Went 7 days without checking my ex's instagram

she doesn't, but shes coming back around for validation to see if all her past conquests will still bow down to her. She will not return the favour. Do not feed her ego.

youtube.com/watch?v=tu-QjTNtDz8

what if I actually answer next time she contacts me then coax some fuk from her? would love to cuck that smug shit she left me for

>having instagram
Sure is millenial ITT

So much this, no need to get hung up on girls you're no longer banging. If anything let them be the ones to come back and try to woo you again

I dunno man, half of me says to feel it out next time you talk and maybe go for it. Other half of me would be wondering why she's reaching out while in a relationship with another dude, how many dickings shes taken from how many other guys, etc

dat dere solid advice.

oh yeah she's a total broken slut and a terrible person Tbh, but I still love her and think she's hot :^)

I didn't talk to her at all though just to note, I ignored her shit because:
>was at gym
>was surprised and didn't know what to say anyway
>I won't acknowledge your text or call if it's that late at night unless you're important to me

>went zero days without checking qt who rejected me's instagram

How do I avoid this level of pathetic?

it more than likely wont work. shes just coming back to view her past conquests and make sure they still need her. by acknowledging her you feed her ego and allow her to feel superior to you

jerk off

I thought it was implied I already did

Stay strong user, you doing gods work

>Back in highschool 9th grade
>Start dating artsy chick
>We both take each others virginity
>I'm 5'7 135 with abs but no other muscle definition and shes 95 lbs with D cup tits and no ass
>We fucked and loved each other she had the best looking body and freckles which made her face beautiful
>I get comfortable and in the span of 3 years become 180 lbs and not motivated to do anything
>Sex is literally the best I've ever had to date even my wife doesn't compare to this day
>She dumps me for some guitar playing guy because I got fat
>Got super depressed, said fuck college and life
>Became NEET till I got a job at a warehouse, got fit, knocked up a chick at work on purpose to try and find something in my life
>Have 2 kids now and actually 160 lbs lifting and not obese anymore
>Check my exes facebook just curious one day
>Shes even skinnier now, she has blue hair, cut short and still with the guy she dumped me for but hes nearing obesity levels

And the sex was so good and her fetish about swallowing makes me rethink the stability of my current relationship just for that... But she did say she wanted a gay son and wanted to name him lucifer and call him lucy... I dodged the bullet but I was very liberal in my high school years.

>Tried to forget about her
>Slowly made progress, now I only check her instagram once a day
>She texted me three days ago tok now if I was safe after the attacks in Nice (I live there)
>Tried not to respond
>I responded today

I'm actually in this situation with my ex. We were dating for about a year and were pretty close before getting cucked by pic related beaner. They're now still dating.

She keeps talking to me though I've gotten over her and have been with other, hotter sloots. But this photo triggers me to this day. I invited her to come with to a rave in the city in a couple weeks and then crash at our place afterwards. She agreed. I plan on fucking the living shit out of her, maybe even snap some pics, and send it to the beaner. The sweetest form of revenge tbqh senpai

Are you still in love with her though? Though I want to do this, I think I'm still in love with her too

Not really. It's been over 7 months so I've largely gotten over the feels. Right now it's just about cucking that faggot. Tribal tattoos, beaner, a loser older than the both of us with no hopes or prospects. I gotta satisfy my ego and out cuck him.

Meh I'm very liberal but calling her son Lucy and trying to force him to be gay are terrible ideas.

If you still have feels don't fuck her unless you want to run the risk of all that shit coming back. Move on nigga

>went 7 days without checking my ex's instagram

Stay strong my man. I'm about 3 or 4 days off. I was tossing up checking tonight but I won't. For you user, for us, and all dumped bros in this thread.

I would seriously consider killing myself if my ex found out. It's been nearly 4 years and if she could see how often I checked her instagram it would easily be in the 600-700 range.

Remember that:

>checking some girl's social media out of infatuation is beta
>watching porn and jacking off is literally cuckoldry and therefore beta
>being a bitch is beta

>1.5y since she left me
>0 contact
>not giving a fuck anymore
come on man, it's not that hard

>no gf

I still check my ex's FB once every four months or so. It's been 10 years since we split.

She turned into a landwhale though, so it's more of a confidence boost than pining for her.

6 months since i dumped my crazy ex
She's been texting me how terrible its been going with her new BF
Barely give a damn aside feeling good its going bad for her
Usually just let it as "seen" rather than respond
Go and pound my fuck buddy on the floor
Everyone walk the dinosaur

>Bad ending with girl
>Think I'll never see her again
>Move on with life
>It's been 8 months since we talked
>See her yesterday, completely unexpected
FUGG

I didn't talk to her or anything but damn it brought up painful memories. I miss her.

I've experienced the same thing, but she was with her boyfriend. This was the guy she met after breaking up with me. Yikes.
>but he had gotten fat over the course of 10 months
>I have been making gains during that time

It's true that some girls are gains goblins.

Still check it everyday

I dated her for 2 months in autumn, she took my virginity, she was very beautiful and great in bed, but I wasn't even sure if I wanted to make her my girlfriend, she dumped me, and now I can't stop thinking about her. I literally repeat her name in my head several times a day. I try to replay all the sex we had. I imagine what would happen if we where still together.

I need to completely forget about her, somehow.

>Break up over dumb fight
>says we will have our time later on
>3 months out already talking to three girls for no reason
>running to pass the time
>dropped 30 pounds of relationship baggage
>break-up best thing that happened to me

>sex was shit because I'd never finish and her vag would close after orgasm

8 months here, keep at it.

holy fuck that would crush me if I got a text like that.

go balls deep user, take a pic, several pics and send it to this fuccboi

>works at starbucks
how did you evem let this happen\?

Jerk off to the thought of fugging her but finishing in another girl

>have a thing with a girl for a year and a half
>she's a crazy evil bitch who drives me insane
>cheats on me over spring break
>been lifting heavy the past couple of months and make crazy gains
>she wants to set up a fwb situation because I'm the best sex she ever had and first guy she loved
>sent a regular nudes
>she is high test af so I can't resist
>so conflicted how I feel about her and I know she is trying to get in my fucking head
>sexts me at the gym today
>however I realize things have changed drastically and I love myself so goddamn much now
>have completely taken her off the pedestal, have no problem telling her she's being a fucking bitch now

I really don't know if I'm going to make it bros. I am trying but I am a man with flaws

>6 months without speaking to girl who rejeceted me
>have girlfriend now
>get message from her sunday night
>want to check it
>realize i still like her

FUCK

>No freinds/KV
>delete Facebook 9 months ago after HS
>hit the gym hard and make all kinds of social gains have freinds now too
>reinstall FB today because it's time
>add up people i know
>realise i don't even know a single girl
nothing has changed

same
i thought it got better after rejection but i still have oneitis, now i just know i have no chance

Every man is flawed bro.
A better man recognizes he is flawed and strives to improve himself. We're all gonna make it

This. Never understood how pathetic you must be to follow (stalk) someone around like a whipped dog when they clearly don't want anything to do with you.

Fuck her, then kill him.

>decide to just stop talking to her and try to get over her
>it's going really well
>keep this up for a while, life is getting better
>almost forget how much I want her
>she texts me
>fuck

Send help

Then fuck his wounds

You reject her through text and screenshot it to the guy saying "now you know why I don't miss that"

>Cant go 1 day without wondering why she doesnt text me something

Not gonna lie dude, if someone did this to me I'd probably just snap and murk'em.

>have no fb tinder snapchat instagram
>last ex is 9 years ago
zero fucks givesn

Everyday is progress is what I tell myself

...

Easier said than done

>tfw my ex was basically my doormat
>tfw fucked other girls and told her about it openly (sometimes even the same day i'd fuck her)
>tfw her brother told our friend in common that she was starving herself because of me
>tfw sapped her self esteem to the point she'd do anything i want whenever i wanted
>tfw i moved across country and dumped her
>tfw uploaded her nudes to the net (this was pre revenge porn laws)
>tfw used and abused this cunt
.... fast forward to now, so, 2~ years later.

>tfw she still fucking sends messages and emails saying she misses me (she has a boyfriend now as well)

lmao, you faggots are way too sensitive, man. why choose to be a bitch when you can literally make someone do whatever you want providing you know basic psychology?

you guys are never going to make it

>cashier at convenience store because I fell for the college meme
>getting mired by at least 10 women per 4 hours
>both assistant managers consistently get close to me
>manage is bro-tier woman
>all 3 over 40 and slightly overweight
>qt3.14 blonde eyeing me up with all smiles
>smile back and write my number on the back of her receipt
>she texts me later that night
>was balls deep in her throat that weekend
I don't know what's wrong with you cucks, are you sure you're even cut out to be alive?

Are you me ?
Humanity will soon be left behind for good.

>why choose to be a bitch when you can literally make someone do whatever you want providing you know basic psychology?

learning how to manipulate people isn't basic psychology my dude

also, not that your story is real, but anyone getting off on that and hell, anyone imagining and writing something like that has emotional issues

it is real though, you fucking faggot. not everyone on here is an autist like you, my man.
>emotional issues
you're the one whining in a thread about your ex lmao

being down and all beat up about your ex... nah thanks!
but whatever... it's your life cunt. do what you want

Wow man you're so cool how can I be like you, a gigantic manipulative faggot that no one likes omg so kawaiiiii~dessuuuuuuuuuu ~_~

> kawaiiiii~dessuuuuuuuuuu ~
only a fucking autist would ever type this

kill yourself, you sad fat wanker

...

>Have 2 year old gf
>She has put on around 10 pounds since I met her
>Want to dump her (constantly increasing) ass but am afraid she'll shed all that fat out of revenge once she is with another man

>Be me
>Two Significant exs both of which live in other countries
>Check both their facebooks daily
>Ex 1 is always the first person to watch my Snapchat story
>Was with ex 1 for 2.5 years
>Think she has a new bf now
>Can't even fap to her nudes now because I miss her and it brings the feels
>I broke up with her - WHY/fit/?!
>Ex 2 - first girl since Ex 1 I could see a future with
>We talk sporadically and she's moving back to my city soon
>Very doubtful she'll want to start things back up again
>She broke up with me
>Pine after both of them
>Wonder every day if they still think of me
>Good looking and Veeky Forums so I get laid regularly but I have 0 respect for the women I'm sleeping with
>Both Exs were outraged when I told them how many women I'd slept with
>Realise that with every sloot I bang I fuel the distance knowing that if I ever got back with either of them I'd have to tell them again. See the hurt in their eyes again.
>But that's unlikely, they both drifted away a long time ago

Fuck it brehs, the distance is killing me. Out of sight out of mind for them. I think I'm just going to get on a flight to ex 1's country and knock on her door...

...

Well, children generally gain weight pretty quickly

Me too.

Broke up with my ex over 2 years ago. Check it every. Single. Day

t. Angered """nice guy""" the virgin

>"hey lmao being a dick isn't cool"
>ur an autist
>ur whining about ur ex lmao
>hurr ur beat down

yeah nah i haven't even posted in this thread, just caught your little power fantasy passing page 0

if you can't actually function around people without manipulating them then you're a sad excuse for a human being

Please tell me more about this gf

nothin personnel kid

>Can't even fap to her nudes now because I miss her and it brings the feels
Kys

>ex dumped me a week after I flew to her country to be with her
>said that there just wasn't a spark like there was when she was with me in my country
>still wants to keep in touch
>been 2 weeks so far and we talk sporadically
>I'm going back to her country for an unrelated trip

Fucking hell bros, I dunno what's worse- not being able to talk to her or having these weird, awkward and stunted conversations with her knowing that I'm not her first priority anymore. I'm hoping that when I come back to her country she changes her mind because she said she'd "love to hang out" when I got there but I dunno if she'll go for it

Sucks even more cause I tore my tricep and have been basically confined to the house and I can't work out. These feels are sapping my already mediocre gains

>fantasy
yeah.... nah
>can't function without being manipulative
welcome to the real word, faggot

everything else you said was garbage

Why?

>>>can't function without being manipulative
>>welcome to the real word, faggot

>mfw there are people that have to treat socialization like a game to get what they want

either way you're just shitposting and i don't cater to children so i'm out

cya kid :^)

Because you are cucking yourself

How on earth am I cucking myself?

stop yourself dude, there's plenty fish out there

>She keeps talking to me though I've gotten over her and have been with other, hotter sloots. But this photo triggers me to this day. I invited her to come with to a rave in the city in a couple weeks and then crash at our place afterwards. She agreed. I plan on fucking the living shit out of her, maybe even snap some pics, and send it to the beaner. The sweetest form of revenge tbqh senpai
YOU BETTER FUCKING DO THIS user PLZ DO THIS user THIS WOULD SET THE UNIVERSE RIGHT FOR ALL THAT GOODNESS STANDS FOR

You fags have some serious selective memory.
She isn't 25% as good as you remember her, no matter how high you put her on the pedestal.

Even if you did get back with her, you would eventually break up for the same reasons. I've been there.

dontlookbackyourenotgoingthatway.jpg

>tfw after you break up with her, every girl you date gets into a LTR with a beta clone of you because she can't handle not being able to control you and play games
>tfw they still text you months/years later
>tfw immune to feels

>getting cucked by mclovin

that's harsh bro

go for it, you have no obligation to be the better man after that

Stay strong man
Don't let the evil temptress beckon you into giving up things you hold dearest

>only checked my ex's instagram once or twice in the last few years
>used to check it daily

You'll get over it.

Don't do it man. Stay strong brother. Don't give into her ego.

For some reason, my mind is doing things in reverse. Last serious relationship was almost a year ago, and didn't pay any fucking attention to any shit afterwards, carried on in my life like usual.

Then out of nowhere, my brain decides to flood me with all sorts of memories for the past couple of weeks. What the fuck gives?

you probably distracted yourself and pushed those emotions of sadness to the back of your head. then it came rushing back.

it's why people recommend that after a break up you feel your emotions of sadness and embrace it. Then slowly move on.

fucking faggots get a grip of yourselves
you're like children

life isn't a romantic comedy, you fucking retards
jesus christ... how the fuck were you brought up?

i had a fuckbuddy of an ex gf for about a month and one day she tells me shes been on 3 dates with some dude and she'll let me know if it goes any further.
Now of course there dating and i think about texting her everyday cause being single fucking sucks.
I work at a bar get sluts numbers all the time but they always fall through on hanging out or getting together outside of seeing me at work.
wat do Veeky Forums

>gets cucked

>i know! i'll be a badass on the intrrnets!

nice try.

girlslaugh.pic

>can't go an hour without thinking about HER
>she probably hasn't even thought about me today at all.

pls just don't user it only ever makes you feel worse

get rid of that possessive streak you have. literally it will NEVER make you feel good after stalking any account

There are 7.4 billion people on Earth.

The majority are women.

Find a new bitch.