Is having a gf a financial mistake?

Gigastrength
Gigastrength

Is having a gf a financial mistake?

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Methnerd
Methnerd

rich people are way more likely to be married than poor or middle class.

so you decide.

TreeEater
TreeEater

Is giving away my hard earned money to a roastie for doing nothing a financial mistake?

gee i wonder

Burnblaze
Burnblaze

they're also more likely to be divorced.

what if she puts out sexually and does errands

Emberfire
Emberfire

Objectively speaking, yes.

If you explain that your heavy budgeting/savings/investing is justified and she's cool with it, not really.

If she's like most girls and just wants your attention/affection/hang out and do things with you, odds are it's going to eat into your finances, yes.

Whodathunkit - social interactions and activities demand resources.

TalkBomber
TalkBomber

Addendum: more than money, a gf is much more likely to be a drain on your time as a resource.

I'm not saying it's bad - humans are generally social creatures. Depends on how much of both time and money you can be bothered to divert from yourself. Lack of time is by far the most likely culprit in eroding relationships. Simple really - you stop hanging out with people and relationships cool, eventually freezing.

SniperWish
SniperWish

so the secret is

1. get married
2. get bitched at to put on the pressure to work hard and succeed so you can be a provider,
3. have a bitter divorce where you still lose a lot of money, but its more than youd have without getting bitched at for a decade or so

LuckyDusty
LuckyDusty

what if she puts out sexually and does errands
so your giving her money as well as letting the succubus drain your precious life force? sounds good bro

CouchChiller
CouchChiller

not likely.

rich people don't get rich working normie jobs.

it's more likely that the qualities that make rich people rich are the same ones the opposite sex finds attractive. So if you don't like having a sexual partner there's a very good chance you don't have what it takes to get rich anyways.

though living with someone and splitting the bills and the income is absolutely proven to save you tons of money vs living on your salary alone or splitting bills with roommates but not income.

DeathDog
DeathDog

is having two incomes but less than twice the expenses a financial mistake

gee i wonder

GoogleCat
GoogleCat

Having a girlfriend hasn't been a financial mistake to me. We split most of the bills, she can cook way better than me, she is very ambitious in her career field and it's not uncommon that we both work an 80 hour workweek.

We both want to be rich, and for the last two years it's pretty much been a team effort for us to get there. What really helped is we both brought connections to the table that really helped us network with local businesses. Wouldn't have been able to get as far as I have without her. Will probably propose mid 2018 if it's still going well.

Ignoramus
Ignoramus

If she isn't a lazy cunt then id say you are good.

t. Gf is a student right now so only time will tell

Crazy_Nice
Crazy_Nice

Thats actually the only reason im single

Carnalpleasure
Carnalpleasure

oh baby I just absolutely need the new Gucci handbag
I think it's time to move to a bigger place
you're not going to give me a cheap wedding ring right? You do love me right?
let's go on vacation to Peru and Hawaii!
I think we need a beach house in Miami, my bff Jen told me about hers and it seems absolutely amazing
go to work! But honey, you make enough for the two of us! Don't you want me to stay home and vaccuum once a weak?

SniperGod
SniperGod

It's really not that much money for me. It's really just food, and I tend to eat a lot of her food anyways so it evens out

BlogWobbles
BlogWobbles

...

Why arn't you marrying a gf that has a job? The girls who are the gold digger types are usually the retarded ones that are prone to cheat. That, or they are very conservative.

hairygrape
hairygrape

Just tell her u dont want to waste money on stupid things and mainly just want to bang.

Gigastrength
Gigastrength

High iq correlates with wealth and income.

Also the higher the iq, more like a person is a single and does not have children

TalkBomber
TalkBomber

not as good as living with your parents

SniperWish
SniperWish

Not always true

Most girls that work usually do it so they can still save while hoeing themselves out.

Girl I know just got a bf in the nick of tax return time. She's dumping his ass after valentines as well.

TreeEater
TreeEater

depends how big your allowance is

Skullbone
Skullbone

Video this conversation and post it here, I could do with a laugh

SniperGod
SniperGod

gf makes more than me
splits bills
listens to me about what to spend money on

Im ok with mine

TechHater
TechHater

U woudn't understand my native language. She is not gonna respond weird, I usually say it jokingly.

FastChef
FastChef

Same person btw

New_Cliche
New_Cliche

Having a SINGLE gf

You guys have it all fucked up. The goal is to be so rich that you can maintain your very own harem. Money before women makes the women that much sweeter.

Stark_Naked
Stark_Naked

You decide

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Nude_Bikergirl
Nude_Bikergirl

correlates

Harmless_Venom
Harmless_Venom

gf makes more than me
shame on you. I hope you're working on that.

takes2long
takes2long

Usually yeah. But you don't just lose money, you lose time and energy too. You have to remember your money isn't your only resource in life. You'll give her time and energy that you could use for learning and making money for yourself.

It makes perfect economic sense for a woman to have a boyfriend/husband. It makes no economic sense for a man to have a girlfriend, or even worse, a wife.

This is just the big, aggregate picture of course.

Methnerd
Methnerd

That screenshot always makes me rage. +1 Internets to you sir.

Burnblaze
Burnblaze

it's more likely that the qualities that make rich people rich are the same ones the opposite sex finds attractive.

No. Men and women aren't attracted to the same qualities in each other.

The qualities that can help make a man rich, i.e ambition, charisma, type-A personality, cunning, work ethic, can make him attractive to a woman at least as a beta provider.

But that doesn't mean men want some type-A careerist to be their wife and the mother of their children. A woman's economic status has nothing to do with her wife-ability unless we're talking about some crushing debt she'd be bringing into the marriage, which would be a massive negative.

In other words, men's economic status is highly correlated to their sexual success and marriageability, while women economic status either has no impact, or if their status is very high, has a negative impact on their marriageability because they can rarely find men that make more money than they do, which is the kind of man they almost always want for marriage.

SniperGod
SniperGod

the only reason I'm single

BunnyJinx
BunnyJinx

There's no way it's not fake...

...right?

Fuzzy_Logic
Fuzzy_Logic

The sequel is even better.

Highest rated comment on this was something like "If you didn't know about his money, would you want him back? My guess is no."

I was at a dinner with old friends one time about a month ago. This one girl was there, not one of my friends, but the friend of my friends GF, so a few degrees separate.

She's 30 now and was always kind of a cunt to me and many others. Been a jizz jar club slut too. Now looking for those provider bucks. Kept trying to talk to me and I mostly ignored her or gave terse answers. Everyone was talking about marriage and shit, and one of her friends asks her if she has anyone lined up. She says "Maybe. user (me) here is gonna settle down some time soon, right?"

By this time I was buzzed (we all were) so I didn't give a fuck and I said "I've known you for 9 years and the only that's changed about me is money and everyone here fuckin' knows it."

Brief silence while all the guys try not to crack up, all the girls are tight-lipped and probably offended lol. Turn to another guy and say "You been watching The Man in the High Castle, right?" and we went from there.

Good times.

Supergrass
Supergrass

Is it really crazy enough to be fake?

It's possible that his friends were just fucking with her though, like they made it up just to fuck with her head. One time a friend of mine got shot down hard by this girl so we just told her his dick was huge, no idea if it was or not. She tried to get with him after that and he told her to fuck off.

Harmless_Venom
Harmless_Venom

We broke up because HE had been dishonest.

Jesus...

Soft_member
Soft_member

not if she is rich or her family is rich to support you

iluvmen
iluvmen

Women are like a house.

Make a good buy and that house will support you for life. Make a bad buy and that house will take everything from you.

Methnerd
Methnerd

Problem being, houses don't have minds they can change and an entire Government to use against you to throw you out of them and move someone else in while forcing you to still pay.

TreeEater
TreeEater

Sure, but so are all sorts of other things in life. There are worse things to spend money on. Besides, people never appreciate the value of love. I know this is Veeky Forums and all that, but happiness should always be the thing to strive for in life and love is a pretty damn potent source of it. Comes with tons of pros and cons though so make sure you don't pick blindly

Emberburn
Emberburn

I tell any serious gf i don't plan on marriage fairly early on
Some get it some don't

SniperGod
SniperGod

there is literally nothing rage-worthy about that. she did nothing wrong. she acted accordingly based on what she could have known at the time; a guy with no ambition is not a good mate. beyond that, him being vague as hell to her about his situation is wrong; and hes just a lucky motherfucker with an inheritance to boot. its not like he worked for that shit.

god, you butthurt mra-types are almost as bad as feminists

FastChef
FastChef

butthurt mra-types

Yes, anyone who doesn't think women are special and perfect is a morbidly obese MRA who lives beneath the first floor of a house, or whatever convenient fantasy ad hominem you can pull out of your busted boipussy at the moment.

Face it, she said "my news feed has been filled with my peers getting married, buying houses (in this bubble) having babies, and other various accolades. I can't help but feel jealousy by this...Three weeks ago after seeing a girl I knew from high school buy her 3rd property with her husband (note: I guarantee HE bought that shit, not her) I felt like my relationship with Will was juvenile and had no future."

Later: "If a man with disposable income meets a woman he likes, doesn't want to treat her?"

She's openly admitting she wants him to fund her fucking rat race status whoring and give her bullshit presents.

Stop defending whores, you sad twat. If she didn't have a cunt you'd say she was as much a loser as you think he is.

Stark_Naked
Stark_Naked

Yes, but more so are children.

Marriage and kids is a net loss.
/pol/ will dispute This by saying save the white race etc, but the truth is if family and spreading your genes is want you really want go to Africa and have 5 families for the price of one.

The trick to single wealth creation is getting large amounts of capital and building up compounding interest early.

Then you can do whatever

Lunatick
Lunatick

oh yes how dare she want a man who has ambition, goals and financial security to start a family and life with. how dare she follow her biological imperative.

If she didn't have a cunt you'd say she was as much a loser as you think he is.

you're applying male-logic to females exactly how feminists apply female-logic to males. literally male version of feminist bullshit.

If you haven't

1). Studied female brain/female psychology

2). Been in a relationship with a girl. (an actually girly girl).

3). Had female friends or close female family

then you have no idea what you're talking about

takes2long
takes2long

there so you obviously know how they think. so you're faulting them for what exactly? You acknowledge that they're innately different yet you're mad at them for behaving in accordance with their nature.

lostmypassword
lostmypassword

my employer gives me enough usd for 70000 snickers bars per year

RavySnake
RavySnake

the red pill everybody
egalitarian? fuck that
equal pay? dual income? ACTUAL security?

nah, it's in womens' NATURE to be worthless leeches

BlogWobbles
BlogWobbles

I always wonder what these betas are thinking. Seems paradoxical to me.

Sir_Gallonhead
Sir_Gallonhead

You sound like a lunatic.

Playboyize
Playboyize

they want to have it both ways. I find it hard to believe that anyone with actual experience with girls (dating, deep conversations, sex, cuddling) can say the shit they say.

DeathDog
DeathDog

this is so true i have a family friend thats a trust fund kiddie. went to nyu paid for being a subpar student. 45 now, lives in a 8k a month loft in manhattan, never worked a day in his life, and pulls literal models and cheats on them

StrangeWizard
StrangeWizard

Oh yeah.

One of the reasons why I don't have a gf.

Gotta love normie self aggravating bs though I told a homie about it and he just told me to stop thinking about a relationship like an investment.

I love the dude but he gets leeched from his fat gf

Fuzzy_Logic
Fuzzy_Logic

gf
Lol.
Why in God's name would you ask anyone here?

Bidwell
Bidwell

not having a girlfriend that makes as much money as you and is responsible

Snarelure
Snarelure

Is having a gf a financial mistake?

obviously this depends on your girlfriend

BunnyJinx
BunnyJinx

One of the reasons why I don't have a gf.
lol sure buddy

5mileys
5mileys

they're also more likely to be divorced.
Objectively not true. Divorce rates for rich people are less than 20%.

Playboyize
Playboyize

I normally hate the way people act in these, but this one I don't have a problem with. You don't have kids and start a family with a poor unemployed loser. Everybody ITT has said it's only a good idea to get married to a working professional, why are women somehow exempt from this?

Great analogy, I'm going to use this.

A house can also develop problems, user.

cum2soon
cum2soon

they both did nothing wrong.

he specifically filtered for a girl that wanted nothing from him. she failed.

she specifically wanted someone who was ambitious and rich. he didnt show it. he failed.

shes just pathetic for wanting to crawl back.

keep in mind however. there is no universal morality that men are supposed to support the woman, or work to give his woman a great life. feminism outright asks that this not be the case.

so shes just a foolish and pathetic woman who cant see this dynamic and just let it go

Methshot
Methshot

Gf - yes
Gold digger - yes
Good wife - no.

Stupidasole
Stupidasole

While there are opportunistic streaks present in her case, I honestly can't see it scoring a point for the redpill camp. She was looking for a partner to share a life with. While the guy showed no ambition nor offered an explanation or justification for the perceived passivness in building a foundation for a possible future together, he went and said he saw her in his future. This is basically setting both sides up for a big disappointment. If he wasn't actually interested in founding a family, he should've just said so. Being 26, she was chasing her biological clock by then in all likelihood. That is just a reality you have to face - majority of women will begin to feel a nagging need to have children and settle with a family after their early twenties.

She hung around for almost a whole year. All the while being under the impression he was poor and frugal. She did prod him about possibly changing this situation since both him and her seemed to be into eachother enough to warrant spending their lives together. And this is completely reasonable - why would you willingly start a family in a weak financial situation. She literally did nothing more or less than try to remind him that he should improve his situation with a little effort.

It's fair to assume she now has a sour retrospective on the whole thing because, as it turned out, everything was actually alright and they could've actually taken their relationship to the next level, but the guy was a moron and insisted on playing some "prove your worth" game. She still misses him, and that is precisely what makes it even more painful - the entire time she spent with him, everything they needed to live a happy family life together was there. And by treating her every now and then, she's not asking him to pay off every fantasy she has, jesus. Basic bitch shit, like roses on a special day or a nice little restaurant date. How hard is that.

Unlike you amerilards, Eastern Euro women and men get along great.

Sir_Gallonhead
Sir_Gallonhead

This.

haveahappyday
haveahappyday

having a permanent gf if you are over 7/10 is a financial disaster.

cum2soon
cum2soon

this!
we have this race with gf when she gets a raise i go ask for a bigger raise then it's her turn.

Bidwell
Bidwell

Eastern Euro women and men get along great
yeah
because drunk wife beaters would know what getting along looks like

happy_sad
happy_sad

Ideally nobody should be abused by their significant others, but are you implying there is no domestic violence in the US?

The point was that here in eastern Europe the women are generally much more honest about worrying about the financial security of themselves and their partners if starting a family is concerned. Especially those of slavic origins.

Ask yourself this: would YOU devote yourself without question to a seemingly unambitious/undriven partner, who shows little or no signs of improving their lot when the subject of a future together has been discussed.

Hint: you wouldn't.

You would eventually have to start asking the hard questions: "Are you serious about us?".

This isn't greed or golddigging. This is basic relationship risk assessment and management. You're on Veeky Forums for fuck's sake, you'd think people here would be more likely than most people to connect the dots.

eGremlin
eGremlin

If you can't attract a quality woman instead of golddigger trash then you deserve this future

CodeBuns
CodeBuns

quality woman

Stupidasole
Stupidasole

because drunk wife beaters would know what getting along looks like
wtf

whereismyname
whereismyname

Find a somewhat conservative girl (yes they exist, but hard to find) with a good job and education
Make it explicitly clear upfront that you're not interested in marriage or children
If she's not okay with that then move on
Always use your own condoms, even if she's on the pill. Pull out as well if you're really paranoid.
Tell her to fuck off if she's starts asking for you to buy her/pay for shit

Not that difficult. Just don't be desperate and latch on to any girl that lets you fuck her.

Illusionz
Illusionz

yes because u have to buy lunch and dinner twice a day and whenever you go out somewhere nice youre also paying twice.

CouchChiller
CouchChiller

alright user
my income totals $85000 per year
where can I find a girl that pull that

eGremlin
eGremlin

Find a somewhat conservative girl (yes they exist, but hard to find) with a good job and education
Make it explicitly clear upfront that you're not interested in marriage or children

implying a conservative girl would be ok with your second bit

and then you go onto say "not that difficult", yea ok bud

iluvmen
iluvmen

Conservative = family oriented/religious

Tell that to all the MGTOWs who voted for Trump

lostmypassword
lostmypassword

altright voted for trumputin not conservatives

Deadlyinx
Deadlyinx

I don't follow

Methshot
Methshot

no because if I didn't have a gf/wife I'd eventually blow my brains out.

tried to stay away from women for 5 years to focus on my career and became very depressed and alcoholic. it's gay, but a good woman really improves my life.

Snarelure
Snarelure

oh wait you mean conservative doesn't just mean family oriented religious, I took conservative as meaning non degenerate, in which case, they would still not be ok with no marriage and children, face it, the majority of all women want marriage and kids

Burnblaze
Burnblaze

TRUE STORY TIME

When i was younger i recieved some money, with that money i bought rental properties. Literrally retired at age 22 got a hot girlfriend like really hot, playboy model, litterally always on the playboy morning shows and now always on playboy radio. Everyone says ooh shes just a gold digger blah blah blah. I've known her since before i had money. Anyways i was with her for 4 years SHE bought a house for us to live in i lived with her and she was just a bitch so i left after 4 years. We continue to talk here and there. Anyways 6 months later she is really starting to talk to me again. Find out her grandma died and her family is getting millions. She is getting 500k herself. She wants me to be in her life, her family wants me to be in her life, they will probably end up giving everything to her when they die which is im guessing 10s of millions. She already owns and runs her own business and makes close to 100k a year and never even went to school after 12th grade.

So is it a bad financial mistake for me to get back with her and married?

Flameblow
Flameblow

the majority of all women want marriage and kids
No shit. That's why you make that clear upfront and move on to the next one if it doesn't fly.

"Not complicated" may have been a better way to phrase it that not difficult. Since there is a lot of trial and error involved with a number of women.

SniperWish
SniperWish

Trump isn't really conservative

WebTool
WebTool

MEIN NEGGER

FastChef
FastChef

/pol
Compared to Americans and Northern Europeans, Eastern Europeans have based families and relationships.

Lord_Tryzalot
Lord_Tryzalot

marrying the vaginal jew

Inmate
Inmate

Divorce rates for rich people are less than 20%.
Do you have a source for this?
Or did you just pull this statistic out of your ass?

TreeEater
TreeEater

Yes-even working a shit job you can live a decent life single. Don't listen to /pol/ mongoloids for advice on living life.

Emberburn
Emberburn

Imagine being this much of a beta cuck

SniperWish
SniperWish

why not just buy a fleshlight or a sexdoll by that point

TurtleCat
TurtleCat

Slight corrections since I haven't looked at the data in awhile.
It is actually 25%, and the data is based off of education, not income, however, the two are linked.

bls.gov/opub/mlr/2013/article/marriage-and-divorce-patterns-by-gender-race-and-educational-attainment.htm

DeathDog
DeathDog

I've done two of those three things, women are shitty and you're proving it.
Whatever you are white knight or women its sad.

TechHater
TechHater

Thee tall gymnastics are amazing.
Either way you're not in the relationship for the relationship its self you need finincal incentive to be in it.

BinaryMan
BinaryMan

conservative girl
girls that dont extist and or parrot what thier boyfriend says/watches.
Pick one

FastChef
FastChef

Among those ever married, percent ever divorced - Bachelor’s degree or higher: 29.8%
Among those ever married, percent ever divorced - Full Sample: 44.8%
That's pretty interesting.
So they have 1/3 less divorces, but it still makes it seem like a bad investment.

Supergrass
Supergrass

The right gf isn't. Maybe short term it'll cost you for dates, but two people combined will be able to buy a home and retire sooner due to combining your money.

Need_TLC
Need_TLC

hurr door what are roommates

Nude_Bikergirl
Nude_Bikergirl

I think the rich being less likely to divorce has more to do with estate tax planning than love. It is essentially more of a business venture.

idontknow
idontknow

Because human contact and relationships are pretty necessary for being mentally balanced.

kizzmybutt
kizzmybutt

Most couples i know are broke as fuck and always unhappy so i say yes yes it is

hairygrape
hairygrape

This entire thread should be taken with a grain of salt since the vast majority of all posters have never had a fulfilling relationship in their life.

Sharpcharm
Sharpcharm

Get a load of this cuck

Methnerd
Methnerd

Most romantic relationships are shallow and meaningless, dude. I remember a British study from this decade that showed that a majority of the married women admitted they would leave if their husbands lost their jobs. Most marriages are just legalized prostitution. In fact, I doubt that a sizable percentage of women can feel romantic love. They may truly love their children, but pretty much all of the ostensible affection towards men is faked. This is the true redpill.

massdebater
massdebater

go to Africa and have 5 families for the price of one
implying 5 African families = 1 white family

Soft_member
Soft_member

If you don't live with her yes

If you do, then no

Methnerd
Methnerd

be me
skinny white nerdy quarky 7/10
finally getting ahead in life
own my own condo and just bought a new one downtown
meet 9/10 grill. She is a alcohol promo girl.
she is agressively pursuing me
wtf.jpg
find out she's single mother with a kid from chad
realize im the provider choad she needs now

What do? I finally got to the level where I can bang 9/10s. Does it matter if they are gold digging whores, or should I just enjoy it?

I know I should get rid of her, but goddamn I have always wanted a beautiful woman......

eGremlin
eGremlin

She'll stick around for 5 years, pop out a kid or two, than financially rape/humiliate you in divorce court.

Bang and aim for younger gals.

BunnyJinx
BunnyJinx

fallen for the supremacy of the white female meme?
not understanding that conservatism in females increase with brown-ness

Harmless_Venom
Harmless_Venom

Pump and dump

Inmate
Inmate

Like I said, fine line between having a family and subsidizing a fucking status whoring rat race.

I've done 3 of those and that's exactly why I know her game and her bullshit.

Applying "male logic" to women is exactly how you avoid getting ruined. The fact that women use "female logic" doesn't make their "female logic" any more logical than it already isn't.

If she wants someone "ambitious and rich" she's a cunt. You don't need to be rich to have a good family.

It does not take much money to solve the problems that money can solve.

keep in mind however. there is no universal morality that men are supposed to support the woman, or work to give his woman a great life. feminism outright asks that this not be the case.

Agreed. Women got what they wanted, it backfired as usual, and now they blame men.

It's a macro-scale version of every problem in personal-scale man/woman relationships I've ever seen. Women don't know what they want. They have to be told, and told by a Man. I wish it weren't the case, believe me, but most of them really are just big toddlers.

Techpill
Techpill

If you're OK with being a cuck and being used by a single-mother, go for it.

StrangeWizard
StrangeWizard

HOUSES DON'T HAVE MINDS YOU STUPID FUCK

RRRREEEEEEEEEEEE

It's fair to assume she now has a sour retrospective on the whole thing because, as it turned out, everything was actually alright and they could've actually taken their relationship to the next level, but the guy was a moron and insisted on playing some "prove your worth" game

Problem being, his wealth will continue into perpetuity while her body will degrade and her eggs will dry up and die.

Eh, to be honest, some socially acceptable woman beating would do the Western world some good.

I mean, women love it. They love being smacked around because it's dominant, and dominance is the greatest pussy-wetter. It's a nasty, disgusting truth about our caveman wetware. Why do you think Western women treat their gentle, loving native men like shit and then turn around and want Muslims to come over here in droves? Because they want violence, dominance. It's women over-correcting for the decades of psychological castration they've done to their own men.

Western women crushed Western men with all the talk of "patriarchy" and "oppression" despite the fact that Western civilization has been the BEST place to be a woman, a place where the women have always been at least slightly more privileged than the men. So now that Western men have been successfully demoralized by their women, Western women demand the importing of the most violent, misogynist, patriarchal men in the world as a way of expanding their menu of mating options.

Sure, they'll get their faces melted off their skulls before stones are driven into them, but hey, at least they got a good orgasmic gang-raping first. After all, rape triggers ovulation and the strongest orgasms a woman will ever experience.

Face it, women are the biggest savages of all.

Poker_Star
Poker_Star

Why would you bother with her? She's a pump and dump at best, and even then you're still giving her validation.

Even a hot hooker would be better.

askme
askme

settling for a "conservative" brown girl when you can brainwash a whait waifu

BinaryMan
BinaryMan

Damn guys, some of you are literally hopeless with women.

Reading this thread makes me feel alright. Even though i am an ugly poor loser i at least manage to get hot girlfriends and i can get my fuck on when i dont have one.

kizzmybutt
kizzmybutt

Being alone and alcoholic= hetero
Being around girls=gay
Kek

Deadlyinx
Deadlyinx

Because it's too costly for both parties to divorce.

eGremlin
eGremlin

him being vague about his situation is wrong

yeah because you want a girl to love you for your money.
faggy white knight

PurpleCharger
PurpleCharger

your stupid ass probably would go telling a girl about your millions as soon as you met her.

Dreamworx
Dreamworx

the narrative from women that we get is that if you really love someone looks (or money) shouldn't matter.

they drill us with that all the time.
it's certainly warranted if you call them out on it.

Need_TLC
Need_TLC

they were voting away from feminism, not toward conservative christan girls.

BunnyJinx
BunnyJinx

Awesome!

Illusionz
Illusionz

What about fuck buddies?

farquit
farquit

mfw lonely and a virgin through my late teens and early twenties.
Let several potential girlfriends slip through the cracks, due to lack of investment / interest. Figure it was nerves or just immaturity.
Long for a girlfriend who I can feel close to, and sex of course.
Recently start online dating. Meet a nice girl, hard worker, willing to put up with my shit and do a lot of the 'work'.
We go on a date, it goes well.
I realize that I actually really love my single lifestyle and financial independence.
I realize I'm in love with the IDEA of love, romance and sex.
I ended it before it could really begin.
Now months later I'm in a strange sort of limbo. I still want sex, but was raised with principles, so no quickies or prostitutes. For so long I thought a relationship was the key to long term happiness and the major puzzle piece to 'making it' as an adult. But I also realize, at least at this point in my life, it's not for me/

I mean, I still don't want to die alone. I reckon I'll just get a mail order bride, so to speak, in my mid-thirties and knock her up. Family is important to me, perhaps the most important thing. Having a few kids would make me happy enough long term, and even if she leaves me after she gets her citizenship, I can make sure she doesn't run off with the kids, and maybe go get another wife if I really liked the situation.

SomethingNew
SomethingNew

Try r9k

massdebater
massdebater

...why? Because I'm happy being single, and realize that my libido can be dealt with easier than by dating? Or because I might want a wife one day, and realize there are women less high maintenance than western ones, who would be happy just to live in my country? It's not edgy or terrible, it's looking at things impassionately and giving my take on OPs question based on my experiances and feelings.

TreeEater
TreeEater

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StonedTime
StonedTime

this

I love the whole redpillsphere but people will need to understand that a relationship works two ways

Sex alone isn't enough for a woman like it is for a man (no matter how good it is). Most of them know they have a clock ticking and are in a rush to settle. Nothing wrong with that, infact it should be praised.

VisualMaster
VisualMaster

what is so bad about paying for small things?

you want to be a man (provider alpha) but not a man

look don't let her take the piss but would you really go out to eat or to a bar and make your gf pay. Idk mate it'd just feel a little weird for me. Maybe it's my pride

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