After failing yet another job interview process that had me judged solely on my extroversion and normieness while...

After failing yet another job interview process that had me judged solely on my extroversion and normieness while surrounded by posh normie clones and interviewed by their slightly older clones, I am tempted once again by self help. Are the below books good?

A guide to rational living
What every body is saying
How to win friends and influence people
Psycho cybernetics

I am a huge cynic and see all philosophies as unfalsifiable and all pieces of wisdom and self help as bullshit at their core. Should I just ignore all pieces of advice, all of which I would probably forget, and just lie more, speak louder, speak clearer, speak more?

stop stop posting this

Man you're whinning so much it's painful... Grow up, stop reading crap and think for a second. Selling yourself isnt difficult if you know your shit and what people are looking for. You can figure that out by yourself, no need for motivation speech.

not to nitpick, but wouldn't it be falsifiable not unfalsifiable?

Oops, that's not a nitpick, I had a brainfart. I should have said that I see academic philosophy as flailing about within the unfalsifiable (and a few more things) but I think you get my gist.

the important thing with philosophy, I think, is to keep it in the realm of the possible.

a good example of this is the typical "free will/determinism" line of argument.

this can be argued indefinitely, but how much can this REALLY affect your life?

the important thing to gain in that situation is to realize what is personally true. you are free to believe that you are free, and also free to believe you're shackled to fate. but the mere belief in one or the other doesn't exactly change your situation.

same thing with morality, you can debate the goodness or evil of a certain action for weeks, yet you ultimately will "do as thou wilt"...

its basically coming to terms with things as they are, "it is what it is" etc.

but that's also relevant to the books you're considering,

say you read "how to win friends..." the info is there, you got the info, now what happens? its significance is entirely up to its relevance to you and its applicability to your own life.

in general, it is my belief that if someone has a "notion" that something MAY help, its worthwhile to explore, as at worse, it is no help, and you have wasted minimal time. you can read 3 chapters of a 20 chapter book and decide its not for you.

that being said, I find it interesting that the jobs you do apply for so consistently have this pattern...you would think different places have differing situations, not universal replicas of the same "posh normie" dilemma

Bump

try r9k

>still being a cynic
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>How to win friends and influence people
I am about to read this. Bumping this thread for a good review.