who else here /lonely driver/ this valentines day
/ldg/ - lonely drivers general
I had my first ever date this past Friday at 24.
Very much me.
Having a gf on valentines day isn't all that it's cracked up to be. Gotta buy them things or they get mad.
Sad. Wife left me 2 weeks ago.
The loneliness is unbearable, and I haven't been feeling motivated to work on either of my cars. Any sudden burst of inspiration I get usually only last an hour or so before my mind wanders and I find myself loosly clutching my wrench while tears begin to drop onto my fender.
Never had a gf, as it stands, doesn't look like I'll get one any time soon. I'm on the verge of giving up. Should I remove my passenger seat and be forever alone?
Happened to me once, I was ostracized by her friends and my friends that whiteknighted beside her.
>Hur we spent a whole day at the beach doing what I wanted to do but you didn't buy me anything
>>We did what YOU wanted and you didn't get me anything either
>What? Are you just being cheap or a dickhead?
A dickhead, I decided, since she had to find her own way home 50km away. Fucking princesses.
Not sure I approve, but I've never understood why, at least from a consumerist point of view, why 'Valentines day' is translated to mean 'Absolutely pamper your girlfriend/wife or you're a cheap, lazy asshole'.
Have money, dont be fat, get style advice.
If you are really really ugly and cant be unfat have a lot of money. That is literally all it takes.If you are still young it is not impossible to be rich by 40. Its very achievable.
Hall mark started it then the jewlery companies jumped in. That is why. So they could peddle their shit you dont need but you should give to someone anyway.
i like the way you think my dude
>The loneliness is unbearable, and I haven't been feeling motivated to work on either of my cars. Any sudden burst of inspiration I get usually only last an hour or so before my mind wanders and I find myself loosly clutching my wrench while tears begin to drop onto my fender.
this is art
If you don't feel like working on them, take them out for a spin and drive like them hard. It'll make you feel better
You're free
>wake up
>don't have to text anybody
>can do whatever the fuck I want
>but most importantly, I don't have to spend money on others on a random day of the year (unless it's someone's bday but none of my friends have their bday on valentine's)
Honestly m8 it's better this way. If you don't have kids its a pretty good situation all things considered. Now you can have money and do whatever you want without having to explain to anyone. Get out and drive. Like, far. Bring a thousand bucks, some tools, spare parts, take your best car and just go. No destination, just leave. Drive to towns you've never been to, go to different bars, visit landmarks and only drive back roads and twisty highways. then come back and see how you feel. thats what I did when I broke up with my fiance. Made me feel amazing.
Give me your secrets
I recently realized that I have never in my life experienced intimacy with a another person. Since then I've just had this sinking feeling in my gut like I'm farther away from everyone else now.
At least 2D will always be there for me. And cars.
when you find one of her hairs on the passenger seat headrest after months of lonely driving
Great advice user. I always drive as hard as possible to clear my head when shit's going wrong. It puts you in a position where you physically can't think about it. Just try wallowing in self pity when the next turn is coming at you fast and there's no guard rail separating you from the bottom of that canyon.
Plus if everything goes right you will never have to wallow or think about anything for the rest of your existence :^)
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holy fug
>this thread
shit thing is, i know a couple guys who are/were banned from seeing their kids at all while still being basically broke paying child support and not being able to go to court to try change it cos that costs money
>At least 2D will always be there for me. And cars.
What if they ban 2D?
And what happens when they ban IC-engines and make selfdriving cars mandatory?
These are things I fear everyday of my existence.
Because those things are the only things I have left that give me joy in life
You can't ban 2D. Even if they did it would exist forever. If there's a will there's a way, just like with how illegal media currently works.
Your second point is frighteningly likely, though.
My ex gf and i had our last date last valentines day, shes probably spending this valentines day with her new boyfriend. Found one of her hairs the other day searching through old holiday stuff. Feels bad man.
No way they are going to take my chinese cartoons and manually operated car from me.
I will personally see out the guy who makes anything of this a reality. And I can assure you that he wont have a fun time
My wife won't ride with me in my car because it scares her.
I didn't ask for this feel
Remember, if they take everything from you, the only thing you will have left to give is violence.
Thanks for reminding me of this holiday. Haven't had a Valentine's date since I was 17, possibly 18.
>After typing this I remember my horrible Tinder experience on Valentine's day
Truthfully, I've had opportunities. However I've yet to meet anyone I liked as much the girl I dated in HS. I've seen others and even had one move in with me. Unfortunately non of them compare to how eccentric she was. I'm always reminded when the only thing they want to do is sit around and watch TV. Once they get comfortable they all have the same attitude, and it's frustrating. That's about the time I can't take it anymore.
The girl from HS moved to California and we both agreed we wouldn't bother with a long distance relationship. She still calls from time to time, but I wish she wouldn't. Kind of tempted to visit, however I believe she started smoking cigarettes.
I've been considering this. Lately, a lot. I just have a few tuning issues to sort out then I think I'm going for it.
Start in my home state, Michigan, then head towards California. I'm thinking of stopping in for one of the socal meetups. Never been to California, except to go snorkeling.
>Start in Michigan
>Head down to Clingmans Dome & Deals Gap
>Shoot across the map towards California
>Co-worker started taking additional shifts while we were short staffed, pulling in 75-90 hour work weeks
>His child support went up due to the increase of income
>When he went back to a normal work schedule after two months his child support never came back down
>Tried to sort it out but they told him he needs an attorney
>Has zero custody of his kid, his ex came from a wealthy family
>Had to borrow money to get his child support to come down, worked something out with the boss to get paid in cash if he puts in additional hours
>Oh somebody kill me please,
>somebody kill me plee-ase,
>I'm on my knees,
>pretty pretty please kill me.
>I want to die.
>Put a bullet in my head
nobody cares faggot
>break up with GF on her birthday November of 2016 after a huge fight
>she had given me a bullshit ultimatum about making more money and didn't give any support despite me being in a suicidal rut
>three weeks later she's burning coal
>a month and a half later signs a lease with the guy
>she was obviously cheating but I don't give a fuck, it's Tyrone's problem now
>start focusing only on work and myself
>drop 40 pounds and get promoted at work
>go back to school, straight As
>she totals her car
>I buy a new car
>she gets some shitty job selling bras in a mall and quits
>unemployed for a month
>comes back to the same company I work for after she quit and is now my subordinate
>hundreds of more dollars in my bank account because no thot draining me of what little money I make
>checked her twitter today and find out she's blogging about being depressed and now her PS4 reformatted itself and she lost all her game saves
>hear from a mutual friend that she's always getting on her nigger boyfriend's nerves because she's clingy and unstable
>software engineering internship offering that will lead to a $70k/yr job
>accepted to good uni in the city
>she spends $20k/yr to go to (((DeVry))) for a "human resources degree" even though DeVry is being sued by its students right now for fraud
I'm winning boys
Going on year 6 my boys, y'all have a good V-Day
what made you decide to improve yourself?
idk man I'm 21 and am a 1%er (rich kid) and still a KHHV. maybe I'm just not flaunting it enough
I work retail and my boss never finished his undergrad and still works in retail and is married to some hideous ogre hunchback of a woman. I don't want to end up like him.
as good a motivation as any
Literally taking a girl out on a pity date tomorrow because she’s kind of my friend I guess and I neeed to get out if the house for a bit anyway.
Gonna go on another date Saturday with a girl I met at the library. Wish my best gf was here though, she’s gone right now at uni and I’d rather go out with her
The misfortune of others is the sweetest of nectars.
Went through a shitty break up about a month ago and I'm still not over it. Gonna be driving through my favorite backroads till this piece of shit dies on me.
The fact you're still keeping up with her life ad haven't moved on yet means she's winning user
>when you no women to steal all your time and money
Nice cars user
me
>only girl who ever reciprocated my feelings senior year of high school had an absolutely insane dad who threatened me when all we ever did was text each other and see each other at work
>can feel myself slipping back into depression
>tfw econobox car that's not worth doing anything to
>tfw midwest so flat straight roads
>tfw I don't even know why I'm going to college
>tfw no purpose in life
>tfw pointless human being
fuck
I kinda know this feel.
she doesnt trust/respect you and you dont need her
>opens thread about being lonely
>gets mad at someone sharing a story about when they werent lonely
dont be this guy
i see merit in forgetting about people but i can see it being uplifting for user to see the good decision he made in leaving her and seeing what would happen if he acted like a awful human being
Lonely driver cheking in. Being unsuccessful with all damn relationshits I've been at, spending this day with my only friend. My car. Actually I am texting this from my phone (I know, I should feel ashamed being a phoneposter, but only this way I can spend time in my car and be here. I am not using my phone when driving, don't worry I am not a retard). I have bought my car some simple things today, preparing for some small maintenance soon (you know, spark plugs, air filter and fuel filter. Oil is still fine, so both with be changed at an MOT few months from now on).
I am sorry to hear this, bro. It sucks.
Kind of same happened to me at the beginning of this year. Feels really bad and I still can't get over it as well. Been driving pointlessly around every single fucking free moment of my time when I am not at work.
Day almost over, I enjoyed myself, read a book then I got on my car without knowing where to go, without a care in the world, just got back. God I love being me, though I do feel sorry for the less fortunate anons
I care, faggot
Stick in there, user
Thanks my dude
You just say this as nothing. Truth is, nobody cares about us, lonely drivers, if we ever come back home in one piece from our routes. And I will fucking tell you why this is true - because there is nobody there waiting. Nothing's gonna change, we are bound to die alone.
I miss her so fucking much. Driving recklessly through the same 2-3 backroads when I don't have class/work is the only thing that keeps my mind off it. Hope things get better for you, user.
> 24 years of vergin
> literally couldn't care less
the only thing that makes me mad is that nobody had time to do some stuff today because 'm-muh gf time!'
Just become one of your bro's gf. Problem solved
All of you that are bitching about muh breakup need to shut the fuck up.
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nah man, all the stuff I heard about relationships suck, also absolutely no homo
>opens thread about being lonely
>starts shitting up by sharing a story about when they weren't lonely
don't be this guy
I didn't even know it was valentines day until this morning. Being single isn't that bad though. I'm 21 and I've been single for almost three years, I just try to keep myself busy rather than focusing on how alone I am.
I understand your pain, bro. Just rember not to crash. Whatever hard this is, crashing your car and/or killing yourself in the process is not worth ANY cunt. Don't let the bitch win, bro.
user they're currently lonely
Don't do this user. By doing so you will end up missing the only window of time to actually find a gf. You will become one of us, bitter fucking 30-ish yr old faggots wishing they had done differently when we were in about 20-ties.
is it worth all the cunts in the world?
the only thing separating me from r9k is i try to be social but ive never had a gf, only rejection and loneliness because everyone wants me around when im funny, but otherwise when im serious or anything else they want me to stay away
Well I wish I could meet somebody, but I don't know anyone or where to meet people, plus I'm a social retard. I might try online dating soon but I don't have high hopes for that.
>being such an estrogen filled soyboy that you just NEED to bring reddit to Veeky Forums
Don't be this guy
Only way is to meat someone through someone you already know from anywhere, be it your work mate or a friend or some car people. Just don't go online or tinder whatever unless you want some bitter feelings. I know what I am saying.
keep trying, at least you have a social circle you can spent time in, sooner or later you will find a gf this way.
>being such an illiterate, socially-inept retard that you can't read the thread title or social cues
>"no one cares about your opinion, but people care that i dont care"
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>having an autistic meltdown over the fact that people are bantering in your gay relationship thread
Kek, choke on your dildo collection
>all the assrage itt
You virgins are lucky, I have to now go buy flowers and chocolate for my gf.
We've decided to postpone fine dining till the weekend as service is typically awful on valentines day.
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Yeah, as it should be, retard.
What the fuck is your problem?
>mfw gay
he's into cars too, we wrench on our shitboxes nearly every day
Learn to read and you'll find out.
You first.
It's Valentine's day. R8 the oneitis
> By doing so you will end up missing the only window of time to actually find a gf. You will become one of us, bitter fucking 30-ish yr old faggots wishing they had done differently when we were in about 20-ties.
holy fug are u me?
>3D
>download (5)
>thumbnail
0/10
I don't need to read anything, inbred, you're crying at me.
Honestly, what's a gf if not a waste of time and money?
>being this much of a faggot in a feels thread
get back in your whip and drive out of here user
picking up your mom from rehab is not a date, prez/o/
>muh feels
geez, just kys
Why are you in this thread then
She's gorgeous
keep crying bitchnigga
giving you tough love to help you with your feels.
I'll try my best not to die and or crash. Thanks man.
Is that Marsh Creek rd?
Lonely driver checking in. Waiting for the snow so I can do some dorifuting
kinda looks like it huh
>You will become one of us, bitter fucking 30-ish yr old faggots wishing they had done differently when we were in about 20-ties.
Yeah, that's me.
There's another road in the Orinda/Moraga area (can't remember off the top of my head but it's either nearby skyline blvd, or in that general area) that it could be too.
I doubt it's bear creek rd or I simply don't pay attention to that backroad enough.
I just want a gf who enjoys cars as much as I do
I just want a gf