull-ups on alternating days, 3 to 5 days a week. My face looks terrible if I don't do that, and great if I do.

Eastern European, why?

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stop

not your personal stylists

Fuck off

Yeah, OP, don't overthink things. You look average or slightly above with potential to look better. You're fine there. You probably don't need a therapist either desu. Lifting (or some other way of raising your T and releasing endorphins) will make you feel way better than obsessing over and identifying with your issues. Just think of yourself as a normal person.

You looked like you could be either.

Right. Thanks

I havew a huge problem. I told myself I'll eat right today(by that I mean no sweets and crisps and shit). And here I am eating sweets not even 30 minutes ago. That means I have a shitty self-discipline, right?
How can I fix that?

grow it out and eat healthy and get low bodyfat with enough muscle to look healthy
try using coconut butter in your hair every once in a while to make it feel and look better

you still look handsome so you do not have to sweat it

Thanks very much

How do I get the eat healthy part? Literally the hardest thing in my life right now

try eating fruit and such. i actually enjoy apples, carrots and such more than chips and chocolate these days

strawberries and grapes tastes nice too. if you go without junk for a while it will make you feel ill

same goes for drinking soda etc
just drink milk and water with ice cubes

you will feel much better and your mind will feel better too

do not waste your youth on feeling bad and being anxious about your looks. of course it matters but if you you end up getting more depressed and anxious things will not be nice when you reach your 20s

I am speaking by experience and you remind me a lot of myself when I was 18.

I am also European - where are you from?

Thanks very much.

I'm from Poland, you?

you kind of look like a less fat mr Leandoer

do whatever he's doing I'd say

...

Yep, pretty much

I guess so, thanks

Yeah

I have one more thing, you guys told me I look cute, how can I make myself look older and manlier? Will it come with age or can I do something about it?

Lift

Go to the gym, really.
Your jaw should change a little when you get older.
Not much else you can do.