Veeky Forums i am making probably the biggest mistake of my life. I am starting a business with my gf whom i have been dating for 4 years now and i dont even like her physically.
She is smart, caring, loving and cooks well and is obsessed with fitness but whenever i look at her i am trying to find at least one part of her body that i like and i cant find one.
I dont know what i am doing with my life we just had this great idea for a business and without her i wouldnt do it alone. She is always asking me when i will marry her and i dont even imagine future together let alone letting her raise my children.
I envy you neets you dont have to worry about shit like that.
I am telling you this because i have no friends to talk about this to.
I guess worst case scenario suicide is always an option
What would you do in my situation?
Veeky Forums i am making probably the biggest mistake of my life...
go balls deep
Theres no other option, you must kill her
Same, I'm not in love with my gf of two years anymore but I don't really want to go back to being alone
Go on no fap, try not to compare her to other women.
>Not in love with my gf anymore
You're going to have disagreements, but you should always want to try and work things out.
you will never find someone that clicks with you on every single aspect
ask yourself if all things considered you really want to be with her or not.
considering you're posting to Veeky Forums for relationship advice i'm going to think no is the answer
Break up with her you limp dick cuckold. Staying in a relationship when your gut feeling screams at you to get out, will only make you miserable.
You will start to neglect her, everything she does will start to annoy you, and in the long run you will start to lash out and send the entire relationship spiraling into an abyss of misery, pain and hurt.
You owe it to both of you to get out now. I learned that the hard way.
Sorry for your situation bro. :(
Get a side girl. girls like when you have another woman, it means youre prequalified. then make your side girl your main girl. then repeat until you get one you can tolerate
Actually 4 years is long time like for relationship You don't like. It's very bad to not be straight with other people. So you wanna marry and fu ck up your life with woman You don't even want? Congratz, great idea. Have some balls and act like a man. Or be a pussy for rest of you life. Unhappy pussy. Your choice :)
Was in your situation, dumped here before we moved, been alone 3 years now and slightly depressed, no worries though. Still happy i did it though, because i couldn't even get a boner anymore, and that's your body telling you you need to get out
Stop watching porn and get some sun
Here's a life question biz: when you adopt a previously abused dog, how do you put it's sad story behind it and focus on the life you can give it now?
And here's one thing when you're a kid: when you're interested in a girl, she hasn't had a life before you. Anyone you want to be with is a clean slate. At best, maybe she's had a couple firsts.
Once you get to 20-25, every single woman you'll ever be interested in will have had a life before you. She'll have fallen in love before, had heartbreaks, had her young passionate sex at 14 trying not to alert her parents with her 17 year old boyfriend, already had enough drinks for the novelty to wear off, and already grew up without you.
How the fuck do you get over that?
>I am starting a business with my gf
Don't shit where you eat user.
Jesus fucking christ.
>What would you do in my situation?
I would say to her that we shouldn't go into business together making up some shit like
>"Baby, I love you, but businesses bring out the worst in people so I don't think we should go into business together because I think you only deserve to see the best of me. I don't want to bring arguments about work home with us. And look, I know our relationship is strong enough to weather any storms, but that doesn't mean we should go into that storm at all!"
I tell you that from a Veeky Forums stand point. But when you say this
>She is always asking me when i will marry her and i dont even imagine future together let alone letting her raise my children.
Like the non-Veeky Forums in me says, at some point you need to break it off with her. Because if that's what she wants, then it's not fair to string her along.
I dunno. You got to be a fucking adult about this man. Make a decision and stick to it. You either stick with the business and the relationship. Or you end it, like a man. Either way, own your own fucking decision.
i feel you bro. whenever i voice my concerns about stuff like this i get snapped at as close minded or prude.
reality is that when you are guy #12 you're just as special as guy #13. it's current society's norms to blame really
you are thinking about something like this right op?
You never mentioned if you love her or not
You can surely fix how attracted you are to her
It seems like having a business with her has ruined your chemistry together
because I've had those firsts too and I don't get my romantic fantasies from anime
Worst part is when you know a girl fucked/dated guy X and is now interested in you, but you think guy X is a waste of oxygen subhuman. How do you view the girl?
Step 1. Slow the relationship down
Step 2. Allow her to fall to another man (just be a piece of shit and don't take care of yourself it will work)
Step 3. Either make her sign a prenup that will protect you if you do ring her, but she will most likely take the big prenup to heart and leave you for chad whom she met at the gym.
Step 4. Once she's left, start eating right, shave, go to the gym, find someone better.
5. Continue your life with a better suited women and worst case scenario you have to sacrifice part of your business start up.
You're welcome.
Current (and first) girlfriend
>really bright girl in school
>experimented with drugs at 13, was raped by a dealer
>dated dudes from 13-14 to help her get over it and not feel alone, lots of drugs and alcohol and sex
>rehab at 15-16, dated a couple more guys after, moved away at 17 to be with some rando she met on xbox, he ends up being fucked up and coerces her into sex for months and on a bad night she attempts suicide and slices up her legs
>18 she moves and reconnects with her family again, experience makes her shake her head and realize what she wants
>moves on her own in a city where she doesn't know anyone
>meets my friend at 18, i meet her after theyve been dating a couple months (Mar 2015), is controlling in their relationship and stressful, at this time she's just a girl with lot of baggage to me and I wouldn't want what he has
>she leaves my friend, we have a lot in common and connect on a friend basis
>sleep with her in nov 2015, her 19 me 22 and a virgin (was waiting for the right person, turns out the right night was a bunch of smash bros and tequila)
>don't really see her much until I leave my city and live near in may 2016 for a few months, we aren't a thing still, just close
>end up having to move away for a year
>she's willing to wait for me, but we don't nail it down, I didn't really know what I wanted at first cause a year is a long time, she sleeps with another friend of mine a month after I move, tells me in a January visit after I got the balls to nail it down with her
>have been long distance, will be moving back in a month or so to try and actually date
>In the meantime, all I've got is awful thoughts about her past and on one hand I want to help her and on the other Im disgusted (madonna/whore complex I guess)
>she says I'm the best boyfriend shes ever had, only one who actually cares, likes my sex drive, biggest cock, best in bed, only one who puts in the time, runs my fingers through her hair
>still feels like im just dude #16
Could you be more of a cuckold?
This whore is gonna give you aids and cheat on you multiple times
Maybe you should try sucking some guy's dick. You'll probably enjoy it.
You are the most beta faggot I have seen in the last 2 years. Stop increasing your cuckness level and get out forever, holy shit.
>start dating a girl not knowing too much about her except she's working to get her life together
>tells you her sad story
>"well I still think we get along well but you're too fucked up for me, see ya"
...
what's her body like?
yeah basically.
Why are you asking this
kek, this is why I come to Veeky Forums
>start dating a girl not knowing too much about her
Your first mistake.
>"well I still think we get along well but you're too fucked up for me, see ya"
Better than dating a whore and living the cuck life.
Also, from your previous post
>she sleeps with another friend of mine a month after I move
How the fuck do you keep sucking for a woman like that? She keeps proving that she is still a whore (and will keep being, these women never change), and you keep submitting yourself to her like the faggot that you are.
Listen, man, I used to be a beta faggot too, but I learned my lesson years ago. I am genuinely trying to help you here. For your own good.
Glad I could help, never hurts to write it down when you have nothing but spare time
curiousity at what body type could be so unattractive
>lose virginity to a whore
>whore tells virgin he has the biggest cock shes ever had, and is the best in bed
yeah, you are getting played because you're a good guy and she knows shes a trashcan, shes just trying to latch onto any good guy that will take her because her baggage ruins her for 90% of the competent population
find a guy who can do the job better, dumb her
Trust me my dude I have definitely considered that she is latching onto me and showing off to her family to make herself feel redeemed
I haven't been a virgin for two years, and I believe her about my dick too, that shits huge and it makes her bleed almost every time.
>I believe her about my dick too, that shits huge and it makes her bleed almost every time.
Prove by posting pic with timestamp and something that can be used for comparing (like a ruler, for example).
op you are a total pussy and deserve to feel like a beta cuck. your gf would be so much happier in the long run if you just communicated this with her. you're wasting both of your time.
>n-no homo
You just want his dick you faggot
user your business idea is probably shit
my brother and his gf are normie fags and have done several "startup" ideas and asked me to join them every time
I knew every single one of them would fail so I agreed without worrying about it too much
not a single one of those ideas went through when they went and saw the logistics of starting a business
dump both the business idea AND your girlfriend.
>baby
You need to have a serious talk with her and decide what you're going to do in the relationship. If the relationship fails, so will the business.
If you want to break up deep down in your heart, you owe it to her and yourself to do it. I wasted most of a 2.5 year relationship thinking things would get better and they never did.
well I'm not going to use my real petnames, am I!?
Looks are temporary, I'd rather stick with someone smart and caring than roastie gold-digger.
Here comes the 17 year old virgins
>Looks are temporary
This is it dude, you will always end up with a gross old hag in the end that you won't have had sex with in 10 years when you die. I guess the question is whether you wanna get used to it early or not.
>I wasted most of a 2.5 year relationship thinking things would get better and they never did.
Me too basically, on the upside I learned that I'm a stone's throw away from being a sociopath so I should probably stop involving myself with others for now.
>on the upside I learned that I'm a stone's throw away from being a sociopath
We're all on the spectrum somewhere
this
ive had some moments in life where multiple people are losing their minds crying around me, and i feel nothing
End it. Life's too short. You already know it's not going to work out and shit'll get worse as time goes on, believe me. The time you have left for finding someone who is right for you is less and less the longer you stay with her.
>if there's little doubt; there's no doubt
nice advice this guy get's it
you have to do these things and fuck lots of chicks BEFORE you think about relationships
Worst thing she is only my 2nd sexual partner
>tfw lost virginity to my gf and she lost hers to me
>cute little aussie girl (I'm American)
>get to spend our lives together
It's a good feel. She does cut herself sometimes and has anxiety issues, but we're working on it and I love her.
I want to marry an 18-22 yo virgin
I'm not interested if she's not a beautiful virgin. Protip women absorb the genetic material in semen, so if she's had other man before you, and you want kids, you'll be the father of a genetic mongrel. Only in this society men marry whores
it's clear that only a virgin is suitable for a relationship. religions know this. all men throughout the ages knew this
Stay with her man, I once had a gf just like that before i broke up with her in favor of some 8/10 roastie with the personality of a brick. Its way better to be with an ugly girl with a personality than the other way around. Remember, if you marry a girl, she's only gonna be attractive for a decade or so before she's old/flabby, no matter how attractive she was when she was young
>she slept with my buddy a month after I move, he stayed at her house for a couple weeks
>confesses to me a few months later
>I leave and justify fucking another chick and had a trap basically on call to give me head
>just as degenerate as anything she did, but I never confess
Maybe she and I deserve each other.
>She does cut herself sometimes
Man, at least my fucked up girlfriend only **used** to self harm. She needs to figure that shit out before you can actually have a happy life together, or you will begin to resent her for not being happy with you or resent yourself for letting her do it.
This
Telegony is real. Anyone have that r9k telegony study screencap?
'Telegony' by simple intercourse cannot occur in mammals as there are no biological mechanisms for it to happen, not to mention the existence of protective membranes. It might be the case if the woman had a previous pregnancy, because of lingering antibodies and such that might alter the next child's development. It goes against every biology class I had on reproduction at least.
>inb4 muh epigenetics
Yeah but you don't even need sex for that
Why the fuck hasn't anyone mentioned how bad of an idea it is to OWN A BUSINESS WITH A WOMAN?
You all keep talking about love and shit shut the fuck up this is a business board.
Married or not, if she leaves you she's taking the business, or at least will destroy it in the process. I guarantee you she won't pull weight either, and you'll end up doing 90% of everything. She's gonna leave you eventually and take half of your hard work. She won't do shit except "encourage you and provide emotional support".
Whatever your idea is, do it yourself. She won't be anything but a wedge driving you from your profits, and she'll eventually run off with AT LEAST half of it.
>It goes against every biology class I had on reproduction at least.
They don't want everyone finding out the truth
Someone post that goddamn r9k screencap
It's entertaining to believe that the world conspires against you (and it does at times), but you have to separate the wheat from the chaff.
That's true, I was mostly memeing.
But I do genuinely believe that mainstream science doesn't look into reproduction and the consequences of sex as much as they should, and that they're covering something up.
Can you post a pic of her? I might take her off you're hands!! Will she take it in the ass? If not she will
>reproduction and the consequences of sex
The only consequences of sex other than STDs are psychological. you could have sex a hundred times a day and not be affected other than maybe becoming hypersexual. It won't ruin a woman's vagina to have sex a lot, but it will ruin your perception of it if it wasn't with you
you're a cunt man, if you don't want her then at least give her the chance to find someone else while she's young. if you wait til later she's gonna find it 10x as difficult
>this moron actually shunning a girl who's obviously marriage material, maybe not the best looking
I bet you piece of shit will marry a whore who will fuck you over and leave you with nothing, and your ungrateful ass will fully deserve that.
your standards dont sound very high user
>The only consequences of sex other than STDs are psychological. you could have sex a hundred times a day and not be affected other than maybe becoming hypersexual. It won't ruin a woman's vagina to have sex a lot, but it will ruin your perception of it if it wasn't with you
Nice meme
Enlighten me.
>meet virgin qt
>get engaged after a year
>have sex with her nearly every day for three years
>she breaks it off when I have to move cross country
Vagina went from tight for a ring finger to loose for three fingers just from normal sex.
Can also tell if a girl has lied to me about how much dick she's ridden by how initially loose they are and how much that shit talks.
Sexual mileage for women is no meme.
so just take a break you twat an let her twat tighten up again
>have sex with her nearly every day
Stop for a while and come back to it and she will be tight again. It's not a permanent change dumbass.