Sexual Health

Lol are guys fucking with me? I thought that only happened to old people and fatties

If I cum early I keep fucking for a few minutes until it starts feeling good again, I dont lose my erection at all

Yes, it's called edging. Search that shit.

Think about your grandma naked, or baseball or something

>en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Refractory_period_(sex)
>the recovery phase after orgasm during which it is physiologically impossible for a man to have additional orgasms due to increase in the penile sensory threshold
> the refractory period varies widely among individuals, ranging from minutes to days, most men cannot achieve or maintain an erection during this time

Thanks I'll check it out

yea mate I kept repeating the quadratic formula in my head to no avail

Pleasure her with your head and hand whenever you don't have an erection.

then he ends up having images of his grandmother during his money shot, orgasm ruined

>tfw I lost my virginity 3 months ago and am already a sex god

I started masturbating when I was 8 and did it frequently so maybe I got rid of this ailment? I dont remember going soft but I remember it use to be really sensitive in a bad way afterwards... not any more though

The shortest time I had between ejaculations was 15-20 seconds but that was with jerking off

>tfw jerking off for 10 years improved my sex life

I have the opposite problem
>tfw no matter how long we go I can't never cum wth my gf
>mfw I have no face

Seriously user, jack off more. Dry hand it, no lubricant. It sounds a bit sad and pathetic, but you can sand down your sensitivity in no time.

Have fun, I guess.

Curtail masturbation, use coconut oil when you do masturbate (and consider moisturizing your dick head with it daily). You'll regain your sensitivity in about a month.

God this is the gayest thread over.

>tfw both erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation
>afraid of fapping more to help premature ejaculation because it will just make erectile dysfunction worse
>afraid of excessive foreplay because it will just make premature ejaculation worse

Feels good knowing I'll never leave a sexual interaction without extreme feelings of shame

just fuck her slow and hard instead. switch positions when you're almost about to cum. when you have more sex you won't be such a two pump chump

Consider yourself lucky, that's all. Sex or masturbation, my refractory period is a couple hours at least before I can even think about touching my penis.

Wear a rubber, use de sensitizing gel, keep at it

>days
WTF my longest refractory period was like 20 mins, I couldn't imagine going days without being able to get an erection. I would call my doctor if it was more than 4 hours without a boner.

How do people even have sex like this? Only being able to cum once seems like sex wouldnt even be worth it lol

I cum once usually 5 minutes in and a second time 15 minutes later maybe a 3rd another 15 minutes later if im super horny

Fapping is good for ED you retard

All it does is reduces my sensitivity further and makes it even more difficult to get erect.

Find something to distract you like reading.

A few minutes after the first time my boyfriend and I had sex he asked if I knew that Danny DeVito was a producer for Pulp Fiction, and I realized he was trying to read his Pulp Fiction movie poster to last longer.

dude if you cant get hard there is somthing seriously wrong with you physically

Getting hard and ejaculating = #1 most important objective biologically

Virgin detected

I nutted 10-12 times in one day with my ex of a few years ago. Damn my balls were fucked up.

Refractory period is really nothing but a mental barrier for me. If I'm anxious it will hard as fuck to get hard.
Condom just makes it even harder, I need to feel some sugar walls to keep nutting

>mfw dick hasn't so much as twitched since my heart was broken

Still waking up with morning wood so test isn't the issue. This shit just sucks, lads.

Bite your tongue.
Or keep going after coming.
Take your pick.

lol ok bro, just because my sex organs seem impossible to you doesn't mean im a virgin, i lost my virginity 3 months ago kiddo

you must be a 2 pump chump with a 24 hour refractory period

Trojan extra strength. most condoms are .06mm thick.... Trojan extra strength is .09mm thick which should stop sensitivity. There's thicker condoms but different brands(I never heard of). Also yohimbe pills tend to help if taken 30-60mins before fucking , they will give you a strong boner and help you fuck over n over. Use lotion on your dick so it doesn't rash up quick to last longer and doing cardio helps out aswell. I hear kegels work....

>Dry hand it, no lubricant
thats how i always fap
is that bad

>be me
>got a gf 1 month ago
>plow her hard almost every day
>tfw I can't cum
>tfw she thinks I'm a sex god

I wish I had premature ejaculation, it would be less frustrating

please help lads

Only if you start to lose sensation in your dick (have difficulties staying hard, or fucking in condoms, or lasting forever). I'm not a doctor, but allegedly, this is surprisingly common.

Try actually doing math instead. Like do the square root of each number until you can't do the mental math anymore, then do every number times 3, then 4, then 5 and so on. Remembering a formula takes minimal effort. Actually doing calculations takes brain power and can help keep you from cumming. But don't et too distracted! Remember, youre supposed to be having fun!

Stop watching porn and deathgripsing

Not really a sexual health issue, but my girl wants to be dominated more. I've got slapping, choking, wall fucking, and hair pulling down pretty well, but she wants me to "demand she do things" more and I'm not sure how to proceed.

Now I'm not about to ask her to shit on my chest or eat my ass or some shit like that, but what do you guys think are some more normal things to tell her to do?

Thanks famalam

yup it's edging
and here is some SOLID advice for you faggots
buy a fucking fleshlight endurance since those fuckers are MADE to help increase your performance in the bedroom
god speed OP

>mfw exact same thing happened to me
edging even increased performance and now after cumming i can have a rock hard dick in 5mins

Think of something else while thrusting slower. You're in control, just pause or slow down for a bit. Then go all the way in...assuming your pener isn't small.. I love hearing when they tell me not all the way in, I still do it and they like it. They always say it hurts in a good way.

Every girl I have sex with I can't come. I'm scared to death of rejection and talking to hot girls. I furiously Jerk off to porn even bbc stuff which is incredibly disgraceful but can't seem to help myself when I'm on drugs. When I go out I talk to many girls and get rejected which only fuels my self hatred / masterbation problem. Is there any way out? I don't want to live the rest of my life like this

STOP
FUCKING
JERKING
OFF
that will fix you not being able to cum

next time when you are in missionary position reach down to her ass and pick it up towards you while you thrust. Concentrate on the thrusting and her movements.

Maybe it's because I find my gf repulsive but I can't get anyone else?

you didn't mention that she was repulsive
in that case dump her ass and get a nice looking one

I can't. I get rejected like crazy. Also I'm too much of a fag to talk to chicks

then work on self confidence and be proud of yourself
and i would start by dropping that bitches ass
good self confidence exercise if you ask me

do this You don't actually believe you wont find another girl? Dude just go out, you'll find one. I feel like slapping the shit out of you.

whats going on big guy? you tripped my wife

this
lucky for me a went through a shit childhood and learned LOTS of important life skills including how not to give a fuck what other people think and feeling good about my choices

Thanks for helping me. I appreciate you guys being nice to me when I'm so low.

make her eat your ass

Cum during foreplay if you can, always get my gril to give a quick blow job, I cum then I tease her till im hard again and then have sex.

Its a gamble though, sometimes I cant finish twice

this, you have to get over what people think about you. Just stop caring, it's not like they are going to be around you 24/7..fuck em

Everyone hits that point, it's all on you. Keep feeling like shit or change yourself.

I was the same, it gets worse over time, its still new to you

jesus man it's not that hard to work out
i would kill for a GF who was into that shit
just tell her to get on her knees then whip out your cock and force her to suck it
maybe pull her air at the same time
maybe tell her to get on her stomach and surprise her by fucking her from behind

and if she is into it then force her down and cum on her face then make her lick it up etc

pull her hair*

How do I eat pussy without feeling like a beta cuck? I find it degrading.

use your fingers more than your mouth. Rub the right spots (the clit) and finger her a bit. If you have to lick a bit then go ahead.

>I find it degrading.
I don't get this. Why do you find it degrading exactly?

Cocaine on your dick.

I don't understand it either, just feels that way. Submissive position, subservient task which doesn't make me feel good, she says she's thoroughly satisfied with my penis and fingers but still wants me to do this other thing so I guess that's making me insecure about it, and I kind of have some hang-ups about hygiene.

>>girl literally bent over and begging me to keep fucking her last night
>>couldn't last more than two min
>Honestly one of the worst experiences of my life

Sounds like you've had a pretty nice life.

Meanwhile WWIII is on the brink. China wants to invade fucking Australia. 84 people were murdered in France, 60 in Turkey, ISIS is spreading across the world like a disease, The USA is on the brink of a civil war.

I still don't get it. I assume you don't feel like that when she sucks you off?

Get a grip. Quit consuming sensationalized media every day.

>China wants to invade Australia
Gonna need a source

You can get condoms with a gel that sedated your dick just a little and male you last longer.

And start doing kegel exersises and using to stop and go thing when you fap. This will train you to last longer and control your orgasms more.

>have homofag friend
>tells me about this one time he and his bf tried those numbing condoms
>he put the condom on his bf with his mouth
>ended up being like Kramer in that Seinfeld episode after he went to the dentist.

Sure, that's why I'm asking for help. How do guys enjoy it?

I personally love it. But then again I don't mind it if she wants to lead and be dominant in bed. I'm not that preoccupied with who's leading, who's on top and all that dominating/submissive bullshit.

How does it feel to know Ive had sex with over 1000+ women?

No you probably just fuck ugly girls

Seems like the place to ask this,
>I fap
>Wait a minute
>Pull long cum strands out of my dick and it feels awesome, not orgasm but a feeling of cleanliness

Is this normal guys?

Next time she's blowing you, grab her head and hold it while you go in deep. Wait until she's gagging before you let go. Then smack her and tell her to hold it longer.

It didn't say anything about not being able to maintain an erection.

>pull long cum strands out
>is this normal

This is unrelated to thread but....

How do I get better at flirting/expressing my sexuality? Specifically, in a school setting or even a bar setting. I feel being able to do that adequately is my biggest barrier between myself and sex.

youtu.be/HtRZFGUJnOA

this is now MDE/ samuel J hyde thread

I would gladly switch with you

kek.

This probably. I've never had a problem personally but whenever I do fap I don't strive for speed. I just always edged for a good long while, like maybe 45 minutes. I don't know but maybe that has something to do with my staying power.

Also, if you think you're going to get laid - like you have a date coming up - have a fap the night before or even the morning of. The few times I haven't lasted as long as I wanted (say 10 minutes instead of 20) it was because my dick hadn't gotten wet in over a week.

heres what solved it for me: dont give a fuck. cum in her after 5 secs and be loud about it. say "fuck that was good". be nice to her afterwards, cuddle, fuck again some time later. i did this for 2 weeks with a girl and then we fucked for 10min +, hard.

Tie her up or restrain her. Take her panties and bind her wrists behind her back with them. If you wear a tie, use it to trap one of her ankles. Put her into a powerless position so you control the pleasure.

Then tease the fuck out of her for as long as you want. Don't just go at it like a Saint Bernard for however long you do it, stop every so often and kiss her thighs and belly. Those suckling love-bites, mang. Find your pleasure in pushing her to the edge, drawing back, then pushing her over, then finding the next edge and repeating it.

The ultimate mind-fuck is turning her into a quivering, shaking mess then just getting up and leaving her bound and shivering.

Go make a cup of coffee. Iron a fucking shirt. Just leave her there. After 10 or so minutes, after she's cooled down, come back, let her loose, and then dominate the shit out of her. Literally.

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Damn, do you people actually care this much about making your bitch cum and put this much effort into this shti

can't even tell if that's beta or not

>Been with gf for years
>Discover weird fetish porn about two months ago
>Can only last a few minutes
>She wants me to "ruin her pussy"
>Wants me to choke and face fuck her

God damnit lads do I need to quit the porn? I never used to cum this fast

making bitches cum is hot

yeah, experience, had a GF who was experienced and knew how to fix it. lots of sex = experience = last longer. like jogging.

Also, distraction helps, when i really wanna go all out, i bite my bottom lip to feel pain to distract myself.

I guess you could call it 'beta' - the thing is a little bit of beta once in a while goes a long way.

well user, its called having a lover. You see when two adults enjoy each other, they strive to make each other feel good.

You'll figure it out when you're older.

Get a cock ring, and/or wear a condom

I tried these before and they smell horrible when you're done.

ma nigga samthony hydetano

She sounds like she might want to try bdsm, talk to her about it and if she's down look up the nearest club/dungeon that teaches dom 101

>implying I'll ever love a bitch again
No, now I'm just gonan wear headphones, listen to podcasts and vape meanwhile, like leo