The meme has its roots deep. People think that we'll create AI through some singularity event where everything just clicks, meanwhile every other human invention in all of history is triggered by noticing a phenomenon, studying it, and using the naturally occurring examples to mimic and recreate it.
So the meme really rests around the brain. People don't see that to understand intelligence (self awareness in this case, more specifically) we would have to understand the human brain.
The problem is obviously that as soon as you step into studying the brain on a chemical level you're going to piss off every 'bix soul' pious man, every 'we're all created equally' blank slate pseudo scientist and every 'we need a reason we are aware of to exist' philosophical blowhard, because when we study the brain we're going to uncover a lot of things about ourselves that John Normie isn't ready or mentally equipped to face.
So yeah, you might want to relax on the hate, because the meme is going to be around as long as John Normie is, and he's always going to be around.
>Pointless Coincidence
An appeal to argument like yours OP is naturally a losing proposition for anyone to take part in blindly simply because when you introduce the argument you're implying certain constants.
You're starting this off immediately by forcing people to play in your sandbox where everyone has to accept that self awareness is just a pointless coincidence.
It's fucking hilarious really, because you start off saying, "Life is pointless," (You literally say this) and then go on to say in the next fucking line, "What's the point in life?"
You're a pathetic excuse for a human being, or a particularly lucky troll, but either way here's a concise answer of:
Q) Why you should even bother with life if you discount a soul, if you discount inherent and absurd biological equality, and generally accept that we're alone in a universe and are given no inherent purpose?