Tfw my gf always leaves the house wearing sweatpants and sweatshirts, or leggings and her hair in a hat

Full Rick

how do people expect to get anything done when they're figuratively still half in bed?

This.

Every single time someone on Veeky Forums posts about a "Chad" "cucking" them, I'm reminded that most people here are virogns who have never been with a woman before.
Girls don't just suddenly cheat on the person they've been with for over a year and will get married to next year just because some decent looking person looks at them in public or says hi.
Holy shit, the insecurity here is off the charts. And the whole blacked thing too. Most girls avoid niggers like the plague. Just because they see one doesn't mean they are gonna sleep with him.
You fuckers are so sad and delusional it's ridiculous.

>I'm reminded most people here are virgins
Literally why are you
This is literally dedicated to Nazi memos, 2D porn and chicks with dicks
How are you surprised when most of the populace here are anti-social and have some hatred for women?
& btw leave normalfag

Why are you here?*

>tfw girlfriend wears yoga pants at home all the time

I'm fine with that because at home and can grab her ass whenever I want to and put my hand down her pants. And her ass looks good in them.
It's when girls start wearing them outside everywhere they go. They're sweatpants tier but more trashy.

don't date girls that don't dress well in the first place, I mean you can't tell people how the act just pick someone better to begin with

When will normies realize that loose wool pants and sweaters are actually the comfiest clothing?

They don't get anything done. I think this is why so much of this comfort fashion is championed by college-aged people. Have you met college undergraduates? They all make a lot of noise about being busy, but most of their being busy stems from inefficiency. Sure, there are exceptions, but the vast majority of people I know who get shit done aren't spending their lives in the equivalent of pajamas.

That said, and while I think the cult of comfort has gone too far, being comfortable is important. I'll sneer at anyone who says denim or woolens are intrinsically uncomfortable, but if your clothing is actually uncomfortable, something is wrong—either it's too small or too big or clashes with your personality.

Normies think all wool except the softest, cheapest, shittiest cashmere is uncomfortable.

Underrated

This is so accurate

>reminder that it all started as ironic trolling and it's now being posted on every high traffic board 24/7 and an entire porn company sprouted from it

wearing a fedora and acting morally superior to others

We already had a thread about the exact same scenario in OP but the genders switched and everyone was calling the girl a cunt for trying to change her slovenly boyfriend. You sound insecure as fuck. Afraid of being seen with her?

>she's cute and has a good body

So you just want her to be eyecandy for other dudes to gawk at? You're reducing her to nothing more than a fashion accessory for yourself, you selfish faggot

>and everyone was calling the girl a cunt for trying to change her slovenly boyfriend.
That means everyone was wrong in that thread
You and your partner should always be pushing and encouraging each other to reach a higher level of personal excellence

just tell her you would like it, its not super important but it would make you more happy.

So if she stuffs her face with fast food and starts to get fat I shouldn't try and change her? I'm being "selfish" and "insecure"?
Fuck you

>that statement isn't right so I'm going to argue the complete polar opposite because correct answers are usually found on the most extreme sides of the spectrum and never in the middle ground

>TFW gf walks around with only a shirt on at home

>My subjective view of personal excellence is my gf dressing how I want her to

Maybe her view of "personal excellence" is not wasting money in vain or being preoccupied with what others think about what you're wearing?

False equivalency. Unlike a poor diet, dressing how you want has no adverse effects on your health

Nice trips. What do you suppose is a fair compromise for faggot OP and his slob gf?

Where do you live? If you're in some small city in the US, there's really no reason for her to care

>muh subjectivity! checkmate!
I'm not arguing that OP should be coercing his girlfriend into wearing exactly what he wants. He should be encouraging her to think more critically about fashion and clothing, which will in turn help her develop an informed personal style. Most people, even those who claim to be into fashion, couldn't tell you a thing about the basic essential notions of silhouette or texture. Most girls have a bare-bones understanding of color matching and think they're fashion gurus for it.

>wasting money in vain
No no no no no. Learning to dress better does not have to mean spending more money. It means learning to work most effectively with what you've got, and learning to determine which option will be best for you when you're deciding on clothes to buy later down the line.

>dressing how you want has no adverse effects on your health
Maybe not, but it does have an effect on how others perceive you, both consciously and un-, which can have massive effects on your personal and professional life.

Somewhat agree but also the reality is that like 50% of the 20-35 population are series monogomists who will sit in a relationship out of comfort and fear of being single. But if a better looking wealthier higher status person steps into their life make no mistake they will jump ship

It's different for girls. When your gf leaves the house in yoga pants she is saying
>I want guys to check out my arse
With sweatpants it is:
>I want guys to think about how easy it would be to pull my pants down and fuck me

If she was fat it might be laziness but you said she isn't.

You're the man, she has no right speaking to you like this. I decide what clothes my girlfriend can and can't wear

I agree, OP should definitely encourage his gf to think critically about clothing but keep his attitude in mind:

>she gets mad when I tell her I wish she'd try harder because she's really cute and has a good body

I'll give his gf the benefit of the doubt. That statement reeks of entitlement and honestly OP sounds like a cunt. Maybe if his criticism went beyond "dress better because you have a nice body" she might actually listen and wouldn't be upset because you told her to "try harder"

The whole wasting money thing was hypothetical, I'm sure she has her own reasons for not caring about fashion. The point is there are much more subtle and convincing approaches when it comes to changing women but unfortunately OP is a hamfisted retard

pretty girls are rare and they don't really have to try that hard if they don't really want to.

What do you let her wear? How did you get her to listen to you? Does every piece of clothing get picked out or approved by you, or do you just give her strict guidelines?

Right, your girlfriend dressing fashionable is not a consumerist narrative.

Looking like every malnourished twink spending daddies money on clothes.

Not the one of comfort and sedation, no it isn’t.

well give her a reason to dress up you fag. take her out to nice places where she'll feel compelled to dress up and look presentable.

The madam is comfy, faggot. Leave lone

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It could be okay if he hasn't said anything but he asserted a preference for her and she is ignoring it and telling him to get fucked.

He either has to get her to do what he wants or drop her now because she will not respect him if she knows he has this preference and he is letting her get away with this.

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>puritanical anti-comfort, anti-pleasure bullshit
Go join the orthodox church or something dude

>Veeky Forums is le Nazi website
sounds like you're a newfag

Because the bible says Man is the head of the household, she has to listen to me if we're going to be married, a wife has to honour her husband.
I make her wear blouses, skirts below the knee, cover her legs with stockings or tights.
She's not allowed to show her naked body in public, or wear pants. Yes she asks me first and I give my approval or not
She used to wear pants when we first started but I told her I don't want her to wear them since it's cross dressing so she stopped and the skirts were short for my liking so she got longer ones.

>don't tell me how to dress
Don't invest heavily into this relationship bro

>Why do girls do this?
guys also do it

they just don't care. big fucking deal. you sound like you're pretty stuck up.

What if they dress well at first but start to dress like trash as the relationship progresses?

>tfw gf forbids me to wear pants at her place because she never does

This is a textbook example of how young straight men with grandiose delusions will look at literally anything and warp it to confirm their world view.

You'd look at a woman blowing her nose and assume it's to tease you into thinking of a sloppy facial, you fucking freak.

>tfw gf said she didn't love me anymore and broke up

jesus h christ you might be an actual psychopath, you know? not even meant as an insult, but seriously, see a shrink because you're going to condemn your entire family into suffering and lord knows suffering children will not grow up into "healthy members of a nuclear family" so your plan is doomed from the start.

you should be in a relationship that makes you and everyone involved happy. if it doesn't, maybe you shouldn't be in this relationship at all?

it doesn't really work like that, you don't find 1 gf and then mold her into fitting you because youre going to seriously damage both her and yourself.

just learn to end a relationship that isn't healthy

Why am I a psychopath? The scripture supports what I say, she agrees with me and reads the bible too. I'm just helping her because I know the bible better than her

Deuteronomy 22:5
The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.

1 Corinthians 11:3
But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God

Ephesians 5:22
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.

1 Peter 3:1
Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;

We are in the midst of a full on gender role reversal in this country. From what I see in my medium sized city, anecdotally, most women are choosing to wear slob fashion (yoga, unkempt hair, easy stuff) which, to me, seems like a response to all the lack of effort from the last 20 years of male fashion (sweatpants, cargo shorts, hoodies, jeans, etc). Meanwhile, boards like this show how a vastly different view on male fashion. What's more, in popular mainstream there is a concentrated effort to push for men to dress with more effort. Maybe this is the response to being held to a standard for so long.

lol I have watched countless former girlfriends of mine end up married and with kids less than a year after we stop dating. At least three off the top of my head. I'm also approaching 30 though so the biological clock is ticking.

100% accurate

This is what YOU are saying.

u mad but you have a point

You're lucky, OP. She could be a high maintenance, self centered, bitch. She sounds down to earth, enjoy it.

actual solid advice

Isn't there a middle ground between self centered bitch and lazy slob?

How do you let her wear her hair? What about shoes, makeup and nail polish? Did you have to spend a lot of time transforming her or was she mostly redpilled from the start?

>You'd look at a woman blowing her nose and assume it's to tease you into thinking of a sloppy facial, you fucking freak.

No, it would be a grandiose delusion if I thought they wore it for me. They are wearing it for "Chad."
OP has already given you evidence to support this. He says his gf refuses to wear what he wants. If she was that into him she would do what he wants, she's looking for another man.

Connect the dots, my dudes, it's really not that hard to link what girls wear to trying to attract a mate.
The problem with you guys is you have probably bought into this idea of "dressing for yourself." Damn near no one actually does that. They're dressing to attract a mate or they're dressing to impress weirdos on an imageboard or whatever else. Fashion involves other people.

if you have a gf how do you tell if she's dressing to leave you?

If a woman is into you she wants to do what you want her to do.
I was going to say she'll do it within reason but it will actually go beyond what is reasonable. They want to be submissive to you.
If you tell her you'd like her to dress a certain way and she tells you to go fuck yourself: she is looking for another man.

how can I test this? like do I walk up to her and tell her to dress goth tomorrow or something- would that work?

desu you can look good while wearing comfy clothing too if you know how to style it right.
Like just replace the stained hoodie with a vintage sweatshirt and add some nice sneakers and you can actually look kinda sorta okay.

>goth
They're still a person with a will so you can't just say:
>publicly dress like Ronald McDonald for me, baby!
and expect them to do it, out of the blue.

In the case of goth if you are a goth yourself and you buy her some goth clothes and encourage her to make goth choices you could expect her to do that.
If you aren't even a goth it's less reasonable because you're asking her to do something you wouldn't even do yourself.

ok, so would it be better if I found some pics online of what I would want her to dress like and sent them to her like
>"hey maybe you could try out this aesthetic?"
i guess the goth thing wasn't really a good idea

Well on your way to an abusive relationship, good on you user.

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Go watch some Dog Whisperer. It demonstrates that dogs do not like feeling like they are boss because they are unable to function as boss.
For example when you leave the house and go to work if your dog thinks he is boss it will stress him because he thinks he needs to keep an eye on you and he can't.
The same principles work with children. It is very stressful to children to to feel like they are the boss because their parents aren't up to the task.
Finally, the same principles also work in a relationship. We developed certain traditions for a reason. Women weren't simply dominated in all areas, they did have some places where they were the boss. But the idea of "equal partners" is a corrupt and recent idea.
There are exceptions but we see the vast majority of women do not like leading in the workplace or at home. They're not good at it, they didn't evolve to have that role so they are unsuited to it.
This has broad ramifications. For instance it's why divorce is so rife today.
It even explains the increasing popularity of BDSM. Women are not dominated in everyday life so they try to work that out in the bedroom by being submissive.
(It's not an accident that feminist activists are all hardcore subs in bed.)
They're expressing a healthy need in a sick way. If you take charge over a girl that likes to be a sub I guarantee you will find she becomes decreasingly kinky in bed, she doesn't need it anymore because she gets it in everyday life.

How much charge am I supposed to take? I don't think I have the energy to choose her outfit every morning and micromanage her diet.

You don't have to take any charge at all, it doesn't have to matter.
Except if you tried to make her stop wearing something and she didn't stop.
If that happens you either work out a way to make her do what you wanted or you dump her, because she won't respect you for being a pussy.

kys normie

also you're gf is a basic bitch slut

she's looking for another man, in sweatpants?

Masculine, high-t men do not care if the girl is wearing sweatpants. Men preoccupied with women's fashion are either gay or they have watched porn to the point where they can only get off imagining themselves to be a sort of director of a porn movie starring their gf.

Not quite, rather than "hey maybe you could try out this aesthetic?" say something more like "hey this looks really good, don't you think?" make it seem less like a suggestion and more like a comment. You want to plant a seed in her mind, and if she loves you the seed will grow.

I don't think you need to try to incept it or ask like that.
I would go about it more like...
>I think you would look hot as fuck wearing x.
>I'd really like you to wear x for me, it would turn me on.

Constant comfort and coninuly seeking pleasure as your ultimate goal is anti-human. It’s psychological dude; comfort makes you weak and lazy. Realising that there are higher states of being than pleasure means you actually transcend pain and suffering and achieve greatness. Fuck off with your hedonistic, utilitarian bullshit.

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Literally 80% of my friends' relationships and half of mine ended because the girl wanted to date up.

>Chad
There's no reason to be upset about the term "Chad" it's just local slang for "very attractive man."
People would rather use the four letter word than say "really hot dude."
>cucking
I'll agree that there are probably a lot of people overstating bad behaviour of females but, dude, why do you think all this divorce happens today? Because those women thought they could get a better deal, maybe they were right.
>blacked thing
Oh, I absolutely agree with this. White women are basically the least likely demographic to race-mix. I think the guys bringing this up might all be porn addicts that beat off to cuck porn.

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