Hey guys, We are two illustration students studying at the Willem de Kooning college in Rotterdam. We are doing a project about taboos, and the taboo we would like to flesh out a bit more is Pedophilia. What if you find out you're attracted to kids? What would you do? What should you do? Is it something inherently evil?
Any comments will be appreciated! Thanks in advance
>What would you do if you found out you are attracted to kids I would suppress it, given that my sex drive wouldn't be any bigger than it is now. I survived the horny years of puberty without having sex, and still I didn't feel like raping anybody or even taking advantage of others. I wouldn't tell anybody, though. I would be terribly afraid of what people would be thinking of me and afraid of losing my closest friends. My family would probably be supportive, but I know they would be disappointed.
>What should you do? Tell at least my family, certainly.
>Is it something inherently evil? No, it's not your fault for having a certain sexual orientation
Lucas Clark
P I Z Z A G A T E
James Kelly
>pedo >sexual orientation
Pick one
Jacob Thomas
It's probably the real cause of many suicides that are officially attributed to something else. That's just a guess though. Like someone becoming so depressed and hopeless realizing the horror in his very being.
Samuel Rodriguez
Is it even possible for someone to be attracted to kids exclusively?
Nolan Mitchell
probably seek treatment and therapy from a non-Jewish doctor
Landon Campbell
>seek treatment and therapy Isn't that almost impossible for that?
Charles Gonzalez
Wat een kankerdraad zeg.
Jaxson Allen
I think the only "treatment" for pedophilia is libido suppressing drugs. Like trying to heal gays.
Owen Campbell
if I were a pedophile there would be some root cause for it that a got therapist would illuminate for me
Brayden Cruz
Go ask /b/, you'll probably get some good answers
Gabriel Reyes
*goy therapist
Charles Jenkins
Yeah right, that therapist would promptly report you the to authorities right after your session.
Alexander Martinez
kek
Liam Peterson
but I haven't committed a crime
Wyatt Bell
Since God hates pedos, i would repent.
Carter Torres
It wouldn't be a crime to just feel attraction to kids
Unless you confessed to the therapist that you molested kids, in which case, yeah.
Carter Allen
>tell your family you're a pedophile kek, imagine the family meetings >young nephew comes up >hey user want to play? >sure! >everyone looks at you with a horrified face
Evan Bailey
Pedos are so hated, I wouldn't put it passed therapists and the police to act on just being attracted.
Lucas Kelly
Neither did the guys who showed up on To Catch A Predator
Jason Barnes
Hoe oud zijn jullie? >Inherently evil >Objective morality
Moralists get out plz
Andrew Miller
Ask /a/
Levi Hall
>therapists Nah, vindictive cunts tend to wash out of social services unless they find work where they can actually control people, like tard wranglers.
The problem with therapy and pedophilia is that it's a hugely understudied issue so vast majority of therapists will not be able to offer anyone any substantial insight on the matter. Therapists working with pedophiles tend to deal mostly with the pedo's other issues like OCD or anxiety disorders as a means of mitigation.
>police Sure.
Robert Collins
>To Catch A Predator >look it up
Holy shit that's retarded If a minor goes around asking for sex, of course some men are gonna oblige, doesn't even needs to be people with that particular preference.
Leo Sanders
I haven't watch a lot of TCaP but I thought the deal was the bait never actually initiated any lewd discussion and would only respond to lewd talk with short yes or no answers (Q: u haev condoom? A: no lol).
Lincoln Walker
The wikipedia article said the bait was often the one to bring up sex I never really watched it though so no idea if it's right
Jason Reyes
>unironically defending kiddy diddly fiddlers even in the tiniest aspect Pedos are mentally ill and should be castrated.
Brayden Morgan
Is loli an acceptable outlet for these men?
Adrian Walker
It's unjust to punish someone for feeling something they can't control.
Angel Rodriguez
I just fap to 2D and don't take it any further, never told anyone but my closest friend. Not my choice, won't do anything stupid that could get me in trouble.
Xavier Jackson
So close to 4 repeating numbers... >What if you find out you're attracted to kids? I know i am attracted to kids before I even started becoming an adult. >What would you do? Watch hentai, resist the urges >What should you do? As long as I can contain myself, nothing.
This is a question about self-control as is with anything that you know is illegal and might get you in trouble.
Some people want to shoot up schools, some really want to fuck kids
As long as you dont DO anything, nobody should be able to do anything to you.
Alexander Lopez
Some are born with the condition of liking children. Personally im pedophobic. I hate children.
Jason Edwards
Not in Germany. They offer treatment for pedos.
Lincoln Rodriguez
There is no real treatment though
Brandon Gutierrez
palliative treatment
Jordan Turner
>What if you find out you're attracted to kids? What would you do? What should you do?
I am attracted to children. There is not much you can do, besides fapping to lolicon and try to divertente your desires away. I suppose there is a way to cope in a way that may allow you to set it aside for long periods of time, but I did not have much luck in getting it from a psychologist/psychotherapist, as in my case they are steadfast in their denial.
Is it inherently evil? The act of having sex with kids is rape, fair and square, but the desires are something else entirely. We are talking about the only sexual orientation (there are proofs leading to that, but it is not conclusive) that has no way of working out ever, or it would require extreme circumnstances to qualify as a normal sexual act; so it is not something one wants to do willy-nilly, but it is not something one and accept lightheartedly either.
James Ward
>What if you find out you're attracted to kids? What would you do? What should you do?
I'd seek therapy.
>Is it something inherently evil?
It is not, but we can't let adults, that know and admit they are sexually attracted to children, stay unchecked and just shrug it off.
Unsated desires leads to frustration, frustration leads to the act.
Maybe today you swear that you wouldn't harm a child even though you want to sex them, but will you be able to control yourself if you get emotionally destabilized because of something like losing your job?
Cooper Parker
Thanks for your reply!
What do you think society should do with the issue? Should they offer extra opportunities for pedophiles to change? Or is it only the rapist ones we should be worried about and remove the stigma around the sexuality itself?
Austin Kelly
You can also give drugs to suppress a homosexual's libido and call it "palliative treatment"
[spoiler]I'm not saying pedophiles shouldn't ever do it cause it has different societal implications. Just something to think about[/spoiler]
Jordan Long
The difference is that homosexuals are now considered mostly welcome to practice their sexuality in society. If homosexuality was still stigmatized such that their sexuality would be a terrible idea to act on, suppression would be a valid from of palliative treatment.
Regardless of the morality of the issue, the fact that society would murder you if you acted on your desires means that suppressing your desires would indeed be a stress reliever for a pedo.
Stress and frustration lead to bad choices that can hurt people around you no matter who or how you are. Also, considering your desire to assert control over someone, why would they admit anything to you? All you've done is give pedos a reason to not be truthful with you.
Elijah Gonzalez
What do you mean by change?
Society has a legitimate concern regarding all pedos as potential abusers, however protecting children and respecting people who've done no wrong don't have to be mutually exclusive.
Basically all data shows that the more someone is integrated into society, the less likely they are to carry antisocial activity. Ostracizing pedos can lead to a 'cornered rat' situation where a pedo may feel like he has no reason NOT to abuse a child since he has nothing left to live for anyways. Might as well do it and kill himself if he gets caught.
Adrian Murphy
The problem is that it all depends on wheter a cure (as in a pill, an injection or something of that nature which, if taken regulary, will eliminate desire for children without also damaging normal sexual activity) is possible or not. The possibility of an actual cure should bring about an encouragment for Paedophile to "take their meds," in a system like: ree of charge or exclusive Paedophiles that didn't offend, half price for non-exclusives that didn't offend and full price for who offended.
If the cure turned out to be either impossible or Forbidden due o the Isle of possible unwanted uses if tweaked (I suspect that LQGTB groups would be afraid of it being modified to enforce heterosexuality and homophobes would Scream Bloody Murder at he mere thought of "gay pills"), then the only way to go about it would be eliminate he stigma around non-offenders and focus on actual child molesters.
Personally? I hope there is a cure and that emotions will not prevail that day.
Kayden Morris
Would the victims even feel bad about what happened to them if society didn't tell them they should feel bad?
William Lee
Paar van die kankerzweverige kunstenaarskindjes met lang vet haar waarschijnlijk.
Christian Thompson
Controversial, but I'd say no unless we're talking literal rape.
Jacob Roberts
Plenty of adults regret consensual sex.
It would obviously feel pretty bad to be a naive child and have sex with someone you thought loved you because they gave you attention, and then later grow up and find out they're really just a creep who only wanted to have sex with you, and have possibly been doing the same thing with other children in the meanwhile.
John Hill
Regardless of how you feel about pedophilia, pedos that kidnap kids deserve no mercy.
Isaiah Flores
This isn't necessarily specific to being a child.
Also, it's a very contemporary situation. In the past cases of what we would call pedophilia today were often followed or preceded by marriage.
Lucas Lewis
Sexual urged can easily overule hatred.
Adam Miller
How would you know? Are you pedophobe AND pedophile?
Jaxon Cox
FUCK OFF NSA
>people replying seriously even if its ironic to a honeypot thread
Aaron Stewart
Nothing illegal has been posted..
Oliver Morgan
I didn't say it was specific to being a child, that's why my post began with adults.
What is specific to being a child is lacking the emotional maturity to handle being manipulated and used as a sex toy. (in b4 robots post >hurr women aren't mature either)
It's an awful thing to happen to an adult, and it is often life shattering to happen to a child.
>In the past cases of what we would call pedophilia today were often followed or preceded by marriage. People did a lot of things in the past, what does that have to do with the present?
Certainly you aren't trying to say it would be a good thing for a young child with no conceptions of social or relationship norms to be married off, are you?
Jeremiah Wright
>Certainly you aren't trying to say it would be a good thing for a young child with no conceptions of social or relationship norms to be married off, are you? Children have a very good conception of social and relationship norms, they just don't have the sexual development. And yes being married is better than the scenario you described where she's being used.
>What is specific to being a child is lacking the emotional maturity This romantic view is at the root of why pedophilia is no longer ok today. Back then the woman didn't particularly need emotional maturity to be married. She was leaving the care of her family (and her father) and entering the care of the husband, who was then responsible for her well being. A modern romantic relationship expects maturity from both sides, which is why it can't include children, who are immature.
But, i don't think you can say these very young brides were necessarily unhappy. There is nothing biological that determines that a relationship of this type involving a child is doomed to cause suffering. It happens because of the way society works today.
Bentley Young
>What if you find out you're attracted to kids? the world keeps spinning, I keep breathing for at least a while.
>What would you do? masturbate to loli doujins like I already do.
>What should you do? you can't derive an "ought" from an "is". at best I can choose an optimal path for a goal that I arbitrarily choose based off of abstract preferences or experiences.
>Is it something inherently evil? is anything inherently evil? where is it written in the fabric of the cosmos "murder is wrong"? where does it read on the quark of an atom "humans have inherent rights"?
hopefully you're asking those last two questions from within the general perspective of society, or else your school's philosophical education program is trash
Dylan Hernandez
check out native hawaiian culture, as well as some other oceanic cultures. people were trained sexually from childhood.
Nathan Edwards
>Children have a very good conception of social and relationship norms No, they don't. Full stop.
>And yes being married is better than the scenario you described where she's being used. Correction: being married off IS being used.
>the rest of your post Oh, you're one of those people. You know I really did try giving you the benefit of the doubt.
Luis Robinson
>no they don't >yes it is >ewww you're one of THOSE people
Nice arguments retard kys
Grayson Bell
polynesian culture also happens to be full of insane psycho-sexual hang ups.
Henry Reed
nowadays, because western culture wandered in and implemented moral codes and such that largely conflicted with their traditions. either way, psychological "issues" are largely subjective, relative concepts. s m d h why am I even explaining this kiddie concept, what happened to Veeky Forums? I thought we got through phil 101 months ago.
Alexander Reyes
God is a pedo by modern standards--he knocked up Mary, who was 12/13 and married to Joseph, who would also be considered a pedo considering his advanced age.
Nolan Parker
what the fuck are you talking about?
>either way, psychological "issues" are largely subjective, relative concepts. sure, but objectively most people in the society you live in have come to an agreement that they'll castrate you if you try to touch a child, so good luck using subjectivity as a defense for that.
Samuel Sullivan
>Is it something inherently evil? you're spookin me out
Tyler Ross
>appeal to tradition >outright lies Nice arguments retard kys
(meanwhile my arguments have the full support of nearly all of society while you are in real actual danger of killing yourself after getting busted for cp)
Jack Davis
Did you somehow get the idea that i'm defending pedophile relationships? Even though i was careful to note that what worked before, won't necessarily work today because things changed for a reason?
Fucking projecting idiot.
Mason Hill
what do you mean "what the fuck am I talking about"? I was clear in my language. do you have any specific questions?
>sure, but objectively most people in the society you live in have come to an agreement that they'll castrate you if you try to touch a child, so good luck using subjectivity as a defense for that. how is this relevant in any way? what does this have to do with oceanic culture or psychological stability?
Owen Adams
look up what a "bandwagon argument" is and educate yourself in logical reasoning some. fucking juvenile.
Cameron Jenkins
How the fuck did this shit even get published
Angel Lee
Everything not forbidden is allowed
It's a wierd manga because it raises a few real concerns about pedophiles, and then proceeds to take loli fanservice up to 11 at the same time.
But the second part is in the epilogue when the girl is 16, that image was made mostly for humor.
Isaiah Ross
Because you flatly are. Why are you trying to weasel around that now? Do you seriously think even a single person reading your posts would think that you aren't posting here for the explicit intention of justifying pedophilic relationships? The entire point of your posts was that "it worked before (no it didn't, children suffered for it back then too) with the implicit argument that we should 'return to the good ole days'.
Like seriously who do you think you're kidding?
As an aside it's hilarious that your response to me calling you a liar is to double down on the lies.
What the fuck are you talking about that insane Polynesian sexual ideas and myths are the result of outside influences and not their own heritage? Can you post something along that suggests that?
Jayden Mitchell
Accusing me of having a hidden agenda to promote pedophilia is retarded and not an argument.
Like if after someone said "well feudalism worked to protect farmers from raiders" you sperged out accusing the person of trying to bring back feudalism.
Adam Roberts
By a woman.
Anthony Martinez
I dunno about the first 3 questions. I don't think so. But i am kind of experimenting on myself and the results so far are...fancy.
Nicholas Davis
Who cares, the dude divorced his wife and married the girl he cheated on his wife with, who was barely legal while he was 40+, it's a joke.
William Cooper
Oooh, now this is a treat...
Recommended readings anybody?
Zachary Brooks
She was 15 actually.
Angel Adams
A number of reason:
a) It was written by a woman (a kind of messed up one according to her friends, but they don't advertise her mental state obviously) which meant it would be easier for the publisher to sell b) The very thing which made the series controversial also made it well known, which lead to bigger sales c) The publishers would role out the whole "freedom of expression" thing whenever a politician got mad about it*
It was actually a really cute and extremely sweet manga. Precocious little loli Kokonoe was. Fortunately Aoki was a truly virtuous man.
Jacob Anderson
They did make it very clear that the marks had to be the one to initiate talks about sex and hookups.
Otherwise what they did would count as "honey potting" and the pedo's in question would be able to take them to court over it, instead of the other way round.
Christian Gutierrez
>Is it something inherently evil? You are talking about pedophilia, which is a sexual predisposition. Predispositions inherently can't be morally evaluated, since someone having them neither brought them into existence, nor can do anything about it.
Only actions and inactions can be judged.
Anthony Scott
Short answer, No.
If you are attracted to older women, but are socially inept like most of us here, you probably jack off to anime porn. Nothing wrong with that.
But it's foolish to think that that is enough to completely satisfy someone. If a man who mostly jacked it to pictures of anime characters was given the choice at this moment to either jack off or go fuck a 10/10 woman dressed like their favorite character, 99 times out of 100 theyre going to choose the latter.
This is not to say that people into 2D kids are necessarily pedos, but a pedo who jacks it to 2D kids is eventually going to have the urge to move onto something better if presented with the option. And on the internet, there is always the option if you know where to look.
Jason Baker
Isn't there support groups to help people with paedophilia urges? I'd probably join one of those.
Camden Flores
>only sexual orientation that has no way of working out ever
What about bestiality?
Cameron Campbell
Here's an idea:
People are already in talks of sex bots being created and sold sometime within our lifetimes.
Could this serve as a possible healthy outlet for pedophiles? Or would the stigma against it still be too great?
Mason Lewis
What about xenosexuality i.e. sex with aliens?
Dylan Torres
Or necrophilia?
Daniel Allen
Pedophiles are sick bastards. No one sane would ever suggest removing a little girl's clothes and licking her tiny body all over, nibbling her neck and kissing her adorable little nipples. Only a heartless monster would think about her cute girlish mouth and tongue wrapped around a thick cock slick with her saliva, pumping in and out of her mouth until it erupts, the cum more than her little throat can swallow. The idea of thick viscous semen overflowing, dribbling down her chin over her flat chest, her tiny hands scooping it all up and watching her suck it off her fingertips is just horrible. You're all a bunch of sick perverts, thinking of spreading her smooth slender thighs, cock poised at the entrance to her pure, tight, virginal pussy, and thrusting in deep as a whimper escapes her lips which are slippery with cum, while her small body shudders from having her cherry taken in one quick stroke. I am disgusted at how you'd get even more excited as you lean over her, listening to her quickening breath, her girlish moans and gasps while you hasten your strokes, her sweet pants warm on your face and her flat chest, shiny with a sheen of fresh sweat, rising and falling rapidly to meet yours. It is truly nasty how you'd run your hands all over her tiny body while you violate her, feeling her nipples hardening against your tongue as you lick her chest, her neck and her armpits, savoring the scent of her skin and sweat while she trembles from the stimulation and as she reaches her climax, hearing her cry out softly as she has her first orgasm while that cock is buried impossibly deep inside her, pulsing violently as an intense amount of hot cum spurts forth and floods through her freshly-deflowered pussy for the first time, filling her womb only to spill out of her with a sickening squelch. And as you lie atop her flushed body, she murmurs breathlessly, "You came so much inside of me," then her fingers dig into your back as she feels your cock hardening inside again.
Hudson Jackson
Sign an agreement with the person while still alive. Ez
Daniel Turner
Thats pretty fucked up.
Noah Young
you're the one who brought "insane polynesian sexual ideas" up. I don't know what they are, it's just obvious that if they're having issues with sexual identity it's because they got a second conflicting culture plastered all over their pre-existing one. I don't know what these issues are, and as I already stated psychological "issues" are subjective and relative and are hardly real in the first place. you brought them up. if you bring something up and don't know what it is, that's your problem, not mine.
Cooper Jenkins
Only by western standards. In many parts of Asia, the age of consent is 14.
Hunter Murphy
What about deisexuality?
You know, having boners for Jesus or God, whom I couldn't possible fuck.
Asher Parker
Never heard of this, can you post some info about that?
Jaxson Morgan
You don't know the suffering of being a Deisexual atheist
"Sex training was direct and firsthand. Young individuals learned of coitus and sex play from instruction, direct observation, and practice. As they slept in the family house (hale noa), they observed their parents having coitus. In the Mangaian Islands, any person may copulate at any age, in the single room of a hut that contains from five to fifteen family members of all ages. A daughter may receive and make love with each of her varied nightly suitors in the same room. But under most conditions, all of this takes place without social notice: everyone seems to be looking in another direction.
The young observed dogs, pigs, and other animals mating, and these activities were discussed openly with parents or other adults. Parturition was not a secret event and was well attended by the young and by adults, all of whom observed traditions that included the washing and burying of the placenta and, usually, the disposing of the umbilical cord.
Young Polynesians acquired sex education in day-by-day exposure to precepts, practices, and attitudes concerning sex. Childish curiosity about sex was satisfied, with neither guilt nor shame instilled. With variations depending upon rank, region, and social circumstances, the young individual learned the lore of Tapu, social restraints and preferences, and attitudes toward both sex for procreation or love and sex for fun and pleasure. Each kind of sex was appreciated for its own value."
Connor Sanders
What if they visit you in your dreams?
Benjamin Scott
What's happiness like? I know I'm probably asking an atheist drowning in pussy but just in case..